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This video will serve as your texting bible.

It doesn't matter what your skills are or which girl you're talking to.

In this video, I will explain everything you need to know about texting in detail.

And if you ever feel confused or face any issues with texting, come back to this video and you'll 100% find the solution to your problem.

The first thing you need to understand is

that the purpose of texting is to set up a date and meet the woman, not just to chat.

The goal of texting is not just conversation, but meeting up.

Listen carefully.

As a man, you won't gain anything from texting.

It's a waste of time and won't bring you any benefit.

This is the first point I want you to understand.

The second point is that a woman will not develop feelings for you just through texting

and this is the mistake that many men make.

They text just for the sake of chatting.

No, you should use texting to get to the stage of setting up a date

and here I'll slightly diverge to talk about something important.

Men who talk to girls who don't live in the same city.

If you live in one state and the girl lives in another, that means you shouldn't waste your time with her And I'm not criticizing anyone, but if you're talking to a girl who doesn't live in your city, why are you talking to her?

What will you gain?

Even if you meet once a month or once every three months, you need to understand that this is a losing equation for you as a man.

There are hundreds of thousands, maybe even millions of women in your city.

So why are you looking for a girl in another city?

Think carefully before you waste your time and energy on this.

Finally, the third point I want you to understand is that texting is just a conversation in the digital world.

This digital conversation, although it has rules different from the real world, is still just a reflection of the real world.

This means that to succeed in the digital world, you first need to know how to communicate in the real world.

If you've been following my series on how to attract women, you probably won't have an issue with this

because I've explained everything you need and you likely already understand how a woman thinks.

If you haven't watched this series, please, when you finish this video, go back and start from the first episode so you can get the most benefit from today's video.

Now let's return to the topic of texting.

From my experience I've noticed that the mistake I used to make

and that most guys make when texting is that they don't know when to ask a girl for a date.

That's why I'm now going to explain a basic concept in texting.

You need to know what stage you're in.

Are you in the stage where you should ask for a date

or in the stage where you should just continue the conversation

or are you in the stage where you need to build attraction?

The important thing is that you know which stage you're in now.

Now I'm going to give you a compass that I want you to hold on to.

This compass will help you figure out which stage you're in.

If you're texting a girl or want to start talking to one, there are four stages you might be in.

Stage one, the silent stage.

This is when she leaves you on read and doesn't reply.

This means that attraction has dropped.

Don't worry, we'll discuss this in detail.

Just be patient with me.

Stage two, the testing stage.

This is when she criticizes you, disagrees with you, or talks about other guys.

If you've watched the entire series, you already know that I always say girls test guys.

It's a biological instinct they have and they do it without realizing it.

I also always tell you that I'll make a video explaining how to pass these tests.

I apologize for the delay, but soon I'll make a video where I explain these tests in detail.

Stage 3, the logical stage.

This is when she starts discussing topics with you logically or sometimes emotionally.

Stage 4, the attraction stage.

This is when the girl starts showing her attraction towards you, like sending you her pictures, reacting positively to your pictures, or hinting at a possible meetup.

In any text conversation with a girl, you'll always be in one of these stages, 100%.

You need to know which stage you're in right now so you can act accordingly.

And don't worry, I'll explain what you need to do in each stage.

To make it clearer, let's assume you're in the stage where the girl has shown her attraction to you.

And what did you do?

You continued talking to her and carried on with the conversation.

Here my friend, you've made a big mistake.

Why are you still talking to her?

When you reach this stage, it means you should ask her out.

If you don't ask for a date and just keep talking after a while, she'll reject the idea of a date because you didn't recognize the stage you were in and didn't take the right action.

Or let's assume you're in the first stage, where the girl responds with a few words and leaves you on read without replying further.

Then, you go ahead and ask for a date.

That's another mistake.

You've taken an action that doesn't fit the stage you're in.

So, once you know what stage you're in, it's time to figure out the right way to handle the situation with the girl.

But, before I tell you what to do in each stage, I need to explain something about the world of texting.

