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Welcome to another episode of Out of the Pods.

I'm Deep T.

And I'm Natalie.

And happy Wednesday.

You guys, the lesson of the day is your bad choices will always catch up to you.

Whether it's in your soul or it plays out in the public stage.

Prime example, the Coldplay Concert Affair.

This has gone worldwide.

And for good reason.

I just cannot believe that this CEO was exposed in this way.

And I just have to say karma is real.

No one can tell me it's not.

If you guys haven't seen this clip, you have to go see it.

I mean, I'd be shocked if you haven't seen it because it is literally everywhere.

I think my grandma even knows about it.

This CEO of this company is caught having an affair with the chief people officer, chief HR officer of the company at a Coldplay concert.

And so, you know, like concerts, how they like pan to the fans in the crowd.

Well, they panned to the CEO and the chief people officer, and he is hugging her from the back and it's very romantic.

And then they look up at the Jumbotron and they're like, oh, my God, we're we're on camera.

And they have this like crazy reaction.

Like he bends down and hides and she turns her back and like runs away at some point.

And the Coldplay lead singer is all like, oh, what?

Like everything's OK.

Wait, are they having an affair?

Like he legit calls it out.

And then this clip goes viral and people find out who these two people are.

And they realize, yes, they are having an affair.

Like these people are married to other people, have kids with other people, and they're having a workplace affair and got caught.

Honestly, the audacity.

But if they would have just had a normal reaction

and just like played it off or like did a dance or something, this would not have been a big deal.

But the fact that their body language and their mannerisms, they knew they were doing something wrong.

Oh, yeah.

And immediately their instant gut reaction was to hide.

So you're like, yep, you know that they're doing something bad.

You know, they got a little cocky with this affair and they're like, yeah, let's go to Coldplay concert.

And isn't that the whole thing?

Like, I feel like in life, if you continue to make bad choices or you're doing something wrong and you're doing it over and over again,

so your confidence is building and like you have the mindset, oh, I'm not going to get caught.

That's precisely the moment you get caught.

A hundred percent.

When you're not being careful enough, like at some point, if you're doing something bad, a mistake is going to be made.

Oh, yeah.

It's going to catch up to you.

And I just want to say like karma does its thing.

Like it is literally the universe being petty and it makes me so happy.

I don't even know if they have a prenup or not, but I hope that wife gets every last penny of his.

Oh, a hundred percent.

And it's like,

I just I just can't believe this person would have the balls to take like their mistress to a Coldplay concert.

Like there's thousands and thousands of people in that arena.

So the fact that they were so confident that they wouldn't get caught or that nobody would see them is like, OK, you're you need to be brought down a level.

If the universe and its workings exist, I feel like this was exposed in this way

because their spouses would have never found out that an affair was taking place.

Yeah.

Because like, think about it, like if my husband was a CEO and when there's like long meetings at work, you know, with a CEO and the chief HR slash people officer,

no one's thinking anything of it.

Yeah.

I honestly think about this all the time, but I bet you there is so many office affairs.

Well, I feel like the fact she was in HR, I would think as his wife, she's HR.

Like she would never commit an HR violation, especially not as the chief HR officer.

Yeah.

Like I would have no idea.

I I don't I feel like though I wonder

if their spouses knew something was happening and this was like the last

and this was like the camel that broke the it's the straw

that broke the camel's back yes that's the one I wonder

if they knew something was happening but they just didn't have the evidence

and now they do yeah because I feel like out of all the types of affairs you can have.

Yeah.

I feel like one of the easiest is to have a workplace affair because like you don't have to text, right?

Like you are a lot of people spend a lot of time at work.

Yeah.

They're sending team messages.

Exactly.

You could be sending things over Slack that are like kind of coded, like, hey, want to have this meeting?

You know, you could cover up your calendar.

You could go on lunch breaks together.

Exactly.

Go get coffee.

I understand why workplace affairs happen because you're spending more time at work than you are at home.

So I get it.

But it is no excuse to, for this bad behavior.

I'm so glad that this affair is going viral, though I do feel very sad for their children.

Because that if these were my parents, I'd be like, Oh, my God, like, I want to hide in a hole forever.

Like, thanks, mom and dad for like, literally embarrassing me.

Yeah, now I'm going to be known as the the CEO's child who cheated.

I know.

Come on.

If I was really trying to make it in the like the influencer world i would definitely be making tick tock

yeah just make it be like my dad's a cheater

you're like me trying to recover after my dad got exposed literally i'd be pumping out five tickets a day

and i was like there's got to be an upside to

this what's crazy is i've actually seen random people posting

that they're the children of the ceo's couples

and they're all fake like people are just capitalizing on it even though they're not the children yeah

so i'm like great cool no i i love

that look i wish i could

but people are gonna be like no you're yeah they're like

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they're like were you adopted yeah like i don't know

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when did you weren't you from love is blind the thing

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that sucks about cheating is that it's not illegal right

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but it's such a hurtful act yeah like it's horrible infidelity is a sin yeah like it's

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so i do love that it's like people are are reacting

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so harshly to this because it's like it shows this is a horrible thing to do, even though you can't really like legally get in trouble for it.

