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Level 1.
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Elementary School.
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You're 6 years old.
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You learned to read when you were 3.
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While other kids are sounding out cat and dog, you're reading chapter books.
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Your teacher notices immediately.
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She pulls you aside during class.
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She gives you harder worksheets.
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She asks you to help other students.
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You like the attention.
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You like being special.
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Your parents are proud.
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They tell relatives about your reading level.
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They frame your perfect test scores.
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They start using the word gifted.
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But something else is happening.
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The other kids are noticing too.
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When the teacher calls on you for the fourth time in a row,
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they roll their eyes.
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When you finish the test first, they whisper.
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When you get 100% again,
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they stop celebrating with you.
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You start to realize, being smart makes you different.
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And different means alone.
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According to a University of Iowa study,
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gifted children are 25% more likely to be socially isolated in elementary school.
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You're living that statistic.
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You try to fit in.
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You dumb down your vocabulary.
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You pretend homework is hard.
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You start giving wrong answers on purpose just to seem normal.
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It doesn't work.
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The damage is done.
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You're the smart kid now.
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That's your identity.
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That's your prison.
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By age 10, you've learned the first rule of being gifted.
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Intelligence is isolating.
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Level 2.
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Middle School You're 11 years old.
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The work gets harder, but not for you.
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While other kids struggle with pre-algebra, you're bored.
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You finish assignments in half the time.
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You coast through tests without studying.
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Your teachers expect perfection.
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They don't accept excuses from you the way they do from other students.
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If you get a 92%, they ask, what happened?
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If someone else gets 92%, they celebrate improvement.
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You're held to a different standard.
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Always have been.
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Always will be.
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Your parents' expectations have shifted.
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They don't celebrate A's anymore.
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A's are expected.
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Anything less is a disappointment.
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You got a B-plus in gym class once.
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Your dad asked if you were trying.
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The Stanford University Gifted Child Study tracked 1,500 gifted students over 50 years.
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They found that 70% experienced crippling perfectionism by age 13.
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You're in that 70%.
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You start checking your work obsessively.
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You rewrite essays three times.
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You cry over a single wrong answer.
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Because if you're not the smartest, then who are you?
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But here's what nobody tells you.
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You're starting to realize that smartest in class doesn't mean smartest in the world.
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There are other gifted programs,
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other schools, other kids who score higher than you.
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For the first time in your life, you feel average.
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And average feels like failure.
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You also notice something about your classmates.
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The kids who get Bs and Cs?
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They have friends.
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They go to parties.
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They're invited to things.
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You're not.
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You spend lunch in the library.
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You tell yourself it's because you like reading,
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but the truth is nobody invited you to sit with them.
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A Cornell University study found that gifted students are 40% less likely to be invited to social events.
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You are a data point in someone's research.
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By age 14, you've learned the second rule.
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Intelligence doesn't guarantee happiness.
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Level 3.
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High School You're 15.
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You're taking AP classes, five of them,
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while other students take one or two.
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You're maxing out because that's what smart kids do, right?
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You wake up at 5.30 a.m.
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School from 7.30 to 3.
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After school activities from 3 to 5 because you need extracurriculars for college.
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Homework from 6 to midnight, sometimes later.
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You're running on 5 hours of sleep.
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You drink coffee for the first time.
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You develop anxiety.
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You start biting your nails.
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Your parents say it's stress.
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They don't connect it to the pressure they're putting on you.
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Because here's what's happening.
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Your parents have projected their dreams onto you.
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Your mom wanted to be a doctor but became a nurse.
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Now you're pre-med.
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Your dad wanted to go to MIT but but went to state school.
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Now you're applying to MIT.
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You don't know what you want.
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You've been too busy being what everyone else wants.
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A study by the American Psychological Association found that 60% of gifted teenagers experience identity crisis by age 16.
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They don't know who they are separate from being smart.
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That's you.
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Your GPA is 4.7 weighted.
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You're ranked second in your class.
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Second, not first.
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Second.
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The kid who's ranked first?
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He studies 18 hours a day.
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He has no life.
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He's miserable.
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But he's first, and you're not.
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You think about cheating for the first time.
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Not because you need to, because you're tired.
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Tired of being perfect.
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Tired of being compared.
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Tired of your worth being determined by numbers.
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You don't cheat, but the fact that you thought about it terrifies you.
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You're also discovering something else.
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Some of the average students are happier than you.
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They get Bs.
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They go to parties on weekends.
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They have relationships.
