शैडोइंग अभ्यास: How to Claim Your Leadership Power | Michael Timms | TED - YouTube के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें
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Are there any other parents here who have struggled to get your kids out the door on time?
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Are there any other parents here who have struggled to get your kids out the door on time?
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(Laughter) So, you know, right?
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It's like herding kittens.
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(Laughter) My wife and I would start nagging our three daughters long before it was time to leave, but that obviously wasn't working because we were always late for everything.
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But one day was a complete Gong Show.
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Five minutes before we needed to leave for an important event, I found my oldest daughter on the porch reading, my middle daughter was playing the piano, and my youngest daughter wasn't wearing any socks.
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So I told them, "Stop reading, stop playing the piano, put on your socks, and everybody get in the car." Five minutes later, nobody was in the car.
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(Laughter) On my way to help my youngest daughter with her socks, I noticed my oldest daughter was still on the porch reading.
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Now I'm starting to lose it.
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Her response?
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"I didn't hear you." But before I could say a word, I heard the piano start playing again.
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(Laughter) And that's the story of how I lost my mind.
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The end. (Laughter) I just wanted my daughters to take a little ownership for getting out the door on time.
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But then I remembered something I teach management teams.
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You can't inspire accountability in others until you model it yourself.
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That's when I realized I wasn't taking any accountability for this problem, I was blaming it totally on my daughters.
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So I tried a different approach and looked in the mirror.
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What was I doing, or not doing, that may be contributing to this problem?
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Then it hit me.
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I knew when they needed to be done breakfast, dressed, groomed and ready to leave.
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But did they?
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I also knew what time it was, but there were no clocks in their bathrooms, which I discovered is like a different dimension from my girls where time ceases to exist.
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(Laughter) Solution.
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I put big clocks everywhere and posted the schedule in a common area.
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And you know what?
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It actually worked.
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Now we're not perfect at getting out the door in time, but it's much better than it was.
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I had fallen into the same trap that many people in leadership positions fall into, which is blaming other people for a problem without considering my part in it.
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While working with leadership teams, I discovered three powerful habits that elevate the performance of others.
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I call it the three habits of personal accountability.
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Habit one: Don't blame.
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Habit two: Look in the mirror.
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Habit three: Engineer the solution.
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This sequence of habits has an almost magical effect on other people's behavior.
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And you get better results.
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But this isn't just for CEOs and managers.
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We're all trying to help others be better, right?
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As a parent, a coworker or a volunteer.
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Here's why these habits work.
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Habit one: Don't blame.
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Think about the last time you blamed someone for something.
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How did it turn out?
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Probably not well.
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That's because our brains interpret blame the same way they interpret a physical attack.
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Blame triggers the fight-or-flight response, which effectively shuts down our prefrontal cortex, which is the problem-solving part of our brain.
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So when I was getting angry at my daughters, it wasn't motivating them.
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It was actually impairing their brain function.
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Researcher Dr. Amy Edmondson studied hospital teams to see how culture affects people's willingness to report medical errors.
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She expected that the high-performing teams would make fewer mistakes, but to her surprise, they reported more errors.
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Why? Because when people aren't blamed for problems, they're more willing to admit their mistakes and learn from them.
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But in cultures of blame, people hide problems or point their finger at someone else.
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No one is going to take accountability if they think they're going to be blamed for doing so.
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Blame destroys teamwork, problem solving, learning and initiative.
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In other words, blame kills accountability.
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So what should we do instead?
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Habit two: Look in the mirror.
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Most of us are really good at noticing other people's mistakes, but we're not so good at noticing how we contribute to problems.
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One time, my assistant helped me mail out hundreds of expensive marketing packages to prospective clients.
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Three weeks later, no responses.
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So I checked one of the cover letters.
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It read, "Dear Mr. Smith, [insert company name here.]" (Laughter) She missed one of the variable fields in every letter.
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Thousands of dollars down the drain.
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Now, she felt awful and said, "This is totally my fault." I was thinking, "You are darn right this is totally your fault." (Laughter) But then I looked in the mirror and I realized I didn't highlight any of the variable fields in yellow like they are in all our other templates.
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If I had, she couldn't have missed it.
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Now I'm not saying that every problem is my fault.
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But if I look closely enough at my problems, I can usually discover how my actions or inactions contributed to them in some way.
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This is a profound insight because if I can see my part in a problem, I can do something about it.
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The next time you encounter a problem, try this.
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Ask yourself: How may I have contributed to this problem?
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I taught these principles to a construction company, and followed up a few weeks later to see how things had changed.
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A project manager told me the following story.
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"Our general manager is a total blamer, and team meetings usually turn into blame sessions.
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But the week after you taught us these principles, that meeting went very differently.
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When our general manager identified a problem, he was about to lay into the person who he thought was responsible.
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But then he stopped, put his head in his hand for a moment, then looked up and said, 'This is how I think I contributed to the problem.' The mood in that meeting changed instantly.
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And then I saw something I have never seen before.
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Other people began raising their hand saying, 'No, boss, it wasn't just your fault.
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This is how I think I contributed to the problem.'" When leaders acknowledge their part in problems first it makes it safe for everybody else to do the same.
