쉐도잉 연습: If You Earn More, Do You Decide Everything? ｜Chinese Perspective (upper intermediate) #learnchinese - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기

Today, we will talk about a very famous Chinese word.

男主外,女主内.

You heard it?

主 means to be a member or to be a member.

男主外 means to be a member of the outside work.

For example, working, social media.

女主内 means to be a member of the outside work.

For example, to do housework, to do food, to do children.

照顾父母等等比如说爸爸每天去公司上班妈妈每天在家做饭

很多传统的中国家庭尤其是老年人家庭都是这样的分工

所以从表面上看这句话其实非常简单它说的是一种分工

一个人负责外面的东西一个人负责里面的东西并不是在说谁更重要

谁更不重要只是说每个人负责的事情不一样但是在现代社会里这句话又不只是分工

有更多别的意思你可能同意也可能反对 Hello 你们好

欢迎来到我的频道很招心认识你们我是Stella 你们也可以叫我溜溜在这里我会和你们一起用最地道的方式学习中文说到男主外女主内

那我可以先用自己的家庭来举一个例子我没结婚

所以我说我的家庭是我和我的爸爸妈妈我的家庭不算是特别传统的中国家庭但也不是完全现代的

是在传统和现代的中间我的爸爸妈妈他们都有工作

而且在我们小县城里他们的工作也是比较体面的雖然工资不太高但社会地位还可以

所以从这个角度看他们两个人其实都会工作都会赚钱但是在家里的分工

就会有一点不一样比如说做家务照顾孩子我妈妈会做得更多当然不是说我爸爸完全不错但可能是70%是我妈妈

然后30%是我爸爸在外面的工作 I think it's the same.

70% is my father, and 30% is my mother.

My father is working more, and he is more money.

So you will find that in a more modern family,

the male and the male are not a perfect idea.

Two people will do things together, But the two people are not the same.

Actually it's not just my home.

I have a lot of friends and friends.

They are the same.

Father is more than a job.

I have more money.

Mother is more than a family.

So in many situations, we can also say this is a type of a type of a type of type.

Of course, there are some different kinds.

For example, the family is Mother, working more, money more, and father working more, and help children more.

We can say, women are in the same way, men are in the same way.

There is another way, which is now more than the young people like the way.

Two people work, all money, and also work together, and help children.

It's also two people, both in the same way, and in the same way.

So I think these methods are not correct.

It's just that different families chose different ways and different ways, but they're the goal of the same way.

It's for the way to make the family better.

I want to ask you, if you haven't married, your father and mother has a different way of doing what kind of a different way?

If you have a married, what time is your family?

Please the Chinese in the comments section.

When you think about these issues, you may also find a thing.

In many families, who do what do what do you do?

Sometimes it will affect who do what do you do.

Now we think about a very simple question.

If a family is a person working on a job, a person is doing a job,

That's how to make some small decisions.

For example, to where to eat food?

Or to buy a more expensive thing?

To buy a car or a house?

To buy a lot?

To go to what place?

These things are usually who decide to decide.

Of course, the family is together to decide.

But in some cases, You may be more than happy to hear the people outside working.

Because he is every day working and spending money.

So many people think that his opinion is more accurate and less.

So it's more important.

So there will be a very interesting question.

In many families, who do what are the most important things will become the most difficult decision.

Now let's think about what is the most important thing.

What is the most important thing about the most important things?

Or are they also the most important thing about the different people's family?

Who said it?

I'm going to say that my family is the most important thing.

Um, just like we said, my family is almost like a male-wide, female-wide.

My father works more and more money.

That's not a different time for my father's time.

Their family's position is not quite different.

So my father's position is more than my mother's position.

If we need to make some important decisions, we almost all hear my father's word, very rarely hear my mother's word.

And my mother also very accept this one There are times when she has different ideas

But I will listen to my father For example, when I graduated from college

I would choose to graduate I know I like to speak

But my mother and my father have different ideas

My father would think I think that the children should be a professional with the financial management.

At that time, I didn't really keep my thoughts on my own, so I still listened to my father.

Of course, I'm now more and more.

I'm not listening to my father.

I'm with who I am, what I want to do, what I want to do, what I want to live in which city.

I think

it's a big thing.

I will say that they will be more connected to their thoughts.

If I get married, if I get married, I hope that I and my wife,

my future wife can be made to decide to be more connected to their thoughts.

没有谁比谁的家庭地位更高也没有谁比谁更重要所以你会发现不同的家庭差别很大

你们的家庭是什么样的分钟方式呢欢迎你在评论区里告诉我

那为什么会出现这样的情况呢

为什么在很多的家庭里赚钱更多的人更容易做决定我觉得第一个原因是钱真的很重要中文里有一句很有名的话

I think the first reason is that money is really important.

In the English language, there is a very famous word, money is not possible, but no money is not possible.

This word means that money cannot solve all the problems, but if you have no money, many things you really do not.

