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1
Welcome to another episode of Out of the Pods.
欢迎收看新一期的《Out of the Pods》。
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I'm Deep T.
我是 Deep T。
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And I'm Natalie.
我是娜塔莉。
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And happy Wednesday.
祝大家周三愉快。
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You guys, the lesson of the day is your bad choices will always catch up to you.
各位，今天的教训是，你做出的错误选择迟早会找上门来。
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Whether it's in your soul or it plays out in the public stage.
无论是深藏于你的内心，还是在公众舞台上展现出来。
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Prime example, the Coldplay Concert Affair.
最典型的例子就是Coldplay演唱会风波。
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This has gone worldwide.
这件事已经传遍全球了。
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And for good reason.
这是有充分理由的。
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I just cannot believe that this CEO was exposed in this way.
我实在不敢相信这位CEO竟然会以这种方式被曝光。
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And I just have to say karma is real.
我不得不说，因果报应是真的存在的。
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No one can tell me it's not.
没人能反驳我说不是这样。
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If you guys haven't seen this clip, you have to go see it.
如果你们还没看过这个片段，一定要去看。
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I mean, I'd be shocked if you haven't seen it because it is literally everywhere.
我的意思是，要是你还没看过那才叫奇怪，因为这东西真的到处都是。
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I think my grandma even knows about it.
我觉得我奶奶甚至都知道这件事。
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This CEO of this company is caught having an affair with the chief people officer, chief HR officer of the company at a Coldplay concert.
这家公司的首席执行官被人发现在一场Coldplay演唱会上与该公司的首席人力官、即首席人力资源官发生婚外情。
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And so, you know, like concerts, how they like pan to the fans in the crowd.
就像演唱会那样，镜头会扫过台下的粉丝。
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Well, they panned to the CEO and the chief people officer, and he is hugging her from the back and it's very romantic.
镜头切到了首席执行官和首席人力官，他从背后抱着她，画面特别浪漫。
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And then they look up at the Jumbotron and they're like, oh, my God, we're we're on camera.
然后他们抬头看向大屏幕，才反应过来：天哪，我们被拍进去了。
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And they have this like crazy reaction.
而且他们的反应特别夸张。
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Like he bends down and hides and she turns her back and like runs away at some point.
他弯下腰躲起来，她转过身，然后不知什么时候就跑掉了。
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And the Coldplay lead singer is all like, oh, what?
然后那个酷玩乐队的主唱就一副很惊讶的样子，说，啊？什么？
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Like everything's OK.
就好像一切都没事一样。
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Wait, are they having an affair?
等等，他们是不是有一腿？
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Like he legit calls it out.
他真的就直接把这事挑明了说啊。
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And then this clip goes viral and people find out who these two people are.
之后这段视频迅速走红，人们查出了这两个人的身份。
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And they realize, yes, they are having an affair.
然后他们意识到，没错，他们确实在搞婚外情。
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Like these people are married to other people, have kids with other people, and they're having a workplace affair and got caught.
这些人各自都有婚姻，和配偶有孩子，却在办公室搞婚外情，还被抓了现行。
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Honestly, the audacity.
说真的，这脸皮也太厚了。
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But if they would have just had a normal reaction
但如果他们当时只是做出了正常的反应
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and just like played it off or like did a dance or something, this would not have been a big deal.
就像随便打个哈哈、跳个舞之类的糊弄过去，本来也不是什么大不了的事。
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But the fact that their body language and their mannerisms, they knew they were doing something wrong.
但从他们的肢体语言和举止来看，他们其实知道自己做错了。
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Oh, yeah.
哦，对呀。
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And immediately their instant gut reaction was to hide.
他们的第一反应就是立刻躲起来。
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So you're like, yep, you know that they're doing something bad.
所以你心里就会想，没错，你知道他们在做坏事。
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You know, they got a little cocky with this affair and they're like, yeah, let's go to Coldplay concert.
你知道吗，他们在这件事上有点飘了，还说什么，走，去听Coldplay的演唱会。
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And isn't that the whole thing?
这不就是关键所在吗？
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Like, I feel like in life, if you continue to make bad choices or you're doing something wrong and you're doing it over and over again,
我觉得在生活中，如果你一直做出错误的选择，或者反复做着不对的事，
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so your confidence is building and like you have the mindset, oh, I'm not going to get caught.
于是你的自信心不断增强，脑子里就会产生这样的想法：我不会被抓到的。
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That's precisely the moment you get caught.
你就是在那个节骨眼被抓的。
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A hundred percent.
百分之百。
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When you're not being careful enough, like at some point, if you're doing something bad, a mistake is going to be made.
当你不够谨慎时，比如在某些情况下做了不妥的事，就会出错。
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Oh, yeah.
哦，对呀。
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It's going to catch up to you.
它迟早会找上你的。
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And I just want to say like karma does its thing.
我只想说，因果报应自有其道。
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Like it is literally the universe being petty and it makes me so happy.
这简直就像是宇宙在耍小脾气，可偏偏让我特别开心。
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I don't even know if they have a prenup or not, but I hope that wife gets every last penny of his.
我甚至不知道他们有没有签婚前协议，但我希望他老婆能拿到他的每一分钱。
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Oh, a hundred percent.
那绝对是。
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And it's like,
就好像是，
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I just I just can't believe this person would have the balls to take like their mistress to a Coldplay concert.
我简直不敢相信这个人居然有胆子带着他的情妇去看Coldplay的演唱会。
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Like there's thousands and thousands of people in that arena.
那个场馆里有成千上万的人。
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So the fact that they were so confident that they wouldn't get caught or that nobody would see them is like, OK, you're you need to be brought down a level.
他们如此自信不会被抓到，或者说没人会发现他们，这就说明，是时候让他们认清现实了。
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If the universe and its workings exist, I feel like this was exposed in this way
如果宇宙及其运行规律确实存在，我觉得这一点已经以这种方式得到了揭示。
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because their spouses would have never found out that an affair was taking place.
因为他们的配偶原本永远不会发现有婚外情发生。
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Yeah.
是的。
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Because like, think about it, like if my husband was a CEO and when there's like long meetings at work, you know, with a CEO and the chief HR slash people officer,
你想想啊，要是我老公是个CEO，碰上那种开很久的会，就是CEO和首席人力资源官一起开的会，
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no one's thinking anything of it.
根本没人把这当回事。
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Yeah.
