シャドーイング練習: Why Parents should Listen to Kids | Anyue Sun | TEDxYouth@Xujiahui - YouTubeで英語スピーキングを学ぶ
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Tanya Cushman Reviewer Hello everyone.
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Today, I'm here to share my opinion that parents should listen to kids.
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First, I will tell you a story of a monkey prison experiment.
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Scientists caught a monkey from the wild and put it into a cage made of barbed wire,
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which is really strong.
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In the beginning, the monkey tried to escape,
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but this hurt every time when it bumped into the edge of the frame.
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Finally, the monkey stayed in the middle and didn't try to escape anymore.
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The scientists changed the barbed wire cage into an easy broken cage with a similar appearance.
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But the monkey still stays in the middle and never tried to break the frame anymore.
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Sometimes I feel just like this monkey.
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Now I will share a story of mine.
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It's Christmas.
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Christmas!
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I finished all my homework and want to go out to play with my friends.
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I asked my mom, Mom,
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can I please go out?
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She said no. I want to please her.
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So I washed dishes and I made breakfast.
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I asked again, but they disagreed.
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So then I fed my cat,
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I cleaned my room, I even swept the floor,
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but then, no was the response.
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So finally, I had to agree to do extra homework as they wish.
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I spent three hours of dark time until 6 p.m.
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It's time for dinner.
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My dad said, let's go out to eat.
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After dinner, I miss my friends so much,
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I just want to sit on the couch and reach out my friends.
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But my parents had different plans.
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They took me to see a show about science,
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which I'm not very interested in.
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After all of that, it's bedtime,
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and it's the end of my day.
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After all of that, I feel like all my ideas will be rejected and my day was ruined by parents.
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This is a typical kind of parents who always say no. And the always no parents will make kids passive.
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The passive kids will let their parents do everything for them
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because they think that their parents will not let them do anything they want
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and will try very badly just to let their parents agree with one simple thing.
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But actually, executive function, EF for short,
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is the right way to learn.
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EF is an important concept in child psychology.
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It's the way to achieve goals.
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It includes to let kids plan by themselves,
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make decisions by themselves, use knowledge well,
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and remove unwanted thoughts, feelings, and actions.
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Then shift from one task to another.
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Parents should encourage kids to program executive functioning.
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It's the only way how kids learn.
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For example, parents should let kids learn from their own failures.
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When the parents tell the kid,
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the opening of the fire is dangerous.
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Even if the kid says yes, I understand, they don't.
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Kids will still try and get hurt until then they know what the parents mean.
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So even if the parents tell kids that doing this or that is wrong,
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the kid will still need to learn from their own failures, not yours.
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Those who don't let their kids learn from their own failures,
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who clear obstacles and make sure there's only one path for their kids,
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the way to success, are called snow plows parents.
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Do you know what a snow plow is?
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A snow plow is a huge machine that goes out and removes snow.
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This information is from American College Health Association.
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This study is about 297 college students who have snow plows parents.
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Snow plows parents are are parents who fix kids' problems when they are small,
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but actually, they create bigger problems when the kids grow.
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Let's see the result of their parenting.
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84.3% of students felt overwhelmed.
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60.5% felt very sad.
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57% felt very lonely.
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51.3% experienced anxiety.
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and 8% even attempted suicide.
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Here's my suggestion for the future.
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Parents, if you can discuss your suggestion with us,
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not just to disagree, it will be a lot better.
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And as a kid, we should discuss with our parents our own opinions about why we want to do this
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and how we will achieve our goals.
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Parents, we need you when we're feeling down,
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when we fail, and when we're in trouble.
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We want your encouragement to help us conquer difficulties by ourselves.
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Please trust us.
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If you do something more than just to suggest your idea,
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our life will be a lot difficult because your decision might not be the same as us.
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Sometimes, being different is an advantage,
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and having a strong personality is not a bad thing.
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Kids have their own life.
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Why not just give us a chance?
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このTEDxトークでは、Anyue Sunさんが「親は子どもの声に耳を傾けるべきだ」というメッセージを伝えています。彼女は、自身の体験を通じて、親の否定的な態度が子どもに与える影響を示しました。特に、子どもが自分自身で考えたり、失敗から学んだりする能力がいかに重要であるかについて語っています。このトークを通じて、親や教育者がどのように子どもたちの意見を尊重し、支援することができるかが考察されています。
日常会話のためのトップ5フレーズ
- 「お願い、外に出てもいい？」 - 自分の意見を伝える大切なフレーズ。
- 「どうしてダメなの？」 - 理由を尋ねることで対話を生む。
- 「私は友達に会いたい！」 - 感情を率直に表現することが重要。
- 「もっと自分で考えたい。」 - 自立を求める姿勢を示す。
- 「失敗から学びたい。」 - 成長したいという前向きな意欲を表す。
ステップバイステップシャドーイングガイド
この動画を利用した英語スピーキング練習には、次のような手順が効果的です。
- 動画を視聴する - 初めに、全体を通して動画を一度見て内容を把握しましょう。
- トランスクリプトを読む - 上記のフレーズを含むトランスクリプトを読み、意味を理解します。
- フレーズごとにシャドーイング - 各フレーズを一文ずつ繰り返します。この際、発音やリズムに注意を払います。
- 意味を考える - フレーズの背後にある意味を考え、どのように使えるか想像してみてください。
- 独り言として使用する - 日常生活の中で、これらのフレーズを使う練習をしましょう。友達や家族との会話に積極的に取り入れてみてください。
これらのステップを踏むことで、より効果的にshadow speechを実践しながら、shadowspeaksの能力を向上させることができます。特に、YouTubeで英語学習を通じて、自分の意見を表現する力を養うことが期待できます。ぜひ、試してみてください！
シャドーイングとは？英語上達に効果的な理由
シャドーイング（Shadowing）は、もともとプロの通訳者養成プログラムで開発された言語学習法で、多言語習得者として知られるDr. Alexander Arguelles によって広く普及されました。方法はシンプルですが非常に効果的：ネイティブスピーカーの英語を聞きながら、1〜2秒の遅延で声に出してすぐに繰り返す——まるで「影（shadow）」のように話者を追いかけます。文法ドリルや受動的なリスニングと異なり、シャドーイングは脳と口の筋肉が同時にリアルタイムで英語を処理・再現することを強制します。研究により、発音精度、抑揚、リズム、連音、リスニング力、そして会話の流暢さが大幅に向上することが確認されています。IELTSスピーキング対策や自然な英語コミュニケーションを目指す方に特におすすめです。