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Yeah.

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I mean, I mean, he is going to be legally in trouble in his marriage.

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I hope his wife takes him to the dry cleaners, like just squeezes him of money.

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Absolutely.

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She deserves it.

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How do people get to this point where they make this many bad choices?

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Like you felt comfortable enough going to a concert like that's insane that's no longer an affair.

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That's a relationship.

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So in terms of what happened next, so the CEO resigned recently, which actually took a really long time.

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Like I was like, that shouldn't been immediate.

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The moment that clip went viral, like you should have been gone.

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But I guess he tried to hold on like, who knows?

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But I think he's going to be paid out like a substantial sum is what people are saying online.

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And people are like, he doesn't deserve it.

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But I'm like, good.

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At least there's more that his wife can take from him.

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Okay.

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Wait, I love that petty.

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Yeah.

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I was like, good.

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Pay him out so she could take more of that during the divorce proceedings.

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Also, the chief people officer, the chief HR officer, she's married to another CEO.

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Like they just bought like a $2.2 million house together.

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I saw that.

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And I was like, oh, well, like, guess you're moving out.

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I'm just confused by the mentality of cheating on one hand.

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But then on the other hand, you're literally buying million dollar properties together and you're like thinking about your future with your husband.

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Like that's crazy.

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No, that's she's just collecting CEOs literally.

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Yeah, as a type.

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And I would say it's CEOs.

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That's crazy.

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And I was like, I wish that was my type to you, actually.

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I feel like that is our type.

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It's just where are they?

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But clearly this just proves do all CEOs cheat?

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I'm just kidding.

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I'm sure they don't.

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But I don't know.

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I feel like the the probability of a CEO cheating is high because of the ego that comes with it.

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I mean, I don't know.

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This is one example, I suppose.

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It's just one example.

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There's not a lot of CEOs in the world.

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So all it takes is one example for me.

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And it's like imprinted in my brain now.

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And I'm like, nope, no CEOs.

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No, like, I don't know this woman, but I kind of hate her.

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Yeah.

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But I was like.

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Two CEOs like that's a power girl.

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Yeah.

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I was like, wow.

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In this day and age, I feel like social media is such a big thing.

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Like there was just this random girl who was like recording in that moment and it ended up like going viral.

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But it's insane to me how many people probably got away with affairs back in the day

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when social media wasn't so big.

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It was probably so easy to cheat.

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I was going to ask you because you've been cheated on.

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I've been cheated on twice.

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You always get an inkling.

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Oh, absolutely.

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Like you have this like weird feeling like something has shifted.

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I feel like when the partners of cheaters feel a shift, it's less of like our intuition, though it is our intuition,

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like our gut feeling, but more so like their mistakes are now catching up with them.

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Yeah.

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And like they can't cover it up anymore.

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Like they are fucking up slowly.

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I feel like the lies compound over time and it's hard to keep your story straight.

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And not only that, but it's like the small behaviors that you notice that they do differently.

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Like, for example, when my ex cheated on me, he would all of a sudden put his phone facing down, which was really odd.

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And I clocked it and he used to do it so often.

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And there's other things like the energy just shifts.

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Those are the things like you look for the behaviors and the patterns.

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They change and you can see the shift.

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oh with New York boy he was being really weird with his phone

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and when I called it out I was like you're being really weird with your phone yeah

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and I was like I just and he's like no I'm not

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and then he tried to like fix his behavior by being less weird with it

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but then it was just like I was like oh my gosh like something's something's up something's up

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and I didn't suspect cheating at first.

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But then obviously when I had like this ringing in my head that he was absolutely cheating,

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it was like a huge data point.

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Like I was like, oh, it all makes sense.

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A huge data point.

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I love that.

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I feel like that's what you have to do.

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Every time I've gotten cheated on every time.

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I feel like you first have to sit back and observe.

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Like you have to gather data points.

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Absolutely.

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Like I never address when things feel off.

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I was like, I have to wait a few weeks and just like I have to be like, he's doing this thing differently.

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And he's, you know, like I feel this way

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and I feel like that's when you know you have to gather data points.

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Oh, absolutely.

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I feel like because I was in such a long term relationship, I didn't want to throw it away based on just like a hunch.

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So I needed actual evidence before I could do anything.

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There was probably like a month of time where I was like, oh, my gosh, like, is he actually doing it?

