Prática de Shadowing: Why Are Some Men Just So Attractive to Women? - Aprenda a falar inglês com vídeo

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The most f*ed part of dating is that girls only like you if you don't like them.
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There is some unfortunate truth to that because we've been told lies
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and I think so many guys you know this now
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when we were children and young teenagers we were told like the one big lie
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which is that as long as you're nice to girls they'll like you.
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Take an interest in her, act like a friend, you know become friends first.
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You were told all these little things and then you find out
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that she got cracked by a guy who didn't even know her second name.
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We were lied to if the conventional advice which is just a lie
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if it does work to get you any amount of attraction
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from a girl the problem is it leads to you know
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the standard marriage you see these days where the wife isn't
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even having sex with the husband anymore she's not genuinely actually
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into him maybe he gets like a hand job for his birthday
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if he's done the chores bro i can't think of a of a reality worse than
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that i'd rather just be fully fucking single go buy my
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fucking sex spot than being like a marriage where like your wife doesn't actually even want you the lie
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that we were told about women like just be nice bro it leads you down
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that path and that's probably one of the worst lifestyles you could possibly build
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so in today's video i want to break down what the science actually says about female desire
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because it's very interesting usually anything regarding science
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and research would be like bs politically correct woke whatever
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but some new studies have come out in the last few years
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that have actually been really red -pilled and have proved me
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so right like
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if you've watched me for a few years you'd be shocked at some of the newest studies
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because i was right all along so there was a very interesting study
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that wanted to find out women's preferences in men based on their cycle
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so women have like a 28 day cycle right the menstruation cycle they have their period
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and they have a very special part of this cycle
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when they are ovulating basically when they can get pregnant it turns out
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that the men that women prefer changes based on where they are in this cycle
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when they are not ovulating so
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when they cannot get pregnant women consistently prefer men with more
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feminine features softer features more kindness more empathy basically more of a good boy a nice guy
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but when women are ovulating when they can get pregnant
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they prefer more masculine dominant men who show more signs of aggression of challenge
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and less empathy now that's like a nice scientific way of basically saying
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when girls can get pregnant and they're at their most horny that's
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when they don't want the nice sweet guy that's
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when they want like the alpha male chad
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and the reason why they want him on a primal level they want his sperm
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and this study proves me right because for the last few years i've been saying so publicly
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that women always want two kinds of guys they want the
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hot fun alpha male masculine guy to just get pounded by
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but he's not going to stay around to be friends
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or to build a relationship because you know he's single
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and he can smash all the girls so then
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when she's not feeling as horny she wants like the string of beta males
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that she can just text
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and get some validation from you know the guys who act like her friend
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and this is so brutal because girls will only try
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and convince you to be like the beta male nice guy
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but secretly at 1am they're going to meet like the fucking masculine guy
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because they subconsciously believe he's got good sperm
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that they want inside of them and this has led to researchers finding a very interesting phenomenon all about birth control.
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Girls who are taking the pill
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when they are in a relationship with a guy have often chose a guy who's quite feminine and soft.
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Why?
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Because they can't get pregnant.
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Girls stop taking the pill because now it's quite public
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that it's actually really unhealthy for them and now they are not into their partners.
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So so many girls stop taking the pill
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and then end up breaking up with their boyfriend and finding that they're just not attracted to him.
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So we've covered like the science of female desire right
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so women want two kinds of guys they want the alpha male chad just for sex
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and they want the beta male nice guy for some like friendship
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and basically for his money we don't really want to be
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this guy we want to be this guy here's some like
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practical advice for you tip number one flirt don't conversate the mistake
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that most guys make who are the sort of nice guys
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and you know they're optimizing for friendship is
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that they start to conversate with a girl you've been told
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that you know you need to find out about her hobbies
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and take an interest in her you don't bro i'm telling
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you right now every girl who's above the age of like
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16 17 has been fucked by a guy who didn't even know anything about her he doesn't know
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if she's got siblings he doesn't even know her second name
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and i'm telling you this is the truth the guys who are more masculine instead of conversating with the girl
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and asking her like so you know how many hobbies you have
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and what's your favorite color
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but you know like instead of asking all these normal questions
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they just flirt flirting is basically where you're almost like indirectly talking about fucking
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so You're not going to go full Indian man mode.
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I want to have sex with your boobs.
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You don't go like full like that.
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But you kind of with plausible deniability, you know, you like basically you'll keep giving her compliments.
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You'll look at her body like you are so sexy.
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Come here.
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Come here.
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Oh, man.
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Boom like this.
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You know, like like you basically are still talking to her, but it's not about an exchange of information.
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The goal is not to get to know her, but rather to just turn her on.
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So I'm going to give you a little tip right now, bro.
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You have to just risk it.
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You have to risk some girls are going to see you as like a bit of a creep.
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Some girls are going to be a bit like uncomfortable by you.
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And I'm not saying to make someone uncomfortable, but for your journey into becoming a man and, you know, like sort of harnessing your sexual energy again,
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there is going to be some times where you'll try and escalate with a girl and she'll look visibly uncomfortable.
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There's going to be some times, right?
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You're not a terrible person for this, especially if you see that
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and you're like oh oh like oh are you uncomfortable okay we can just stop here you know
