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Hello everyone and welcome back to Mr English Channel, where learning English is easy and fun.
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I'm Emily.
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Hello Emily.
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Hi everyone.
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It's so great to be here with you all today.
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We have a really fun topic today.
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We are talking about the words we actually use every single day in real life.
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Yeah, not the big fancy vocabulary words from textbooks, but the small words that hold our conversations together.
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Exactly.
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And we're starting with the ultimate multi-tool of the English language, the word get.
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Oh yeah, if you master get, you sound so much more natural.
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It replaces so many formal verbs.
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Let's think about how we use it.
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When you understand something, you don't usually say, I understand.
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You say, I get it.
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Right.
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Or if you receive an email, you wouldn't say, I received your message.
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You just say, I got your email.
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It's so much faster and more relaxed.
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We also use it for arriving somewhere, like, what time did you get home last night?
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Not what time did you arrive at your residence.
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That sounds like a police officer asking questions.
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Totally.
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Get is just comfortable.
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It makes you sound like a friend.
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And don't forget using get for buying or fetching things.
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Oh, that's a great one.
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Like I need to get some milk at the store.
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Or can you get me a coffee while you're out?
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It completely replaces words like purchase, buy, fetch, or obtain.
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It's incredibly versatile.
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Are there any common mistakes students make with get?
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Sometimes they try to force it where it doesn't belong.
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But a good rule is use it mostly for receiving, understanding, buying, and arriving.
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That makes it simple.
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Okay, so what about the little words we use to start our sentences, like so and well?
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Ah, the conversational glue.
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Real life isn't like a movie script.
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We don't always know exactly what we are going to say next.
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And that's why we use so or well.
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It gives your brain a little extra second to think.
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Yes.
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If someone asks me a difficult question, I might just say, well, let me think about that.
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Or if you want to start a brand new topic, you use so.
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Like, so, what are you doing this weekend?
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Exactly.
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It's much softer than just demanding, what are you doing this weekend?
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It acts like a little bridge into the conversation.
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Without it, you can sound a bit too direct or aggressive.
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Which brings us perfectly to our next words, actually and honestly.
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These are so important for polite disagreements.
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Because we don't always agree, right?
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But we want to stay friendly while we argue.
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Exactly.
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Let's do a quick role play.
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Paul, tell me you loved that new superhero movie we saw.
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Oh, I thought that new movie was amazing.
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The action was incredible.
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Now, if I didn't like it, I shouldn't just say, No, it was terrible.
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That's too harsh.
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Instead, I can say, Actually, I thought it was a little boring.
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Ah, that actually softens the blow.
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It tells me I have a different opinion, but I'm not fighting with you.
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Right.
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And honestly works the exact same way.
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Honestly, it wasn't my favorite.
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It's like you're sharing a small secret.
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It builds trust instead of causing an argument.
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It's such a helpful trick.
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Speaking of helpful, let's talk about how we show we are actively listening to someone.
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Oh, active listening.
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This is huge in American English.
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We never just sit in total silence when someone is talking to us.
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No, we constantly use little words to agree.
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Words like right, exactly, and totally.
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Let's show them how it sounds.
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Emily, tell me a short story about your morning.
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Okay.
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So, I woke up late today because my alarm didn't go off.
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Right.
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And I had to run to catch the bus, but it was pouring rain.
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Oh no!
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And when I finally got on the bus, I realized I forgot my umbrella.
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Totally.
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I hate when that happens.
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See?
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Those little words let me know you are engaged.
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If you were completely quiet, I would think you weren't paying attention at all.
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Or that my video froze on a Zoom call.
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You have to give that verbal feedback.
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And exactly is perfect for when someone says something you strongly agree with.
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If I say, English spelling is so confusing sometimes.
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Exactly.
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It really is.
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It validates the other person's feelings instantly.
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You know, this is a great time to remind everyone watching to be part of our conversation, too.
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Yes!
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If you're enjoying this episode and learning some new everyday words, please hit that subscribe button.
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And give this video a like.
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Leave us a comment down below and tell us which of these words you use the most in your daily life.
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We read all your comments and they really help the channel grow, so thank you so much.
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Now, let's move on to some words that get a bad reputation.
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The notorious fillers like and just.
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Oh boy, people love to complain about the word like.
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They really do, because native speakers use it constantly, even when it doesn't mean anything specific.
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It's another thinking word.
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I was, like, really tired yesterday.
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It shouldn't be overused in formal writing or a job interview, but in casual conversation, it's everywhere.
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It's part of the natural rhythm of American English, but I think just is even more useful for learners.
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Why is that?