For example, you have to eat, you have to住 a house, you have to go to school, you have to go to school,

甚至你只是想做一种很稳定而且很简单的生活这些都离不开钱所以在现实生活里

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谁能更稳定的赚钱赚更多钱谁就更容易变成家里最重要的那个人

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因为我们都很依赖钱所以我们都很依赖这个人即使一个人的想法再对

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再好再有意义但是如果这个人没有钱那他的想法就不可能实现

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虽然我们一直在说钱不是最重要的钱不是最重要的但是它也真的很重要

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对吧这种重要有时候不是大家直接说出来的而是大家心里会慢慢有一种感觉这个家里不开它所以在做决定的时候大家就更容易听它的

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The second reason is that people always think that people work outside are more visible than the other.

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They are always aware of the people who are with the friends, with the friends, with the boss, with the boss.

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They also know the people who are in society and the rules.

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They have seen the things too many.

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They have seen the things that are all different.

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They have seen the success or the失敗.

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So many people will think that he can see more and more.

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In the Chinese, there is a word called 見多識廣

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意思就是

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一個人看得多、經歷得多他的知識和經驗也會更多所以也更適合做決定但這裡有一個很有意思的問題這種想法不一定對 Because in the house,

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to help children, to help children, to help them, to make decisions.

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But in society, many people think that the experience of the outside experience is more valuable than the home experience.

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The third reason I think is very important.

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That is, we can see money.

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We can see money.

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But the work of the home is sometimes not visible.

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For example, the person this year has got a lot of money, how much money, how much money, how much money, how much money, how much money, how much money,

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how much money, how much money.

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These are all numbers, numbers are very clear.

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They are very clear.

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So it is very easy to see and understand.

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But as a job, a job, a job, a job, a job, a job of children, these things are very hard.

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But it's hard to use a clear number to express

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You can say that this month has been 200 hours of work So my value is what?

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It's just that the outside work is more than seen And the home work is more than seen

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And when we introduce a person, he is a teacher, he is a doctor

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It's just that we are very used to use a job to introduce a person.

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But we rarely say that he's a child every day.

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So, you will get more and more affection, and you will get more and more attention to a job.

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And you will not see a job in a family.

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But actually, a family will be more and more.

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It's not just because there are people who are paying money, but it's because there are people who are doing a lot of things.

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So you will find that there are no people who are not not公平.

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It's because we are not easy to see money and too easily rely on money.

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It's not easy to see money.

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In this situation, there are times some people will think that because they are paying money,

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so they should be more than one of a decision.

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You should have to say it.

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In English, this idea is called ''大男子主義''.

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In English, there is a similar word.

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It's a simple word.

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First, it's a good thing.

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Second, it's not a good thing.

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Here we have to figure out a thing.

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The男主外, the女主内, is not equal to the男主主義.

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If this is a choice of two people, and they are both loving each other, it is just a way to make a difference.

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But in some cases, it may not be the same.

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I have a friend, I think he is a very male-like man.

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I would like to share these things with him.

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But he said, no, don't do it.

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Why do you do a woman's job?

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Um, I have always said that I'm always a big fan of my father.

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I have always said that I'm not tired of my father, but I'm always a big fan of my father.

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I really have always a big fan of my father.

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I have always been a big fan of my father and I'm tired of my family.

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But it is my choice.

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I hope my friends and family can be respected my choice.

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Don't be a man-man-man-主義.

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So here I am going to discuss that Men of women in this way, that this work is not a problem because every family has been different

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There is a family that needs to be more active in the outside

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There is a family that needs to be more active in the outside There is a family

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that may be more active in the outside of your life So the problem is not in which one is out, which one is in which one is out And in order to be able to make this decision,

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we are not going to be able to choose.

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If you have both of them in a real discussion, and you feel it is more suitable for your family, that, if it's not in your family,

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or not in your family, or even in your family, because this is their own choice.

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But if you have a person who doesn't want to, It's because of the pressure of families and society,

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they don't have to choose this.

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This hour although it is normal, it is not fair, it is very fair.

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It's not a respect for you.

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Many people say it is a respect for you.

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But it is a very specific thing.

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You will be aware of the people's opinions.

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You will not think that they're doing the things that they're very important.

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You will not be able to get money from you.

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You will feel that you have a higher position.

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This time, not a few minutes, but a person is being ignored.

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It's not a fair relationship.

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So, to say, a family is important to see who is more than a lot, who is more than a lot, who is more than a lot.

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而是要看这个家庭里的两个人能不能互相理解互相支持互相尊重也许有人主外

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有人主内不管怎么样都可以最重要的是不要让分工不同慢慢变成地位不同不要让赚钱更多慢慢变成更值得被尊重

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那最后我想问你两个问题第一个问题在你的家庭里平时都是谁做决定

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第二个问题你觉得这种方式是很自然的还是是因为习惯或者压力

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