쉐도잉 연습: People Read Their Last Breakup Texts - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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Yeah, we hung out and have fun, but did I want to be in a long-distance relationship with you afterwards?
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No. And that should be OK with you.
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I tried to call him, and he refused to talk to me on the phone.
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Do you have any breakup texts?
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Actually, I don't.
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I deleted it.
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I was having like 20-20 vision, trying to get rid of my demons.
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Breakup texts?
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I deleted them all.
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I deleted them.
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I prefer to do that stuff in person, or at least on a FaceTime, not through text.
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Oh, I had the text.
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Let's do it.
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That shit was fun, but maybe I should let you focus on school.
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She said, okay, haha.
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I said, I mean, if you really need time, I don't want you getting bored of me fast.
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That's what she said, like, I get bored fast.
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Like, oh, ew.
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She says, OMG, but okay, if you say so.
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I'm like, okay.
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And then we ended it there.
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I'm like, okay.
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And then I just feel better.
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It was the most invested I had ever been in a relationship.
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We had said I love you to each other already and then she texted me, breaking up with me.
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If I'm being totally honest, I've had a lot of time to think about everything and I really only have time to focus on school.
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I don't think her personalities click super great at this time in my life, even though you're absolutely wonderful.
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I feel like my only compatible personality right now for me is Joss.
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For context, Joss is her cat.
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I'm sorry for the potential stress and frustration I've caused you.
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I hope you can forgive me, Sam.
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I'm super upset at life right now, but I understand and respect your priorities and why you're doing this.
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Kind of wish we could talk about this in person at some point.
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I have some questions if that's okay.
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Hope you're doing okay.
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Send Joss a kissy kiss.
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Then we had exchanges for maybe a month where I kept being like, okay, so like, can we meet?
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And she would be like, yeah, sure, this week.
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And then she'd be like, actually, I'm busy, maybe next week.
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And I was really disappointed because I thought, you know, you at least owe me like an apology or something in person.
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And I thought, you know, what we had was a little more real than that. But yeah.
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Stuff kind of hit the fan and her car got towed and she needed $600.
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I lent her the $600 and then on June 16th, 2018, I said good morning at 8.05, no response.
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Hey, baby, at 1.43, no response.
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11.30 p.m., I said goodnight.
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Eventually on the 20th, the exchange is this.
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Hey, hey, hey you, smiley face, because I'm cool.
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Listen, I'll pay you back as soon as I can, but I can't be in a relationship with you.
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It weighs too hard on my conscious that I'm not a good partner.
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I'm sorry to do this through text, but I don't have the energy for more right now.
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You're free.
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Be happy with someone normal.
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Couple months later, I didn't get a text from her, but I got a message from her email to my phone.
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And it's her, and it's like, Hey Eric, I hope you're doing well.
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Also, just to let you know, I should be able to pay you back next month.
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Sorry about the forever wait.
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And I've never, I've still never seen the money.
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She deleted me off all social media, and that was like two years ago, three years ago.
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Okay, look, I saw your phone while waiting for you, waiting for you and I saw her as your screensaver.
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I don't know what's going on anymore, but I think I have a good idea at this point.
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And of course, what are you talking about?
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And I just tell him I wanna know why she's your screensaver.
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And there's a 30 minute blank, no response, but he leaves me on read.
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So I'm like, okay, I know he's thinking of a lie.
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I know he's thinking of something to tell me.
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And this is what he comes up with.
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It's an app I found that changes screensavers like a slideshow.
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I have so many pictures I couldn't choose one.
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Ramon, you know I wouldn't do like that.
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And I'm like, okay.
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I knew in that moment all the red flags were in fact red flags, and this relationship needed to be done.
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He kind of attacks me and he's like, okay, believe what you want.
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So I send him like three question marks like, whoa.
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Then he ends the conversation and he goes, like I said, believe what you want.
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It's an app and sorry she was the screen saver when you looked, but you know I love you and wouldn't do you like that.
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And it hurts to think that you think it's like that.
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I'll talk to you later." And he put a period at the end.
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So he was being very stern because that's not how he talks or types.
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So I knew that he blamed it on me for believing what was the truth.
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So that's kind of how it went.
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He's still with the girl.
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He reaches out to me sometimes.
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He stalks my Instagram profile.
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So I said, there's something I've been wanting to tell you, but it's something that should be said in person.
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Are you doing anything on Saturday?
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And then I said, or would you rather not see me?
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And he said, I really don't want to see you, I'm sorry.
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I said, I understand, it's a lot.
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And he said, just tell me shit or don't tell me at all.
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And I said, okay, let me type it up.
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He said, okay, don't tell me at all, goodbye, Anna.
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And then I said, it's something I need to say, but I'm gonna tell you, just give me a few minutes.