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Is it just in my head?

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You like kind of gaslight yourself.

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Yeah.

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A little bit into and talk yourself out of it because you're like, no, no, no, no. Like you don't want it to end

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or you know you're just trying to

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or you want to see the good yeah you want to see the good

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but most of the time they're just being bad so yeah no

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if you know you're doing something bad

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if you know you're making a mistake actually I don't even want to call it a mistake

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if you know you're doing something intentionally that's hurting someone you love

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or you're doing something with like ill intent I truly believe

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you will get caught whether it's the way it impacts your soul

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But I like truly believe like some way it's going to impact you very negatively.

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Absolutely.

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I wholeheartedly believe that because even when I do something where I'm like, oh, that doesn't resonate with who I am.

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If you continue going down that path, something will happen to make you get back on the right path.

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And no matter how much you try to run away from the choices that you make,

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they're always going to compound and weigh you down until you make a mistake.

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It's inevitable for you to make a mistake when you're doing something wrong.

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I agree.

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It's going to it's going to find you some way.

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Look, the men who have cheated on me, I have not really kept up with them, but I'll do like a little check in,

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you know, like I'll take a look at the social media or just like, I don't know, ask a friend like what's going on.

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They've all become crusty ass men.

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it's also the way we view them too no like no

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i know you know what i mean i'll look at them

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and be like oh my gosh yeah like all your fucking mistakes caught up with you

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and i see it physically oh totally and your crustiness yes

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and as soon as they do something you just get the most immediate ick

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and you're like oh my gosh i cannot believe

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and then all the whole window and the doors are all open

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and you see right through that person everything just starts making sense

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and clicking you're like I'm not crazy yeah this is this

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was the reality of yeah no I really do look back

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and I'm like no this is a good example my boyfriend

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from like wow it's been probably eight years since we dated

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now I'll like just look at his public Instagram page like

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once every few years like I'll just take tabs I love

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that you said public and um I saw like a couple of years ago

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that he got engaged to the girl he cheated on me with.

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I was like, okay, like whatever.

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Maybe like it was meant to be.

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And then they ended their engagement

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and like he like spiraled and she's like living her best life because she also has a public Instagram.

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So like, you know, I'm keeping tabs on both.

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You know, your rotation, like the roster where you like, you have to check on these people every couple of like months or years.

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I'm not going to say it's healthy, but you know, you're just like, it's relatable.

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It's curiosity.

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You're just like, you know, I just, just curious, like where you ended up in life.

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I don't know.

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It just I was like, it kind of made me feel good.

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Yeah, I wish I could say the same because I haven't creeped on my ex in a while, but he got married to the person he told me not to worry about.

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And I was like, wow, that just that's like a dagger in the heart and a twist of the knife.

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You know, I cheated on.

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Yeah.

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And I was like, but also thank you for taking him away because he was terrible.

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Is he looking a little crusty?

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Absolutely.

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Because of all those mistakes compounding in his soul.

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It's like sucking the youth out.

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Yes.

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And now he's like a crusty old man who doesn't wear his sunscreen.

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You know, speaking of the energy thing, can I just say if you're with the wrong person, you become less attractive.

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Let me elaborate on that.

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But if you look at pictures of yourself and how much of an energy vampire like your partner can be,

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if they're the wrong person for you, you will literally physically get less attractive.

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It is.

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I'm telling you, every time I've been with the wrong person, they have taken all of my like good aura, if that makes sense.

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No, I've had my best glow ups after after ending relationships with the toxic.

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And I think that's the theory of why people have glow ups after breakups, because they're getting their energy back finally and they're cutting the ties.

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And I swear to you, I think that's a real thing.

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Yeah, I agree.

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You know, what's kind of crazy is I feel like Netflix is putting out a bunch of shows just like back to back.

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Like, for example, you've got Perfect Match season three coming out August 1st

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and then Love is Blind UK season two coming out August 13th.

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And then you've got Love is Blind US season nine.

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Oh my gosh.

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Season nine.

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Yeah.

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Which is going to be Denver based.

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Yeah.

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Denver.

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And I I think it's October 1st. Yeah.

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But don't you feel like that's just like a lot happening at once?

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A lot.

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Like what?

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They're just packing it into the second half of the year, which is kind of good for us because we can recap.

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But also, yeah, it's a lot of Love is Blind.

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Yeah.

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A lot of Netflix.

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I know people are like, well, Love is Blind UK is more of like the international version because you've got like, you know, the other Love is Blind international versions.

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Yeah.