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if you just still act like a decent human being
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but the thing is you have to almost like risk it
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and try to be sexual with a girl
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and you go more for physical you go more for the
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kiss you can talk a lot less on a date with
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a girl than you realize i'm telling you the guys who fuck
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if we could like transcribe how many words an alpha male like a masculine guy who fucks
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or a beta male a guy who doesn't fuck has said
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on a date i guarantee the beta male will say like 2 000 words
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and the alpha male will say like 400
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so i'll give you a tip when it comes to talking with girls
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and you don't just want to conversate and be friends
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and you want to be seen as like the sexual option
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do what i call doing ad libs you know how in a rap song there's like the main rapper
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and his friend will come in
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and go like yeah yeah 21 you know like they'll just say something random like
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that do that but with the girl
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so let the girl yap about yeah yeah and then my boyfriend
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and you know so i had i was had a situation with you know just let her yap
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and be like oh yeah really wait what happened then like you just let her yap
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and you just go with a little like oh yeah that's crazy seriously wait
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so what about
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that okay oh wow i didn't realize this that's crazy you're
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very interesting once she said a sentence you basically say yeah
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and so she says like oh well you know and
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and i just hate it because you know dating so hard
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and you know no one wants to be serious
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and you go like yeah
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and everyone's just trying to use me for my body am i right you know you say something stupid like
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that she's laughing no you know and then you say like
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so when was the last time you were dating a guy you know you say something like
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that and then she well i was dating a guy
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and then his his two friends came over
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and then they all had a three and then my boyfriend
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and you know so i had oh yeah that's crazy thanks for telling me this yeah oh look you go girl
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along with this i swear this sounds cringe
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but i swear to god it's gonna help you to get like laid way more use your deep sexy voice
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when you're on a date with a girl don't talk like i'm talking
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and i'm like talking to the boys right now i'm not
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trying to make my voice purposefully deep it is like 1
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or 2 a .m so my voice is you know it's like a morning voice
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but i'm not like trying to be sexy to you right now right
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but when you're on a date with a girl change the way
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that you talk trust me when i say people online will say
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that this is cringe or whatever but trust me the percentage chance
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that you end up fucking her will probably double
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if you just do this tip in fact one day i
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went to the sauna with with one of my friends in the gym
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and there was like a hot girl in the corner right
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so i was speaking to him we sit down
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and i speak to i get a number whatever me
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and my friend we left the sauna afterwards and he started laughing
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and he was like you've got a voice that you use with girls
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and i laughed because i knew what he was on about
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and he said like like he was imitating me
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and he was like yeah yo bro
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that leg day was right excuse me like you you you
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want to put in a bit of effort to be sexier with girls one of the biggest lies
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that are told to guys is
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that you should just be like completely afk automatic with your behavior with girls
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which is good if you're already like a fucking chad masculine sexy guy that's really good
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but if you're becoming that guy you need to do things
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that feel a little bit unnatural and even forced up until they get integrated
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and become who you are so
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when i see a girl i don't purposefully think like use the deep voice
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or anything you know i'm batman i'm gotham's record i don't like purposefully try
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and make my voice deep now now i actually just do it automatically it's just the voice
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that i use around especially new girls as well after a while
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when the girl likes you you start to like you know
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just become more natural she's over at your place all the time whatever
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so you become more natural but still
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when you're trying to make her like extra wet turn on
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the deep sexy voice look i'll talk to you like this
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if we were friends we're sat in the same room but
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if a girl came next to me i'd switch from talking
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like this to you to like excuse me what is your
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ah sarah where are you from i didn't know they had girls this pretty from amsterdam
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yeah what are you doing later well i was gonna get lunch with my friend
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but then after
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that i'm free we should get to know each other you
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see like like it sounds a bit cringe oh you're using your deep alpha male voice
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but i just promise don't tell anyone you're gonna do this
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because they'll make fun of you but i promise i wouldn't say this
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if it wasn't true right like
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because i want you to get good results i promise it'll like double the chance
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that you end up fucking the girl just changing your voice making it deeper
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and also making it slower
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and the final tip in terms of voice as well is
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do what a friend taught me years ago he called it
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down talking where he said place a special emphasis on the last word of the sentence
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and particularly make that one deeper because mostly whenever you're talking to someone the last word You'll often make higher, see how I said it there,
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higher, which is almost seeking approval, higher.
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See, it's going high at the end of every sentence.
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But when you make the last word of a sentence lower,
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suddenly the person who you're talking to locks in and it's almost like you're 10 times more captivating and sexy.
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Now, the second tip, if you want to be like the masculine guy who girls actually desire, well, you want to look like the biggest fuckboy version of you possible.
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So what does the fuckboy version of you look like?
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The number one thing I promise you is so true, as much muscle mass as possible.
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You know how you've seen those videos where the guys bring like a picture to a girl and they say like, which physique is the best?
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And they say like, oh, well, I don't want him to be too muscular.
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You know, I just want him to like, look like number two or some shit.
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And he's like, not even that jacked or anything.
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I promise you that's not completely true.
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Again, it goes to that, you know, the varying preferences of women based on their cycle.
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When women are not currently ovulating and when they're not currently very horny They want a guy who just seems like, you know, maybe a bit soft.
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He's kind of in shape, whatever But when girls are horny, i'm telling you they want the guy with the fucking six