是的。
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I honestly think about this all the time, but I bet you there is so many office affairs.
说实话我一直都在想这件事，我敢打赌办公室里的婚外情肯定特别多。
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Well, I feel like the fact she was in HR, I would think as his wife, she's HR.
嗯，我觉得她在人力资源部工作，而且我想她是他的妻子，她是人力资源部的。
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Like she would never commit an HR violation, especially not as the chief HR officer.
她怎么可能会违反人力资源规定，尤其是作为首席人力资源官，就更不可能了。
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Yeah.
是的。
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Like I would have no idea.
我哪能知道啊。
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I I don't I feel like though I wonder
我不太确定，我总觉得好像有点不对劲，我也说不上来为什么
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if their spouses knew something was happening and this was like the last
如果他们的配偶当时就察觉到有情况发生，而这就像是最后一次
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and this was like the camel that broke the it's the straw
这简直就是压垮骆驼的最后一根稻草。
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that broke the camel's back yes that's the one I wonder
真是压垮骆驼的最后一根稻草，没错，就是这件事，我就说嘛。
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if they knew something was happening but they just didn't have the evidence
如果他们当时知道有情况发生，只是没有证据
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and now they do yeah because I feel like out of all the types of affairs you can have.
现在他们确实会这样，是啊，因为我觉得在所有可能发生的婚外情类型里，
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Yeah.
是的。
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I feel like one of the easiest is to have a workplace affair because like you don't have to text, right?
我觉得最省事的方式之一就是搞办公室恋情，因为连发短信都省了，对吧？
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Like you are a lot of people spend a lot of time at work.
和很多人一样，你也把大量时间花在工作上。
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Yeah.
是的。
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They're sending team messages.
他们正在发送团队消息。
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Exactly.
完全正确。
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You could be sending things over Slack that are like kind of coded, like, hey, want to have this meeting?
你可能会在 Slack 上发一些带有暗语的消息，比如“要不要开个会？”
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You know, you could cover up your calendar.
你知道的，你可以把你的日历遮起来。
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You could go on lunch breaks together.
你们可以一起去午休吃饭。
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Exactly.
完全正确。
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Go get coffee.
去买杯咖啡。
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I understand why workplace affairs happen because you're spending more time at work than you are at home.
我理解为什么职场恋情会发生，因为你在工作上花的时间比在家里多。
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So I get it.
所以我懂了。
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But it is no excuse to, for this bad behavior.
但这不能成为这种不良行为的借口。
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I'm so glad that this affair is going viral, though I do feel very sad for their children.
我很高兴这件事能引发广泛关注，不过我确实为他们的孩子感到非常难过。
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Because that if these were my parents, I'd be like, Oh, my God, like, I want to hide in a hole forever.
因为如果这是我爸妈的话，我肯定会觉得，天哪，我真想找个洞永远躲起来。
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Like, thanks, mom and dad for like, literally embarrassing me.
拜托，谢谢你们啊爸妈，真的是把我脸都丢尽了。
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Yeah, now I'm going to be known as the the CEO's child who cheated.
这下好了，大家都会觉得我是CEO家那个作弊的小孩。
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I know.
我知道。
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Come on.
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If I was really trying to make it in the like the influencer world i would definitely be making tick tock
如果我真的想在网红圈闯出点名堂，我肯定会做TikTok。
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yeah just make it be like my dad's a cheater
对，就写成我爸是个出轨的人
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you're like me trying to recover after my dad got exposed literally i'd be pumping out five tickets a day
你跟我一样，我爸被感染之后我也想办法恢复，说真的，我那时候一天能抢到五张票
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and i was like there's got to be an upside to
我当时就想，这事儿肯定有好的一面
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this what's crazy is i've actually seen random people posting
离谱的是，我真的看到有陌生人在发帖子
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that they're the children of the ceo's couples
他们是首席执行官夫妇的子女
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and they're all fake like people are just capitalizing on it even though they're not the children yeah
而且那些全都是假的，那些人根本就不是那些孩子，只是在借机捞钱罢了，真的。
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so i'm like great cool no i i love
所以我当时就觉得，太好了，太棒了，我超喜欢的
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that look i wish i could
那种我真希望自己能拥有的神态
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but people are gonna be like no you're yeah they're like
但大家肯定会说，不对啊，你明明就是，他们就会这样说
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they're like were you adopted yeah like i don't know
他们就问你是不是被收养的，我就说我也不清楚啊
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when did you weren't you from love is blind the thing
你是什么时候参加《爱情盲选》的？
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that sucks about cheating is that it's not illegal right
出轨最糟糕的地方在于它根本不犯法，对吧？
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but it's such a hurtful act yeah like it's horrible infidelity is a sin yeah like it's
但这种行为真的太伤人了，是啊，太可怕了，出轨是一种罪过，没错，就是这样。
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so i do love that it's like people are are reacting
我确实很喜欢看到大家都在积极回应的样子
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so harshly to this because it's like it shows this is a horrible thing to do, even though you can't really like legally get in trouble for it.
对这件事如此严厉，是因为这表明这种行为非常恶劣，即便实际上并不会因此承担法律责任。
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Yeah.
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I mean, I mean, he is going to be legally in trouble in his marriage.
我的意思是，他在婚姻方面会面临法律纠纷。
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I hope his wife takes him to the dry cleaners, like just squeezes him of money.
我真希望他老婆能好好收拾他，把他的钱都榨干。
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Absolutely.
完全同意。
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She deserves it.
她这是活该。
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How do people get to this point where they make this many bad choices?
人们是怎么一步步走到做出这么多错误选择的地步的？
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Like you felt comfortable enough going to a concert like that's insane that's no longer an affair.
你居然能安心去那样的演唱会，这太离谱了，这已经不是普通的事了。
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That's a relationship.
这就是一种关系。
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So in terms of what happened next, so the CEO resigned recently, which actually took a really long time.
至于后续的发展，首席执行官最近辞职了，这件事实际上拖了很久。
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Like I was like, that shouldn't been immediate.
我当时就觉得，这事儿不该这么急着来啊。
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The moment that clip went viral, like you should have been gone.
那段视频一传开，你本来就该完蛋了。
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But I guess he tried to hold on like, who knows?
不过我猜他当时是想坚持下去的，谁知道呢？
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But I think he's going to be paid out like a substantial sum is what people are saying online.
但我看网上的人都说，他会拿到一笔相当可观的赔偿金。
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And people are like, he doesn't deserve it.
