์‰๋„์ž‰ ์—ฐ์Šต: Happy Pride ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ #standupcomedy #shorts #pride - ์˜์ƒ์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ธฐ

๋ ˆ์Šจ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ์ค‘...
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So I had a lot of female friends in their 30s and 40s who were like, I wish I had dated women, but you know, they ended up with a man and they were happy, but they were like, I wish I had done that.
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And so they were asking me a lot of personal questions, like, is it better having sex with women?
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And I was like, do you really want me to tell you?
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Because you said you were pretty locked in with that guy.
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And they were like, no, like, is it really different?
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And I was like, yeah.
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And they were like, well, how?
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So here's what I said.
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I think the biggest difference between having sex with men and women is when you're having sex with a woman,
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you're there the whole time.
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You know?
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Because you know how with a man you can kind of just like...
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Not in a traumatic way,
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just in like a, oh i'm in the back seat on a road trip forgot my headphones let's look at clouds clouds.
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Huh?
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I did.
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I did.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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Yes.
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Oh my God.
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Yes.
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A big one.
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A huge, big, quiet, but big.
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It's just silent but deadly.
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I love those.
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Thank you so much.
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I've never faked an orgasm because I think our generation got enough participation trophies, but I don't judge you if you have to.
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We've all been there, right, when it's going too long.
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If you want to fake an orgasm, here's a little tip from me to you.
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Just hold your breath for as long as you can.
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Because then when you're like...
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It'll seem like you came when really you just came up for air.
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That's how you get rid of hiccups and Jeremy.

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์ด ๋น„๋””์˜ค์—์„œ๋Š” 30๋Œ€์™€ 40๋Œ€์˜ ์—ฌ์„ฑ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค ์‚ฌ์ด์—์„œ ์ง„ํ–‰๋œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์„ฑ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ์งˆ๋ฌธ๋“ค์ด ์˜ค๊ณ  ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€ํ™”์˜ ์ฃผ์ œ๋Š” ์—ฌ์„ฑ๊ณผ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๋‚จ์„ฑ๊ณผ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ด€๊ณ„์™€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋Š” ์„ฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์†”์งํ•œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ์™€ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์ธ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์„ ๋ฐ”ํƒ•์œผ๋กœ ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์ ธ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ, ์„œ๋กœ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์„ฑ๋ณ„ ๊ฐ„์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์„ฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ดํ•ด๋ฅผ ๋†’์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ผ์ƒ์ ์ธ ๋Œ€ํ™”์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ 5๊ฐ€์ง€ ํ‘œํ˜„

  • โ€œ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž์™€์˜ ์„ฑ์ƒํ™œ๋ณด๋‹ค ์—ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋” ์ข‹๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด.โ€ - ๊ฐœ์ธ์˜ ์ทจํ–ฅ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„.
  • โ€œ๋„ˆ ์ง„์งœ๋กœ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•ด์ฃผ๊ธธ ์›ํ•ด?โ€ - ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„.
  • โ€œ์ „ํ˜€ ๊ฐ€์งœ ์˜ค๋ฅด๊ฐ€์ฆ˜์„ ๋А๋‚€ ์ ์ด ์—†์–ด.โ€ - ์†”์งํ•œ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ๋“œ๋Ÿฌ๋‚ด๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„.
  • โ€œ์˜ค๋ฅด๊ฐ€์ฆ˜์„ ๊ฐ€์งœ๋กœ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•ด๋ด.โ€ - ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹.
  • โ€œ์ง„์งœ๋กœ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ฐจ์ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด?โ€ - ์ƒ๋Œ€์—๊ฒŒ ๋” ๊นŠ์€ ์ดํ•ด๋ฅผ ์š”๊ตฌํ•˜๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธ.

์ƒ์„ธํ•œ ์‰๋„์ž‰ ๊ฐ€์ด๋“œ

์ด ๋น„๋””์˜ค์˜ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ฐœ์Œ์„ ๊ต์ •ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ์•„๋ž˜์˜ ๋‹จ๊ณ„๋ณ„ ์‰๋„์ž‰ ๊ฐ€์ด๋“œ๋ฅผ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด์„ธ์š”.