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Because just makes things sound smaller and therefore much more polite.
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Oh, I get it.
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If I need a favor, I wouldn't say, I need one minute of your time.
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I would say, I just need one minute of your time.
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Exactly.
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It removes the pressure.
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I just wanted to check in.
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I'm just looking.
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If you're in a store and a salesperson asks to help you, I'm just looking is the perfect polite escape.
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It really is.
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It softens the boundary.
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We also use it in that great phrase, just in case.
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Oh, I love that one.
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I brought an umbrella just in case.
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It means you are preparing for a possibility without making a big deal out of it.
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So, just is a very powerful word to keep in your daily vocabulary.
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But what happens when we want to change the topic completely, or escape a long conversation?
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That's when we use our magic transition word, anyway.
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Anyway is so useful.
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It's the polite way to say, let's move on.
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Like if we get completely distracted talking about our favorite movies and we need to get back to teaching English.
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I can just say, anyway, let's look at the next vocabulary word.
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And it doesn't sound rude at all.
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It just resets the conversation back to where it should be.
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It's also great for ending a conversation when you need to leave.
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Yes.
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If you bump into a friend at the supermarket and talk for a few minutes, you can't just walk away in silence.
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You say, It signals that the interaction is wrapping up, smoothly and naturally.
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Are there any other ways to use it?
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Sometimes I hear people use it to summarize a long, rambling story.
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Oh, for sure.
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If you're telling a story that goes a bit off track, you can say, anyway, the point is, and just jump right to the conclusion.
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It's like a rescue word when you realize you've been talking way too much.
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Exactly.
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It saves you from an awkward moment and keeps things moving.
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I think a lot of these words just give us safety and comfort when we're speaking.
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You are so right about that comfort factor.
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And that actually brings up two more small phrases that do exactly that.
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I mean, and you know.
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You know is a classic.
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Native speakers use it constantly to ask for empathy or connection.
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Yes.
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It's not really a question about knowledge.
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When I say, it's been a really long week, you know, I am checking to see if you feel the same way.
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I do that all the time.
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It's like a little hook to pull the listener into my feelings.
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Exactly.
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And, I mean, works in a similar way, but we use it to clarify our thoughts or correct ourselves in real time.
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It is the best rescue phrase.
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If you say something slightly wrong, you don't need to stop and apologize.
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You just use I mean.
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Let's say I am invited to a party.
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I might say, I want to go.
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I mean, I am a little tired, but I still want to go.
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It sounds so much better than stopping, pausing awkwardly, and starting a brand new sentence from scratch.
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And that is a huge mistake I see language learners make.
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They try to be completely perfect before they open their mouths.
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We are definitely not perfect when we speak.
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We change our minds mid-sentence all the time.
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We really do.
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We stumble, we hesitate, and we backtrack.
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That's exactly why we need these flexible little words.
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I think it would be really helpful to do a quick role play.
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Let's show everyone how a real conversation mixes all these words together naturally.
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Oh, I love that idea.
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Let's pretend we are making plans for the weekend, but we We keep changing our minds.
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Sounds perfect.
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I'll start us off.
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So are we still going to the park on Saturday afternoon?
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Well, actually, I was just looking at the weather forecast.
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It's supposed to rain all day.
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Oh, right.
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I completely forgot about that.
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I mean, we could still go if we just bring big umbrellas, but it might be kind of miserable.
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Totally.
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Honestly, I would rather just stay inside and watch a movie instead.
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Yeah, exactly.
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Anyway, we can figure out the exact movie later this week. And scene.
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See how naturally that flowed?
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We used almost every single word on our list in less than a minute.
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And it didn't sound scripted or like a textbook at all.
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It just sounded like two friends working out a problem.
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One thing I notice with my students is they feel guilty using these filler words.
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Have you noticed that, Emily?
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Yes, all the time.
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They think it makes them sound uneducated or like they don't know enough advanced vocabulary.
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But it's actually the complete opposite.
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Using words like just, well, and anyway correctly shows very advanced social skills.
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It really does.
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It shows you understand the underlying rhythm of English.
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You aren't just reciting vocabulary.
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How can they practice this?
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Because it is really hard to memorize spontaneity.
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My best advice is to stop translating directly from your native language in your head.
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That is so important.
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If you translate word for word, you will never find these small cultural words.
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Right.
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In your language, you might have a very formal, specific phrase for transitioning between topics.
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But in English, we just throw in anyway.
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So my advice is to start very small.
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Pick just one word to focus on this week.
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Let's say, just.
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Great choice.
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Try to add just to your daily requests to soften them.
