Shadowing-Übung: [Podcast 14] Love yourself first, everything will be alright! | Podcast with Anne - Englisch Sprechen Lernen mit Video

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Hi everyone, I'm Ayn.
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How are you today?
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I hope that you will have a good day.
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In every video, I will bring the best things in life for you.
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Would you like to hold a $20 bill even through its crumbled and dirty?
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The reaction of the students and the teachers' explanation made many people understand.
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In a whole of 20 students, the professor and also a famous speaker began the talk by handing out a $20 bill and asking,
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who wants this $20 bill?
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Many hands raised.
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The professor said again, I'll give this $20 bill to one of you.
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But first, let me do this.
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Saying that, he crumbled the $20 bill.
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Then he asked again, who still wants this $20 bill?
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There were still a lot of arms raised in the air.
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Oh, the professor looked around the room and said, what if I do this?
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He dropped the bill on the ground and began to stone on his shoes, pacing on the ground.
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Then, the professor picked up the bill, now it was crumbled and dirty,
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and asked again, Now, who wants this bill?
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There are still hands raised in the classroom.
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The $20 bill was crumbled and trembled on, but the students still wanted to take it.
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At this point, the new professor nodded and said, Dear children, today you have learned a very valuable lesson.
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No matter what I do with this bill, the children still want it because it has not diminished in value.
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It's still $20.
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The story of the $20 bill is clear.
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Everyone agrees with a simple and understandable truth that even if the dollar is crumbed, dirty, it is still valid,
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so there is no reason to refuse it.
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However, the deeper lesson that the professor explained made many people understand.
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Many times in life, you are abandoned,
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failed, fell into the mud by external circumstances and by the decisions they make.
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They feel like they are useless.
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However, no matter what happens in your life, life, it's happening or will happen, you will never lose your value.
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Just like that dollar, no matter how dirty or clean,
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crumbled or strained, to those who truly love you, you are priceless.
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The value of each person is not what is temporary, but in the real person they are.
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My daughter Lê Thẩm Dương once commented, self-worth does not lie in what we try to put on,
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but in what inner strength radiates.
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So what is self-worth?
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Usually, we will try to put on a cover to assert our self-worth,
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But in fact, it is only when both internal and external factors are the same that you reach your true self-worth.
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Because the value of each person does not lie in appearance, in what other thinks of us,
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but it comes from what belongs to nature.
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Therefore, just like the Buddha once said, you are what you think.
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Learning is very important.
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It greatly affects each person's life.
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So fill your mind with thoughts of dreams,
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ambitions, positive thoughts and gradually you will find yourself on the right path.
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No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
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Eleanor Roosevelt said, In fact, this life is ours.
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It's up to us to decide it.
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Happiness or suffering is our choice because of difficulties that ourselves become so important.
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No one has the right to force you how to live or to choose how to go because life is yours.
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Why let others decide?
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Mud and food, sun but sun above.
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Life emerges from death.
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Happiness emerges from a Jewish sacrifice.
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If you never cried, your eyes can't be beautiful.
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So don't worry your decisions will be wrong.
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It doesn't matter because even the worst things that always had its own meaning.
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Only through suffering and bitterness, people will understand many things.
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Realize the truth that if we live a peaceful and happy life, we cannot realize.
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Focus on the aspects through which you can begin your journey of self-discovery.
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And remember, for those who love us, even though we have been patterned and gone through many ups and downs,
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they always open their arms to welcome us, because they understand our essence and values.
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Just like the $20 bill, even if it is crumble and tremble, it's value entrenched.
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However, do not make the mistake of thinking that people can do everything dirty,
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leave their hands dirty with bad deeds but still be sensed as a person of good nature.
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Love is the ability to care, protect, nurture.
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If that energy does not arise from yourself, it is difficult to do so with others.
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Life is short.
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You should not spend time with people who only know how to train your happiness.
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If someone asks me, have I ever been in love with all my heart?
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I answer yes.
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I live intensely with love, but I don't use everything I have in exchange for happiness from one person.
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I give that love to my life, my family, my work, my friends and my social relationships.
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Each of us divides love into 5 or 7 parts like that.
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So why give everything for one love, right?
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Anyone who is in love sometimes becomes more generous.
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They are willing to risk everything to love.
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They love others more than themselves, which causes them to gradually become painful,
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even the pain that the opponents cannot see or feel.
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In the end, you are just a fool who loses the me to others to give the bad things. That is not selfish.
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That's how you give back to your body and increase your self-worth.
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When you know how to take care of yourself, you are capable of loving and bringing happiness to others.
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However, it is not always thinking about yourself first, not selfishly seeking personal happiness.
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Self-love and selfishness are two completely different concepts, but the line between them is very thin.
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You should be alert to know when to stop.
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Trying to please others is impossible.
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If you keep trying to do it, you will burn out.
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So please pamper and take care of yourself before thinking about indulging other people's lives.
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Because if someone wants you in their life, they will give you a place.
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You don't have to compete with anyone.
