Pratique du Shadowing: How To Be Nice Without Being Taken Advantage Of - Happiness Vlog - Apprendre l'anglais à l'oral avec YouTube

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Are you so nice that people take advantage of you?
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Are you so nice that people take advantage of you?
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Nice people do have people who try to take advantage of them.
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But the thing is, nobody can take advantage of us if we don't let them.
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Being nice doesn't mean being powerless or bullied.
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Being nice isn't about having no preference or an opinion.
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Being nice isn't about being okay with everything.
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That's not being a nice person person that's being a robot for example
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if someone slaps you being a nice person doesn't mean standing there
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and letting them slap you again
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if you're in a relationship with a person who constantly puts
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you down being a nice person doesn't mean not standing up for yourself
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if you always pay for someone during meals
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and they never ever once offered to pay you can choose to split the bill the next time.
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Being a nice person doesn't mean feeling obliged into doing something unhappily and then complaining afterwards about people taking advantage.
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That's not niceness or generosity.
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That's passive aggressiveness.
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It is only when we consistently let people get away with bad behaviour without addressing it,
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that we feel being taken advantage of.
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When someone at work takes advantage of us,
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it has very little to do with us being a nice person
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and very much to do with our inability to say no and to communicate why.
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The true problem is our mindset and our communication skills.
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When we feel taken advantage of,
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it's usually because we think we have no choice but to keep quiet.
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Being nice doesn't mean not communicating a frustration or upset.
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It just means communicating without negativity or losing our temper.
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There are many ways of saying one thing,
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and we can choose to voice our discontentment and our disagreement in a calm,
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rational and nice way.
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And we can always choose to nicely disengage or exit a toxic environment.
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People will only treat us badly if we let them.
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People will only take advantage of us if we let them.
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We can be a nice,
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kind, warm, generous and open person without saying yes to things we're unhappy about.
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Be nice and confident and smart.
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And be happy always.

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Why practice speaking with this video?

The video titled "How To Be Nice Without Being Taken Advantage Of" provides a perfect context for English learners looking to enhance their speaking skills. By engaging with this content, you will not only improve your language fluency but also practice essential communication strategies applicable in everyday interactions. Speaking about the nuances of being nice without compromising your boundaries allows learners to explore complex themes while enriching their vocabulary related to personal relationships and assertiveness.

Utilizing this video for IELTS speaking practice can help you articulate your thoughts on social dynamics in a structured manner. As you mimic the speaker's tone and phrasing, you will build confidence in discussing themes of kindness and self-advocacy. This practice makes it easier to convey your ideas clearly and effectively in both formal examinations and casual conversations.

Grammar & Expressions in Context

Several key structures in the speaker’s dialogue can aid in elevating your English grammar and expression skills:

  • Conditional Structures: "If we don't let them..." and "If someone slaps you..." These statements illustrate cause and effect, emphasizing the importance of choice and reaction in various situations.
  • Modal Verbs for Suggestions: The phrase "can choose" reflects the use of modal verbs to suggest options. This structure is crucial for offering advice or presenting alternatives, an essential skill in both speaking and writing.
  • Present Continuous for Ongoing Action: Phrases such as "people are trying to take advantage..." highlight the use of present continuous to discuss actions that are currently happening. This helps learners express ongoing situations effectively.

Incorporating these structures into your speaking practice, especially through shadowing techniques or a shadowspeak approach, can help master conversational flow.

Common Pronunciation Traps

As you practice speaking along with the video, pay attention to these pronunciation challenges:

  • “Advantage”: Notice the emphasis on the second syllable. Make sure to pronounce it correctly to sound natural.
  • “Nicely” and “Disengage”: These words may seem simple, but the fluidity of their pronunciation is critical. Focus on linking sounds to ensure a smooth delivery.
  • “Constantly”: Ensure that the syllables are articulated clearly, as it can easily slip into a harsh or rushed pronunciation.

Utilizing a shadowing app can greatly aid in fine-tuning these pronunciation aspects, allowing you to replicate the speaker's intonation and emphasis. By engaging in shadowspeaks, you’ll develop a more authentic English speaking ability that conveys confidence.

Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?

Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.

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