쉐도잉 연습: The Most Common Questions For Everyday SMALL TALK - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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Hey English learners!
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Are you ready to speak English with more confidence and enjoy real conversations without feeling nervous?
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Today, we are going to learn something very useful for your daily life.
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In this lesson, I will show you the best and easiest questions you can use to start small talk.
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Continue a conversation and sound natural like a real English speaker.
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We will also learn what questions you should not ask And at the end, there will be a fun quiz to test your skills.
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So let's start this journey together.
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Small talk is a short and friendly conversation that people have in daily life.
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It is simple, easy and not very deep.
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You can use small talk with your friends, your co -workers, your neighbors, and even with people you do not know.
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You can use Smalltalk almost everywhere.
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For example, you can use it at a party.
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at an event, in a cafe, on a bus, on a plane, while waiting in a line, or even before a class or meeting starts.
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It helps you feel more comfortable and connected with people.
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Now the big question is: How do we start small talk?
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Most people begin with very simple greetings.
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For example: Hi, how are you?
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Good morning!
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How are you doing?
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Hey, how's it going?
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These are very common and very easy.
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There is also a very casual sentence.
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What's up?
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This is very friendly, so you should use it with friends or people close to your age.
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- Now maybe you were thinking, Okay, I understand how to ask, but how do I answer?
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Here are some simple and natural answers.
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You can say, "Great, what about you?" or "Good, how about you?" or even "Not bad and you." You can also just say,
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"Good." A simple answer is always okay.
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So now, let's see how a small conversation sounds.
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One person says, "Hi, how's it going?" The other person says, "Great, what about you?"
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and the first person says good you see very easy very simple
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but now comes the next step what do we say after
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that when you are at a special place like a party event
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or cafe you can ask simple questions to continue the conversation For example,
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you can ask, "What brings you here?" This means, "Why did you come here today?" You can also ask, "Do you know many people here?" This means,
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"Did you come alone or with friends?" Another good question is, "Is this your first time here?" Or, do you come here often?
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All these questions help you keep talking.
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Let's see a simple conversation example.
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Hi, how are you?
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Great, what about you?
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Good.
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What brings you here tonight?
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A friend of mine is performing, so I came to watch.
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Oh nice, I just wanted to see this place.
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See, the conversation keeps going naturally.
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Now, another very common topic is asking about where someone is from.
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You can say, "Are you from around here?" This is a very good and safe question.
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You can also say, "Do you live here or are you just visiting?" But be careful with questions like,
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"Where are you from?" because sometimes people may feel uncomfortable, especially if it sounds like you are asking about their background in a sensitive way.
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So the best and safest option is: Do you live here or are you visiting?
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Now let's move to another important topic: work.
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In some cultures, asking about work can feel too personal.
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But in many English -speaking countries, it is normal and acceptable.
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You can ask, "What kind of work do you do?" What do you do for a living?
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Are you working or studying?
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These questions are very common.
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For example: Hi, how's it going?
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Good, how about you?
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Great.
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Are you from around here?
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No, I'm just visiting my sister.
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Oh nice, I just moved here for work.
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Really?
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What kind of work do you do?
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Here, it is not rude because the person already talked about work.
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So always listen carefully.
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If someone mentioned something, you can ask more about it.
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Now let's talk about one of the most popular topics in small talk.
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Weekend Plans.
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People love to talk about what they will do on the weekend.
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You can ask, "Do you have any plans for the weekend?" What are you doing this weekend?
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Are you doing anything fun?
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For example: "Hey, how are you?" Pretty good, and you?
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Good.
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Do you have any plans for the weekend?
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Not yet, but I might try a new restaurant.
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Oh, nice. And you?
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I'm going to a football game.
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This is how you keep the conversation alive and interesting.
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Now let's talk about hobbies and free time.
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Instead of asking "What is your hobby?" which sounds a little strange in real conversation, You should say: What do you do for fun?
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Or what do you like to do in your free time?
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These are very natural questions.
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For example, "Hi, how's it going?" Not bad, and you?
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Good.
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So what do you do for fun?
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I love watching movies.
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Oh nice, me too!
