跟读练习: Why Parents should Listen to Kids | Anyue Sun | TEDxYouth@Xujiahui - 通过YouTube学习英语口语
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Tanya Cushman Reviewer Hello everyone.
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Today, I'm here to share my opinion that parents should listen to kids.
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First, I will tell you a story of a monkey prison experiment.
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Scientists caught a monkey from the wild and put it into a cage made of barbed wire,
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which is really strong.
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In the beginning, the monkey tried to escape,
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but this hurt every time when it bumped into the edge of the frame.
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Finally, the monkey stayed in the middle and didn't try to escape anymore.
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The scientists changed the barbed wire cage into an easy broken cage with a similar appearance.
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But the monkey still stays in the middle and never tried to break the frame anymore.
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Sometimes I feel just like this monkey.
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Now I will share a story of mine.
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It's Christmas.
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Christmas!
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I finished all my homework and want to go out to play with my friends.
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I asked my mom, Mom,
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can I please go out?
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She said no. I want to please her.
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So I washed dishes and I made breakfast.
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I asked again, but they disagreed.
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So then I fed my cat,
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I cleaned my room, I even swept the floor,
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but then, no was the response.
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So finally, I had to agree to do extra homework as they wish.
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I spent three hours of dark time until 6 p.m.
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It's time for dinner.
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My dad said, let's go out to eat.
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After dinner, I miss my friends so much,
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I just want to sit on the couch and reach out my friends.
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But my parents had different plans.
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They took me to see a show about science,
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which I'm not very interested in.
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After all of that, it's bedtime,
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and it's the end of my day.
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After all of that, I feel like all my ideas will be rejected and my day was ruined by parents.
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This is a typical kind of parents who always say no. And the always no parents will make kids passive.
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The passive kids will let their parents do everything for them
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because they think that their parents will not let them do anything they want
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and will try very badly just to let their parents agree with one simple thing.
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But actually, executive function, EF for short,
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is the right way to learn.
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EF is an important concept in child psychology.
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It's the way to achieve goals.
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It includes to let kids plan by themselves,
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make decisions by themselves, use knowledge well,
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and remove unwanted thoughts, feelings, and actions.
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Then shift from one task to another.
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Parents should encourage kids to program executive functioning.
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It's the only way how kids learn.
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For example, parents should let kids learn from their own failures.
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When the parents tell the kid,
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the opening of the fire is dangerous.
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Even if the kid says yes, I understand, they don't.
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Kids will still try and get hurt until then they know what the parents mean.
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So even if the parents tell kids that doing this or that is wrong,
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the kid will still need to learn from their own failures, not yours.
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Those who don't let their kids learn from their own failures,
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who clear obstacles and make sure there's only one path for their kids,
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the way to success, are called snow plows parents.
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Do you know what a snow plow is?
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A snow plow is a huge machine that goes out and removes snow.
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This information is from American College Health Association.
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This study is about 297 college students who have snow plows parents.
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Snow plows parents are are parents who fix kids' problems when they are small,
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but actually, they create bigger problems when the kids grow.
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Let's see the result of their parenting.
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84.3% of students felt overwhelmed.
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60.5% felt very sad.
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57% felt very lonely.
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51.3% experienced anxiety.
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and 8% even attempted suicide.
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Here's my suggestion for the future.
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Parents, if you can discuss your suggestion with us,
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not just to disagree, it will be a lot better.
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And as a kid, we should discuss with our parents our own opinions about why we want to do this
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and how we will achieve our goals.
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Parents, we need you when we're feeling down,
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when we fail, and when we're in trouble.
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We want your encouragement to help us conquer difficulties by ourselves.
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Please trust us.
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If you do something more than just to suggest your idea,
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our life will be a lot difficult because your decision might not be the same as us.
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Sometimes, being different is an advantage,
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and having a strong personality is not a bad thing.
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Kids have their own life.
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Why not just give us a chance?
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在现代教育中，父母与孩子之间的沟通至关重要。在Anyue Sun的TED演讲中，她强调了父母倾听孩子的重要性。通过分享自己的故事，她展示了当父母总是说“不”时，孩子可能会感到受挫并变得被动。这种情况不仅会影响孩子的情感发展，也可能影响他们的学习能力。因此，鼓励孩子主动思考和自我反省是非常必要的，这也是提升他们执行功能（EF）的关键步骤。
日常交流的五个短语
- “可以让我出去玩吗？” - 询问许可的方式。
- “我能帮忙做什么？” - 表示愿意协助的心态。
- “我觉得这个主意不错。” - 表达自己观点的有力方式。
- “为什么不试试呢？” - 鼓励尝试的积极语气。
- “我想去做我喜欢的事情。” - 让父母了解孩子愿望的重要表达。
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