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So before moving on to my topic for today, I have two basic questions for all of you.
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And I want you to raise your hands if you have done this in life.
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My first question is that, how many of you have said sorry in life?
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Please raise your hands.
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Please clap for yourself.
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Round of applause.
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Please clap for yourself.
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Excellent.
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I told you to clap for yourself because it takes a very strong person to say sorry.
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Now for my next question, I don't want you to raise your hands,
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just think How many of you has forgiven a person even though that person hasn't asked you sorry?
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Just think, just think Today before you leave Kodeshia Hall,
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I am sure that I will create a spark within you Which will make you think that I will,
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I will try to forgive Yes, my topic for today is forgiveness.
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We all know that forgiveness is a 11 letter word.
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Well, Elizabeth Marx, the great writer, said that forgiveness is just a 4 letter word.
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She said forgiveness is just a 4 letter word.
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L-O-V-E, love.
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Thank you, thank you so much.
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The very nature of we human beings is to get angry, we feel resentful when someone harms us, right?
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Well, I would say that forgiveness is forgetting the past and starting on with a clean state.
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Forgiveness is like taking out the knife out of your back
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which someone has poked you with and not using that knife to harm anyone else, no matter how badly they have hurt you.
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Today, I would like to emphasize on two aspects of forgiveness only two.
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One, why can't some people forgive?
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And two, the power of forgiveness.
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So moving on to my first aspect, why can't some people forgive?
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I feel that there are three main reasons why people can't forgive.
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And my first reason is because we think we do not get an apology, right?
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We say he didn't forgive me.
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I mean, we say he didn't apologize.
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She did not, she he did not apologize.
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You know, I happened to read a small joke in WhatsApp and the joke was like this.
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If a man says sorry when he knows that it is his mistake, yes I'm wrong, then he's wise, he's honest.
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Well, if a man says he's sorry when he knows that he's right, the opposite person is wrong, then unfortunately he's a husband.
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Okay.
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So, you know, when I read this joke, what I felt was that we always expect people to come and ask sorry to us.
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My dear friends, it is our memory, not theirs.
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people have different versions forgiveness people have very different versions for forgiveness you know
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if forgiveness was dependent on the apology of a particular person
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then believe me by now the whole world would have been burnt down my second point is
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that it is
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because they lack the ingredient of forgiveness within them you know I read a story once
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which had a yogi who saved a scorpion from a flooding river a scorpion
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so the yogi sees the scorpion is about to die
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and he goes on to save the scorpion as usual the
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scorpion bites him the yogi goes on again the scorpion bites again
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and this happens almost three times a passing by devotee looks at the yogi
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and asks what are you doing why are you saving the
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scorpion it is biting you just leave it off the yogi's
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reply was very different you know what he said he said
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when this little scorpion cannot let go his character of biting
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me how can i let go my character of helping him
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thank you the yogi was able to practice forgiveness in his life only
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because he contained the ingredient of forgiveness within him and that my friends is love and compassion
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We cannot love unless and until we forgive a person.
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The third aspect why I feel that people cannot forgive is that we do not understand the difference between weakness and wickedness.
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If a person hurts you, he or she might be weak, my friends, not wicked.
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How many of you doesn't have weakness here?
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We all have weakness.
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We are not strong people.
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We all are weakness.
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We all are capable of hurting someone and I know that very clearly.
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When we are so eager to receive forgiveness by someone, why are we not willing to give forgiveness to someone?
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That is my question, my friends.
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When I tell you to forgive, you must forgive, you must forgive, you might ask me, then what do we do to those people who hurted a woman?
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What do we do to those people who harassed a girl?
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What do we do to all those people who killed thousands of men?
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Should I forgive them?
