쉐도잉 연습: LẮNG NGHE CHỦ ĐỘNG - ĐƯỢC YÊU THÍCH Thiền Sư Ven Mahindasiri Thero - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
레슨 만드는 중...
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I still remember this story.
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When I was little and I was still in school, I was a teacher who came to my class and she asked me,
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"You have to know why you have two hands and one mouth?" Then she said,
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"The reason why we have two hands and one mouth is to talk more and listen more." Ladies and gentlemen,
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when we deal with everyone in our relationship, in our family and in our work, If you have the quality of listening to this,
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that can help you in many ways.
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This is what they can help you in any way.
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Now, some people come to our temple and they talk to the mom with the family, the family, the family, the work space,
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and there's one thing that they all say.
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That is, they say, they say they don't listen to me.
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They don't listen to me.
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They don't understand me.
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They don't understand me.
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They don't understand me.
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That's what they say.
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So if you have a master's master, if you have a master's master, you will be able to hear many people.
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People always like to talk to someone who is more attention to them.
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If you think about the Buddha, Buddha is a master's master.
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One time, one man comes to the Buddha and he starts to insult him.
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He starts to insult him.
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The only thing that the people did was to listen to that person.
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He made attention to that person.
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And in another time, one woman came to his son and died on her hand.
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She was crying and she was lamenting in front of the Buddha.
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and the only thing that he did is to focus on the pain of the woman.
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He listened to the pain of the woman.
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So if you can do this, if you can do this, you can listen to the woman's pain of you.
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Remember that.
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One example, if you come to me, if you want to talk about my life, and from the beginning of the conversation,
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I started to do you in the discussion and give me the advice and my advice about my problem.
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You will start thinking about this bunk.
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You will start thinking that this bunk can be understood by me.
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He will not be understood by me.
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So, practice this art of teaching.
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It's how the hard work is.
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So how can we do that?
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The Buddha said that all the words we say in my mouth are being used in our mind.
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That means that we think about all these words and then we say it.
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So if we are thinking about what we are thinking about what we are doing in our mind,
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then we will find out how easy to say it is to be able to understand what we are doing.
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And then it is very easy to say.
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We know when to speak and when not to speak.
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So this principle is what the principle of the thought is called Chittanupasana.
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To do that, the only thing we need to do is to sit in quiet space,
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just watch our thoughts, what comes to our mind.
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We don't want to do that, we don't want to change our mind, just to make our mind just a thought.
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It's one practice that you can do to be listening to a person.
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And one other practice that you can do to be listening to this person.
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So in the next generation you have to try to go to someone if they want to talk to you.
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And if they want to talk to you with them, from the beginning of the conversation, you will be able to listen to you.
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I will be interested in this person more.
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It's one way to show you and show you your attention to the person who is in front of you.
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That's why listening to someone's good
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and sharing something with them is one way to show a better compassion and love to them.
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So in the next conversation, when you go back to this moment, you will listen to them more and then they will be silent.
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And when they have some more questions, you will ask them more questions.
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"Hãy kể cho tôi nghe bạn đã làm điều đó như thế nào, đúng không?
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Nó đã xảy ra ra sao?" Yes, they will be able to talk to you about your story.
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They will be able to talk to you about you.
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They will start to be able to love you and love you.
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When you do this, you will be able to listen to someone.
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And also remember, don't listen to someone just to reply to them or just to give you your own opinion.
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Always listen to them, to understand them, to understand them, to understand them, to understand them, to understand them,
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to understand them in the high days these words: and to understand the intention behind these words.
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When you do that, you will become a good and good listener.
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Then you will be liked by many people.
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So, there is all about listening to the mind of the mind and listening to that song.
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Keep that in mind.
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Namo Buddhaya.
맥락 및 배경
이 강연에서는 Ven Mahindasiri Thero가 경청의 중요성에 대해 이야기하고 있습니다. 그는 어린 시절 자신의 선생님이 왜 두 개의 손과 하나의 입이 있는지에 대해 설명했던 일화를 회상하며, 사람들과의 관계에서 경청이 얼마나 중요한지를 강조합니다. 경청의 기술은 단순한 의사소통을 넘어, 더 깊은 이해와 사람들 간의 상호작용을 발전시키는 데 핵심 역할을 합니다. 특히, 그는 부처님과 같은 경청의 달인들이 어떻게 타인의 이야기를 귀 기울여 듣는지를 사례로 제시하며, 이를 통해 우리 또한 이러한 태도를 배워야 한다고 강조합니다.
일상적인 의사소통을 위한 5가지 주요 문구
- “나는 당신의 이야기를 듣고 싶어요.” - 이 문구는 상대방에게 관심을 표현하는 데 유용합니다.
- “정말 그렇게 느꼈군요.” - 상대방의 감정을 인정하는 데 도움을 줍니다.
- “자세히 말씀해 주세요.” - 상대방이 더 많은 이야기를 하도록 유도하는 문구입니다.
- “저는 당신의 의견이 중요하다고 생각해요.” - 상대방의 의견을 존중하는 표현입니다.
- “도움이 필요하시면 언제든지 말씀해 주세요.” - 지원을 제공하겠다는 의사를 전달합니다.
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