Практика Shadowing: Choose yourself and walk away - Изучайте разговорный английский по видео
Создание урока...
1
If you are a beautiful woman, if you are a woman that has money, that has any talent, you better be prepared to become the biggest bitch ever.
2
People, men and women, will attack you for no reason.
3
They will not like you for no reason.
4
Just because you're breeding, you will trigger them.
5
So you better be prepared to have some strong-ass boundaries
6
and to walk away every single time recently i was in
7
a situation with the father of my child where i had given birth
8
and i was in a country where i didn't have all of my rights i didn't have my family
9
and this guy basically decided to blackmail me with my child
10
if i don't do this then he's gonna take my child
11
if i don't do this then i'm gonna get deported
12
and i was constantly thinking okay let me just try to be nice
13
and should pay for everything and do everything this guy asks so he will stop blackmailing but guess what happened?
14
It got worse and worse.
15
And guess what happened even now?
16
He went online and he literally said after I had to leave for my visa that I abandoned my child.
17
I abandoned my child.
18
No, I abandoned myself.
19
Staying through all of the bullshit for my child.
20
I want to say to every single woman, if a man is blackmailing you with your child, give them the child.
21
Let these men be single parents we need to stop doing
22
what our mother has done what our grandmother has done my
23
mother stayed for 25 years with a man let herself get abused
24
because she was scared of the children being taken i will not be blackmailed with my own child
25
that i almost died putting on this earth i don't want my son to grow up
26
and think that it's okay to treat women like this
27
that it's okay to blackmail women like this so
28
if you're a mother right now and i've seen
29
so many mediums of women of like i'm being blackmailed
30
and by the way the system doesn't protect us court system
31
you will go to court you will lose all of your money for years
32
and years and they will still not give you your child even
33
if they give it to you these men will not help you with child support
34
so guess what how do we break this whole cycle that our
35
that our ancestors all had to repeat we break it by
36
saying it ends with us let's make this world full of
37
single dads you know how many men were bullying me every
38
day oh she's a single mom she's single mom oh man
39
they have single moms themselves they don't appreciate the effort
40
that you put in let these fathers raise them why are
41
we always putting ourselves in these situations where where these men
42
can just walk away for nothing as a woman you are
43
not just sent to this earth to be a mother you
44
are not just sent to this earth to be a wife
45
you are a powerful woman stop giving your power away to these men
46
to stop giving your life away for these kids
47
that tomorrow all are going to be just ungrateful hi guys my name is
48
and welcome back to my channel okay let's get into it first things first first thing is
49
when someone holds something over your head you walk away whether
50
it's a friend whether it's a boss whether it's a relationship
51
oh i'm gonna leak your nose i'm gonna do this do it
52
You show those people no fear the only power they have over you is
53
that you are scared when you show these people I am not scared of you.
54
You will not abuse me.
55
You will not use me That's
56
when they lose all of the power right now My ex is begging me begging me texting me.
57
Oh, I want to give you your child I wanna oh now you want to huh
58
because you realize I don't give a fuck
59
and I never give a fuck Another thing is you better run away from people that are insecure and jealous.
60
Listen These jealous, insecure people will completely try to dim your light,
61
try to humble you and take every single soul or essence that you have, whether it's friends, colleagues, your relationship, run away.
62
When you see that they're trying to compete with you, when you see that they're saying these slight comments of like, oh, you don't, you're not all that, oh, this and that.
63
When you hear these things, run for the hills.
64
These people will only get worse and worse.
65
You cannot make these people feel secure in themselves.
66
You cannot control this person.
67
They will only get more insecure because they are triggered by you.
68
There is nothing you can do.
69
You can't sit there and say, I'm going to change myself and then they will like me more.
70
They want you to stop breathing.
71
they don't want you on this earth your essence you breathing triggers them you can't do anything
72
but walk away well i don't care who it is you walk away from these people
73
and you save yourself every single time there was a point
74
where i felt like everything was just hitting me at once my schedule was non-stop
75
and my brain just wouldn't slow down i felt stressed
76
and honestly just stuck in survival mode starting therapy really helped me to take a step back
77
and figure out how to manage everything in a healthier way.
78
I learned coping tools that actually worked for me, for example, how to set boundaries and how to stop carrying everything on my own.
79
It didn't make my life perfect overnight, but it made me feel way more grounded and in control of my life again.
80
Having slow mornings where I can center myself makes all the difference to make me feel grounded.
81
BetterHelp is a sponsor of today's video and they are on a mission to make therapy way easier.
82
With BetterHelp, therapists will listen, ask questions and help you see things from a new perspective.
83
BetterHelp makes therapy accessible wherever you are, whether it's online or through the app.
84
You'll add a questionnaire and you'll match your therapist in as little as a couple days.
85
82% of clients recommend their therapist.
86
Click the link in the description down below
87
or visit betterhelp.com slash wizard list to get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.
88
Because no one should go to anything alone.
89
BetterHelp is here with you.
90
Another thing is understand that a lot of people are projecting, especially onto women that have any privilege, The society's biggest enemy is a beautiful,
91
successful woman that doesn't keep her mouth shut.