  1. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์‹œ์ฒญ: ์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ์ „์ฒด ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋ฅผ ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ์‹œ์ฒญํ•˜์—ฌ ๋Œ€ํ™”์˜ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
  2. ์ฃผ์š” ํ‘œํ˜„ ํŒŒ์•…: ๋น„๋””์˜ค์—์„œ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋œ ์ฃผ์š” ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•ด์„œ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๋ฉ”๋ชจํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์œ„์˜ ๋‹ค์„ฏ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
  3. ์‰๋„์ž‰ ์—ฐ์Šต: ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋ฅผ ๋‹ค์‹œ ์žฌ์ƒํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ํ™”์ž์˜ ๋ง์— ๋งž์ถฐ ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋งํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๋ฐœ์Œ ๋ฐ ์–ต์–‘์„ ์ตœ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋˜‘๊ฐ™์ด ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  4. ๋…น์Œ ๋ฐ ๋น„๊ต: ์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋…น์Œํ•œ ํ›„ ์›๋ณธ ํ™”์ž์™€ ๋น„๊ตํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฐœ์Œ์„ ์ฒดํฌํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์ด๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐœ์Œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋ฐœ๊ฒฌํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ต์ •ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  5. ๋ฐ˜๋ณต ์—ฐ์Šต: ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ณผ์ •์„ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๋ฒˆ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•˜์—ฌ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ์†Œ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์–ต์–‘์œผ๋กœ ๋บ๊ฒจ ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ์˜์–ด ๋ฐœ์Œ ๊ต์ •์— ํฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด์ œ ์ด ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ์œ ํŠœ๋ธŒ ์˜์–ด ๊ณต๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋”์šฑ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์„ ์ตํžˆ๊ณ , shadowspeak ๋ฐ shadow speech ๊ธฐ๋ฒ•์„ ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์˜์–ด speaking ์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œ์ผœ ๋ณด์„ธ์š”.

์‰๋„์ž‰์ด๋ž€? ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ํ‚ค์šฐ๋Š” ๊ณผํ•™์  ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•

์‰๋„์ž‰(Shadowing)์€ ์›๋ž˜ ์ „๋ฌธ ํ†ต์—ญ์‚ฌ ํ›ˆ๋ จ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ฐœ๋ฐœ๋œ ์–ธ์–ด ํ•™์Šต ๊ธฐ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ, ๋‹ค์–ธ์–ด ํ•™์ž์ธ Dr. Alexander Arguelles์— ์˜ํ•ด ๋Œ€์ค‘ํ™”๋œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์›๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋งค์šฐ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค: ์›์–ด๋ฏผ์˜ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋“ค์œผ๋ฉด์„œ 1~2์ดˆ์˜ ์งง์€ ์ง€์—ฐ์œผ๋กœ ์ฆ‰์‹œ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ ๋‚ด์–ด ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒโ€”โ€”๋งˆ์น˜ '๊ทธ๋ฆผ์ž(shadow)'์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ํ™”์ž๋ฅผ ๋”ฐ๋ผ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌธ๋ฒ• ๊ณต๋ถ€๋‚˜ ์ˆ˜๋™์ ์ธ ์ฒญ์ทจ์™€ ๋‹ฌ๋ฆฌ, ์‰๋„์ž‰์€ ๋‡Œ์™€ ์ž… ๊ทผ์œก์ด ๋™์‹œ์— ์‹ค์‹œ๊ฐ„์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ฒ˜๋ฆฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์žฌํ˜„ํ•˜๋„๋ก ํ›ˆ๋ จํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด ์ด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ๋ฐœ์Œ ์ •ํ™•๋„, ์–ต์–‘, ๋ฆฌ๋“ฌ, ์—ฐ์Œ, ์ฒญ์ทจ๋ ฅ, ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ ์ฐฝ์„ฑ์„ ํฌ๊ฒŒ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. IELTS ์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ์ค€๋น„์™€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์˜์–ด ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ„๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ํŠนํžˆ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.