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But I feel like the Love is Blind UK version is

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promoted by the main Love is Blind Netflix Instagram page

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that it's kind of you know it's like now being seen

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as kind of part of like the love is blind yes

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world in my head it's all the same it's like all the same maybe it's

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because English is the main language for both of um those versions of love is blind so yeah

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and I feel like also love is blind UK of all

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the international ones is probably the most popular too I think

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for like the yeah for the u.s crowd the u.s crowd

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but i uh yeah there's a lot coming out

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but like the concept is the exact same

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and it does get a little redundant

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so we'll see how it actually how it actually plays out yeah

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so my thing is the fact

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that love is mine uk is coming out like right after

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perfect match season three signals to me like perfect match season

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three like they know it's not going to be like oh an amazing season yeah

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that is my prediction who knows i've also heard rumblings from the cast and they're like, yeah, like they're like our season's OK.

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Interesting.

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If it's coming from the cast, you know.

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But I saw the trailer for Perfect Match season three.

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And like I know there was a bunch of rumblings being like,

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you know, Ali did something to AD and they're going to change his edit because AD is pregnant and they're engaged.

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But the trailer shows like ollie does something a little sketchy

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and ad is yelling at him about it

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so i think they might actually like not edit him as well as people were saying they're going to yeah

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and there's only so much they can edit anyways

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and i feel like

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if there is drama in a show they're not gonna protect anyone like they are playing

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that drama yeah you know what i mean like

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if it's juicy drama i feel like they're gonna play maybe they'll downplay it

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because i have heard of like big things

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that happened in previous perfect match seasons and it's completely edited out and the cast is like

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they definitely protected someone oh interesting you know

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so yeah you just you just never know i feel like they can only protect people so much

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but it really is dependent on the other storylines yeah they don't want to have a flop season

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so if they have the footage they're probably going to to use it.

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Yeah, that's what I was thinking.

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Yeah. So interesting.

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I think it's going to be weird watching knowing that 80

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and Ali are currently engaged and together and having a baby together

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and then like watching them like meet for the first time.

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Like I was like, so much time has passed.

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It just like doesn't make sense.

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And I also feel like the cast on Perfect Match season three, like based on their social media activity, you kind of already know what happens.

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Like, for example, one person from the cast is pregnant and like has been actively like showing it on social media, on our social media pages.

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And you're like, OK, I feel like the producers need to take a lesson from Love Island

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because they are literally putting out episodes like the next day after they film.

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So they need to make the turnaround much quicker

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because people lose interest and it just is not relevant anymore by the time the show comes out.

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Like, why do they Why do they keep doing that?

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It's taking too long.

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I don't think, but I just feel like they won't ever be able to do

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that i don't know how the back end works for netflix

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but i feel like it's very common

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that there's this you know this lag time by the time a show finishes filming

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and the time it premieres yeah

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because i think it has to fit into their schedule yeah

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and also i feel like netflix's show schedule yeah

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and i feel like um it really does depend on the platform

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that they're releasing it to like obviously Netflix has

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so many hit shows not just in the reality tv space

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like in scripted series Love Island is like Peacock's biggest show

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so obviously they're going to prioritize it I do feel like

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because of all the love is blind seasons

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but also the international versions it's becoming like very redundant

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and it's losing its like shine I know we always talk about

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that like it's becoming like the bachelor franchise where you know

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the peak is done like it's gone like I feel like

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that's kind of happening to love is blind I'm very curious what like season nine is gonna bring

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but I feel like the last few seasons since season six it's lost

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that like appeal yeah because well the format never changes

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and I don't think it can yeah because for at least for the U.S crowd this year alone.

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There's two U.S versions plus one U.K., which a lot of U.S people are going to watch.

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So it just feels like, I don't know, what's the word?

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Like just so much.

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It's just like, yeah, yeah.

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Truly, it's been done before.

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And obviously, every single person is unique and has their own story.

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But eventually, it just gets boring because you've seen it all.

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I know.

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I hate saying that because obviously, that's where Deepty and I came from.

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we were born from love is blind yeah it's like yeah

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it just it's yeah i'm not gonna lie i'm really excited for denver though

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because i've always wanted to live in denver i my brother lived in denver

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so i visited a lot i'm just really excited to see

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like what kind of dates they have oh i bet it'll be

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so cool it's gonna be so gorgeous like hiking dates are gonna do camping

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and like oh i love a good i i love camping

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i am such a nature girly you like camping i love

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camping i literally used to camp with my ex all the time we used to set up hammocks

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and sleep on the hammocks like not even in a tent

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sometimes i know who am i no i love it here's

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my thing i just feel like i use the bathroom

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so often in the middle of the night please don't diagnose me with anything.

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I was just gonna say also you can just use nature.

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It's literally there.

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I just I need like a toilet.

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I feel you.

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You know, you're and I feel like in the middle of the night, like I've gone camping before in Yellowstone, which is crazy.

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Gorgeous.

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Thankfully, they had like an actual bathroom like on the campground.

