쉐도잉 연습: Choose yourself and walk away - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기

If you are a beautiful woman, if you are a woman that has money, that has any talent, you better be prepared to become the biggest bitch ever.

People, men and women, will attack you for no reason.

They will not like you for no reason.

Just because you're breeding, you will trigger them.

So you better be prepared to have some strong-ass boundaries

and to walk away every single time recently i was in

a situation with the father of my child where i had given birth

and i was in a country where i didn't have all of my rights i didn't have my family

and this guy basically decided to blackmail me with my child

if i don't do this then he's gonna take my child

if i don't do this then i'm gonna get deported

and i was constantly thinking okay let me just try to be nice

and should pay for everything and do everything this guy asks so he will stop blackmailing but guess what happened?

It got worse and worse.

And guess what happened even now?

He went online and he literally said after I had to leave for my visa that I abandoned my child.

I abandoned my child.

No, I abandoned myself.

Staying through all of the bullshit for my child.

I want to say to every single woman, if a man is blackmailing you with your child, give them the child.

Let these men be single parents we need to stop doing

what our mother has done what our grandmother has done my

mother stayed for 25 years with a man let herself get abused

because she was scared of the children being taken i will not be blackmailed with my own child

that i almost died putting on this earth i don't want my son to grow up

and think that it's okay to treat women like this

that it's okay to blackmail women like this so

if you're a mother right now and i've seen

so many mediums of women of like i'm being blackmailed

and by the way the system doesn't protect us court system

you will go to court you will lose all of your money for years

and years and they will still not give you your child even

if they give it to you these men will not help you with child support

so guess what how do we break this whole cycle that our

that our ancestors all had to repeat we break it by

saying it ends with us let's make this world full of

single dads you know how many men were bullying me every

day oh she's a single mom she's single mom oh man

they have single moms themselves they don't appreciate the effort

that you put in let these fathers raise them why are

we always putting ourselves in these situations where where these men

can just walk away for nothing as a woman you are

not just sent to this earth to be a mother you

are not just sent to this earth to be a wife

you are a powerful woman stop giving your power away to these men

to stop giving your life away for these kids

that tomorrow all are going to be just ungrateful hi guys my name is

and welcome back to my channel okay let's get into it first things first first thing is

when someone holds something over your head you walk away whether

it's a friend whether it's a boss whether it's a relationship

oh i'm gonna leak your nose i'm gonna do this do it

You show those people no fear the only power they have over you is

that you are scared when you show these people I am not scared of you.

You will not abuse me.

You will not use me That's

when they lose all of the power right now My ex is begging me begging me texting me.

Oh, I want to give you your child I wanna oh now you want to huh

because you realize I don't give a fuck

and I never give a fuck Another thing is you better run away from people that are insecure and jealous.

Listen These jealous, insecure people will completely try to dim your light,

try to humble you and take every single soul or essence that you have, whether it's friends, colleagues, your relationship, run away.

When you see that they're trying to compete with you, when you see that they're saying these slight comments of like, oh, you don't, you're not all that, oh, this and that.

When you hear these things, run for the hills.

These people will only get worse and worse.

You cannot make these people feel secure in themselves.

You cannot control this person.

They will only get more insecure because they are triggered by you.

There is nothing you can do.

You can't sit there and say, I'm going to change myself and then they will like me more.

They want you to stop breathing.

they don't want you on this earth your essence you breathing triggers them you can't do anything

but walk away well i don't care who it is you walk away from these people

and you save yourself every single time there was a point

where i felt like everything was just hitting me at once my schedule was non-stop

and my brain just wouldn't slow down i felt stressed

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Another thing is understand that a lot of people are projecting, especially onto women that have any privilege, The society's biggest enemy is a beautiful,

successful woman that doesn't keep her mouth shut.

I swear, you will have spiritual warfare on you.

These demons will unleash and try to bring you down.

You need to understand these people are projecting.

These people have no life and they will never accomplish anything.

It's men that cannot be with you and it's women that cannot be you that will be your biggest enemies.

You still have to walk.

Whatever they say about you, they are projecting because they're talking about themselves.

You are what you say I am.

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Another thing, do not beef with people that have nothing to lose.

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These people have nothing to lose.

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They have no job.

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They have nothing going for themselves.

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That's why they're hyper fixated on you and bringing you down because there's nothing going for them.

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You don't argue with them.

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You cut them off quickly.

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I need you women to understand

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if you are a privileged beautiful woman it is dangerous for

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your life to engage with these people just now I saw

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this guy makeup artist uh miss Venezuela she was sitting

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and he takes a scissor

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and attacks her face with scissors there's women throwing acid in other women's faces

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because she's beautiful you guys don't understand how jealousy

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and hate will drive people to do the most insane things

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guard yourself with your life what you can do with these people

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if you have a lot of haters bullies whatever is use their energy

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and you transmute energy is energy it's not neither good it's

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neither bad it's just you being sent a lot of energy

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and see hater energy is very obsessive energy it's not like

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just they're sending you love know it's like they're investigating

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and they're creating stuff so they're like very very deep into it this energy is really good

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if you know how to transmute it for example you take

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this energy you can always word your name that's what i always do like i say

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that anytime i name spoken good or bad i get more beautiful healthier

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and wealthier more protected i say all of these things so whenever someone speaks my name, I just get more blessings.

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And second of all, you use that energy to create something out of it.

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Create something because anyways, if energy is being sent to you, your creation will get attention.

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When you create something, you can get more abundance out of it.

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Don't just sit there and victimize yourself.

