Shadowing Practice: Why Chores for Kids Matter - Learn English Speaking with Video

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Shannon Otto is a full-time homemaker.
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All the same, keeping up with three-year-old Hannah Joy, five-year-old Joshua, and six-year-old Charles eats up the bulk of her spare time.
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And then there's the housekeeping.
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It takes a lot of effort and I think it's a lot easier
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if you do try to stay on top of it.
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I try to stay on top of it.
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Luckily for Shannon, her children are now old enough to help with the chores.
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They take care of their room, they put away their toys right after they played with them, they clean up the craft table,
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they take out the trash, put away their laundry.
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Of course as any pediatrician will tell you it's important that chores be appropriate to the age of the child.
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So small children small chores, big kids bigger chores.
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So with a small child when your cleaning house, they could do something that's appropriate for them like emptying the trash cans.
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I have to take it out of the trash can, I have to twist it up and put the twisty tie on it
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and then I walk to the front door with it and I open the door and I throw it out
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and then I put it right at the corner of the grass and that's where the trash man picks it up.
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And remember that no matter how simple the chore, a child will need to be taught how to do it properly.
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You can't just tell them because we assume that because we know how to do it, they know how to do it.
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So you want to show them the first time and then you don't want to expect perfection.
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The important thing is to start early and be consistent.
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You cannot wait until a child is 10 or 11 years old and say, oh, by the way, we all live here together.
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You have to help out.
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You want to let children know that chores are a part of living in a household,
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that it's not punishment, it's something that everyone has to pitch in and do.
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In fact, Shannon prefers not to use the word chore, if only because it makes a routine task sound unpleasant.
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And to her credit, the kids don't really differentiate between their housework and their play.
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I wear the pants, I take out the trash, and I make my bed.
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And I sit on the couch and read books.
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And Hannah Joy's favorite chore?
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I like baking my cookies and eating them.
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Of course, even the most cooperative child will sometimes shirk his duties.
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When Charles makes his bed, for instance...
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Sometimes I just push it under and don't do anything with the covers.
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Crafty kids aside, what happens if your child flat out refuses to complete his chores?
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Tell what the consequence is if it's not done, and then you keep the consequence.
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You don't nag, you don't plead, and you certainly don't do the chore if the child doesn't do it.
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Because what that teaches the child is, ha, if I just wait long enough, she'll come and do it herself because she'll get tired of it.
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Shannon Otto thinks that chores can, in a sense, be their own reward.
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I think it also teaches them a work ethic.
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So I think it's really good to teach them young so
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that they do take pride in what they do and do it to the best of their ability.

About This Lesson

In this lesson, learners will practice their English speaking and comprehension skills by engaging with the topic of household chores for children. The rich dialogue in the video emphasizes the importance of teaching kids responsibilities in a fun and relatable way. By learning to discuss this everyday activity, you will gain confidence in your ability to express opinions, ask questions, and share personal experiences related to chores and family life.

Key Vocabulary & Phrases

  • Chores - Routine tasks or duties, often related to household maintenance.
  • Appropriate - Suitable or proper in the circumstances.
  • Teach - To impart knowledge or skill to someone.
  • Consistent - Acting or done in the same way over time, especially to be fair or accurate.
  • Work ethic - A belief in the importance of hard work and diligence.
  • Reward - Something given in recognition of service, effort, or achievement.
  • Pride - A feeling of satisfaction derived from one's own achievements.
  • Refuse - To indicate or show that one is not willing to do something.

Practice Tips

To maximize your learning from this lesson, consider employing the shadowing technique, a method that allows you to improve your language skills through imitation. Start by listening closely to the video, paying attention to the tone, rhythm, and pronunciation of the speaker. Once you feel familiar with the content, begin to shadowspeak alongside the audio. This practice not only helps with pronunciation and fluency but also enables you to internalize the natural flow of English speech.

As you engage with the transcript, focus on particular phrases and vocabulary. For example, when discussing the term "work ethic," think about how this concept applies in your own life or cultural context. Use shadow speech to speak your thoughts out loud, practicing how to articulate them clearly and confidently. Remember, it’s important to be consistent; regular practice will improve your speaking abilities over time. Don’t hesitate to adjust your volume and pace as you practice, ensuring you're comfortable with the material.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.