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But you would have to walk 10 minutes in the dark, like with your flashlight, passing other people's tents.

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Yeah, you would really enjoy a glamping situation.

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I don't think I'd even enjoy glamping.

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I just want a straight up hotel room.

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There's so many beautiful homes, cabins.

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You would.

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I could do a cabin.

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You could do a cabin.

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You would.

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Yeah.

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I'm just saying I can't do like an actual.

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I'm not camping.

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Like I'm not going to tent.

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I also think safety wise.

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I was like anyone just open that, you know, tent door.

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I'm like, look, there is just coming through.

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Hey, I don't know.

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Just sounds like a risk to me.

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It is.

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It is.

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I do have to say I'm watching a show currently and there's murders happening in this national forest.

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So I'm with you on that.

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It's not the most safe space.

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But imagine, wait, imagine for Love is Blind Denver, though, their shared apartment is like a shared tent.

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Um, I would die.

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They just get like a giant glamping campus and they're all connected.

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I was like, no one's getting married.

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Like 100%.

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Oh my gosh, I wonder where they'll do weddings. that makes me

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so excited wow they better go into the mountains go to vale breckenridge no they're not doing

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that the budget isn't

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that big i don't know it's season nine exactly yeah it's not season 10

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if it was season 10 they're getting the best weddings ever they'll be like our 10 year anniversary let's ignore

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that like six couples have already divorced but like a happiness

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they're like we don't focus on the breakups we focus on love for season nine there's already been a leak

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that um of like the two people who get married oh is it only one couple i don't know

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but there's a couple that was leaked i don't know

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if they're the only one or they're one of many yeah

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but you know i'm surprised that not more couples accidentally like show

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that they're together but i guess everyone's a stranger at this point

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but yeah well i was gonna say the leak it didn't

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really go anywhere like the tiktok about it only got like 500 likes yeah

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and everyone's like who cares yeah who cares

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and find out by the time the season comes out the public doesn't know who these people are

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so they don't really they're not really invested at this point for season eight

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which was in what city oh charlotte no uh dc it

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was dc right no no it wasn't oh it was the

461

oh oh oh oh no it was the guy the skater

462

boy he's definitely not from dc um we just talked about

463

joey um where does he look like he's from minnesota minnesota

464

they all look like they're from minnesota i was like i

465

knew it was one of those i wasn't even thinking i was singing

466

as soon as you said skater boy um well that season yes in conclusion that's the latest season Remember,

467

there's a bunch of pictures of them like having the bachelorette

468

and bachelor parties and then the women standing outside of a bridal shop.

469

Pictures of that was leaked before season eight came out.

470

And I remember like no one cared.

471

Yeah.

472

Like everyone's like, OK.

473

And then I actually went back to look at those leaked photos, specifically the picture where the women are standing outside of a bridal shop.

474

And you see like Monica, you see Sarah.

475

funny um and

476

so yeah no i i think unfortunately like i don't think people really care until until later

477

and even then i feel like viewership is just it's it's like dying a little yeah

478

but regardless i'm very excited

479

and we're excited to recap obviously we'll be recapping perfect match season three um

480

and then love is blind uk and love is blind us

481

so full docket coming up can i just say I'm really proud of you for remembering all the dates

482

because I was listening to you spew them off earlier and I was like, how the F do you remember?

483

No, one thing about me.

484

They're etched in your brain.

485

Look, I don't remember a lot of things, but I'll remember the big things.

486

Yeah.

487

You're like, the dates got them clocked.

488

No, I'll remember the dates.

489

So one thing about me is like, when it comes to love is blind, I just like remember a lot.

490

You do retain that information.

491

Yeah.

492

Meanwhile, mine's like in through one year out the other.

493

If you ask me, give me a recap of what happened with Lydia Milton, Aaliyah and Uche from Love is Mine season five.

494

I could tell you.

495

I could tell you the gist.

496

I feel like past season three.

497

That one's a hard one for me.

498

OK, so I saw this TikTok where this man was proposing and it was like in a public place.

499

There was like multiple people, probably like 60 to 70 people watching in Paris.

500

And the girl genuinely looked a little terrified, like walked up to him and then ran off into the crowd.

501

Like the girl he was proposing to.

502

Yes.

503

And she just like runs off.

504

And this kind of triggered something in my brain.

505

Like, OK, I have to ask you, when you get proposed to one.

506

I already did.

507

And so did you.

508

Yes.

509

Don't forget it.