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-pack They want the guy with the fucking muscles the thick
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neck as much muscle as possible I'm telling you people used to think
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that after about two to three years in the gym You'd hit diminishing returns
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and maybe you'll get too big or something I promise you
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when it comes to girls who just want to get pounded
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by you You can get way more muscle than you realize And you see how I'm sat here.
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I don't have a pump.
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I'm not trying to look massive or anything Maybe I look good.
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Maybe I don't I mean i'm kind of like sat down I'm, not trying to look particularly amazing right now, right?
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The pictures that you take in the gym You often will look way bigger, right?
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I'll show you some of the pictures where I look like a fucking full -on like meathead bodybuilder
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So what i'm saying is I want you to get
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so big and muscular that your pictures in the gym You literally look too big
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and then in real life and in some more sexy pictures where you're not like fully You know, like pumped up or whatever you'll actually look the right amount
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and if you're natural if you're not going to take steroids or testosterone
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or anything i promise you're never going to hit a point
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where you've gained too much muscle you can build as much
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as possible next is your face right what should your face look like
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if you want to look like a fuck boy there's something i want you to try
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if you've never tried already it's this facial hair style it's the mustache
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and the chin combo i swear to god this is like
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the official fuck boy look the guys who have this look
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girls find the most attractive i promise this kind of look
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where they basically they've got some kind of facial hair
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but it's not like a full beard it's not like the standard even stubble
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or anything it's this particular style i swear to god i see this time
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and time again of all the guys who have this bro they they all are
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so attractive to girls
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and of all the girls i've been with a lot of girls have told me
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when i used to have this style they found me like
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most sexually attractive right now i'm just going for like a clean look just for my own sort of self
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because it's been a while since i've been lean
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so i just want to see my own face and stuff
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but this look i promise will get you more girls
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if you can't grow the beard
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or something right now you can consider taking the you know the minoxidil
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or whatever the fuck I can't teach you about
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that I've never taken it but you could maybe consider that
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if you want and if you can't grow it at all
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and you've got this scraggly disgusting facial hair just shave it
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all then just go clean shaven another tip of looking like
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a fuck boy tattoos now don't just get tattoos just you know to like try
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and get girls or something but
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if you have tattoos you will look way more like the
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short -term mating option for girls you would just 100 % will imagine the version of you
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that has tattoos like up to the neckline there like the jawline
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and up down to the fingers you'll automatically fuck more
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if you had that don't just do it just
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because you know I'm telling you in this video
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because it's a lifelong commitment or something but just bear
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that in mind like
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that direction is going to make you fuck more you want to know the most important part of all this
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if you want to actually use this practically it's not what
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you look like it's how you behave i will die on this hill telling you
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that how you behave with girls is the single most important
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factor in actually fucking girls then your looks your money your status anything it's just your behavior with girls
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and so there's a big question i want to ask you how do you think the short -term mating guy, the alpha male, the masculine guy who fucks,
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how do you think he behaves with girls as opposed to the feminine, soft, nice guy?
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The beta male is happy with her just replying back to him.
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The alpha male is inviting her to come over as fast as possible
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and that places you in the category where girls would think, okay, this guy wants to fuck me.
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That's something I want you to just risk from now on.
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When you want to smash a girl, invite her to something in person as fast as possible.
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Don't get into a long talking stage thinking that you've got to like warm up to it.
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How do I ask?
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You know, there's this girl, I got her number or there's this girl from my school.
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No, no, no. Just as soon as possible, send her the text.
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Like, you know, maybe you send her a bit of an intro.
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Oh, hey, Tamza, you know, you got her number yesterday or something, whatever.
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And you just say something like, hey, I'm going to go and do this tomorrow at 6 p .m.
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Come join me.
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I'm going to go and, you know, eat dinner tomorrow.
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I'm going to go and watch a movie tomorrow.
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I'm going to go and go for a walk through the park, whatever, come join me.
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That will instantly place you in more of the alpha male category in the woman's eyes.
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And the thing is, she might say no, but when she's hornier, she might go and text you then.
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I promise this is the single way.. for you to fuck more girls
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and also end up getting into a relationship with girls if that's what you want as well.
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It's to just shoot your shot.
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Don't just try and get her number.
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Don't just try and text her, but actually invite her to come and do something where you can physically escalate.
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That will instantly, like significantly increase your chances of actually meeting her, physically escalating and actually getting your dick sucked and smashing her.
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And then also, let's say you meet in person.
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Let's say you actually like her, you want a relationship.
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Well, that's how the relationship is actually built.
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Instead of being one of the guys who's just texting her, you're actually the guy of significance
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that she goes to meet in person the science of female desire shows us
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that women want two kinds of guys be the guy who
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actually gets something good from girls don't be the guy who just texts her
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and she's texting you after she gets smashed by someone that's
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disgusting bro never ever be like the beta male who's got
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a long talking streak with her ever again nothing matters other than presenting yourself as the guy
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that she actually desires if you just do
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that she will meet you in person you can have sex with her you can actually bond with her
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and then you can decide if you want something longer term
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but if you have both if you are the hot fuck boy
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but you're sweet at the same time bro you will own
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her heart she will be obsessed with you until you get comfortable
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and if you want my help with this
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and you want to join a massive group chat of 2
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Vocabulário e dicas de fala para esta lição