大家都觉得他不配得到这样的结果。
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But I'm like, good.
但我就觉得，挺好的。
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At least there's more that his wife can take from him.
至少他妻子还能从他那里分到更多财产。
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Okay.
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Wait, I love that petty.
等等，我就喜欢这种小心眼的劲儿。
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Yeah.
是的。
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I was like, good.
我当时就觉得，挺好的。
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Pay him out so she could take more of that during the divorce proceedings.
给他一笔钱，这样她就能在离婚诉讼中分到更多财产。
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Also, the chief people officer, the chief HR officer, she's married to another CEO.
另外，该公司首席人力官，也就是首席人力资源官，她的丈夫是另一家公司的首席执行官。
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Like they just bought like a $2.2 million house together.
他们刚一起买了栋价值220万美元的房子。
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I saw that.
我看到了。
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And I was like, oh, well, like, guess you're moving out.
我当时就想，哦，看来你是要搬出去了。
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I'm just confused by the mentality of cheating on one hand.
我实在搞不懂那些出轨的人到底是什么心态。
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But then on the other hand, you're literally buying million dollar properties together and you're like thinking about your future with your husband.
但另一方面，你们真的是在一起买价值数百万美元的房产，还在规划和丈夫的未来。
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Like that's crazy.
这也太离谱了吧。
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No, that's she's just collecting CEOs literally.
不是，她这简直就是在收集CEO啊。
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Yeah, as a type.
对，作为一种类型来说。
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And I would say it's CEOs.
我会说，是首席执行官们。
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That's crazy.
这太离谱了。
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And I was like, I wish that was my type to you, actually.
我当时就想，真希望我在你眼里就是你喜欢的那种类型啊。
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I feel like that is our type.
我觉得那就是我们会喜欢的类型。
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It's just where are they?
问题只是他们在哪儿？
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But clearly this just proves do all CEOs cheat?
但这显然只能证明，是不是所有首席执行官都会舞弊？
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I'm just kidding.
我只是开玩笑的。
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I'm sure they don't.
我敢肯定他们不会。
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But I don't know.
但我并不知道。
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I feel like the the probability of a CEO cheating is high because of the ego that comes with it.
我觉得CEO出轨的概率很高，因为身居高位容易让人自我膨胀。
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I mean, I don't know.
我的意思是，我也不太确定。
147
This is one example, I suppose.
我想这就是一个例子。
148
It's just one example.
这只是一个例子。
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There's not a lot of CEOs in the world.
世界上首席执行官的数量并不多。
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So all it takes is one example for me.
对我来说，只要有一个例子就够了。
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And it's like imprinted in my brain now.
现在这事儿就跟刻在我脑子里了一样。
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And I'm like, nope, no CEOs.
我当时就说，不行，不能找首席执行官。
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No, like, I don't know this woman, but I kind of hate her.
不是，我根本不认识这个女的，但我就是有点讨厌她。
154
Yeah.
是的。
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But I was like.
但我当时就觉得。
156
Two CEOs like that's a power girl.
两位首席执行官都觉得那是个女强人。
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Yeah.
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I was like, wow.
我当时就觉得，哇塞。
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In this day and age, I feel like social media is such a big thing.
如今，我觉得社交媒体已经成为了一个非常重要的存在。
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Like there was just this random girl who was like recording in that moment and it ended up like going viral.
就好像当时刚好有个陌生女孩随手录了下来，结果那段视频就莫名其妙火了。
161
But it's insane to me how many people probably got away with affairs back in the day
但一想到当年有那么多人搞婚外情却没被发现，我就觉得太离谱了。
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when social media wasn't so big.
社交媒体还没那么普及的时候。
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It was probably so easy to cheat.
那时候要作弊大概太容易了。
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I was going to ask you because you've been cheated on.
我本来是想问你的，因为你有过被出轨的经历。
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I've been cheated on twice.
我被背叛过两次。
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You always get an inkling.
你总能察觉到一丝端倪。
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Oh, absolutely.
哦，当然了。
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Like you have this like weird feeling like something has shifted.
就好像有种怪怪的感觉，好像有什么东西变了。
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I feel like when the partners of cheaters feel a shift, it's less of like our intuition, though it is our intuition,
我觉得当出轨者的伴侣察觉到不对劲时，这与其说是我们的直觉——虽然确实是直觉，
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like our gut feeling, but more so like their mistakes are now catching up with them.
就像我们的直觉一样，但更像是他们过去犯下的错误现在开始反噬了。
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Yeah.
是的。
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And like they can't cover it up anymore.
而且他们再也掩盖不住了。
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Like they are fucking up slowly.
他们好像在慢慢搞砸一切。
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I feel like the lies compound over time and it's hard to keep your story straight.
我觉得谎言会随着时间越积越多，到最后很难把说辞圆回来。
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And not only that, but it's like the small behaviors that you notice that they do differently.
不仅如此，你还会注意到他们在一些小行为上也有所不同。
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Like, for example, when my ex cheated on me, he would all of a sudden put his phone facing down, which was really odd.
比如说，我前任出轨的时候，他就会突然把手机倒扣过来，这真的很奇怪。
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And I clocked it and he used to do it so often.
我特意留意过，他以前经常这么干。
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And there's other things like the energy just shifts.
还有其他类似能量发生转移的情况。
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Those are the things like you look for the behaviors and the patterns.
这些就是你需要留意的行为和模式之类的东西。
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They change and you can see the shift.
它们会发生变化，你能察觉到这种转变。
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oh with New York boy he was being really weird with his phone
哦，那个纽约来的男生，他玩手机的样子真的很奇怪
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and when I called it out I was like you're being really weird with your phone yeah
我跟你说，你那玩手机的样子真的很奇怪，我当时就直接指出来了。
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and I was like I just and he's like no I'm not
我当时就说我才没有，他就说不，我才没有
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and then he tried to like fix his behavior by being less weird with it
然后他就试着收敛一点，不再表现得那么奇怪，想以此纠正自己的行为。
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but then it was just like I was like oh my gosh like something's something's up something's up
但后来我就突然觉得，天哪，不对劲，肯定有什么事发生了。
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and I didn't suspect cheating at first.
我一开始并没有怀疑存在作弊行为。
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But then obviously when I had like this ringing in my head that he was absolutely cheating,
但很明显，当时我脑子里一直有个声音告诉我，他绝对是在出轨。
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it was like a huge data point.
