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The faster you can start thinking in English,
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the faster you can start speaking English naturally.
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That is why in this video,
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you will shadow a real story written how native English speakers actually talk.
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This trains your brain to stop translating word by word
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and start understanding English more automatically without the need to translate everything in your head before you speak.
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At the same time, you improve your pronunciation,
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speaking rhythm, accent, listening, and fluency by copying natural English line by line.
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You will also pick up new words,
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useful phrases, and real sentence patterns that are easy to remember because they are inside a story.
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Read, listen, shadow, and let's train your brain how to think in English naturally.
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And if you want to get the 3000 most common English words to help you understand up to 95% of spoken English,
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Let's get started.
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Am I the a-hole for choosing my wife over my mom?
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I, 32 male, have been married to my wife,
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33 female, for five years.
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I lost my dad when I was 16.
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I'm an only child.
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Life was rough after he passed,
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but my mom is one of the strongest women I know.
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I was shattered and she held everything together.
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I love her more than anything.
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I met my wife in the first year of college.
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We've basically grown up together.
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She's my world.
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Right now, the three of us live together in our apartment.
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My mom is getting older and needs care,
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and I feel lucky that I have the two most important women in my life under one roof.
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Both my wife and I have good careers.
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We're ambitious and doing well.
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And yes, we don't have a child that's a conscious decision.
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I'm okay either way.
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I love kids and would love to have one someday,
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but my wife doesn't want one right now.
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Maybe not ever.
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We've had long conversations about it.
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I have never forced her.
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It's her body.
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She's at the peak of her career.
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She says she doesn't feel ready for motherhood and doesn't know if she ever will.
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I respect that.
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The issue is my mom desperately wants a grandchild.
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For the past year, she's been emotionally pushing.
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Subtle comments.
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You'll understand when you have your own.
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Don't wait too long.
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Women regret it later.
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I kept brushing it off, hoping it would fade.
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Two days ago, we had guests over who brought their kids.
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After they left, my mom looked at my wife and said,
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you can't even give me one grandchild.
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Isn't that what women are meant to do?
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Your biological clock is already expiring.
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My wife immediately said, isn't it my decision whether I want to have a child?
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It turned into a heated argument.
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I stepped in and told my mom, please stop forcing us.
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It's her decision.
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Whatever she decides is final.
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You don't get to talk to her like that.
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I won't lie.
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My tone was harsh.
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I've never raised my voice at my mom before ever.
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I've always been respectful, but this time I snapped.
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I've been ignoring these comments for a year
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and hearing her question my wife's worth as a woman just broke something inside me.
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Now, my mom hasn't spoken to me in two days.
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The house feels tense.
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I feel guilty for shouting at the woman who sacrificed everything for me.
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But I also feel like if I hadn't stepped in,
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I would have failed my wife.
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My mom hasn't been eating well and mentioned she wants to move out.
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Am I the a-hole for losing my temper and shouting at my old mom like this?
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Uh, yes, I would say yes.
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I would say anything like shouting,
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being mean, raising your voice to your mom.
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It doesn't matter the situation.
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You're a grown up.
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You shouldn't like let your emotions take over.
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You can be frustrated and upset,
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but you don't need to yell at someone else, especially your mom.
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I would say for that,
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you are in the wrong,
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but you're not in the wrong for defending your wife.
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It's her body, her choice.
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So she can choose what she wants to do.
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But the part you are in the wrong for is shouting and losing your temper.
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You are in the wrong for that.
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I want you guys to take out your phone and give me a summary of what you just read.
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Try to summarize it in one to two sentences and record yourself
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so you can watch this video back in a couple of months to see how much progress you have made.
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Next story.
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Am I the a-hole for not doing my fiance's laundry after he snapped at me?
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I, 33 female, stopped doing my fiance's 33 male laundry after he snapped at me.
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This was three years ago,
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but this morning he was grumbling about how he doesn't have any clean clothes per usual every week.
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And it starts to make me feel bad until I remember why I stopped doing it.
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It goes into greater detail than the lesson and includes exercises to help you practice vocabulary,
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To set the scene, three years ago,
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I was heavily pregnant with our son.
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I was put on light duty,
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not bed rest due to his heart rate fluctuating.
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I was seeing a doctor weekly
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and even had a nurse coming to the house once a week to keep an eye on things.
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When our son was born,
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his cord was wrapped around his neck twice,
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which the doctor quickly unwrapped and thankfully he has no issues because of it.
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The only problem after birth was the white of his eyes were completely bloodshot red from the cord being wrapped.
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He is now perfect and healthy in every way.
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Three years ago, we didn't know why this was happening,
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so I was put on light duty.
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This particular day, same exact day every week,
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I collected my fiance's laundry,
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because why can't he use the basket designated for his dirty clothes,
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and carried them to the stairs since our washer and dryer is in the basement.
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Two baskets of his dirty clothes sat for three days by
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the stairs as I reminded him multiple times a day to carry his laundry down.
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Heavily pregnant, light duty, and stairs do not mix well.
