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all right you all i am here today to do a

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all right you all i am here today to do a

new song i am really excited to react to it um it is the song labor

and i am sorry

that there's the glare i'm gonna have to take these off

in a second yeah nothing i can do about it yeah it's gonna bother me okay

so my eyes have been hurting me really badly lately.

I don't, I don't know if it's allergies,

the change of weather, like the heat being on,

I'm not sure what it is,

but, uh, I'll take these off.

I encourage you all this weekend to come to my workshop.

It's going to be one of the last ones of the year.

It is called boundaries that heal and workshop for protecting your peace and power.

It means a lot to me.

I highly recommend it.

It is virtual.

It is going to be really, really great.

So it's for all of the people pleasers out there,

all of the people that are afraid to to set boundaries

or don't know what that really means

because it isn't what I think we think

when we first hear it okay

so this song labor I heard from just the chorus on tiktok

because all of those ballerina farm videos were set to it

and

if you don't know ballerina farm go down a long rabbit

hole I mean I did a tiktok video on it because I really like became obsessed with the whole situation.

I know a little a little bit about what this song is about just a tiny bit

but I haven't actually heard the whole song

so I'm excited to react to this because this is

so many people keep telling me that I need to react to it so let's just do it.

silent this was an escape time carefully timed it so let me go and dive into the waves below

who turns the odds i stopped for a second so the imagery in my mind at first i was like

pulling on the rope that she's hanging from i was thinking that she was literally

unalarm thing that might still be what she is insinuating here

but the symbolism there of rather going into ocean waters than

to be where you are with your person is quite alarming

and when the other person is clearly trying to keep her there

and and bring her back pull her back

when she doesn't want to be there is very problematic

and a sign of a toxic abusive relationship also shows the discrepancies and,

and power when a relationship benefits one person more than the other person doesn't want to let go.

So yeah.

Okay.

Let's keep going.

You're new to my channel.

I do stop a lot,

but that's just what I do.

Okay.

back down again to feel your love to your sharp sting and i'm getting fucking tired

okay i'm sure we're about to go into the chorus here maybe maybe not she's done everything

that she can to make everything nice and wonderful she's exhausted from it

and i think a lot of women can relate

but it reminds me though of the ballerina farm situation where you know people people were commenting like,

why are you just standing around?

Where the husband just like watched her milking the cow and he's like,

we milked cows alive.

And it's just her doing it and everybody's standing around watching.

It's just like, okay.

but you made me do too much labor.

Okay so let me just take that in for some real truth real truth being told right there.

She's really just contemplating it with it really be that bad

if this ended because look we're sold and fairy tales and books when we're growing up,

movies that you know stereotypically the man is the savior at a point in time in history

if let's say a woman was killed or injured a wife was killed

or injured and could sue the responsible party for defriving him of services around the home

and women couldn't do the same so you're supposed to be my savior but yet I'm doing all of the work.

Unweaponized, the foe's incompetence Is dominance under a guide If we had a daughter

I'd watch and could not save her The emotional torture From the head of your high table

She'd do what you taught her

She'd meet the same cool fate So now I gotta run So I can undo this mistake at least I gotta try

partner who makes my life harder,

sees the struggle and chooses to kind of like play dumb.

That's the weaponized incompetence I think that she's talking about here where it's like,

you know, scrolling on your phone when you hear your wife is struggling with kids and getting them their lunch ready,

helping them get dressed, cleaning up things,

making doctor's appointments, all those kind of things.

And they're just kind of like,

can't sit back and just be like,

you know

and then whenever you ask for help then you get criticized

like oh well i didn't know you could have just said it

and it's like do you have eyeballs in your head you can clearly see what's going on

that she's struggling like come on now unfortunately this is a common experience for a lot of women

but not all i think that there are great wonderful men out there

and husbands i have seen it i

and i still haven't seen it the as much

but i have seen it really into ancient egyptian history the emerald tablet uh

if any of you know what that is you feel me one of the things

that they were able to see on time sheets from ancient times whenever you know they were working

and they've been able to discover it that men would take off work the week that their wives were having

their periods so that they could do the cooking and the cleaning and help take care of her.

That's how much they valued what a woman does in the home

and values the fact that we go through the cycle every month that we're able to produce children.

It was very much respected and somewhere along the line it has shifted and that makes me really sad you know.

Was my savior,

you sure make it do A whole lot of labor The callus skin on my hands is cracking If I love ends,

would that be a bad thing?

And the silence once I've achieved But you make it do Too much labor All day,

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every day, therapist Mother made nymph,

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then a virgin Nurse, then a servant Just an appendage Lipped to attend him

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So that he never lifts a finger 24-7 baby machine

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So he can live out his picket fence dreams It's not an act of love

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If you make her You make me do too much labour All day,

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every day, therapist Mother made nymph,

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then a virgin Nurse and a servant,

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just an appendage Lift to attend him so that he never lifts a finger 24-7 baby machine

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So he can live out his picket fence dreams It's not an act of love

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if you make me cry You make me do too much

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labor All days in your life is a bust A name

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by a lover A change of the pen is a spin

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Just a night in his lift was a saint I'm sure

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that he did a whole lot of labor Plenty for the salmon baby machine

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So he can live and just pick your fingers up It's not a size

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and cause I'm getting cheaper You make me do too much labor Hey,

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wow, okay, I mean this is not wrong,

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I have absolutely felt this way I'm a therapist and then also being a therapist at home Therapist,

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mother, maid

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it's kind of encompassing how women women have to be all things

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so like a nymph at first then you also have to

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be a virgin nurse to take care of them um a

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servant i hate you know to be a baby machine to make everything it's just saying the physical

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and emotional sacrifice energy and pain and everything that we have to do

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that i don't think is realized and sometimes i think

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that women wonder like what am I doing all this for for the family

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if like he's or they're not going to appreciate it and

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if they just expect it or something like just very gross about

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that I mean this just speaks to an experience that

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so many women go through and have and I'm I'm sure

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that you know some men have gone through this too

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because I do know some men that um are single dads

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or just very involved wonderful dads that watch my channel

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and are very supportive and I I just want to send a lot of love to them

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and to all of the women out there who are doing it day after day.

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And I think that it's just really hard when it does,

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it does, it can feel for women as if they're taking on

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and doing so much more than their partner and that their partner doesn't actually see them and see what they're going through.

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I mean, I've completely gone through this.

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Completely.

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Okay.

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I feel like this might be controversial.

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Some of the things that I've said on this.

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So yeah, anyways.

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All right, this is good.

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This is really, really good.

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