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Have you seen any good movies recently?
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Now you have a new topic: movies.
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And this is how small talk grows into a longer conversation.
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Now let's talk about something very powerful in conversation.
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Compliments.
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Yes, you can say something nice to the other person, and this can make the conversation more friendly and warm.
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But you must be careful.
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You should not sound strange or uncomfortable.
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A good rule is: complement things, not the body.
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For example, you can say, "That's a cool t -shirt.
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Where did you get it?" That's a nice laptop.
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What brand is it?
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Cool tattoo!
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Is there a story behind it?
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I like your hair color.
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Is it natural?
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These are safe and friendly, but do not say things like: You have nice eyes.
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You have beautiful legs.
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These can make people feel uncomfortable, especially if you don't know them.
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Now let's see a simple example.
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Hi, how are you?
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Good, and you?
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Great!
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I really like your t -shirt.
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Are you into anime?
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Yes, I started watching after my trip to Japan.
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Oh nice, where did you go in Japan?
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Now the conversation continues easily because you opened a new topic.
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Now let's talk about something very important.
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What questions should you not ask?
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Some questions are too personal and they can make people feel uncomfortable.
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For example, avoid these.
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Are you married?
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Do you have kids?
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Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?
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How old are you?
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How much money do you make?
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These questions are too private, especially when talking to someone you just met.
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But what if you really want to ask something personal?
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There is a polite way to do it.
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First, you say something to show respect.
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For example: Sorry for asking, but...
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I hope you don't mind me asking.
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I don't mean to be rude, but.. may I ask?
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For example, "Sorry for asking, but are you married?" I hope you don't mind me asking, but how old are you?
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May I ask if you are working or studying?
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This makes your questions softer and more polite.
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Now here is a small grammar tip.
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When you use "May I ask?" the sentence structure changes.
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You say, "May I ask where you are from?" not "May I ask where are you from?"
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and "May I ask if you are married?" Not may I ask if for you married.
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This small change is very important.
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Now it's time for something fun.
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Let's test your understanding with a quick quiz.
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Question one.
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You meet someone.
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What can you say?
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You can say.
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Hi, how are you?
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How's it going?
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What's up?
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All are correct.
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Question 2.
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You are at an event.
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What can you ask?
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What brings you here?
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Do you know many people here?
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Is this your first time here?
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All are good.
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| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| topic 명사 | /ˈtɑpɪk/ | 화제, 주제 |
| uncomfortable 형용사 | /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/ | 불편하다 |
| rude 형용사 | /ɹuːd/ | 버릇없다, 무례하다 |
| hobby 명사 | /ˈhɑ.bi/ | 취미 |
| polite 형용사 | /pəˈlaɪt/ | 공손하다 |
| quiz 명사 | /kwɪz/ | 퀴즈 |
| lesson 명사 | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | 수업, 과 |
| carefully 부사 | /ˈkɛɹf(ə)li/ | 주의하여, 조심스럽게 |
| sensitive 형용사 | /ˈsɛn.sɪt.ɪv/ | 민감하다 |
| worker 명사 | /ˈwɝ.kɚ/ | 노동자, 로동자 |
| skill 명사 | /skɪl/ | 기술, 스킬 |
| connect 동사 | /kəˈnɛkt/ | 잇다, 연결하다 |
| anime 명사 | /ˈæn.ɪ.meɪ/ | 아니메, 애니메이션 |
| laptop 명사 | /ˈlæp.tɑp/ | 노트북, 랩톱 |
| grammar 명사 | /ˈɡɹæm.ə(ɹ)/ | Korean: 문법, 문법학 |
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| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| “should” 조언 should + 동사 — 하는 것이 좋은 일을 말할 때 | should not ask · should use · should say |
| 최상급 the -est / the most … — 집단에서 가장 높거나 낮은 것 | the best · the most popular |
| 동사 + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — 뒤에 -ing형이 오는 동사 | keep talking · love watching · started watching |
| “might / may” 가능성 might/may + 동사 — 가능하지만 확실하지 않은 일 | may feel · might try |
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- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, acceptable /əkˈsɛp.tə.bəl/
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