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And he said, dude, really, Anna, this is ridiculous.
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And I'm like trying to type it up, but I kind of learned like, it just has to be short and sweet.
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It can't be me saying like, I'm in pain or, you know, I'm going through this.
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So I said, long story short, since you don't want the full story, is I was having a miscarriage the week we broke up.
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I didn't know until last Friday.
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And he said, okay, Anna, I'm really sorry about that.
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I said, I probably should have kept that to myself.
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He said, no, it's okay.
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I'm going to go to sleep though.
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I said, that hurts because it's like,
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I didn't even know that I was pregnant beforehand.
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It was hard and so I wanted to reach out to him.
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I don't know.
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I don't know why I thought he would care.
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And I don't know why I wanted him to care too because obviously like we weren't, no matter what we weren't going to be together.
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I was just...
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Like going through something like that really changes your head.
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So it's hard to move on when there's that constant reminder of what could have been and what,
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you know, I went through.
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And so I'm feeling hopeful, but it's just...
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It's hard sometimes.
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이 클립이 영어 회화 연습에 좋은 이유
이 비디오는 일상적이고 진솔한 대화가 가득해 영어 스피킹 실력 향상에 최적입니다. 특히 이별 텍스트를 읽고 이야기하는 장면은 감정이 담긴 표현과 자연스러운 구어체를 배울 수 있는 기회를 제공합니다. "I don't have the energy for more right now"처럼 일상에서 자주 사용하지만 교과서에선 잘 나오지 않는 표현들이 많아, 실제 의사소통 능력을 키우는 데 도움이 됩니다. 또한, 다양한 화자가 등장해 음성 톤과 억양의 변화를 경험할 수 있어 shadowing 연습에 perfect한 자료입니다.
자연스러운 표현 분석
- "That shit was fun, but maybe I should let you focus on school." - "shit"은 비속어지만 친밀한 관계에서 자주 사용되는 감정 표현입니다. "let you focus on"은 상대방의 상황을 고려한 배려스러운 표현으로, 자연스러운 회화에서 자주 등장합니다.
- "I don't think her personalities click super great at this time in my life." - "click"은 "잘 맞다"는 뜻으로, 구어체에서 매우 자연스러운 표현입니다. "super great"은 강조를 위해 사용된 구체적인 표현으로, 평범한 "good"보다 더 생동감이 있습니다.
- "It weighs too hard on my conscious that I'm not a good partner." - "weighs too hard on my conscious"는 "마음에 무겁게 눌린다"는 뜻으로, 복잡한 감정을 간결하게 표현하는 멋진 구문입니다. 이처럼 구체적인 표현을 사용하면 영어가 더 풍부해집니다.
Shadowing 연습 루틴
이 비디오를 이용한 shadowing 연습은 다음과 같이 진행하세요. 1. 먼저 비디오를 한 번 듣고 전체 내용을 이해합니다. 2. 10-15초 분량의 대화를 선택해 반복해서 듣고, 발음과 억양, 속도를 주의깊게 관찰합니다. 3. 직접 따라하면서 녹음합니다. 이때 "shadow speech" 기술을 사용해 화자의 음성에 딱 맞춰 말합니다. 4. 녹음한 자신의 목소리와 원본을 비교해 차이점을 찾고 보정합니다. 이 과정을 매일 10-15분씩 반복하면 IELTS 스피킹과 같은 고급 시험에도 대비할 수 있습니다. 또한, shadowing site를 이용해 더 체계적인 연습을 할 수도 있습니다.
이처럼 실제 생활에서 사용되는 표현을 학습하고 shadowing을 통해 연습하면, 영어 회화가 자연스러워지고 의사소통 능력이 크게 향상될 것입니다.
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | was really disappointed · be done · should be said |
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | I've caused · I've still never seen |
쉐도잉이란? 영어 실력을 빠르게 키우는 과학적 방법
쉐도잉(Shadowing)은 원래 전문 통역사 훈련을 위해 개발된 언어 학습 기법으로, 다언어 학자인 Dr. Alexander Arguelles에 의해 대중화된 방법입니다. 핵심 원리는 간단하지만 매우 강력합니다: 원어민의 영어를 들으면서 1~2초의 짧은 지연으로 즉시 소리 내어 따라 말하는 것——마치 '그림자(shadow)'처럼 화자를 따라가는 것입니다. 문법 공부나 수동적인 청취와 달리, 쉐도잉은 뇌와 입 근육이 동시에 실시간으로 영어를 처리하고 재현하도록 훈련합니다. 연구에 따르면 이 방법은 발음 정확도, 억양, 리듬, 연음, 청취력, 말하기 유창성을 크게 향상시킵니다. IELTS 스피킹 준비와 자연스러운 영어 소통을 원하는 분들에게 특히 효과적입니다.