Este vídeo tem 311 frases e 3838 palavras para praticar shadowing. A fala dura 16:14. O falante fala rápido, cerca de 236 palavras por minuto, então espere sons ligados e reduzidos. 88% das palavras estão entre as 3.000 mais comuns do inglês, por isso o vocabulário é fácil de acompanhar.

Vocabulário principal deste vídeo

15 palavras do vídeo que vale a pena aprender, com pronúncia e significado:

PalavraPronúnciaSignificado
alpha substantivo/ˈæl.fə/alfa
sexy adjetivo/ˈsɛksi/sexy, sensual
masculine adjetivo/ˈmæskjələn/macho
beta substantivo/ˈbeɪtə/beta
muscle substantivo/ˈmʌs.əl/músculo
horny adjetivo/ˈhoɹni/caloso, calejado
uncomfortable adjetivo/ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/desconfortável, incómodo
tattoo substantivo/tæˈtuː/tatuagem
smash verbo/smæʃ/destroçar, esmagar
pill substantivo/pɪl/comprimido, pílula
invite verbo/ɪnˈvaɪt/convidar
facial adjetivo/ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/facial
behave verbo/bɪˈheɪv/comportar-se
feminine adjetivo/ˈfɛmɪnɪn/feminino
friendship substantivo/ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/amizade

Phrasal verbs que você vai ouvir

PalavraSignificado
end up verboterminar, acabar
find out verbodescobrir
sit down verbosentar-se
turn out verboterminar

Gramática neste vídeo

As estruturas que o falante mais usa, com as palavras exatas do vídeo:

EstruturaNo vídeo
Frases condicionais if + oração, will/would + verbo — uma condição e seu resultadoif you have tattoos you will look
“Used to” used to + verbo — um hábito ou estado do passado que não é mais verdadeused to think · used to have
Present perfect have/has + particípio passado — uma ação passada que ainda importa agorawe've been told · have come · have actually been
Voz passiva be + particípio passado — o foco está no que acontece, não em quem fazwe've been told · were told · be shocked

Pronúncia para ficar de olho

O falante usa 127 contrações e formas reduzidas, como I'm, you're, don't. Diga-as na forma curta, do jeito que você ouve.

  • Os sons de “th”: empathy /ˈɛmpəθi/, thick /θɪk/, unhealthy /ʌnˈhɛl.θi/
  • Os sons de “sh” e “zh”: smash /smæʃ/, facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, shave /ˈʃeɪ̯v/, shock /ʃɔk/
  • Palavras longas — acerte a sílaba tônica: uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, automatic /ˌɔː.təˈmæt.ɪk/, consistently /kənˈsɪstəntli/, practically /ˈpɹæk.tɪ.k(ə.)li/, significance /sɪɡˈnɪfɪkəns/

Como praticar com este vídeo

  1. Ouça o vídeo inteiro uma vez sem falar e anote as palavras que você não conhece.
  2. Comece na velocidade 0,75×, faça shadowing frase por frase e volte à velocidade normal quando ficar fácil.
  3. Grave a sua voz e compare com o original, prestando atenção a palavras como alpha, sexy, masculine.

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