这就像一个巨大的数据点。
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Like I was like, oh, it all makes sense.
我当时就觉得，哦，原来一切都讲得通了。
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A huge data point.
一个重要的数据点。
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I love that.
我太喜欢了。
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I feel like that's what you have to do.
我觉得你就该这么做。
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Every time I've gotten cheated on every time.
我每一次都被劈腿了，没有一次例外。
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I feel like you first have to sit back and observe.
我觉得你首先得先退一步观察情况。
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Like you have to gather data points.
你得先收集各种数据点。
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Absolutely.
完全同意。
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Like I never address when things feel off.
就好像我从来不会在感觉不对劲的时候主动说出来一样。
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I was like, I have to wait a few weeks and just like I have to be like, he's doing this thing differently.
我当时就觉得，我得等上几周，而且我得接受他这次的做法不一样。
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And he's, you know, like I feel this way
而且他啊，你知道的，我就是有这种感觉
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and I feel like that's when you know you have to gather data points.
我觉得这时候你就该意识到，必须开始收集数据点了。
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Oh, absolutely.
哦，当然了。
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I feel like because I was in such a long term relationship, I didn't want to throw it away based on just like a hunch.
我觉得是因为那段感情持续了太久，我不想只凭着一点直觉就把它放弃了。
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So I needed actual evidence before I could do anything.
所以我得先拿到确凿的证据，才能采取任何行动。
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There was probably like a month of time where I was like, oh, my gosh, like, is he actually doing it?
大概有一个月的时间，我一直在想，天哪，他真的要这么做吗？
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Is it just in my head?
这会不会只是我自己的臆想？
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You like kind of gaslight yourself.
你这有点像是在自我PUA啊。
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Yeah.
是的。
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A little bit into and talk yourself out of it because you're like, no, no, no, no. Like you don't want it to end
刚投入一点就又说服自己放弃，因为你心里一直在想不行、不行、不行，就好像你根本不想让这段关系结束一样。
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or you know you're just trying to
或者说，你只是想试着
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or you want to see the good yeah you want to see the good
或者你是想看到好的一面，对，你就是想看到好的一面
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but most of the time they're just being bad so yeah no
但大多数时候他们就是表现得很糟糕，所以还是算了吧
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if you know you're doing something bad
如果你明知道自己在做坏事
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if you know you're making a mistake actually I don't even want to call it a mistake
如果你明知道自己正在犯错——其实我甚至都不想称之为错误
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if you know you're doing something intentionally that's hurting someone you love
如果你明知自己在故意做一些伤害你所爱之人的事
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or you're doing something with like ill intent I truly believe
或者你是怀着某种恶意在做什么事，我真的这么认为。
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you will get caught whether it's the way it impacts your soul
无论它如何触动你的灵魂，你都会被它深深吸引。
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But I like truly believe like some way it's going to impact you very negatively.
但我真心觉得，这在某种程度上会对你产生非常不利的影响。
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Absolutely.
当然。
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I wholeheartedly believe that because even when I do something where I'm like, oh, that doesn't resonate with who I am.
我由衷地相信这一点，因为即便当我做某件事时，我会觉得：哦，这和真实的我并不契合。
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If you continue going down that path, something will happen to make you get back on the right path.
如果你继续沿着那条路走下去，总会有事情发生，让你回到正确的道路上。
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And no matter how much you try to run away from the choices that you make,
无论你多么想逃避自己做出的选择，
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they're always going to compound and weigh you down until you make a mistake.
这些压力会不断累积，一直压得你喘不过气，直到你出错为止。
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It's inevitable for you to make a mistake when you're doing something wrong.
当你做一件事的方法本身就不对时，犯错是在所难免的。
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I agree.
我同意。
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It's going to it's going to find you some way.
它总会以某种方式找到你。
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Look, the men who have cheated on me, I have not really kept up with them, but I'll do like a little check in,
你看，那些曾经背叛过我的男人，我其实一直没怎么关注他们，但我会稍微留意一下他们的近况。
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you know, like I'll take a look at the social media or just like, I don't know, ask a friend like what's going on.
你懂的，我会刷一下社交媒体，或者就是，嗯，问问朋友最近有什么新鲜事。
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They've all become crusty ass men.
他们全都变成了脾气暴躁的老家伙。
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it's also the way we view them too no like no
这也和我们看待它们的方式有关啊，不是吗
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i know you know what i mean i'll look at them
我知道你懂我的意思，我会看看的。
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and be like oh my gosh yeah like all your fucking mistakes caught up with you
然后就好像，我的天呐，你那些破事终于找上门来了吧
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and i see it physically oh totally and your crustiness yes
而且我能实实在在地感觉到，哦完全能感觉到，还有你那股生硬的劲儿，没错。
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and as soon as they do something you just get the most immediate ick
而且只要他们一做点什么事，你立刻就会觉得特别反感。
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and you're like oh my gosh i cannot believe
然后你就会觉得，天哪，我简直不敢相信
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and then all the whole window and the doors are all open
然后整扇窗户和门都开着。
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and you see right through that person everything just starts making sense
当你彻底看透那个人时，一切就都豁然开朗了。
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and clicking you're like I'm not crazy yeah this is this
然后你点进去，就会觉得我没疯，没错就是这个
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was the reality of yeah no I really do look back
事实就是，对啊，我现在真的会常常回想过去。
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and I'm like no this is a good example my boyfriend
我就说，不是啊，这明明就是个很好的例子，我男朋友就是这样的
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from like wow it's been probably eight years since we dated
哇，我们上次约会好像已经过去八年了吧
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now I'll like just look at his public Instagram page like
那我就去看看他公开的Instagram主页吧
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once every few years like I'll just take tabs I love
每隔几年我就会翻一翻我喜欢的那些标签页
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that you said public and um I saw like a couple of years ago
你之前说过那是公开的，而且我大概几年前就看到过了
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that he got engaged to the girl he cheated on me with.
他和那个背叛我时在一起的女孩订婚了。
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I was like, okay, like whatever.
我当时就想，行吧，随便吧。
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Maybe like it was meant to be.
或许这就是命中注定。
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And then they ended their engagement
之后他们解除了婚约。
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and like he like spiraled and she's like living her best life because she also has a public Instagram.
然后他整个人就彻底崩溃了，而她却过得风生水起，因为她还有一个公开的Instagram账号。
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So like, you know, I'm keeping tabs on both.