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And if nobody else follows suit, then you've earned the moral authority to ask, "And how may you have contributed to this problem?" Before others will allow us to hold them accountable, they must first see us hold ourselves accountable.
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Now what if the cause of your problem isn't what you think it is?
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Habit three: Engineer the solution.
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When bad things happen, our brains are hardwired to blame the person closest to the mess and ignore other causes.
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Fortunately, there's a fix.
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It's called "systems thinking," which is noticing how environment and processes influence behavior.
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Systems thinking emerged toward the end of World War II, when the US Air Force noticed that a lot of their planes were crashing without any mechanical problems.
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Their conclusion?
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"Our pilots are idiots." (Laughter) So they engaged some consultants to help them select less error-prone pilots.
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When the consultants investigated, they discovered they didn't have a pilot problem.
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They had a cockpit problem.
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For instance, pilots confused gear handles that looked and felt the same if they were located right beside each other.
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Or they mixed up controls if they were in a different position, in a different model of plane.
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Design better cockpits, the consultants concluded, and you'll have fewer crashes.
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So the US Air Force engineered the solution by simplifying cockpit design.
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Similarly, when I stopped blaming my daughters, I noticed the environmental factors that were influencing their behavior.
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I engineered the solution by putting up clocks and a schedule so they had the information they needed to take the initiative.
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Instead of asking, "Whose fault is this?" Ask: "Where did the process break down?" This question is your secret weapon to short-circuit the blame game and find sustainable solutions to your problems.
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Remember, you can't inspire accountability in others until you model it yourself.
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The next time you encounter a problem, test this sequence of habits and watch it change your outcomes.
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Don't blame.
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Look in the mirror. And engineer the solution.
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Be the change that you want to see in others.
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Our world is in desperate need of more people who take ownership of problems and solutions.
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In our workplaces, our homes and in our society.
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And the secret is, as you model these behaviors, so will those around you.
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It's kind of magic.
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Thank you. (Applause)
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इस वीडियो के साथ बोलने का अभ्यास करने का कारण क्या है?
यह वीडियो "How to Claim Your Leadership Power" में, माइकल टिम्स नेतृत्व और व्यक्तिगत जिम्मेदारी के बारे में महत्वपूर्ण सबक साझा करते हैं। इस प्रकार की सामग्री न केवल नेतृत्व कौशल विकसित करने में मदद करती है, बल्कि इसे बोलने के अभ्यास का हिस्सा बनाना भी फायदेमंद है। जब आप ऐसे वीडियो से अंग्रेजी सीखते हैं, तो आप न केवल नई शब्दावली और वाक्य रचनाएँ सीखते हैं, बल्कि प्रभावी संचार की शैली और बोलने के तरीके को भी समझते हैं। इस वीडियो के माध्यम से अंग्रेजी बोलने का अभ्यास करते समय, आप आत्म-विश्वास और स्पष्टता के साथ अपने विचारों को व्यक्त करने में सक्षम होंगे। यह विशेष रूप से तब उपयोगी है जब आप अपना उच्चारण सुधारने और प्रभावशाली रूप से संवाद करने का लक्ष्य रखते हैं।
व्याकरण और संदर्भ में अभिव्यक्तियाँ
माइकल टिम्स अपने भाषण में कुछ प्रमुख वाक्यांश और व्याकरण स्ट्रक्चर का उपयोग करते हैं, जो अंग्रेजी सीखने वालों के लिए महत्वपूर्ण हैं:
- “Don’t blame.” - यह एक वैज्ञानिक दृष्टिकोण से समस्या समाधान की दिशा में प्रोत्साहित करता है।
- “Look in the mirror.” - आत्म-निंदा करने के बजाय, अपने कार्यों पर विचार करने का महत्व दर्शाता है।
- “Engineer the solution.” - समस्याओं का समाधान करने की एक रचनात्मक तकनीक की आवश्यकता पर जोर देता है।
इन अभिव्यक्तियों का उपयोग करके, आप न केवल अपनी अंग्रेजी बोलने के कौशल में सुधार करते हैं, बल्कि आप नकारात्मक परिस्थितियों का सामना करते समय सकारात्मक मनोवृत्ति भी विकसित करते हैं।
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वीडियो में कुछ शब्द और वाक्यांश ऐसे हैं, जो अंग्रेजी उच्चारण में सुधार के लिए चुनौतीपूर्ण हो सकते हैं। उदाहरण के लिए:
- “accountability” - इस शब्द का सही उच्चारण महत्वपूर्ण है, क्योंकि यह नेतृत्व और जिम्मेदारी का संकेत है। इसे ध्यान से सुनें और दोहराएँ।
- “engineer” - इस शब्द की ध्वनि में परिवर्तन करना मुश्किल हो सकता है। इसे बोलने की प्रैक्टिस करें।
- “solution” - उच्चारण में ध्यान देने से यह सुनिश्चित होगा कि आप इसे सही और प्रभावी ढंग से बोल सकें।
इन शब्दों के उच्चारण पर ध्यान केंद्रित करके, आप अपने अंग्रेजी उच्चारण में सुधार कर सकते हैं, जो आपके अंग्रेजी बोलने के अभ्यास को और अधिक प्रभावी बनाएगा। यूट्यूब से अंग्रेजी सीखें और अपने संवाद कौशल को बढ़ाएँ।
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