92
I swear, you will have spiritual warfare on you.
93
These demons will unleash and try to bring you down.
94
You need to understand these people are projecting.
95
These people have no life and they will never accomplish anything.
96
It's men that cannot be with you and it's women that cannot be you that will be your biggest enemies.
97
You still have to walk.
98
Whatever they say about you, they are projecting because they're talking about themselves.
99
You are what you say I am.
100
Another thing, do not beef with people that have nothing to lose.
101
These people have nothing to lose.
102
They have no job.
103
They have nothing going for themselves.
104
That's why they're hyper fixated on you and bringing you down because there's nothing going for them.
105
You don't argue with them.
106
You cut them off quickly.
107
I need you women to understand
108
if you are a privileged beautiful woman it is dangerous for
109
your life to engage with these people just now I saw
110
this guy makeup artist uh miss Venezuela she was sitting
111
and he takes a scissor
112
and attacks her face with scissors there's women throwing acid in other women's faces
113
because she's beautiful you guys don't understand how jealousy
114
and hate will drive people to do the most insane things
115
guard yourself with your life what you can do with these people
116
if you have a lot of haters bullies whatever is use their energy
117
and you transmute energy is energy it's not neither good it's
118
neither bad it's just you being sent a lot of energy
119
and see hater energy is very obsessive energy it's not like
120
just they're sending you love know it's like they're investigating
121
and they're creating stuff so they're like very very deep into it this energy is really good
122
if you know how to transmute it for example you take
123
this energy you can always word your name that's what i always do like i say
124
that anytime i name spoken good or bad i get more beautiful healthier
125
and wealthier more protected i say all of these things so whenever someone speaks my name, I just get more blessings.
126
And second of all, you use that energy to create something out of it.
127
Create something because anyways, if energy is being sent to you, your creation will get attention.
128
When you create something, you can get more abundance out of it.
129
Don't just sit there and victimize yourself.
130
Never ever allow yourself to be a victim people
131
that are haters people that are bullies these are victims they think
132
that life is against them whatever people that
133
that take power back over their life they never see themselves
134
as a victim i don't see any situation in my life
135
that happened to me as like oh i was a victim maybe
136
when i was a child and my father was abusing me that's
137
when i was a victim when i'm older
138
and stuff no i don't believe i'm a victim i don't believe
139
that because at the end of the day this situation was here to teach me something to awaken me
140
and also i still have authority and power over my life
141
if i'm just a victim that means
142
that the other person has all the power
143
and they don't i can walk away i can rebuild myself
144
every single time another thing is stand up for yourself do
145
not allow these people to talk down on you do not
146
allow these people to constantly bully you stand up for yourself
147
no one is going to do it no one is going to come
148
and be like oh i'm going to defend her no
149
if you don't defend yourself no one's going to defend you
150
whenever someone comes to you with any weird energy tell them why do you talk to me like
151
that like just now i had a situation with this guy uh i went on a date with him
152
and he was like oh normal whatever and suddenly he just switched
153
and i swear these people are like demons that are possessing them it's
154
so weird what's going on in my life it's so spiritual it's
155
so weird to me so like suddenly he switched and he goes like
156
yeah but you for example made uh all these women bitches i was like excuse me
157
and then he's like yeah
158
and it came out of nowhere i put this guy in his place
159
so fucking fast he started trembling he was so fucking scared
160
and i walked out of that date do not fucking talk to me like
161
that i stand by what i did if these women are bitches
162
that watch the wizard list let them be the biggest bitches ever men abuse use rape women
163
and when a woman comes online and says let these men provide
164
or don't just be with these men for nothing oh then
165
suddenly it's a problem then suddenly you guys are threatened i'd rather be a bitch
166
and an evil woman than a woman that gets used
167
and abused every single day when a man or anyone tells you
168
that you are a good woman you should take
169
that as an insult
170
because in this world to be a good woman means you have to bend over backwards
171
and you will still not be good enough nothing a woman
172
does is ever enough ever example with me right all of these women analyzing my situation
173
and like oh she shouldn't have gotten married too fast oh she did this too fast did
174
that too fast okay so i'm a stupid bitch okay let's say
175
that but then when christy sarah comes online
176
and then she was 14 years with her husband gave this man three children
177
and she was they had a whole empire everyone loved them right suddenly he cheats on her
178
and everyone in his comments is like oh he looks so peaceful now because she was annoying
179
also christy sarah did everything right but she was annoying i did everything wrong
180
and i deserved it so whatever a woman does it's never good enough you guys are jealous
181
and big man another things focus on money i've said this again and again
182
if you are a woman you have to focus on money
183
do not focus on these relationships do not focus on i need to be a mother this
184
and that no no no you focus on money
185
if you don't have money as a woman you will be
186
in the most shittiest situation you cannot trust anyone not a
187
friend not not whoever anyone can switch up on you like this why
188
because we cannot control other people a person can have a psychosis today
189
and they can completely do something irrational to you you can't control them you just hope for the best
190
so you need to make sure that you always have money so you have the freedom to walk away.