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On the third day of his laundry sitting by the stairs,
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stairs are in my kitchen by the way and right by our back door,
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which we use often, so very much in the way.
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I got a bit frustrated and in a more nagging tone,
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complained about how he needs to carry his laundry downstairs so I can wash it for him.
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He snapped at me.
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He told me, it's my laundry.
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I'll carry it down when I feel like it.
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With more expletives and I left for work.
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So I carried his dirty clothes back to the room.
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A few days later, he asked me to wash some of his clothes because he had no clean clothes left.
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I told him no because I'll do it when I feel like it.
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To this day, our dryer peaced out on us,
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so I've had to take the household clothes,
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two kids' clothes and my clothes to my mother's house until we can get a new dryer.
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I told my fiance I'll take his shirts,
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socks, underwear to my mom's too,
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but he has to collect it.
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Like I said, why doesn't he use his designated basket?
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and I put it in my car the night before.
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I only do laundry on Mondays.
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It's been over a year.
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He won't do it.
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It's like Monday laundry day sneaks up on him or something.
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Either way, I refuse to collect,
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carry, wash, dry, fold, return, put away, everything.
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If he can't even collect it and carry it to my car,
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then that's his problem.
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So am I the a-hole for not doing my fiance's laundry anymore after he snapped at me?
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Oh, I feel like a year is a long time.
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You have made it clear what you want.
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You want him to take his laundry,
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put it in a basket,
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and then put it in the back of your car,
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and then you'll wash it.
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And he can't seem to do that.
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Maybe, like, he's super, super busy and doesn't have time.
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If that's the case, then yeah,
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I guess you're the a-hole.
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But if that's not the case,
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and he has time to do it,
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but he just literally doesn't do it,
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then it's not your fault.
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You just want him to put it in the laundry basket,
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which is super, super normal.
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Like, why would you throw your clothes around everywhere anyways?
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You just want him to put it in the laundry basket and then bring it to your car the night before Monday.
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I feel like it's not a lot to ask for,
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so I don't think you're the a-hole in this situation.
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However, if your husband is super,
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super busy, he works just constantly,
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doesn't have time, then yeah, you're the a-hole.
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Also, if you're pregnant, then no,
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you're definitely not the a-hole,
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but you said this is a year after,
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so I assume you're not pregnant anymore.
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Next story.
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Am I overreacting for feeling jealous after my boyfriend called someone else the woman of my dreams?
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I'm gonna say no, bro.
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That's crazy.
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Why would he say that?
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So my boyfriend and I,
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23, have been together for a year.
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Everything has been great.
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We barely have any arguments.
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We enjoy our time together and I feel like he supports me.
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Everything was perfect.
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But two days ago, we were walking and a woman around the same age came to us screaming excited.
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He looked at her and started screaming as well.
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Red flag.
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They hugged, jumped together.
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At that moment, I genuinely thought it was a great friend
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or maybe a family member that he had not seen in a long time and I was happy for them.
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They started chatting a little bit and then he introduced me.
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Not as his girlfriend but by my name.
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That's a little weird.
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Two red flags.
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It was odd but okay.
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They continued catching up really excited and exchanged phone numbers.
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I was just there.
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At that moment it didn't feel wrong.
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I understood they were old friends and that was it.
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But after she left he just kept looking at her until he couldn't anymore.
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Looked at me right in the eye and told me,
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you just met the one that was the woman of my dreams.
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I would break up immediately,
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immediately if someone said this, bro.
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We're done.
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We're done.
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Anyways, let's see what she does.
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I was frozen.
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I didn't know what to say, so I just nodded.
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He didn't even realize I was shocked.
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We kept going and that was it.
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But I had been thinking about it these two days and it's driving me crazy.
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Especially because she looks nothing like me.
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I don't feel ugly and she is also pretty but in a different way.
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My friends are sure I should dump him.
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Me too.
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But I'm not sure.
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I kind of want to have a conversation with him and try to continue the relationship.
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But why?
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I feel like he just told you that that is the woman of his dreams, not you.
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He literally told this to your face.
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That's just what happened.
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We both are 23 years old.
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He told me they were together in a couple of classes in college.
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He quit college two years ago and hadn't seen her since then.
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And the phone number exchange we work in,
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and the phone number exchange we work in slash like arts,
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and it was more about some projects.
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She did mention she has a boyfriend and said we could all meet sometime and he didn't seem upset about it.
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Now to the update.
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I don't even know how to start.
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I went to his house yesterday around 11am.
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I prefer it that way so I don't have ghosts in my house.
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I went thinking there was a 50-50 chance to either break up or work on it.
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When I got there, he was with a male friend and the three of us were talking.
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Then around an hour later, boyfriend got a call.
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It was her.
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She needed some pictures for her work and asked him if he was available.
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He said, I'm with my girlfriend and a friend.
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Then he asked me if we could go,
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take the pictures and come back.
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I didn't tell him I needed to talk
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and I thought it was a good opportunity to see how they would behave now
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that it wasn't a surprise after two years of not seeing each other.