所以，你懂的，我两边都在留意着。
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You know, your rotation, like the roster where you like, you have to check on these people every couple of like months or years.
你知道的，人员轮换就像花名册一样，每隔几个月或者几年就得核查一下这些人的情况。
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I'm not going to say it's healthy, but you know, you're just like, it's relatable.
我不会说这是健康的，但你懂的，就是很能让人产生共鸣。
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It's curiosity.
是好奇心。
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You're just like, you know, I just, just curious, like where you ended up in life.
你也知道，我就是单纯好奇，想知道你后来过得怎么样。
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I don't know.
我不知道。
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It just I was like, it kind of made me feel good.
就是说，这让我感觉还挺不错的。
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Yeah, I wish I could say the same because I haven't creeped on my ex in a while, but he got married to the person he told me not to worry about.
我也想这么说，毕竟我已经好久没去偷偷关注我前任了，可他居然和当初那个他叫我别担心的人结婚了。
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And I was like, wow, that just that's like a dagger in the heart and a twist of the knife.
我当时就觉得，天哪，这简直就像一把匕首扎进心里，还被狠狠拧了一下。
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You know, I cheated on.
你知道吗，我出轨了。
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Yeah.
是的。
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And I was like, but also thank you for taking him away because he was terrible.
我当时心里还想，不过也谢谢你把他带走了，因为他实在太糟糕了。
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Is he looking a little crusty?
他看起来是不是有点暴躁？
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Absolutely.
当然。
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Because of all those mistakes compounding in his soul.
因为所有那些过错都在他的灵魂里不断累积。
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It's like sucking the youth out.
就像把青春一点点吸走一样。
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Yes.
是的。
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And now he's like a crusty old man who doesn't wear his sunscreen.
现在他活像个不肯涂防晒霜的糟老头子。
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You know, speaking of the energy thing, can I just say if you're with the wrong person, you become less attractive.
说到能量场这件事啊，我想说，要是你跟错的人在一起，你会变得越来越没有魅力。
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Let me elaborate on that.
我来详细说明一下。
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But if you look at pictures of yourself and how much of an energy vampire like your partner can be,
但如果你看看自己的照片，再想想你的伴侣有多像一个吸走你精力的人，
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if they're the wrong person for you, you will literally physically get less attractive.
如果对方不适合你，你真的会在生理上变得没那么有魅力。
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It is.
是的。
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I'm telling you, every time I've been with the wrong person, they have taken all of my like good aura, if that makes sense.
我跟你说，每次我和不对的人在一起，他们就会把我身上那种好的气场全都吸走，你懂我意思吧。
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No, I've had my best glow ups after after ending relationships with the toxic.
才不是，我每次状态最好的时候，都是在和那些糟心的人分手之后。
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And I think that's the theory of why people have glow ups after breakups, because they're getting their energy back finally and they're cutting the ties.
我觉得这就是为什么很多人分手后会逆袭变美，因为他们终于找回了自己的精力，斩断了那些牵绊。
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And I swear to you, I think that's a real thing.
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Yeah, I agree.
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You know, what's kind of crazy is I feel like Netflix is putting out a bunch of shows just like back to back.
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Like, for example, you've got Perfect Match season three coming out August 1st
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and then Love is Blind UK season two coming out August 13th.
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And then you've got Love is Blind US season nine.
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Oh my gosh.
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Season nine.
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Yeah.
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Which is going to be Denver based.
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Yeah.
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Denver.
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And I I think it's October 1st. Yeah.
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But don't you feel like that's just like a lot happening at once?
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A lot.
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Like what?
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They're just packing it into the second half of the year, which is kind of good for us because we can recap.
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But also, yeah, it's a lot of Love is Blind.
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Yeah.
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A lot of Netflix.
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I know people are like, well, Love is Blind UK is more of like the international version because you've got like, you know, the other Love is Blind international versions.
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Yeah.
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But I feel like the Love is Blind UK version is
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promoted by the main Love is Blind Netflix Instagram page
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that it's kind of you know it's like now being seen
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as kind of part of like the love is blind yes
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world in my head it's all the same it's like all the same maybe it's
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because English is the main language for both of um those versions of love is blind so yeah
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and I feel like also love is blind UK of all
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the international ones is probably the most popular too I think
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for like the yeah for the u.s crowd the u.s crowd
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but i uh yeah there's a lot coming out
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but like the concept is the exact same
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and it does get a little redundant
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so we'll see how it actually how it actually plays out yeah
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so my thing is the fact
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that love is mine uk is coming out like right after
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perfect match season three signals to me like perfect match season
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three like they know it's not going to be like oh an amazing season yeah
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that is my prediction who knows i've also heard rumblings from the cast and they're like, yeah, like they're like our season's OK.
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Interesting.
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If it's coming from the cast, you know.
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But I saw the trailer for Perfect Match season three.
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And like I know there was a bunch of rumblings being like,
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you know, Ali did something to AD and they're going to change his edit because AD is pregnant and they're engaged.
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But the trailer shows like ollie does something a little sketchy
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and ad is yelling at him about it
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so i think they might actually like not edit him as well as people were saying they're going to yeah
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and there's only so much they can edit anyways
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and i feel like
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if there is drama in a show they're not gonna protect anyone like they are playing
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that drama yeah you know what i mean like
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if it's juicy drama i feel like they're gonna play maybe they'll downplay it
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because i have heard of like big things
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that happened in previous perfect match seasons and it's completely edited out and the cast is like
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they definitely protected someone oh interesting you know
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so yeah you just you just never know i feel like they can only protect people so much
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but it really is dependent on the other storylines yeah they don't want to have a flop season
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so if they have the footage they're probably going to to use it.
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Yeah, that's what I was thinking.
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Yeah. So interesting.
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I think it's going to be weird watching knowing that 80
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and Ali are currently engaged and together and having a baby together
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and then like watching them like meet for the first time.
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Like I was like, so much time has passed.
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It just like doesn't make sense.
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And I also feel like the cast on Perfect Match season three, like based on their social media activity, you kind of already know what happens.
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Like, for example, one person from the cast is pregnant and like has been actively like showing it on social media, on our social media pages.
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And you're like, OK, I feel like the producers need to take a lesson from Love Island
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because they are literally putting out episodes like the next day after they film.
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So they need to make the turnaround much quicker
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because people lose interest and it just is not relevant anymore by the time the show comes out.