510

not me being like would you want it to be a public proposal but we did it on

511

national tv like literally not even national worldwide international worldwide bish worldwide it's mr worldwide that's just gonna say

512

that you're like mr worldwide yeah um but like would you be comfortable with a public proposal

513

no right wait wait let me think about this would i

514

be comfortable with a okay actually i would be okay with a public proposal

515

if he like we were talking about getting engaged okay that's my other follow-up like it isn't honestly necessary right

516

that couples talk about getting married before your partner just you

517

know pops the question i think that's a red flag

518

if he's like surprise like yeah i'm proposing like i feel like you have to talk about it

519

and make sure like both of you are on the same page about getting engaged completely agree

520

if it's a surprise i feel like that's actually a red

521

flag like you there's no conversations prior except for like little silly you know goose ones yeah like you know

522

when you'll say like i'm gonna marry you like you don't really mean it

523

but like you have to have an actual conversation how do

524

you feel about talking about rings beforehand like do you would

525

you want your partner to just pick out your ring for you?

526

Or would you like kind of throw some subtle hints here and there of what you're looking for?

527

No, I would straight up tell him.

528

I'd be like, this is my Pinterest board.

529

Yes, exactly.

530

And this is the exact ring I want.

531

You see, I don't be like veer off too far from like what I want.

532

I honestly, I feel like I wouldn't be so direct with it.

533

But there will be signs.

534

I will be buying magazines of wedding things and I will be putting them everywhere.

535

Magazines.

536

I I will literally buys magazines.

537

I will for this occasion.

538

This is how I would do it.

539

I would tell you exactly what I wanted, like a picture of the ring, the settings, everything like this is what I want.

540

Yeah.

541

And also I would tell you this is what I don't want.

542

And then I would send my boyfriend to you.

543

Yes.

544

I'd be like, talk to Deep D.

545

She'll tell you what you need to do.

546

Absolutely.

547

Or I'll be like sending him reels online.

548

Be like, look how pretty this is.

549

Because I feel like one thing about guys is if you give them too much freedom to choose something out for you.

550

You know, like sometimes I just feel like they go overboard.

551

Yeah, exactly.

552

And honestly, I just feel like why leave it up to them?

553

They're not the ones wearing it.

554

Yeah, constantly.

555

Like, exactly.

556

I don't want something to but I have little hands like, you know, I just need something that that fits perfectly.

557

Exactly.

558

And like, I don't want a five carat.

559

That's gonna like my I'm gonna get get arthritis.

560

You know, like, it's just no true.

561

Like, I don't want that.

562

Yeah.

563

It's going to weigh me down.

564

Yeah.

565

I was like, sorry, I need something smaller.

566

Yeah.

567

Also, like, I'm not trying to be subject to like thieves.

568

Yeah.

569

Like, I was like, I don't want to be robbed.

570

Not at all.

571

Not at all.

572

I was like, I want a booger sized drink.

573

OK, when I saw this video, though, the girl looked genuinely terrified.

574

And it like just literally sparked something in me.

575

And I was like, why are people not talking about marriage before proposing?

576

And it's just like such a backwards mentality thinking that the man has complete control over.

577

Exactly.

578

Like when you're going to reach the next stage of your life.

579

Like, no, like talk to your partner and see if she's ready for it.

580

I feel like there's like two reasons why she would run.

581

One, she's getting a panic attack.

582

Like she's like, OK, too many people.

583

Like I feel a lot of pressure right now.

584

I just like can't do this.

585

Yeah.

586

Or two, she's just like, what the fuck?

587

Yeah actually there's a third reason

588

and it's like i want this to go viral yeah that's

589

true i wonder people do anything for a little viral video yeah

590

because his response afterwards he was just like being over the top

591

and you know what i don't even care if it was fake

592

because i still am curious about the proposal situation wait it's actually really funny

593

so she's running away but she has to go up like these flights of stairs

594

and she's like like you're like like why not go straight

595

and i was like there's a lot of directions you could have gone

596

but you had to go up these flights of stairs that are like slowing you down.

597

She's like, like going up.

598

And I was like, you know, that's an immediate flight or flight response.

599

Yeah.

600

She's like, I got to get the F out of here.

601

I don't care which way I'm going.

602

I'm going.

603

If you propose to someone and they ran away, I feel like that's it's over.

604

Oh, 100 percent.

605

Just don't even call her.

606

Yeah.

607

Like, like, take the L.

608

Yep.

609

Dunzo.

610

Yeah.

611

Watch her come back and be like, I'm sorry.

612

I just got staged, right?

613

I actually want to be with you.

614

No, I know.

615

That's why I don't think I could take her back.

616

I'd be like, you know, I'm sorry.

617

You should know your partner better and understand what she would like.

618

For pop essays who are engaged, who have gotten proposed to you, like, did you tell your partner how you want to be proposed to?

619

I guess not exactly.

620

But like, where did you specify like you want it to be a private moment or you want, you know, your partner to do something big?

621

Did you tell your partner about the type of ring you wanted?

622

Or did you give them like free reign?