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Everyone in the world has their own values.
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Don't force yourself into a relationship where the other person doesn't respect your values.
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And so these are 6 ways to actually love yourself more.
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1. Get to know yourself.
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Yes, you've been with yourself every second since the day you were born
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But how well do you really know who you are?
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Do you know what you love, what makes you happy, and what you want out of life?
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It's impossible to love yourself if you don't know yourself to take some time to think about what you believe in,
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value, like and identify your strength, particularly the ones that have gone unnoticed.
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Getting to know yourself also means being honest with yourself.
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Insecurities can cause illusions or you might have some self-deception going on.
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But true love means honesty and responsibility in your other relationships,
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so work on self-awareness by no longer minimizing or making excuses so that you can fully accept your entire self.
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2. Talk to yourself as a child You have a constant inner dialogue that is either contributing to self-love or pretending it.
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As Michael Singer writes in the Underheard Soul,
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there is nothing more important to truth growth than realizing that you are not the voice of the mind.
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You are the one who hears it.
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In other words, the way you think, talk to yourself and see the world is not necessarily who you are,
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which means it can be adjusted to be more self-loving.
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You can change the way you see yourself by changing your inner dialogue.
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To speak to yourself kinder and feel more optimistic, try talking to yourself like a child.
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We're often more forgiving, compassionate,
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and loving when we see ourselves as children rather than as our older selves.
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You can even carry a childhood picture in your wallet
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or put a baby picture in a spot you need some more self-love,
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like the bathroom counter if the negative self-talk comes when looking in the mirror or at your desk.
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If you tend to be self-critical with your work, I recommend you calling up family members
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or old friends to reminisce on phone memories in order to trigger some of those positive thoughts about yourself.
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3. Forgive yourself A common setback of self-love is holding on to things we've done in the past.
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Maybe it was an embarrassing moment that haunts you to this day,
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or maybe it was a serious mistake that you're still letting define you.
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If you cheated in a relationship, got fired from a job, or can recall every single embarrassing moment since you were a kid,
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you might be holding onto evidence that you are not lovable.
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Instead, looking at how you've changed since those past mistakes or embarrassing moments,
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Realize how even the worst moments have made you stronger, kinder and better without a failed relationship.
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You won't be in your current one.
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I wouldn't know that you wanted in a relationship.
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And without being fired, maybe you wouldn't have fun on your passions or be where you are today.
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See yourself as a growing human being, not as a compilation of your past mistakes.
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As Dina said, a mistake is all about searching for the right kinds of evidence in your everyday lives.
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The evidence that shows that you are capable of moving beyond your most difficult moments.
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You have crazy for yourself when things happen.
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When we are always looking for negative reasons and evidence,
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it makes it even harder to get to the point of confidence.
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4. Treat yourself like you treat loved ones.
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It sounds cliche, but the most important relationship in your life really is the one you have with yourself.
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So why don't you nurture that relationship like you do with your best friend, mom or significant other?
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Self-love might be as simple as loving yourself in your love language.
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Make a list of all the ways you treat the people you love.
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Do you text them to check in?
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Do you surprise them?
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Give them compliments or wish them goodnight before you go to bed.
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However you treat the people you love should be the way you treat yourself too.
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Check in yourself, give compliments, treat yourself regularly, or look in the mirror and say goodnight before bed.
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As silly as it may feel at first, we all give love a certain way, and self-love isn't any different.
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5. Say no when you mean no. Boundaries let other people know that you expect respect,
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but more importantly, they let you know what you deserve respect.
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Saying no when you mean no means you are putting your needs above others.
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Perhaps it's a car worker who asks for help when you are already swamped,
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the neighbor who needs a favor when you are exalted,
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or getting guilted into a holiday event you don't feel comfortable attending.
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Every day you say yes, when you want to say no, puts others' opinions and needs above your own,
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which builds more evidence that you're not the priority.
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A true yes or a yes that's in life with your best interest will make you excited without doubt or worry.
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Say yes when you mean yes and no when you mean no. The more you know yourself,
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the easier it is to communicate your boundaries and needs to others, which is a way of showing yourself love.
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And the last way is care about nutrition.
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Maybe you don't know a protein from a cream or fat and care more about convenience or taste than nutrients.
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Or maybe you have some inclined food rules that make you stretch out
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if you eat a slice of pizza or a piece of cake.
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No matter what your current relationship with food is like, the food you eat should be an act of self-love.
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You know that old school saying that you are what you eat?
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Well, it is kind of true.
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It serves as information that tells our bodies what to do.
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It's not about good foods you are supposed to eat versus bad foods you are not supposed to eat.
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It's about loving your body enough to nourish it with whatever makes it feel it's best.
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After all, health is the best gift you could ever give to yourself.
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With that being said, pleasure is a nutrition too.
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So also treat yourself to the foods you love without guilt, shame or deprivation.
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We should learn to love ourselves first before we can love others.
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Here we wait for a lesson to let ourselves suffer from others because we know how to appreciate ourselves.
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Remember, if you're not happy with who you are, you won't have lasting happiness with anyone.
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So, before you love someone else, learn to love yourself first.
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Thank you so much for listening to me.