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They sleep.
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You have none of that.
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You have a 4.7 GPA and crippling anxiety.
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Research from John Hopkins University shows that gifted students are twice as likely to develop anxiety disorders.
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You're right on schedule.
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You get into MIT.
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Your parents cry with joy.
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You feel nothing, just relief that you didn't disappoint them.
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But there's a problem.
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MIT is full of kids who are the smartest in their class.
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For the first time in your life,
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you're average, maybe below average.
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By age 18, you've learned the third rule.
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Being the smartest is a local phenomenon.
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In the bigger world, you're just another smart kid.
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Level 4.
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College.
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You're 18.
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MIT breaks you in the first semester.
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You're in Calculus 3.
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You're failing.
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Actually failing.
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You've never failed anything in your life.
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You don't know how to process it.
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You study 12 hours a day.
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It doesn't help.
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The kid sitting next to you solves problems in half the time.
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He's from South Korea.
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He represented his country in the International Math Olympiad.
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He makes you look slow.
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You're not the smartest anymore.
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You're not even in the top 10%.
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According to Harvard's longitudinal study on gifted children,
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45% of gifted children experience academic crisis in their first year of elite colleges.
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They've never struggled before.
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They don't know how to fail.
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They don't know how to ask for help.
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You don't ask for help.
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Asking for help means admitting you're not smart enough.
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Your entire identity is built on being smart enough.
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You stop sleeping.
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You stop eating.
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You lose 15 pounds.
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Your roommate asks if you're okay.
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You lie and say you're fine.
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You're not fine.
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You're having panic attacks.
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You're crying in the bathroom between classes.
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You're googling imposter syndrome at 3am.
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Because here's the truth.
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For the first time in your life, hard work isn't enough.
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Everyone here works hard.
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here was the top of their class.
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You're competing with the best minds in the world, and you're losing.
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Your GPA drops to 3.2.
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Your parents are devastated.
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They don't say it, but you can hear it in their voice.
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You're disappointing them.
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You switch your major from engineering to economics.
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It's easier.
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You tell yourself you're following your passion,
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but the truth is you're running away from failure.
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And something else is happening.
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You're realizing that the kids who were average in high school,
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some of them are doing better than you.
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Your friend who got B's and went to state school?
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She's thriving.
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She joined clubs, she made friends, she's happy.
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She's not having panic attacks.
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You're at one of the best schools in the world, and you're miserable.
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A University of Pennsylvania study found that 30% of gifted college students experience depression,
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another 25% develop eating disorders.
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You check both boxes.
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You graduate with a 3.5 GPA.
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It's fine.
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It's not great.
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For someone who had a 4.7 in high school, it's a collapse.
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Your parents say they're proud,
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but you know they're disappointed.
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You're disappointed in yourself.
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By age 22, you've learned the fourth rule.
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Being gifted as a child doesn't guarantee success as an adult.
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Level 5, early career.
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You're 23.
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You get hired at a consulting firm.
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Good salary.
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Prestigious company.
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Your parents are relieved.
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You're back on track.
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But you're not special here either.
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Your co-workers went to Harvard, Stanford, Yale.
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They have MBAs.
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They have connections.
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They work 80-hour weeks without complaining.
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You're working 80-hour weeks and barely keeping up.
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Your boss assigns you a project.
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You spend three days on it.
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You think it's perfect.
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He glances at it for 30 seconds and says,
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This isn't what I asked for.
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Redo it.
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You've never been told your work isn't good enough.
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You don't know how to handle criticism.
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You take it personally.
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You redo the project.
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It takes another three days.
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He approves it.
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No praise, just approval.
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You're used to praise.
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You're addicted to praise.
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The absence of it feels like failure.
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You're also noticing something about your coworkers.
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The ones who succeed aren't necessarily the smartest.
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They're the ones with emotional intelligence,
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the ones who network, the ones who know how to manage up.
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You don't have those skills.
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You are so busy being smart that you never learned how to be social.
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A Stanford study on workplace success found that emotional intelligence accounts for 58% of job performance.
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IQ accounts for less than 20%.
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You have high IQ and low EQ.
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You're mathematically set up to struggle.
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You watch a coworker get promoted.
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He's not smarter than you.
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He's not more talented, but he's likable.
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People enjoy working with him.
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You're not likable.
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You're You're competent, but cold.
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Your parents ask when you're getting promoted.
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You don't know.
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You're doing everything right, but you're stuck.
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Here's what nobody told you.