623

Like, I'm very curious, because I feel like for me, the normal way is to tell your partner, like, I want it to be a private moment.

624

Or if you are okay with it being a public proposal, and like the timeframe you want it to happen, like, it's gonna happen within the next few months.

625

Yeah, because you also have to have your nails ready.

626

Yeah.

627

You know, like, maybe she ran away because she's like, Oh, my God, I didn't even get my nails done.

628

Yeah.

629

Like, you know, like, I gotta go get manicure like a bear right now.

630

I, okay, here's my thing.

631

I think like having a conversation about when is important.

632

And I think potentially also ring.

633

But honestly, I'm not like huge on the ring thing.

634

Like, I feel like you can have some freedom with it.

635

Let's say you wanted a princess cut diamond.

636

And he got you like an oval shaped emerald.

637

Yeah.

638

Yeah, I be OK with it.

639

I think it really just depends in the moment.

640

Here's my thing.

641

I feel like a proposal is so important because it tells you so many signs about your partner.

642

I don't want to tell them how to do it and where to do it because that is a test.

643

Do you know me?

644

Do you have we had convos like I want it to be a surprise

645

because it's going to say so much about my partner and how much he listens to me.

646

OK, but can I tell you as your best friend?

647

I don't even know how you want to be proposed to.

648

If your boyfriend came to me and was like, how should I propose to Deepti?

649

Natalie.

650

I'd be like, you need to create a flower wall.

651

No. That says, Deepti, please marry me.

652

Bitch, you know I love to travel.

653

It needs to be a destination proposal.

654

It has to be in Chicago.

655

No. In front of the lake.

656

Also.

657

And it better be a scavenger hunt.

658

I was like, take that bitch all over the city.

659

I did.

660

I did see a couple getting engaged on a boat on the river and it was really pretty.

661

I saw that too.

662

I was like, that's gorgeous.

663

But do I want it to happen there?

664

No, because we're always on the boat.

665

Yeah, because you I feel like sure you would say like, my partner has to know me, but like, no, no, no, no, no, no, they he better listen.

666

That's a quality we are looking for.

667

And I feel like what would you what maybe he's listening now?

668

What do you want?

669

Why don't you just straight up tell him?

670

Honestly, it's just so relationship dependent.

671

Like, what if like we had significant moments somewhere?

672

Or like he told me I love you for the first time in a certain spot.

673

And that's where he proposes.

674

Like there's just so many like romantic sentiments that I just don't know what my future could look like.

675

It could go anywhere.

676

I don't know much about men, but one thing I know about men is sometimes I feel you just need to tell them.

677

You're right.

678

Sometimes you do need to tell them.

679

And I will tell him I feel like certain things, but there's also other things I'm like, no, I want to be surprised.

680

I want to see how thoughtful you are.

681

Actually, that's kind of true because I feel like my partner

682

would know that he has to at least set up a camera.

683

Yeah.

684

Like, because I love videotaping private moments.

685

Not like that.

686

Yeah, I was like, you know, like things that happen, like, I don't know, when I'm with my cousins and we're laughing or when I'm with my grandfather and we're just having lunch.

687

Like I like candid.

688

I like videotaping those moments to like watch them back.

689

Like I like remembering how young I was in the moment or what that moment felt like.

690

So I guess I would want my partner to know like, yeah, you have to videotape that so that we can look back on

691

that one day or children can look back on that one day and we have that like memorialized.

692

Yeah.

693

But I don't think, you know, like I don't want it to just be like, you know, like we're sitting on the couch.

694

He's like, remember me?

695

That's when I was like, yeah, absolutely not.

696

I feel like I learned a lot from my brother proposing and my sister in law likes nice things, you know, like she it needed to be nice.

697

And I feel like he knew that

698

and the way he set it up was so perfect and

699

so like surprising

700

but did she tell him like how she wanted it no

701

not at all she's just like proposed to me however i think they did talk about rings obviously

702

but that was pretty much it but he did it in such a romantic way

703

and he told her that it was gonna be like her friend was taking her to some like um nfl fundraiser event.

704

So she had to dress up and look nice.

705

I remember on that day, she was just like, oh, just like throw on something.

706

And we're like, no, no, no, no, you should put this on.

707

And so we're like trying to convince her otherwise.

708

And then he had all of her friends

709

and family line up in a row and he was waiting with their dog at the end.

710

And every single one of us handed her a rose.

711

So by the end, she had like a bouquet of flowers.

