शैडोइंग अभ्यास: Don’t Waste Your Time! 🛑 English Podcast for Easy Conversation in Daily Life - वीडियो के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें

Hey, everyone.

Welcome back to English Podcast for You, your absolute favorite spot to pick up real, everyday English without hitting the dry textbooks.

I'm Tom.

And I'm Emma.

Welcome back, everyone.

This is the place where we ditch those exhausting grammar charts

and just dive straight into how people actually talk in real life.

Exactly.

Because let's be honest, no one uses textbook sentences when they're grabbing a coffee or hanging out with friends.

We want you to learn the language that connects people.

It really is shifting daily, too.

Language is constantly moving, so we're here to help you keep up, practice your listening, and feel completely confident.

Huh. So, Emma?

How has your week been?

You look like you've been running a marathon.

Oh, don't even ask, Tom.

I stayed up way too late scrolling through video clips online last night, and waking up this morning was, oh, an absolute battle.

Ah, the classic midnight scroll.

So you were falling into a bit of a time trap, huh?

Just a tiny one.

Okay, maybe a huge one.

But honestly, the moment we sit down to chat with our listeners here, all that tiredness just completely disappears.

Same here.

It's genuinely the best part of my day, just hanging out together in this space.

Oh, absolutely.

It feels like we're all just sitting around a huge, comfortable living room, having a massive group chat.

All right, casual talk out of the way.

Let's jump right into what we're tackling today, before we accidentally waste any more of our listeners' morning.

Yes, let's do it.

Because today we are talking about a massive topic that hits home for all of us.

how to stop wasting your precious time and actually start living it.

Time is life.

I read that phrase somewhere recently, and it stuck with me.

If we waste our hours, we are essentially throwing away little pieces of our lives.

It sounds heavy, but it's true.

It does sound a bit heavy, but don't worry, guys.

We aren't here to make you feel guilty.

We're going to break this down, share some embarrassing stories of our own, and give you practical ways to protect your day.

But before we dive into our first big point, we have a quick favor to ask.

If you love spending time with us every week, take two seconds to hit that subscribe button, leave a review, or share this episode with a friend.

Especially that one friend who always says, I really want to practice my English, but I just don't have the time.

And then you see them posting on social media for three hours straight.

Hey, don't attack our listeners' friends like that, Tom.

But yeah, send it to them.

Or keep it for yourself.

Let's get into it.

So, Tom, let me ask you a basic question.

When we say wasting time, what does that actually mean to you?

Because resting isn't wasting time, right?

Exactly.

That is a huge distinction we need to make right away.

Wasting time isn't about doing nothing.

Sometimes, doing nothing is exactly what your brain needs to recover.

To me, wasting time means spending your energy on things that don't give you anything back.

No joy, no learning, no rest.

Just empty scrolling or worrying.

Spot on.

I like to picture time like a fully charged phone battery at the start of the day.

Every activity plugs into that battery.

If you spend an hour reading a great book or talking to a friend, you're using battery, but it feels rewarding.

But if you spend an hour reading angry arguments in an online comment section… Ugh, the worst.

Right?

Your battery drains to zero, and you're left feeling tired, annoyed, and empty.

You didn't gain anything.

That is what I call a time thief.

Time thief.

Wow, I love that expression.

It really feels like someone sneaks into your room and steals an hour of your life without you noticing.

Exactly!

And the worst part is, we invite the thief in.

We unlock the door, sit them down on the couch, and hand them our attention.

That's so true.

I had a major realization last month.

I told myself I was going to sit down and study a new language for just 15 minutes.

I sat at my desk, picked up my phone to check the time, saw a notification, and boom.

One hour later, I was watching a video about how deep the ocean is.

Wait, how deep is the ocean, though?

Don't distract me, Emma.

See, that's how it happens.

But seriously, when I finally locked my phone, I felt terrible.

