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Requiesce romantic.

While you're dancing at a party, someone who is objectively your type walks in.

Like textbook perfect.

But you don't feel anything.

No attraction.

Two years ago, you would have liked to have a conversation with them, but tonight, one look at them and you're already sighing.

The emotional effort feels too much.

You'd rather take a nap for three years than deal with a date right now.

Grabbing another snack, you just sit at the quietest corner of the room.

This is requiesse romantic, and it means you have no romantic attraction left because you're emotionally exhausted.

Requiesse comes from the word for rest, and that's all you want right now.

The thing is, you don't even know why you're like that.

Maybe you had a series of intense relationships that left you wrung out.

Maybe you've spent too much energy on other people's trauma.

Or maybe life just got heavy and your brain decided to turn off the attraction switch.

You don't hate love, you just didn't want to get involved.

Maybe the spark will come back, but for now, you're on energy saver mode and that's completely okay.

Egoromantic.

You buy front row tickets to the cheesiest rom-com ever and even drag your friend along.

In the theater, you're the most excited, gasping at plot twists, cheering at every kiss.

This is your Super Bowl.

But when the movie credits roll and the lights come up, your friend reaches over and holds your hand.

You freeze.

Why is she holding you?

You pull away so fast the popcorn goes flying.

By cracking a joke, you try to kill the tension, but inside that handhold felt wrong.

Very wrong.

That's because you're likely egoromantic.

It's when you love romance in theory, but have zero interest in participating personally.

The eye contact, the first kiss, the wedding vows.. beautiful, but just so long as you can watch it happen to someone else.

At home, you've got an entire bookshelf dedicated to romance novels.

You've read every single one, some, twice, or thrice, but you never picture yourself in love, nor do you ever want to.

You don't know why you're like this, maybe you were born this way, or maybe something made you realize that only loving the idea of romance is enough.

No need to live it.

Paco Romantic You're at a high-end gala, and everyone around you looks stunning.

Your date keeps pointing out attractive people, but you feel absolutely nothing.

Then you spot someone in the corner, messy, uncombed hair, shirt with a visible coffee stain, glasses held together with tape,

even the socks don't match.

And somehow your heart starts racing.

Do you have a crush on her?

You excuse yourself immediately and make a beeline across the room the room.

Your date calls after you confused, but you don't care.

You just found the most attractive human in the room.

Strangely, this is what love is for cacoromantic people,

and it's when you're attracted exclusively to people who don't fit society's beauty standards.

While everyone else chases perfection, you've got feelings for that crooked smile, the chipped tooth, and the bedhead.

To you, perfection is boring, and polished looks make your brain run an error code.

But when you find someone with a scar on their eyebrow and mismatched socks, that's a 10 out of 10.

So while everyone fights over the same conventionally attractive people,

you Now if these romantic orientations seem weird and surprising,

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Polyromantic You're leaning against the snack table at a house party, scanning the room.

Your friend suddenly points toward a group and asks who you like.

Without hesitation, you blush and point.

That girl in the sundress?

Crush!

That non-binary with the neon mullet?

Huge crush.

And the lesbian in a leather jacket?

Total hard eyes.

Your friend laughs and asks if you just crush on everyone.

Right on cue, a handsome guy walks over and your face goes blank.

The hearts just vanish.

Your friend notices your frown and gestures toward the new guy.

You shrug and sip your drink.

Apparently, of all the people in the room, this is the one person you don't like.

A guy.

Being polyromantic means you're attracted to many, but not all, gender identities.

You might like women, non-binary folks, and gender-fluid people, but men?

Hard pass.

It could be the other way around, too.

You could like men and all other masculine genders, but not women.

It's like being attracted to a bunch of people.

But try explaining that to your friends.

Most times, even you don't know why you dislike one specific gender.

Bellis Romantic.

You're on the th- But then,

dessert arrives, and they lean in with that look.

You know what they're about to ask.

Where do we stand?

You freeze, fork halfway in your mouth.

You set it down slowly and scratch your head.

Apparently you're not ready for long-term commitment.

You were just looking to have a fun night out, not a relationship.

Well, being Bellis Romantic means you love the romantic aesthetic, the dates, the hand-holding, the cute gestures,

but the feelings and the soulmate connection everyone keeps talking about?

It's not your thing.

It's like test driving a sports car every weekend, loving the leather seats and the hum that engine makes,

But the second someone pulls out purchase paperwork, you're gone.

By now, you've perfected the art of romantic gestures without the romantic attachment.

You'll buy some flowers, take them to a movie, and plan the whole evening.

But then, you want them to drop you off at your house so you can sleep in your bed, alone.

Just so you know, this is very different from ghosting someone.

However, it usually ends in ghosting unless your partner is also Bellis Romantic.

Finn Romantic.

You're at a coffee shop when someone walks in wearing a flowy lavender sweater.

The moment they place an order for a vanilla latte, your heart jumps.

You're starstruck, wondering who that is.

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You're not even sure of their gender, and honestly, you don't care.

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The vibe is soft and gentle, and that's all that matters.

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Next week, you see a guy in a pastel pink hoodie.

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He's talking about skin care with his friends.

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And once again your brain lights up.

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You really like him.

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If this is you, you're a finromantic.

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The fin stands for feminine in nature, meaning you're attracted to anyone with feminine energy, despite their gender.

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All the softness, gentle vibes, pastel colors, that's your switch.

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It's the opposite of being attracted to macho and overly masculine figures, but for you, softness is all you care about.

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Quo Quo Romantic.

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You've been on 10 dates this month.

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Your friends are convinced that at least one of them has to be the one.

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Yet you feel nothing, not even a spark.

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Date number 11 walks in while you're preparing a polite exit strategy,

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but when they mention they're a left-handed architect who plays the cello and has an unhealthy obsession with 1940s noir films, your brain short circuits.