712

And then he got done with me but would you want to be proposed

713

that way i don't know yes i think it was

714

so pretty and just having all like your family do you think

715

that like the man who wants to propose to you will

716

know that's how you want to be proposed to i think

717

so i feel like well then the way i thought you

718

want to is very often do i even know you no here's the thing though i think it's

719

so situational because you can find the romance in a lot of situations there's a lot of proposal ideas

720

that could be be very romantic and beautiful you know

721

so I'm like not honed in on one thing yeah like

722

I'm not very specific on like you got to do it

723

this way it's moreover I want this type of ring

724

because I'm going to be wearing it forever

725

but that's yeah no I draw the line I think I will say

726

when it comes to the ring I'm not particular

727

but I just want something so simple

728

and not big yeah I don't like showy yeah I don't like showy just

729

because you know I'm such a scaredy cat like I'm not trying to get like, you know, like robbed.

730

Dude.

731

And I am the worst ever, but I lose everything.

732

Find me something where like, you'll be okay if I lose it.

733

Yeah.

734

We won't be having a panic attack.

735

Or it's like get insurance on the ring.

736

100%.

737

I feel like we could go all day with this, but I want our pot besties to tell us like,

738

when you got engaged, did you know it was happening around the time that it actually happened?

739

Did you and your partner talk about it?

740

you guys talk about the ring

741

and how you would like to be proposed to like I

742

just want to know like what's like the I don't want to say right thing

743

but what's the non-controlling way to go about yeah and more

744

so like what are the tactics you use to kind of

745

plant the seed in your partner's brain of how you want things to happen

746

because I feel like every woman is

747

so different they're gonna want different things yeah I need to

748

know more of like the tactics used to get what you literally please send us a dm

749

but speaking about dms i got

750

so many dms from all of you on how you guys

751

met your partners i would say the majority said like through

752

a dating app they were like yep download a dating app yeah take a chance

753

so i did it i'm on multiple yeah good thing i'm

754

on none now oh we're on different different levels i already had one

755

but the one that i was on like you can't filter by location.

756

So I was matching with people from like different cities.

757

And that's hard.

758

That's how I met the guy who lived in a different state.

759

And I was just like, I don't think long distance.

760

That's just not in my cards right now.

761

I don't think I could do it again after New York boy.

762

I downloaded another one hinge, which obviously could like filter people by city.

763

But anyways, I got it.

764

And I'll keep you guys updated.

765

I'm on a little hinge adventure let's go I love it for you I met all of my exes organically

766

so I was like I you know I'm just gonna try

767

it I'm gonna use it as like a real way to

768

meet someone instead of just like you know like swiping just

769

cuz yeah honestly I need to be convinced by you more

770

because every time I do the dating app thing I just get

771

so deterred from it I'm just like oh I don't like it I don't want it

772

but anyways thank you pod besties for sending us all the dms we love you

773

and make sure you leave a review and subscribe.

774

See you next Wednesday.

775

Bye.

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콜드플레이 콘서트에서 벌어진 사건을 이야기하는 이 대화는 일상적인 영어 표현이 가득해 쉐도잉 연습에 완벽합니다. 화자들이 자연스럽게 감정을 표현하면서 사용하는 구어체 표현, 예를 들어 "the audacity" (대단한 용기), "caught having an affair" (불륜을 잡히다) 등은 실제 생활에서 자주 쓰이는 표현들이에요. 특히 화자의 억양과 리듬이 자연스러워 shadow speech를 하면서 발음과 말하기 속도를 익힐 수 있습니다. 이런 리얼한 대화는 책에서 배우는 영어와 다르게, 생생하고 사용하기 쉬운 표현을 배울 수 있는 기회죠.

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"Your bad choices will always catch up to you." - "나쁜 선택은 항상 너를 찾아온다"는 뜻으로, "catch up to"는 "따라오다, 찾아오다"라는 의미로 자주 사용됩니다. 이 문장은 구어체에서 자연스럽게 쓰이는 구조로, 주제를 강조할 때 유용해요.
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쉐도잉이란? 영어 실력을 빠르게 키우는 과학적 방법

쉐도잉(Shadowing)은 원래 전문 통역사 훈련을 위해 개발된 언어 학습 기법으로, 다언어 학자인 Dr. Alexander Arguelles에 의해 대중화된 방법입니다. 핵심 원리는 간단하지만 매우 강력합니다: 원어민의 영어를 들으면서 1~2초의 짧은 지연으로 즉시 소리 내어 따라 말하는 것——마치 '그림자(shadow)'처럼 화자를 따라가는 것입니다. 문법 공부나 수동적인 청취와 달리, 쉐도잉은 뇌와 입 근육이 동시에 실시간으로 영어를 처리하고 재현하도록 훈련합니다. 연구에 따르면 이 방법은 발음 정확도, 억양, 리듬, 연음, 청취력, 말하기 유창성을 크게 향상시킵니다. IELTS 스피킹 준비와 자연스러운 영어 소통을 원하는 분들에게 특히 효과적입니다.

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