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So I said yes.
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His friend said he had nothing else to do, so he also went.
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We got there in an Uber,
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so I had no idea where it was.
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They were acting normal.
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She works in a private art school,
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gave us the tour, and mentioned they are looking for a new teacher.
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Boyfriend told her, I'm in my last semester,
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and they could hire me.
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She said she will mention it to the owner.
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I had been struggling with getting a job,
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so I was glad about it.
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Everything went normal until the end.
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When we went outside the building,
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she asked him how much it was for the pitchers,
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and he said it was nothing.
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Before, at his house, he was talking about how he needed money.
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She insisted and told him she wasn't paying, the school was.
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He still didn't accept.
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His friend told him not to be stupid and at least asked for the money he used for the Uber.
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She agreed, but he said no, it's fine.
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They kept going a couple of times with the same thing until she went,
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well then, let me at least invite you to dinner.
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Then he smiled and accepted.
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That was it, the sign I was looking for.
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Even his male friend looked at me,
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and I could see in his face he was sorry for me.
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In the Uber, I went totally silent,
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thinking about how to end the relationship.
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Then I saw a park that is not so far away from my place and asked the Uber to leave me there.
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He asked me what happened, but I didn't answer.
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I just got out of the Uber and walked.
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The now ex followed me asking what was wrong and I couldn't ignore him anymore.
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I told him everything.
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I'm proud of how I told him.
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I wasn't yelling at him hysterically, but I was firm.
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He asked for a chance to explain himself.
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I told him he would waste our time because my decision was made.
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But he begged, so I stayed.
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He said a lot of things,
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but here are the main points.
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They were never a couple or something like that,
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but he did ask her out and she said she wasn't interested.
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So I don't have to worry about her because she doesn't like him.
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He is entirely sure about it because he asked her out three times and she said no all three times.
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He is not looking for her anymore because she has a boyfriend,
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not because he loves me or because we have a future.
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He didn't say that, but that is what I thought in the moment.
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If for any reason she changed her mind and looked for him in that way,
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he would say no because he is with me.
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Again, not because he loves me.
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After he finished, I told him I wasn't going to be in a relationship with someone who flirts with others
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and asked him to leave me alone.
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When I walked away, he said,
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I know I said she was the woman of my dreams,
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but you are the woman of my life.
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I just told him good luck with that and went home.
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I told my friends everything and they went to my place with break up snacks.
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And we had a sleepover where we cried, cursed him and laughed.
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Unfortunately, he and I are together in some projects so I can't just block him.
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But they were in favor of a petty revenge
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and asked some male friends that he doesn't know to go to my Instagram
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and write some comments like they are flirting with me.
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Lastly, this morning, I actually got a call from the school owner.
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He offered me the children and teenager groups.
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The schedule is flexible so it doesn't interfere with my classes and the pay is not bad.
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So I said, yes, I will start next Monday.
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And well, that's it.
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I'm not going to lie.
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I still feel sad even though I know I did the best for myself.
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He was kind of my first really serious relationship and I really thought he was the one until that problem.
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But I'm thinking about looking for therapy to find out why I thought about staying with someone like
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that so I don't make the same mistakes.
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What I got from this,
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I really have amazing friends and I should listen to them.
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This community is also great and now I have a job so it wasn't all bad.
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Well, overall, I personally think she did the right thing by leaving him.
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By the sounds of it,
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she was kind of just a replacement for the person he originally wanted.
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And if he had the chance,
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he would probably choose that other girl.
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So I think in the long run,
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this was the right decision to make.
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And she has good friends, so that's a bonus.
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I'll see you guys next time.
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Bye.
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영어를 자연스럽게 말하기 위해 가장 중요한 첫걸음은 영어로 생각하는 것입니다. 이 비디오에서는 원어민들이 실제로 사용하는 자연스러운 이야기들을 통해 영어 회화 연습을 할 수 있습니다. shadowspeaks 기법을 통해 당신의 뇌가 단어를 하나하나 번역하는 것을 멈추고, 영어를 더 자동적으로 이해하도록 훈련시킬 수 있습니다. 이 과정은 당신의 발음, 말하기 리듬, 억양, 듣기 능력 및 유창성을 향상시킵니다. 특히, 실제 이야기 속에서 새로운 단어와 유용한 표현을 배워 쉽게 기억할 수 있는 문장 패턴을 익히게 됩니다. 각 문장을 따라하는 shadow speech 방법을 통해 영어로 자연스럽게 사고하는 방식을 배워봅시다. 이렇게 하면 IELTS 스피킹 시험에서도 좋은 성과를 낼 수 있습니다.
문맥 속의 문법 및 표현
- Am I the a-hole?: 상대방의 행동이나 선택에 대해 자책하는 느낌을 담은 표현.
- have been married for: 특정 기간 동안의 경험을 언급할 때 유용한 현재 완료형 구조.
- needs care: 누군가의 필요를 표현하는 간단명료한 방식.
- emotionally pushing: 누군가의 감정에 압박을 가하는 행위를 설명하는 표현.
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