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This is it.

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They're your soulmate.

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For pro quo romantic people like you, attraction is an eight-digit password,

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meaning your preference is extremely specific.

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If someone doesn't check every box, your brain doesn't register them as a romantic option.

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They could be perfect, but not for you.

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Even your dating app bio reads like a job posting.

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Must be 5'11", have a PhD in marine biology, and own at least three vintage hats.

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Your friends think you're insane, but you're just filtering out 99.9% of the population.

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That'll probably take 30 plus dates first.

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Chrono-romantic.

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It's 2026 and you haven't had a single crush in years.

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Your friends keep setting you up on dates but nothing happens.

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At some point it seems like you're just not built for love.

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Then one day you're at the market when someone suddenly walks past wearing 2014 Tumblr era fashion.

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Skinny jeans, side fringe haircut, and a galaxy print hoodie.

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Instantly, your heart, dead for years, comes to life.

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You don't even know this person, but they look like they time traveled straight from your teenage bedroom.

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Suddenly, you feel young again, reblogging aesthetic posts at 2am.

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This is chrono-romantic, and it's when your attraction is locked to a specific time period.

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You're living in 2026, but your love sensor only beeps near someone who looks like a memory.

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Somehow, your love is less about you looking for a partner and more about nostalgia.

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You're like an old gaming console that only plays 8-bit cartridges.

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If someone hands you the latest 4K VR masterpiece, it'd never fit.

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So when you finally meet someone who matches the exact aesthetic of that one summer of 2015, they become your soulmate.

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Now before you assume that this video is AI, please remember that talented humans still exist!

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What am I doing in the studio if not being a talented human?

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Sorry, hit the mic.

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Now these orientations show how we experience love, but some systems take advantage of it,

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and we expose them in every human trafficking method explained.

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And if you can't tell, it's probably not going to be as lighthearted as this video was.

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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트

이 B2 수준 말하기 레슨은 영상 “Every Romantic Orientation Explained in 10 Minutes”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: romantic, date, gender. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 146개와 단어 1557개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 10:32입니다. 화자는 분당 약 148단어의 일정한 속도로 말해서 섀도잉하기에 편한 속도입니다. 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속하는 단어가 80%뿐이라 어휘가 어려운 편입니다.

이 영상의 핵심 어휘

영상에서 가장 어려운 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어	발음	뜻
crush 동사	/kɹʌʃ/	누르다
soulmate 명사		천생연분
gesture 명사	/ˈd͡ʒɛs.t͡ʃɚ/	제스처, 몸짓
aesthetic 형용사	/ɛsˈθɛ.tɪk/	미적
sock 명사	/sɑk/	양말
masculine 형용사	/ˈmæskjələn/	남자다운
snack 명사	/snæk/	간단한 식사, 경식
feminine 형용사	/ˈfɛmɪnɪn/	여자답다, 녀자답다
vibe 명사	/vaɪb/	분위기
binary 형용사	/ˈbaɪ.nə.ɹi/	참거짓, 진리
spark 명사	/ˈspɑɹk/	불꽃, 스파크
perfection 명사	/pɚˈfɛk.ʃən/	완벽, 완전
freeze 동사	/ˈfɹiːz/	얼다
lean 동사	/ˈliːn/	기울다
bookshelf 명사	/ˈbʊkˌʃɛlf/	책장, 책꽂이

영상에 나오는 구동사

단어	뜻
come back 동사	돌아오다
come up 동사	올라오다
point out 동사	가리키다
pull out 동사	회수(回收)하다
turn off 동사	끄다, 턴오프하다

따라 말해 볼 만한 문장

영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:

Why is she holding you?
That's because you're likely egoromantic.
Do you have a crush on her?
You know what they're about to ask.
Where do we stand?

이 영상의 문법

화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.

문형	영상 속 표현
현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때	you've spent · You've read · you've perfected
수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점	were born · being attracted · is locked
관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보	someone who is · people who don · someone who looks

주의할 발음

화자는 you're, don't, you've 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 56번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

“th” 소리: aesthetic /ɛsˈθɛ.tɪk/, thrice /θɹaɪs/, unhealthy /ʌnˈhɛl.θi/, tooth /tuθ/
“sh”와 “zh” 소리: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, crush /kɹʌʃ/, perfection /pɚˈfɛk.ʃən/, orientation /ˌɔː.ɹi.ənˈteɪ.ʃən/, bookshelf /ˈbʊkˌʃɛlf/
긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: polyromantic /ˌpɑ.li.ɹoʊˈmæn(t)ɪk/, orientation /ˌɔː.ɹi.ənˈteɪ.ʃən/, conventionally /kənˈvɛnʃənəli/, objectively /əbˈd͡ʒɛktɪvli/, hesitation /ˌhɛzɪˈteɪʃən/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

/f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: softness /ˈsɔftnəs/, feminine /ˈfɛmɪnɪn/, perfection /pɚˈfɛk.ʃən/, freeze /ˈfɹiːz/, bookshelf /ˈbʊkˌʃɛlf/
/v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: vibe /vaɪb/, conventionally /kənˈvɛnʃənəli/, lavender /ˈlæv.ən.dɚ/, objectively /əbˈd͡ʒɛktɪvli/, vanish /ˈvænɪʃ/
/z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: freeze /ˈfɹiːz/, hesitation /ˌhɛzɪˈteɪʃən/, cheesy /ˈt͡ʃiːzi/, exhaust /ɪɡˈzɔst/, dessert /dɪˈzɝt/

이 영상으로 연습하는 방법

먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
보통 속도로 한 문장씩 섀도잉하고, 화자의 리듬과 맞을 때까지 반복합니다.
자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, crush, soulmate, gesture 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.

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