I didn't learn my target language, and I didn't even enjoy the ocean video because I felt guilty the whole time.

I think everyone listening right now is nodding their head because we all experience that exact feeling.

It's a mix of regret and fatigue.

Your brain feels foggy.

Yes, and that fogginess is a sign.

It's your mind telling you, hey, we just spent resources on something completely useless.

So how do we stop the thieves?

How do we protect our focus, especially when we are trying to learn something like English?

Well, I think it starts with being incredibly specific specific about what you want to do.

If you just say, today I will practice English, that plan is way too vague.

Ooh, vague.

That's a fantastic vocabulary word.

Let's pause on that for our learners.

Vague means not clear, not specific, like a cloudy window.

Yes, a vague plan is a time thief's favorite target.

If you don't know exactly what you're doing, your brain gets lazy and looks for the easiest escape route, which is usually social media.

Okay, so if a vague plan is dangerous, what's the fix?

How do we build a solid wall against these distractions?

You create what I like to call micro plans.

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Instead of saying, I'm going to study English for an hour today, which sounds exhausting and intimidating,

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you say, I am going to listen to five minutes of Tom and Emma's podcast while I make my morning coffee.

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That's it.

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Oh, wow.

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Five minutes.

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That feels so achievable that you can't really find an excuse to skip it.

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Exactly.

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It's all about lower psychological resistance.

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If the goal is tiny, your brain doesn't fight you on it.

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And here's the secret.

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Once you start, you usually keep going for longer anyway.

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But the promise to yourself was just five minutes.

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I love that.

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It's like tricking your own mind into being productive.

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It completely works.

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And that brings me to another concept I live by, utilizing your pocket time.

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Pocket time?

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Like time you keep in your jeans?

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Sort of.

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Think of your day as a collection of coins.

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You have some big one-hour coins, sure.

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But throughout the day, you drop these tiny two-minute, five-minute, and ten-minute coins into your pockets without realizing it.

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Ah, like when you're standing in line at the grocery store, or waiting for the elevator, or sitting on the bus.

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Exactly.

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Those are your pocket times.

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Most people pull out their phone and mindlessly refresh their apps during those gaps.

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They throw those small coins in the trash.

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But if you gather those coins, you can build something massive.

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That makes total sense.

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If you review just three new English vocabulary words

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while waiting for your toast to brown or read four lines of an English article while waiting for a friend, those minutes add up over a month.

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They really do.

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I actually have a close friend, Sarah, who completely changed her career using this exact method.

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She had a demanding job and two young kids.

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She literally had zero hours of free time at home.

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Wow, that sounds incredibly intense.

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How did she manage to learn anything?

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She told me, Emma, I don't have blocks of time, but I have a million little cracks in my day.

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So she put English audiobooks on while driving.

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She reviewed vocabulary flashcards while waiting for her kids at the school gate.

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Within six months, her English fluency skyrocketed.

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Oh, that is incredibly inspiring.

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She didn't find time.

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She just stopped throwing away her pocket time.

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Exactly.

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It's about intentionality.

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Being deliberate with the small spaces we are given.

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You know, Emma, listening to Sarah's story makes me think about another reason people waste time instead of practicing.

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Sometimes studying feels like a punishment.

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And human nature dictates that we run away from things that feel painful.

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Absolutely.

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If your memory of learning English is sitting in a cold classroom memorizing grammar rules while someone corrects your pronunciation aggressively,

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your brain is going to treat English like a threat.

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Right.

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It goes into survival mode.

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Quick, open TikTok.

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Protect yourself from the past tense.

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Precisely.

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So to stop wasting time avoiding the language, we have to make the language an enjoyable place to hang out.

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We have to gamify it or tie it to things we already genuinely love.

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Yes.

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I always tell people to find their hook.

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If you love cooking, don't read political essays in English.

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Read recipes.

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Watch English cooking shows where chefs are yelling and dropping plates.

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Connect the language to your existing passion.