191
If I did not have money in my situation, I would be so fucked.
192
Guys, I would be so fucked every day.
193
I'm so grateful.
194
Thank you, God, that I have money to walk away.
195
Time and time again, I have seen women being left with no money by these men.
196
Even if they give them children, they give them everything and they're left and stranded with nothing.
197
You are a powerful woman once you have your own money.
198
Also, focus on yourself.
199
Listen, for my fans and for people that subscribe and stuff, they don't like drama.
200
And I know that they're not invested in my drama either.
201
My personal life, you shouldn't care.
202
You should learn from this.
203
You should literally look at this and be like, shit, I should definitely not do that.
204
I should definitely not get blackmailed, not even over my own child.
205
Stop focusing on other people's lives and start focusing on yourself.
206
Look, my ex, for example, has a weird obsession with me.
207
I don't know what it is, but it's a weird obsession and all he does is focus on me, focus on my life.
208
And what happens?
209
He completely has destroyed his life.
210
He has lost everything because of it.
211
And he can't stop focusing on me.
212
This is what happens when you indulge in negativity.
213
You're jealous.
214
You're a hater.
215
These people will never make it.
216
If you see a woman online that is talking about me constantly, 20 videos about me, please take that as an example to never be like her.
217
That's a pathetic woman.
218
I'm sorry it's pathetic to come online and constantly talk about other people
219
if that's the only thing you do You have nothing going for yourself.
220
It's sad Focus on yourself.
221
These people will never accomplish anything They will be 80 years old tomorrow
222
and they will have nothing to show for it And last
223
but not least let go of trying to be a good woman or caring about your reputation
224
See throughout society women have always tried to upheld their reputation
225
and try to be a good woman this and that
226
but what it actually does is they're just trying to control you
227
and the patriarchy thrives off controlling women
228
and other women are also trying to control women
229
because they're oppressed themselves it's oppressed people oppressing other people no you don't want to be like
230
that that is when you accomplish nothing no one is going to give you applause
231
because you were a good woman and
232
because you listen my mom for 25 years listened did nothing did everything she had to do
233
and guess what she has to show for it nothing there is still till this day people
234
that believe my father was a good man and
235
that she was an evil woman can you imagine that do not ever
236
give up any of your life anything
237
that you have going for yourself for anyone
238
if someone doesn't make you happier richer
239
or more beautiful they should not be in your life either you're gonna learn to become the biggest bitch ever
240
or this world is going to eat you alive believe me
241
i've tried to be kind i've been a people pleaser every single time i'm getting punished god punishes me
242
when i when i give more than what i receive as a woman you cannot do
243
that we are here on earth we are the creators this earth is filled by our children there's mothers
244
and their children we should be respected people should come to us with respect
245
and if they can't do that
246
if you stay then you will bear the karma for it
247
so you better walk away anyways guys i love you so much and yeah see you next video bye
Контекст и фон
В этом видео речь идет о том, как важно для женщин устанавливать границы и защищать свои интересы, особенно в сложных жизненных ситуациях. Спикер делится личным опытом, рассказывая о том, как она столкнулась с манипуляциями и шантажем со стороны отца своего ребенка. Она подчеркивает необходимость быть сильной и не поддаваться на давление, а также призывает женщин не позволять другим управлять их жизнью, особенно когда в игру вовлечены дети. Это вдохновляющее и энергичное послание направлено на преодоление стереотипов и преодоление страха перед обрушением старых традиций.
Топ-5 фраз для повседневного общения
- «Я не позволю никому манипулировать мной»
- «Давайте остановим это поколенческое наследие страха»
- «Каждый имеет право на свои границы»
- «Я — сильная женщина»
- «Мы можем изменить ситуацию»
Пошаговое руководство по шадов спику
Для улучшения вашего произношения и навыков общения на английском языке с помощью метода шадов спика, следуйте этому простому пошаговому руководству:
- Прослушивание: Включите видео и внимательно слушайте, как спикер произносит слова и фразы. Обратите внимание на интонацию и ритм.
- Транскрипция: Параллельно следите за текстом, чтобы убедиться, что вы понимаете каждое слово. Это поможет вам лучше усвоить материал.
- Повторение: Сделайте паузу в видео и попробуйте повторить за спикером. Используйте метод шадов спика, чтобы синхронизировать свою речь с его. Теперь вы можете улучшить произношение английского, внимательно воспроизводя каждую фразу.
- Запись: Запишите себя, произнося фразы. Это позволит вам прослушать свои ошибки и обратить внимание на прогресс.
- Регулярность: Повторяйте этот процесс ежедневно, чтобы закрепить новые фразы и улучшить свои навыки шадов спика. Старайтесь использовать новые выражения в повседневном общении.
Не забывайте: шадов спик — это мощный инструмент для улучшения вашего произношения английского и развития уверенности. Регулярная практика на таких видео, как это, поможет вам значительно изменить вашу речь и уверенность в себе.
Что такое техника Shadowing?
Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.