If you've been following me for a while, you'll know that women are emotional beings.

For them, the world of texting is an emotional game, and all of their actions are based on emotions.

As a man, you won't be able to play this game with her because you're not an emotional being.

You're a logical one.

That's why, in this video, I'm explaining things to you from a logical perspective.

I want you to understand texting from a logical point of view and approach it that way, so you don't get pulled into the emotional game that women try to involve you in.

This may sound strange to you, but this is just how women are.

For them, dating is like a game, and it's part of their nature.

Consider it an unavoidable reality, but when you enter this game and see it through a logical lens, you can win because logic is your strength.

This is what I try to do in all my videos, even if you don't always realize it.

In this series, I'm not just giving you information, I'm trying to shift your perspective on dating so you see it in a more logical way.

If you'd like me to make a video discussing the logic of men versus the emotions of women, let me know in the comments.

Now, let's get back to our topic and go through the stages one by one.

By the way, these stages aren't in a fixed order.

You could find yourself in any stage and sometimes you might even start in the attraction stage.

So let's begin with the first stage, the silent stage.

In this stage, the girl doesn't respond or takes a long time to reply, or she might not seem interested.

In this case, you should avoid overwhelming her with messages.

Don't send too many, and don't ask for anything that requires a response.

Most importantly, don't bring up a date.

The only thing you can do is leave a simple comment, like reacting to her story, or saying something that doesn't require a reply.

The goal here is to maintain your value and not show any neediness, even if she doesn't respond.

The second stage is the testing stage.

Here, the girl might start provoking you, talking about someone else, or disagreeing with you.

This stage is relatively easy because all you need to do is pass her tests.

I'll explain this more in a dedicated video, but briefly, here are some ways to pass these tests.

1. Completely ignore what she said.

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2. Take a comment and turn it into a joke.

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3. Give a response that's completely unrelated to what she said.

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In this stage, don't ask for a date yet because attraction is still being built.

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Stage 3 is the conversation stage, where the conversation flows more naturally and might even involve exchanging voice messages.

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At this point, you can ask for a date.

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In this stage, I want you to apply everything you've learned in this series, like qualifying techniques or asking emotional questions, and try to incorporate them into your texting.

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But remember, texting is slightly different from talking on the phone or having a face-to-face conversation.

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To succeed in texting, you need to include a lot of humor in your messages.

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The funnier your texts, the more positive responses you'll get from the girl.

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One key to text messaging success is to avoid using the girl's real name.

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Instead, give her a playful nickname like Munchkin, Cutie, or My Dear.

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These nicknames will help you get faster replies.

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Here's a text messaging technique I've personally developed that works quite well.

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You.

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Hey, chickpea.

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How good is your memory on a scale of 1 to 10?

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Her.

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Well, 10.

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You.

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Okay, let's test it.

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If you lose, you're buying me dinner.

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Ready?

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Her.

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Yes, you.

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What color shoes was I wearing when we met?

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Her.

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Hmm, I think black.

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You.

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Wrong answer, young lady.

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Now.

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You owe me dinner big time, then call her immediately after.

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Even if she gives the right answer, still call and playfully argue that you had on a different colour shoes.

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See how simple this is?

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All you need is a bit of creativity and you can easily secure date after date with minimal risk of rejection.

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The reason some guys often get rejected is because their messages are just too dull.

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They send texts like can I call you?

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Are you free?

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Would you like to watch a movie?

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Not only are these messages boring but they're also practically asking to be rejected.

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Here are a few examples of messages that will get you quick and positive responses.

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You won't believe how badly I embarrass myself today.

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My mom would be so ashamed.

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Call me.

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I'm starving.

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I'll let you buy me a burger if you promise to take me out.

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My cousin's here.

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She's just like you.

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You have to meet her.

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This is the best day of my life.

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I finally did it.

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Buzz me when you're free.

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As long as your messages include humor, mystery, and a touch of excitement, you'll always get positive responses.