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Oh, I did that when I was learning my second language.

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I became absolutely obsessed with this dramatic reality TV show.

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It was trashy, it was silly, but it was entirely in my target language.

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I couldn't wait to watch it every night.

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I wasn't studying.

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I was just trying to find out who stole whose boyfriend.

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See, drama is an excellent teacher.

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But notice what happened there.

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You weren't forcing yourself to sit down and work.

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You were pulling yourself towards something fun.

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Exactly.

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And because I was enjoying it, the hours flew by.

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But it wasn't wasted time.

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I was absorbing slang, rhythm, emotion, and culture.

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This is why we created English Podcast for you, honestly.

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We wanted to create a space that feels like a conversation with friends, not a lecture from a professor.

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If you're laughing or smiling while listening to us, your brain opens up.

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It retains information so much better when stress levels are low.

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It really does.

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Stress closes the door to memory.

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So, rule number three for our listeners.

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Stop torturing yourself with materials that bore you to tears.

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Find your favorite movies, your favorite music, your favorite podcasts, and let yourself play with the language.

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Well said.

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Play, don't punish.

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Wow, we have covered a lot of ground today, Tom.

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Before we give our listeners their final challenge for the day, should we do a quick vocabulary tour of some of the great words we used?

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Let's do it.

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A quick vocabulary refresher is perfect for locking these concepts into long-term memory.

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Awesome.

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First up, we used the word vague.

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Remember, guys, if a plan is vague, it means it's unclear or lacks details.

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For example, I will be better at English is a vague goal.

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I will listen to this podcast episode today is a clear goal.

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Perfect.

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Next, we talked about a time thief.

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This isn't a real person who steals your wallet.

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But it's an activity or distraction that consumes your precious hours without giving you any real value or joy in return.

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Mindless social media scrolling is the ultimate time thief.

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Absolutely.

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Then we introduced pocket time.

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These are the small, hidden gaps of free time scattered throughout your regular day, like waiting for a bus or standing in a queue.

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We also mentioned the word intentional.

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Being intentional means doing something deliberately, on purpose, with a clear reason.

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If you are intentional with your day, you control your time instead of letting your time control you.

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And finally, we talked about resistance.

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Psychological resistance is that heavy, lazy feeling you get when a task looks too big or too difficult to start.

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We defeat resistance by making our goals micro-sized.

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Brilliant summary, Emma.

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Now let's wrap this up with an actionable, real-world step for everyone listening to us right now.

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We don't want you to just close this audio and forget about it.

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Right.

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We want action.

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So here is your challenge for the next 24 hours.

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Step one, identify one major time thief in your life today.

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Is it an app?

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Is it a website?

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Name it.

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Step two, find one block of pocket time in your schedule tomorrow.

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Maybe it's your morning commute or while you're waiting for your lunch to heat up.

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Dedicate just five minutes of that specific pocket time to English.

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Listen to a clip, read a paragraph, or speak out loud to yourself.

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And step three, leave a comment below telling us what your time thief is

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and how you're going to use your pocket time to beat it.

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When you write it down, it becomes real.

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Plus, your comment might inspire someone else in our global community.

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We read every single comment, guys.

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Seeing your progress and your determination is exactly what keeps our batteries charged.

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Oh, absolutely.

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It's the absolute best fuel for us.

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You guys are doing an amazing job.

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Just remember, you don't need to be perfect.

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You don't need to study for four hours a day.

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You just need to be a little bit intentional, day by day.

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Your time is your life.

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Don't hand it over to the thieves.

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You didn't waste the last 10 minutes.

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You invested them completely in yourself and your future.

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And for that, we are incredibly proud of you.

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Thank you for hanging out with us in our virtual living room today on English Podcast for you.

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Until next time, protect your pocket time, stay consistent, and be incredibly kind to yourself.

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Bye, everyone.

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Take care of yourselves.

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Bye-bye.

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See you in the next episode.

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