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When we complain to the police, is that forgiveness?
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No, that is not forgiveness.
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We have a wrong, a misconception about forgiveness actually.
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When you complain to the police, you are complaining about that person's particular act, not about that person.
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When the police does something favorable to you, it is like applying medicine on your wound.
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The wound won't disappear, my friends, unless and until you forgive, the wound is still there.
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So moving on to my second aspect of today, that is the main heading, the power of forgiveness.
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I believe there are three major powers you gain
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when you forgive someone and the main power is that you lead a happy and healthy life.
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Yes, it is about you.
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When you forgive someone, you are healing yourself, your mind, your body and your soul.
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The second power I feel you gain is that when you forgive someone, you are coming out of their control.
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You stop being their victim.
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And I can say this because I have an experience.
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I was rejected from a school level quiz competition because I was in the topper of my class.
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To everyone who was seated here, who has faced partiality.
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I just have two choices for you.
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This was the choices my mother gave me.
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She told me, if you want to come out of the situation, you have two choices, Ashwini.
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You have two choices.
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One, either you stay, you continue to feel hurt, anger and feeling depressed or you come out of the situation,
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stop being the victim of what they did.
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And I came out of the situation.
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I gained my confidence back and I want you to re-empower yourself.
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My third power, what I think that you gain is that when you forgive someone,
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you come out of the emotions of anger, depression and sadness.
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Once when I visited an orphanage, I happened to see a boy.
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His name was Ram.
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He was 13 years old and he was autistic.
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He couldn't see, he couldn't speak well.
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I just understood four points, four to I gave up five points what he said and that changed my life.
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When I spoke to him, he told me, my mother abandoned me.
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I was thrown to the dustbin.
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I did not know what mistake I did.
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I really did not know.
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But to come out of this situation, I forgave my mother and now I am happy.
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When I heard his story, my dear friends, I feel that we all are physically not well because we have brains but we lack a heart.
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Ram out there, who was an autistic patient, had brains and had hearts.
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I can say that.
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I can say that with full confidence.
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There is a story about Sister Maria.
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She was a nun from Kerala and she was stabbed 50 times.
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She was stabbed 50 times by a villager because the villager mistook of what she did.
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He did not understand that she came to do social service and he stabbed her.
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He killed her.
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When Sister Maria's mother came the next day to see her daughter, she saw her daughter lying there.
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She saw that little girl she had cherished from her very small young age lying there speaking in silence with her.
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She saw her daughter just lying there helpless Who was stabbed 51 times
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and had various injuries all over her body You know what her mother did?
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She forgave that person, that person who killed her daughter She said,
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my son, I forgive you because I know you did it out of some intention and it is okay I,
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Ashwini John, as a youngster, as a human being I just have a very small advice towards all of you.
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I know we all have been hurt in life.
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We all have grudges in life.
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Okay.
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Forgive them.
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Just forgive them.
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Not because they deserve your forgiveness.
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Not because you asked for their forgiveness.
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But you cannot move on without forgiving a person.
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It shows your maturity level.
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Your forgiveness speaks about you, not about them.
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Forgiveness is your gift towards yourself, from yourself.
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You just have to search within.
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Thank you so much.
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문맥 속 문법 및 표현

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  • “How many of you…” - 질문 형식의 표현으로, 청중의 참여를 유도합니다. 이와 같은 구조는 말하기 연습 시 질문으로 대화를 시작하는 데 유용합니다.
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  • “I will try to forgive…” - 의지를 표현하는 문장 구성으로, 개인의 결심을 강조합니다. 다른 사람과의 대화에서 자신의 다짐을 나타낼 때 적합합니다.
  • “Why can't some people forgive?” - 이유를 설명하는 문장으로, 복잡한 주제를 논리적으로 전달하는 데 도움을 줍니다. 논의 주제를 제시할 때 유용합니다.

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  • Forgiveness - 발음할 때 강조가 필요합니다. ‘포기하다’라는 의미를 이해하면서 연습해 보세요.
  • Apology - 특히 ‘a’ 발음이 중요합니다. 다양한 억양으로 연습하면 더 자연스럽게 들릴 수 있습니다.
  • Resentful - 이 단어는 빠르게 발음하기 어려운 경우가 많으므로 천천히 발음하면서 적절한 억양을 찾는 연습이 필요합니다.

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