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Never ever allow yourself to be a victim people

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that are haters people that are bullies these are victims they think

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that life is against them whatever people that

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that take power back over their life they never see themselves

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as a victim i don't see any situation in my life

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that happened to me as like oh i was a victim maybe

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when i was a child and my father was abusing me that's

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when i was a victim when i'm older

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and stuff no i don't believe i'm a victim i don't believe

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that because at the end of the day this situation was here to teach me something to awaken me

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and also i still have authority and power over my life

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if i'm just a victim that means

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that the other person has all the power

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and they don't i can walk away i can rebuild myself

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every single time another thing is stand up for yourself do

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not allow these people to talk down on you do not

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allow these people to constantly bully you stand up for yourself

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no one is going to do it no one is going to come

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and be like oh i'm going to defend her no

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if you don't defend yourself no one's going to defend you

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whenever someone comes to you with any weird energy tell them why do you talk to me like

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that like just now i had a situation with this guy uh i went on a date with him

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and he was like oh normal whatever and suddenly he just switched

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and i swear these people are like demons that are possessing them it's

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so weird what's going on in my life it's so spiritual it's

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so weird to me so like suddenly he switched and he goes like

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yeah but you for example made uh all these women bitches i was like excuse me

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and then he's like yeah

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and it came out of nowhere i put this guy in his place

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so fucking fast he started trembling he was so fucking scared

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and i walked out of that date do not fucking talk to me like

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that i stand by what i did if these women are bitches

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that watch the wizard list let them be the biggest bitches ever men abuse use rape women

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and when a woman comes online and says let these men provide

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or don't just be with these men for nothing oh then

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suddenly it's a problem then suddenly you guys are threatened i'd rather be a bitch

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and an evil woman than a woman that gets used

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and abused every single day when a man or anyone tells you

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that you are a good woman you should take

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that as an insult

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because in this world to be a good woman means you have to bend over backwards

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and you will still not be good enough nothing a woman

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does is ever enough ever example with me right all of these women analyzing my situation

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and like oh she shouldn't have gotten married too fast oh she did this too fast did

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that too fast okay so i'm a stupid bitch okay let's say

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that but then when christy sarah comes online

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and then she was 14 years with her husband gave this man three children

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and she was they had a whole empire everyone loved them right suddenly he cheats on her

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and everyone in his comments is like oh he looks so peaceful now because she was annoying

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also christy sarah did everything right but she was annoying i did everything wrong

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and i deserved it so whatever a woman does it's never good enough you guys are jealous

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and big man another things focus on money i've said this again and again

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if you are a woman you have to focus on money

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do not focus on these relationships do not focus on i need to be a mother this

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and that no no no you focus on money

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if you don't have money as a woman you will be

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in the most shittiest situation you cannot trust anyone not a

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friend not not whoever anyone can switch up on you like this why

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because we cannot control other people a person can have a psychosis today

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and they can completely do something irrational to you you can't control them you just hope for the best

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so you need to make sure that you always have money so you have the freedom to walk away.

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If I did not have money in my situation, I would be so fucked.

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Guys, I would be so fucked every day.

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I'm so grateful.

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Thank you, God, that I have money to walk away.

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Time and time again, I have seen women being left with no money by these men.

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Even if they give them children, they give them everything and they're left and stranded with nothing.

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You are a powerful woman once you have your own money.

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Also, focus on yourself.

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Listen, for my fans and for people that subscribe and stuff, they don't like drama.

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And I know that they're not invested in my drama either.

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My personal life, you shouldn't care.

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You should learn from this.

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You should literally look at this and be like, shit, I should definitely not do that.

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I should definitely not get blackmailed, not even over my own child.

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Stop focusing on other people's lives and start focusing on yourself.

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Look, my ex, for example, has a weird obsession with me.

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I don't know what it is, but it's a weird obsession and all he does is focus on me, focus on my life.

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And what happens?

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He completely has destroyed his life.

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He has lost everything because of it.

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And he can't stop focusing on me.

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This is what happens when you indulge in negativity.

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You're jealous.

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You're a hater.

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These people will never make it.

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If you see a woman online that is talking about me constantly, 20 videos about me, please take that as an example to never be like her.

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That's a pathetic woman.

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I'm sorry it's pathetic to come online and constantly talk about other people

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if that's the only thing you do You have nothing going for yourself.

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It's sad Focus on yourself.

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These people will never accomplish anything They will be 80 years old tomorrow

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and they will have nothing to show for it And last

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but not least let go of trying to be a good woman or caring about your reputation

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See throughout society women have always tried to upheld their reputation

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and try to be a good woman this and that

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but what it actually does is they're just trying to control you

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and the patriarchy thrives off controlling women

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and other women are also trying to control women

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because they're oppressed themselves it's oppressed people oppressing other people no you don't want to be like

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that that is when you accomplish nothing no one is going to give you applause

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because you were a good woman and

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because you listen my mom for 25 years listened did nothing did everything she had to do

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and guess what she has to show for it nothing there is still till this day people

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that believe my father was a good man and

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that she was an evil woman can you imagine that do not ever

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give up any of your life anything

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that you have going for yourself for anyone

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if someone doesn't make you happier richer

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or more beautiful they should not be in your life either you're gonna learn to become the biggest bitch ever

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or this world is going to eat you alive believe me

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i've tried to be kind i've been a people pleaser every single time i'm getting punished god punishes me

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when i when i give more than what i receive as a woman you cannot do

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that we are here on earth we are the creators this earth is filled by our children there's mothers

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and their children we should be respected people should come to us with respect

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and if they can't do that

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if you stay then you will bear the karma for it

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so you better walk away anyways guys i love you so much and yeah see you next video bye

쉐도잉이란? 영어 실력을 빠르게 키우는 과학적 방법

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