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Like, why do they Why do they keep doing that?
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It's taking too long.
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I don't think, but I just feel like they won't ever be able to do
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that i don't know how the back end works for netflix
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but i feel like it's very common
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that there's this you know this lag time by the time a show finishes filming
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and the time it premieres yeah
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because i think it has to fit into their schedule yeah
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and also i feel like netflix's show schedule yeah
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and i feel like um it really does depend on the platform
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that they're releasing it to like obviously Netflix has
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so many hit shows not just in the reality tv space
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like in scripted series Love Island is like Peacock's biggest show
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so obviously they're going to prioritize it I do feel like
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because of all the love is blind seasons
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but also the international versions it's becoming like very redundant
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and it's losing its like shine I know we always talk about
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that like it's becoming like the bachelor franchise where you know
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the peak is done like it's gone like I feel like
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that's kind of happening to love is blind I'm very curious what like season nine is gonna bring
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but I feel like the last few seasons since season six it's lost
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that like appeal yeah because well the format never changes
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and I don't think it can yeah because for at least for the U.S crowd this year alone.
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There's two U.S versions plus one U.K., which a lot of U.S people are going to watch.
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So it just feels like, I don't know, what's the word?
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Like just so much.
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It's just like, yeah, yeah.
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Truly, it's been done before.
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And obviously, every single person is unique and has their own story.
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But eventually, it just gets boring because you've seen it all.
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I know.
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I hate saying that because obviously, that's where Deepty and I came from.
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we were born from love is blind yeah it's like yeah
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it just it's yeah i'm not gonna lie i'm really excited for denver though
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because i've always wanted to live in denver i my brother lived in denver
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so i visited a lot i'm just really excited to see
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like what kind of dates they have oh i bet it'll be
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so cool it's gonna be so gorgeous like hiking dates are gonna do camping
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and like oh i love a good i i love camping
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i am such a nature girly you like camping i love
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camping i literally used to camp with my ex all the time we used to set up hammocks
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and sleep on the hammocks like not even in a tent
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sometimes i know who am i no i love it here's
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my thing i just feel like i use the bathroom
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so often in the middle of the night please don't diagnose me with anything.
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I was just gonna say also you can just use nature.
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It's literally there.
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I just I need like a toilet.
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I feel you.
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You know, you're and I feel like in the middle of the night, like I've gone camping before in Yellowstone, which is crazy.
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Gorgeous.
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Thankfully, they had like an actual bathroom like on the campground.
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But you would have to walk 10 minutes in the dark, like with your flashlight, passing other people's tents.
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Yeah, you would really enjoy a glamping situation.
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I don't think I'd even enjoy glamping.
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I just want a straight up hotel room.
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There's so many beautiful homes, cabins.
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You would.
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I could do a cabin.
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You could do a cabin.
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You would.
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Yeah.
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I'm just saying I can't do like an actual.
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I'm not camping.
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Like I'm not going to tent.
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I also think safety wise.
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I was like anyone just open that, you know, tent door.
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I'm like, look, there is just coming through.
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Hey, I don't know.
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Just sounds like a risk to me.
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It is.
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It is.
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I do have to say I'm watching a show currently and there's murders happening in this national forest.
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So I'm with you on that.
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It's not the most safe space.
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But imagine, wait, imagine for Love is Blind Denver, though, their shared apartment is like a shared tent.
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Um, I would die.
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They just get like a giant glamping campus and they're all connected.
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I was like, no one's getting married.
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Like 100%.
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Oh my gosh, I wonder where they'll do weddings. that makes me
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so excited wow they better go into the mountains go to vale breckenridge no they're not doing
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that the budget isn't
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that big i don't know it's season nine exactly yeah it's not season 10
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if it was season 10 they're getting the best weddings ever they'll be like our 10 year anniversary let's ignore
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that like six couples have already divorced but like a happiness
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they're like we don't focus on the breakups we focus on love for season nine there's already been a leak
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that um of like the two people who get married oh is it only one couple i don't know
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but there's a couple that was leaked i don't know
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if they're the only one or they're one of many yeah
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but you know i'm surprised that not more couples accidentally like show
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that they're together but i guess everyone's a stranger at this point
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but yeah well i was gonna say the leak it didn't
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really go anywhere like the tiktok about it only got like 500 likes yeah
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and everyone's like who cares yeah who cares
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and find out by the time the season comes out the public doesn't know who these people are
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so they don't really they're not really invested at this point for season eight
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which was in what city oh charlotte no uh dc it
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was dc right no no it wasn't oh it was the
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oh oh oh oh no it was the guy the skater
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boy he's definitely not from dc um we just talked about
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joey um where does he look like he's from minnesota minnesota
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they all look like they're from minnesota i was like i
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knew it was one of those i wasn't even thinking i was singing
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as soon as you said skater boy um well that season yes in conclusion that's the latest season Remember,
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there's a bunch of pictures of them like having the bachelorette
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and bachelor parties and then the women standing outside of a bridal shop.
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Pictures of that was leaked before season eight came out.
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And I remember like no one cared.
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Yeah.
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Like everyone's like, OK.
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And then I actually went back to look at those leaked photos, specifically the picture where the women are standing outside of a bridal shop.
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And you see like Monica, you see Sarah.
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funny um and
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so yeah no i i think unfortunately like i don't think people really care until until later
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and even then i feel like viewership is just it's it's like dying a little yeah
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but regardless i'm very excited
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and we're excited to recap obviously we'll be recapping perfect match season three um
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and then love is blind uk and love is blind us
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so full docket coming up can i just say I'm really proud of you for remembering all the dates
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because I was listening to you spew them off earlier and I was like, how the F do you remember?
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No, one thing about me.
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They're etched in your brain.
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Look, I don't remember a lot of things, but I'll remember the big things.
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Yeah.
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You're like, the dates got them clocked.
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No, I'll remember the dates.
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So one thing about me is like, when it comes to love is blind, I just like remember a lot.
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You do retain that information.
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Yeah.
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Meanwhile, mine's like in through one year out the other.
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If you ask me, give me a recap of what happened with Lydia Milton, Aaliyah and Uche from Love is Mine season five.
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I could tell you.
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I could tell you the gist.
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I feel like past season three.
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That one's a hard one for me.
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OK, so I saw this TikTok where this man was proposing and it was like in a public place.