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15 lernenswerte Wörter aus dem Video, mit Aussprache und Bedeutung:

WortAusspracheBedeutung
happiness Substantiv/ˈhæpinɪs/Glück, Glücklichkeit
lesson Substantiv/ˈlɛs.ən/Lehrstunde, Stunde
suffer Verb/ˈsʌfɚ/leiden
mirror Substantiv/ˈmiɹɚ/Spiegel
dialogue Substantiv/ˈdaɪəˌlɑɡ/Dialog, Gespräch
forgive Verb/fɚˈɡɪv/verzeihen
gradually Adverb/ˈɡɹæd͡ʒuəli/nach und nach, allmählich
boundary Substantiv/ˈbaʊndɹi/Grenze
guilt Substantiv/ɡɪlt/Schuld
nutrition Substantiv/njuːˈtɹɪʃ.ən/Ernährung, Nahrung
compliment Substantiv/ˈkɑmpləmənt/Kompliment, Lob
emerge Verb/ɪˈmɝd͡ʒ/erscheinen, auftauchen
necessarily Adverb/ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/notwendigerweise, nötig
temporary Adjektiv/ˈtɛmp(əˌɹ)ɛɹi/zeitweilig, temporär
everyday Adjektiv/ˈɛvɹiˌdeɪ/Alltags-, alltäglich

Phrasal Verbs, die du hören wirst

WortBedeutung
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look around Verbsich umsehen, sich umschauen
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Aussprache, auf die du achten solltest

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Grammatik in diesem Video

Die Strukturen, die der Sprecher am häufigsten verwendet, mit den genauen Worten aus dem Video:

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