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It's an odd feature of love that some of our most romantic moments can include the following scenarios.
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It's an odd feature of love that some of our most romantic moments can include the following scenarios.
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Being with a lover who lives a whole continent away from us and can never move to be closer.
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An infatuation with a lover who is married to somebody else and has no will ever to leave them.
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A romance with someone dying of a disease that will kill them within a matter of months.
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A crush on someone at the library,
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who we never talk to yet think of obsessively,
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even when it turns out they have a partner.
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Or the last days of a holiday romance before we have to take a gruelling 12-hour flight back home.
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What unites all these situations is an external obstacle to love,
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which, paradoxically, serves to make our desire more intense.
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We might suppose that our love would be strong in spite of the challenges.
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But the situation is weirder than this.
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Our love is strong precisely because a proper relationship is not possible in the real world,
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because love is fated to be in some way unrequited or incomplete.
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People stuck in these unrequited situations can garner a lot of sympathy and seem like the natural friends of true love.
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But they tend to be no such things.
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They are timid visitors to the land of love,
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who have carefully chosen situations which will prevent them from ever taking up more permanent residence.
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They are self-saboteurs who would rather be in control of a sad situation than half out of control of a happy one.
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They have carefully made sure that there is no chance either to disappoint or to be disappointed.
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It is the external obstacle that gives them the security to surrender themselves totally
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to feelings that they would keep well at bay if,
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miraculously, the obstacle were to be removed.
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To feel a lot for someone who is available is an emotionally highly flammable requirement.
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The possibilities for getting hurt are enormous.
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We might learn to trust a lover over many years
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and then promptly find that they decided to leave us or died in the night.
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We couldn't survive.
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Our defences mask too gelatinous and insecure in an interior.
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We would have given them the keys to our self-confidence
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and direction and would struggle after so long to know how to carry on.
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Not all of us have the psychological histories
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that make us robust enough to dare to enter situations where mutual trust is a risk
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that we can dare to endure day to day.
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We may have been let down too badly as children,
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perhaps a parent left or humiliated us,
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and we are at some level therefore profoundly determined never again to surrender in the true sense to another person.
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We don't put it that way to ourselves, of course.
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We're most likely not even aware of the pattern we're involved in.
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We just feel very in love whenever someone happens to reside very far away,
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while we report that a person who has an apartment round the corner is truly very boring and not that sexy.
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It sounds for a time before you can start to see the pattern rather plausible.
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The true challenge of relationships is not to fall in love with someone who may never want to see us again.
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It is to accept the far more interesting and truly heroic challenge of falling in love with someone who isn't dying,
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isn't stationed in the Arctic or married to somebody else,
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someone who would have no objection to seeing us pretty much all the time.
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Impossible situations feel so romantic not because we have found a soulmate,
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but because the absence of risk has loosened our hearts.
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But we should, with time,
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more fairly, learn to dare to turn our amorous attentions to that deeply dangerous,
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threatening, but ultimately rewarding character.
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The person we know, the person who likes us a lot,
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lot and the person who's available all the time.
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Now that would be truly romantic.
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To learn more about love,
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try our book on How to Find Love,
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which explains why we have the types we do,

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주요 어휘 및 표현

  • Infatuation - 열병, 강한 매력
  • Unrequited love - 짝사랑, 상대방의 사랑을 받지 못하는 상황
  • Obstacle - 장애물, 곤란한 상황
  • Thrive - 성장하다, 발전하다
  • Deliberately - 의도적으로, 신중하게
  • Emotional flammability - 감정의 불안정성
  • Dare - 감히 ~하다, 도전하다
  • Commitment - 헌신, 약속

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