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There was like multiple people, probably like 60 to 70 people watching in Paris.
500
And the girl genuinely looked a little terrified, like walked up to him and then ran off into the crowd.
501
Like the girl he was proposing to.
502
Yes.
503
And she just like runs off.
504
And this kind of triggered something in my brain.
505
Like, OK, I have to ask you, when you get proposed to one.
506
I already did.
507
And so did you.
508
Yes.
509
Don't forget it.
510
not me being like would you want it to be a public proposal but we did it on
511
national tv like literally not even national worldwide international worldwide bish worldwide it's mr worldwide that's just gonna say
512
that you're like mr worldwide yeah um but like would you be comfortable with a public proposal
513
no right wait wait let me think about this would i
514
be comfortable with a okay actually i would be okay with a public proposal
515
if he like we were talking about getting engaged okay that's my other follow-up like it isn't honestly necessary right
516
that couples talk about getting married before your partner just you
517
know pops the question i think that's a red flag
518
if he's like surprise like yeah i'm proposing like i feel like you have to talk about it
519
and make sure like both of you are on the same page about getting engaged completely agree
520
if it's a surprise i feel like that's actually a red
521
flag like you there's no conversations prior except for like little silly you know goose ones yeah like you know
522
when you'll say like i'm gonna marry you like you don't really mean it
523
but like you have to have an actual conversation how do
524
you feel about talking about rings beforehand like do you would
525
you want your partner to just pick out your ring for you?
526
Or would you like kind of throw some subtle hints here and there of what you're looking for?
527
No, I would straight up tell him.
528
I'd be like, this is my Pinterest board.
529
Yes, exactly.
530
And this is the exact ring I want.
531
You see, I don't be like veer off too far from like what I want.
532
I honestly, I feel like I wouldn't be so direct with it.
533
But there will be signs.
534
I will be buying magazines of wedding things and I will be putting them everywhere.
535
Magazines.
536
I I will literally buys magazines.
537
I will for this occasion.
538
This is how I would do it.
539
I would tell you exactly what I wanted, like a picture of the ring, the settings, everything like this is what I want.
540
Yeah.
541
And also I would tell you this is what I don't want.
542
And then I would send my boyfriend to you.
543
Yes.
544
I'd be like, talk to Deep D.
545
She'll tell you what you need to do.
546
Absolutely.
547
Or I'll be like sending him reels online.
548
Be like, look how pretty this is.
549
Because I feel like one thing about guys is if you give them too much freedom to choose something out for you.
550
You know, like sometimes I just feel like they go overboard.
551
Yeah, exactly.
552
And honestly, I just feel like why leave it up to them?
553
They're not the ones wearing it.
554
Yeah, constantly.
555
Like, exactly.
556
I don't want something to but I have little hands like, you know, I just need something that that fits perfectly.
557
Exactly.
558
And like, I don't want a five carat.
559
That's gonna like my I'm gonna get get arthritis.
560
You know, like, it's just no true.
561
Like, I don't want that.
562
Yeah.
563
It's going to weigh me down.
564
Yeah.
565
I was like, sorry, I need something smaller.
566
Yeah.
567
Also, like, I'm not trying to be subject to like thieves.
568
Yeah.
569
Like, I was like, I don't want to be robbed.
570
Not at all.
571
Not at all.
572
I was like, I want a booger sized drink.
573
OK, when I saw this video, though, the girl looked genuinely terrified.
574
And it like just literally sparked something in me.
575
And I was like, why are people not talking about marriage before proposing?
576
And it's just like such a backwards mentality thinking that the man has complete control over.
577
Exactly.
578
Like when you're going to reach the next stage of your life.
579
Like, no, like talk to your partner and see if she's ready for it.
580
I feel like there's like two reasons why she would run.
581
One, she's getting a panic attack.
582
Like she's like, OK, too many people.
583
Like I feel a lot of pressure right now.
584
I just like can't do this.
585
Yeah.
586
Or two, she's just like, what the fuck?
587
Yeah actually there's a third reason
588
and it's like i want this to go viral yeah that's
589
true i wonder people do anything for a little viral video yeah
590
because his response afterwards he was just like being over the top
591
and you know what i don't even care if it was fake
592
because i still am curious about the proposal situation wait it's actually really funny
593
so she's running away but she has to go up like these flights of stairs
594
and she's like like you're like like why not go straight
595
and i was like there's a lot of directions you could have gone
596
but you had to go up these flights of stairs that are like slowing you down.
597
She's like, like going up.
598
And I was like, you know, that's an immediate flight or flight response.
599
Yeah.
600
She's like, I got to get the F out of here.
601
I don't care which way I'm going.
602
I'm going.
603
If you propose to someone and they ran away, I feel like that's it's over.
604
Oh, 100 percent.
605
Just don't even call her.
606
Yeah.
607
Like, like, take the L.
608
Yep.
609
Dunzo.
610
Yeah.
611
Watch her come back and be like, I'm sorry.
612
I just got staged, right?
613
I actually want to be with you.
614
No, I know.
615
That's why I don't think I could take her back.
616
I'd be like, you know, I'm sorry.
617
You should know your partner better and understand what she would like.
618
For pop essays who are engaged, who have gotten proposed to you, like, did you tell your partner how you want to be proposed to?
619
I guess not exactly.
620
But like, where did you specify like you want it to be a private moment or you want, you know, your partner to do something big?
621
Did you tell your partner about the type of ring you wanted?
622
Or did you give them like free reign?
623
Like, I'm very curious, because I feel like for me, the normal way is to tell your partner, like, I want it to be a private moment.
624
Or if you are okay with it being a public proposal, and like the timeframe you want it to happen, like, it's gonna happen within the next few months.
625
Yeah, because you also have to have your nails ready.
626
Yeah.
627
You know, like, maybe she ran away because she's like, Oh, my God, I didn't even get my nails done.
628
Yeah.
629
Like, you know, like, I gotta go get manicure like a bear right now.
630
I, okay, here's my thing.
631
I think like having a conversation about when is important.
632
And I think potentially also ring.
633
But honestly, I'm not like huge on the ring thing.
634
Like, I feel like you can have some freedom with it.
635
Let's say you wanted a princess cut diamond.
636
And he got you like an oval shaped emerald.
637
Yeah.
638
Yeah, I be OK with it.
639
I think it really just depends in the moment.
640
Here's my thing.
641
I feel like a proposal is so important because it tells you so many signs about your partner.