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Being smart is table stakes.
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Everyone at this level is smart.
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What separates success from mediocrity is everything you didn't develop because you were too busy being the smartest kid in class.
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You start questioning everything.
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What if being smart was a disadvantage?
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What if you peaked in high school?
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What if your entire identity was built on something that doesn't matter in the real world?
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You see your high school classmates on social media,
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the ones who got B's and C's.
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Some of them are doing better than you.
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They started businesses.
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They're married.
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They're happy.
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You're single.
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You work all the time.
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You have no hobbies.
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You have no life outside of work.
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Because you never learned how to have a life,
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you only learned how to achieve.
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By age 28, you've learned the fifth rule.
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Intelligence is only one factor in success,
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and often not even the most important one.
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Level 6, adulthood.
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You're 29.
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You quit your job.
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Not because you have a better offer, because you're burned out.
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Completely burned out.
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You've been achieving for 23 years straight.
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You're exhausted.
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You don't know who you are when you're not working towards something.
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You take three months off.
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Your parents think you're having a crisis.
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They're right.
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You start therapy.
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For the first time, you talk about the pressure,
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the expectations, the perfectionism, the anxiety,
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the feeling that you've been running a race your entire life and you don't even know where the finish line is.
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Your therapist asks you a question.
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What do you want?
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You don't know.
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You've never asked yourself that.
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You've always done what you were supposed to do.
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Good grades, good college, good job.
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You followed the script perfectly.
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And now you're 29 and you realize the script was written by other people.
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Your parents, your teachers, society.
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A University of California study on gifted adults found that 55% report feeling unfulfilled by age 30.
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They achieved everything they were supposed to achieve,
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and it didn't make them happy.
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You start over.
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You take a job that pays less but interests you more.
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Your parents don't understand.
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You went to MIT for this?
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You stop talking to them about your career.
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It's easier that way.
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You also start dating seriously for the first time.
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You're 30.
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Most people started dating in high school.
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You were too busy studying.
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You're bad at it.
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You don't know how to be vulnerable.
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You don't know how to handle rejection.
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You ghosted after three dates, and you spiral.
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If I was smart enough, they would have stayed.
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You don't understand that relationships aren't about being smart, they're about being human.
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And you spent so long being smart that you forgot how to be human.
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You eventually meet someone.
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They're not impressed by your MIT degree.
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They like you because you're kind,
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because you listen, because you're finally learning how to be a person instead of an achievement.
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You get married at 33.
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You have a kid at 35.
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And then something strange happens.
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Your kid shows signs of being gifted.
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High reading level, advanced math skills,
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teachers say the word, talented.
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You have a choice to make.
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Do you push them the way you were pushed?
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Do you project your unfulfilled dreams onto them?
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Or do you let them be a kid?
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You choose differently than your parents.
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You encourage them, but you don't pressure them.
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You praise effort, not results.
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You let them fail without making them feel like a failure.
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Because you know what pressure does.
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You lived it.
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By age 40, you've learned the sixth rule.
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Being the smartest student in class was never the point.
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Learning how to be happy was.
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संदर्भ में व्याकरण और अभिव्यक्तियाँ
- संविधानिक विशेषण: "गिफ्टेड" (gifted) जैसे शब्दों का उपयोग, जो बच्चे की विशेष स्थिति को दर्शाते हैं।
- उपभाषाई स्थिति: "समझना" (understand) और "मिश्रण करना" (fit in) जैसे क्रियाओं का उपयोग, जो सामाजिक गतिशीलता को दर्शाता है।
- विज्ञापनात्मक वाक्यांश: "यह मेरे लिए पहचान है" (That's your identity), जो बच्चे की आंतरिक संघर्ष को प्रदर्शित करता है।
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सामान्य उच्चारण के जाल
वीडियो में कुछ शब्दों का उच्चारण मुश्किल हो सकता है। उदाहरण के लिए, "गिफ्टेड" (gifted) और "इसोलटेड" (isolated) जैसे शब्दों में अधिक ध्यान देने की आवश्यकता है, क्योंकि इनमें वर्तनी और उच्चारण का गलत होने का ख़तरा होता है। यह महत्वपूर्ण है कि आप इन शब्दों का अभ्यास करें ताकि आप उन्हें सही तरीके से बोल सकें। इसके अलावा, विभिन्न उच्चारणों के बीच का अंतर भी समझना आवश्यक है, जिससे आप अपनी संवाद क्षमता को और बेहतर बना सकें।
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