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I just need a quick coffee.
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I just wanted to ask you a question.
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Once that feels normal and comfortable, add another one.
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Start answering exactly or totally when you agree with a co-worker.
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You will be amazed at how quickly native speakers relax around you when you start doing this.
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Because you are speaking their melody.
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You aren't just using their words, you are matching their conversational vibe.
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Speaking of co-workers, let's talk about the workplace for a second.
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Can we use all of these words at the office?
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That's a great question, because honestly, I feel like like sounds a bit unprofessional in a business setting.
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Oh, that is a fantastic point.
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No, I would absolutely avoid using like as a filler word in a formal meeting or a job interview.
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Right.
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It can make you sound a bit unsure of yourself if you use it too much in front of your boss.
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But the others… actually, just, well, and right?
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They are completely crucial for office diplomacy.
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You definitely can't just tell a client or a manager that their idea is terrible.
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You need to soften it.
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No, please don't do that.
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That's exactly where actually and well come to the rescue.
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Well, actually, I was thinking we could try a slightly different approach for this project.
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It sounds so professional, but also very gentle.
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You aren't attacking anyone's intelligence.
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And if a colleague is explaining a complicated new software system to you, you have to use right and exactly to show you are following along.
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If you sit silently staring at them while they explain something, people might think you are confused, or worse, angry.
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I've actually had that happen.
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I was just thinking deeply about a problem, and my co-workers stopped and asked, are you upset with me?
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Because you weren't giving them the verbal clues.
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You weren't giving them the yeahs and the totallys that tell them everything is fine.
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It is fascinating how much heavy lifting these tiny words do for our relationships and our careers.
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They really are the glue.
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And another great workplace trick is using I mean when you need to give constructive criticism.
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Give me an example of how you would use it for feedback.
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Instead of saying, this financial report is way too long, you could say, I mean,
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the data is great, but maybe we could just shorten the introduction?
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Ah, that frames it as a helpful suggestion rather than a harsh fact.
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It gives the other person space to agree with you without feeling defensive.
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Exactly.
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And that is really the secret here.
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Nobody likes to feel defensive or attacked.
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These everyday words protect the relationship.
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It's so true.
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We spend so much time studying big vocabulary lists.
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But relationships are built on these tiny little bridges.
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I love how you phrase that.
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A tiny little bridge.
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When you say totally or I mean, you are building a bridge to the other person.
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And it proves that speaking English isn't just about exchanging data, it's about emotional connection.
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Right.
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If you just wanted to exchange data, you could talk to a robot.
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But we are humans, speaking to humans.
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Well, sometimes my teenagers communicate like robots when I ask them to clean their rooms.
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Just cold, one-word answers.
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Oh, I know that feeling.
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But it actually reminds me of an advanced student I had a few years ago.
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He was a brilliant software engineer.
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Okay, what was his struggle?
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His grammar was absolutely flawless.
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Perfect verb tenses, huge technical vocabulary.
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But he sounded so cold and robotic at work.
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Oh, I can picture that.
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It can make people seem very unapproachable, even if they don't mean to be.
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Exactly.
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His coworkers thought he was arrogant, but he wasn't at all.
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He was just trying so hard to be perfectly correct.
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So how did you help him fix that?
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I actually made him stop studying grammar for a while.
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I gave him a list of these exact everyday words.
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I told him he had to use, I mean, or you know, at least twice a day in the office.
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That is a brilliant homework assignment.
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Did it work?
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It changed everything.
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Within a month, his co-workers started inviting him to lunch.
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He softened his language, and it completely transformed his professional relationships.
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Wow.
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That just proves how powerful these tiny words really are.
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They change the whole temperature of a conversation.
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They really do.
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And the best part is, it takes all the pressure off.
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You don't need a flawless sentence ready every time you open your mouth.
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That's such a relief.
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Saying well or so while you think isn't a mistake, it's just natural speaking.
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In fact, it sounds far more fluent than reciting a textbook.
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Exactly.
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And when you relax, the people listening to you relax too.
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So, our challenge for you this week is simple.
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Pick just one word from today's list and try it out in a real conversation.
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Well, I think that is a wonderful thought to end our conversation on today.
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We have covered a lot of ground.
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We really have.
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From get all the way to you know.
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I hope everyone found some useful tools for their daily lives.
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I'm sure they did.
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Thank you so much for joining us today, everyone.
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Keep practicing, keep making those tiny bridges, and don't worry about being perfect.
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Keep learning and keep speaking.
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Have a fantastic week everyone.
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See you next time on Mr. English Channel.
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Bye!
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Bye everyone!

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