642
I don't want to tell them how to do it and where to do it because that is a test.
643
Do you know me?
644
Do you have we had convos like I want it to be a surprise
645
because it's going to say so much about my partner and how much he listens to me.
646
OK, but can I tell you as your best friend?
647
I don't even know how you want to be proposed to.
648
If your boyfriend came to me and was like, how should I propose to Deepti?
649
Natalie.
650
I'd be like, you need to create a flower wall.
651
No. That says, Deepti, please marry me.
652
Bitch, you know I love to travel.
653
It needs to be a destination proposal.
654
It has to be in Chicago.
655
No. In front of the lake.
656
Also.
657
And it better be a scavenger hunt.
658
I was like, take that bitch all over the city.
659
I did.
660
I did see a couple getting engaged on a boat on the river and it was really pretty.
661
I saw that too.
662
I was like, that's gorgeous.
663
But do I want it to happen there?
664
No, because we're always on the boat.
665
Yeah, because you I feel like sure you would say like, my partner has to know me, but like, no, no, no, no, no, no, they he better listen.
666
That's a quality we are looking for.
667
And I feel like what would you what maybe he's listening now?
668
What do you want?
669
Why don't you just straight up tell him?
670
Honestly, it's just so relationship dependent.
671
Like, what if like we had significant moments somewhere?
672
Or like he told me I love you for the first time in a certain spot.
673
And that's where he proposes.
674
Like there's just so many like romantic sentiments that I just don't know what my future could look like.
675
It could go anywhere.
676
I don't know much about men, but one thing I know about men is sometimes I feel you just need to tell them.
677
You're right.
678
Sometimes you do need to tell them.
679
And I will tell him I feel like certain things, but there's also other things I'm like, no, I want to be surprised.
680
I want to see how thoughtful you are.
681
Actually, that's kind of true because I feel like my partner
682
would know that he has to at least set up a camera.
683
Yeah.
684
Like, because I love videotaping private moments.
685
Not like that.
686
Yeah, I was like, you know, like things that happen, like, I don't know, when I'm with my cousins and we're laughing or when I'm with my grandfather and we're just having lunch.
687
Like I like candid.
688
I like videotaping those moments to like watch them back.
689
Like I like remembering how young I was in the moment or what that moment felt like.
690
So I guess I would want my partner to know like, yeah, you have to videotape that so that we can look back on
691
that one day or children can look back on that one day and we have that like memorialized.
692
Yeah.
693
But I don't think, you know, like I don't want it to just be like, you know, like we're sitting on the couch.
694
He's like, remember me?
695
That's when I was like, yeah, absolutely not.
696
I feel like I learned a lot from my brother proposing and my sister in law likes nice things, you know, like she it needed to be nice.
697
And I feel like he knew that
698
and the way he set it up was so perfect and
699
so like surprising
700
but did she tell him like how she wanted it no
701
not at all she's just like proposed to me however i think they did talk about rings obviously
702
but that was pretty much it but he did it in such a romantic way
703
and he told her that it was gonna be like her friend was taking her to some like um nfl fundraiser event.
704
So she had to dress up and look nice.
705
I remember on that day, she was just like, oh, just like throw on something.
706
And we're like, no, no, no, no, you should put this on.
707
And so we're like trying to convince her otherwise.
708
And then he had all of her friends
709
and family line up in a row and he was waiting with their dog at the end.
710
And every single one of us handed her a rose.
711
So by the end, she had like a bouquet of flowers.
712
And then he got done with me but would you want to be proposed
713
that way i don't know yes i think it was
714
so pretty and just having all like your family do you think
715
that like the man who wants to propose to you will
716
know that's how you want to be proposed to i think
717
so i feel like well then the way i thought you
718
want to is very often do i even know you no here's the thing though i think it's
719
so situational because you can find the romance in a lot of situations there's a lot of proposal ideas
720
that could be be very romantic and beautiful you know
721
so I'm like not honed in on one thing yeah like
722
I'm not very specific on like you got to do it
723
this way it's moreover I want this type of ring
724
because I'm going to be wearing it forever
725
but that's yeah no I draw the line I think I will say
726
when it comes to the ring I'm not particular
727
but I just want something so simple
728
and not big yeah I don't like showy yeah I don't like showy just
729
because you know I'm such a scaredy cat like I'm not trying to get like, you know, like robbed.
730
Dude.
731
And I am the worst ever, but I lose everything.
732
Find me something where like, you'll be okay if I lose it.
733
Yeah.
734
We won't be having a panic attack.
735
Or it's like get insurance on the ring.
736
100%.
737
I feel like we could go all day with this, but I want our pot besties to tell us like,
738
when you got engaged, did you know it was happening around the time that it actually happened?
739
Did you and your partner talk about it?
740
you guys talk about the ring
741
and how you would like to be proposed to like I
742
just want to know like what's like the I don't want to say right thing
743
but what's the non-controlling way to go about yeah and more
744
so like what are the tactics you use to kind of
745
plant the seed in your partner's brain of how you want things to happen
746
because I feel like every woman is
747
so different they're gonna want different things yeah I need to
748
know more of like the tactics used to get what you literally please send us a dm
749
but speaking about dms i got
750
so many dms from all of you on how you guys
751
met your partners i would say the majority said like through
752
a dating app they were like yep download a dating app yeah take a chance
753
so i did it i'm on multiple yeah good thing i'm
754
on none now oh we're on different different levels i already had one
755
but the one that i was on like you can't filter by location.
756
So I was matching with people from like different cities.
757
And that's hard.
758
That's how I met the guy who lived in a different state.
759
And I was just like, I don't think long distance.
760
That's just not in my cards right now.
761
I don't think I could do it again after New York boy.
762
I downloaded another one hinge, which obviously could like filter people by city.
763
But anyways, I got it.
764
And I'll keep you guys updated.
765
I'm on a little hinge adventure let's go I love it for you I met all of my exes organically
766
so I was like I you know I'm just gonna try
767
it I'm gonna use it as like a real way to
768
meet someone instead of just like you know like swiping just
769
cuz yeah honestly I need to be convinced by you more
770
because every time I do the dating app thing I just get
771
so deterred from it I'm just like oh I don't like it I don't want it
772
but anyways thank you pod besties for sending us all the dms we love you
773
and make sure you leave a review and subscribe.
774
See you next Wednesday.
775
Bye.
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视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：
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