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Now we move on to the final stage, where the girl starts sending you her pictures or showing significant interest, such as engaging positively with your pictures.

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At this stage, if you haven't met her in person yet, it becomes essential and urgent to ask her for a date.

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If you don't ask for a date at this point, you risk losing her.

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If you like the girl and want to keep talking to her, you must ask her for a date.

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If you don't, she'll either place you in the friend zone or stop talking to you altogether.

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Now, you should have a clear understanding of the texting game.

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Like any game, there are rules you need to know and follow to succeed.

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In short, these rules are, in general, keep your text short and to the point.

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They should be emotionally stimulating.

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She should feel something from your text.

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You should not be texting her all the time.

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You are a man who has important things to do.

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Texting her constantly is not one of them.

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Every text should serve a purpose, to spark her emotions or to set up a date.

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Send her the first text within 48 hours of getting her number.

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Don't ask boring questions.

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Don't try to impress her.

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Don't be mentally waiting for her to respond.

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Go about your busy day as you normally do and respond to her texts when you get a chance.

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Text like a man.

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Don't ask her too many questions.

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Instead of asking questions, make statements and commands.

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And here we have come to the end of our guide.

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In the description, you'll find a link to the full series for free on YouTube.

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If you're still watching at this point, don't forget to hit the like button.

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And if you have any questions, leave them in the comments so I can know what challenges you're facing.

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Take care.

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You were my everything

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We know we could have done it better

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Fogged for the little things we wanted I know it was a good together

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set up a date: 데이트를 잡다. "The purpose of texting is to set up a date"에서 실용적인 표현으로, 일상 대화에서 자주 사용된다.
leave someone on read: 읽고 답장하지 않다. "She leaves you on read"는 현대적인 디지털 커뮤니케이션에서 흔한 상황을 설명하는 표현이다.
losing equation: 손해본다. "This is a losing equation for you"에서 '방정식'이라는 뜻의 'equation'이 확장되어 사용되었으며, 비유적으로 '결과'를 나타낸다.

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이 비디오의 스피커는 명확한 발음과 강조를 통해 중요한 내용을 전달한다. 영어 발음 교정을 위해선 스피커의 억양과 강세를 주의깊게 듣고 shadowspeak (쉐도잉) 연습을 해야 한다. 예를 들어, "The goal of texting is not just conversation, but meeting up"에서 'not just'와 'but'를 강조하는 방식은 대화에서 중요한 정보를 전달할 때 자주 사용되는 패턴이다. 또한, "biological instinct"에서 'biological'의 [baɪəˈlɑːdʒɪkl] 발음은 모음과 자음의 결합을 연습하는 좋은 기회다. 쉐도잉을 할 때는 스피커의 말속도와 휴지시간도 따라하되, 발음의 정확성을 우선시하자.

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문형	영상 속 표현
현재완료진행 have/has been + -ing — 전에 시작해 지금도 계속되는 동작	you've been following
조건문 if + 절, will/would + 동사 — 조건과 그 결과	If you don't, she'll either
현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때	I've explained · haven't watched · I've noticed
수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점	are based · being built · be rejected

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쉐도잉(Shadowing)은 원래 전문 통역사 훈련을 위해 개발된 언어 학습 기법으로, 다언어 학자인 Dr. Alexander Arguelles에 의해 대중화된 방법입니다. 핵심 원리는 간단하지만 매우 강력합니다: 원어민의 영어를 들으면서 1~2초의 짧은 지연으로 즉시 소리 내어 따라 말하는 것——마치 '그림자(shadow)'처럼 화자를 따라가는 것입니다. 문법 공부나 수동적인 청취와 달리, 쉐도잉은 뇌와 입 근육이 동시에 실시간으로 영어를 처리하고 재현하도록 훈련합니다. 연구에 따르면 이 방법은 발음 정확도, 억양, 리듬, 연음, 청취력, 말하기 유창성을 크게 향상시킵니다. IELTS 스피킹 준비와 자연스러운 영어 소통을 원하는 분들에게 특히 효과적입니다.

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