쉐도잉 연습: Why people have Good social skills. - YouTube로 영어 말하기 배우기

B1
um what's going on guys coming at you guys with a
⏸ 일시 정지
122 문장
문장이 너무 짧거나 길면 Edit를 눌러 조정하세요.
1
um what's going on guys coming at you guys with a
2
quick presentation um what develops social skills um i felt
3
this would be a good topic to talk about um
4
if you ask me what develops social skills i feel um life experiences life experiences develop social skills.
5
I truly believe a big reason to why some people have good social skills,
6
it is because they've had experiences in life that cultivated a good self-image.
7
Because in order to have good social skills, an individual must have confidence and they must have a good self-image
8
and these things are cultivated through life experiences
9
and it you know like you you gotta have um you
10
gotta have good life experiences i feel to be a social
11
butterfly um the reason to why some people i believe lack social skills is
12
because they don't have good life experiences because
13
when you're a person who's had a lot of bad things happen to you in life,
14
when you've had a lot of bad circumstances, it's going to be hard for you to have confidence
15
and it's going to be hard for you to have
16
that positive self-image because it's a reason why some people have good social skills.
17
And I do believe looks plays a role in why some people have good social skills, but I believe most important,
18
you know, is the looks, you know, because when you look a certain way, you'll have better experiences.
19
Because I remember even in middle school and high school, you know, looking back with the mindset that I have now,
20
the people who were considered attractive, those are the people who had the good social skills.
21
Those are the people that were outgoing.
22
So that just go to show you that it'll be easier for you to be,
23
for you to have good social skills when you're a person that's attractive
24
because the world is just more inviting to people who have superior genetics.
25
And this is a brutal truth that a lot of people wouldn't want to admit,
26
but the world is way more inviting,
27
you know, the world is just way more inviting towards people who have good genetics,
28
you know, versus people whose genetics are not so good.
29
And for that reason, that is why people who are attractive tend to have better social skills.
30
You know, if, you know, a lot of people like to blame certain people for having bad social skills.
31
Ever since I was a kid.
32
I've always been able to talk to pretty much anyone.
33
I never felt that I had bad social skills, but.
34
But I do believe that anxiety, social anxiety is something that certain people deal with.
35
But I do believe that social anxiety also comes from bad life experiences as well.
36
Because if you are a person who's had a lot of bad experiences in your life,
37
then naturally a person like that would have social anxiety.
38
you know you know it's real and a lot of people they like to condemn certain people who don't have
39
good social skills but a lot of people don't understand that good social skills come from,
40
you know, good life experiences.
41
You know, you got to have a good life in order to have, you know, to be an outgoing person.
42
Because I believe people who have the good social skills, they have that good self-image and they have that confidence.
43
But if you're a person who's been bullied, you've been ridiculed, you've been treated bad
44
it's going to be very hard for you to develop good social skills
45
so in my personal opinion when it comes to social skills I truly believe
46
having good social skills is based on your life experiences and a lot of people don't want to admit this,
47
that your life experiences will determine your social skills because some people have,
48
some people have it far more challenging than others.
49
I'll just say it that way.
50
And this is why I don't think people should try to beat up on people
51
who don't have good social skills because you don't know what transpired in those people's lives to make them,
52
you know, the way they are, to make them, you know, not have good social skills.
53
You just never know what those people went through in their life or what type of challenges that they had,
54
you know, that made them the way that they are.
55
I truly believe that if everybody was treated the same in this world,
56
that everybody would have good social skills.
57
Leave your comments and let me know what you think about that.
58
If everybody was given the same opportunities in this world,
59
I do believe that everyone would have good social skills.
60
But unfortunately, you know, there is a certain thing called discrimination and everybody is not given the same opportunities.
61
You know, some people are given opportunities that other people are not given.
62
And for that reason, this is why everybody cannot have good social skills.
63
Because even the people that have bad social skills,
64
trust me, they don't want to have bad social skills.
65
It's just the cost that they've been dealt and, and, and, and the circumstances that they had to endure, you know, that put them,
66
you know, in, in a certain position, you know, um, you know,
67
this is why I say social skills,
68
you know, good social skills come from good life experiences,
69
you know that's what i truly believe um i i believe people who um
70
faced a lot of rejection
71
and just people who faced a lot of ostracization in life
72
um those type of people are are the very people that uh you know,
73
those are the very type of people that have problems socially.
74
Me personally, I never had trouble really socializing with people.
75
You know, I'm cordial.
76
I speak to people, you know, I'm not a mean type of person,
77
you know, but I do believe when it comes to being a social person,
78
you know, you have to be a person that's approved socially, you know, because everybody is not approved socially,
79
you know, you know, like, this is the reason to why, like, in middle school and in high school,
80
certain people, they didn't want certain people in their cliques.
81
You remember middle school and high school, people were very cliquish in that time period.
82
And people didn't even want certain people to be a part of their little entourage.
83
It's a reason why that was.
84
Because discrimination is real, guys.
85
It's very, very real. And,
86
you know this is why like in order to have good
87
social skills to sum this up you gotta have good life experiences I truly believe the people who have good social skills
88
those are the people who've had good life experiences you know Those are the people who was treated well in life
89
The people that was constantly treated like garbage in life the people who was constantly ridiculed,
90
bullied, picked on, mocked, those people, I mean, they couldn't have good social skills if they wanted to.
91
You know?
92
You know, it's a reason why they have outgoing people and why they have people who are introverted.
93
I mean, it's a reason for these things, guys.
94
But you guys let me know what you think.
95
Do you believe people who have good social skills,
96
do you believe these people have those good social skills because they had good experiences in life?
97
because I truly believe that the people who have good social skills,
98
it's a reason why they got them good social skills.
99
It's because they have had good life experiences.
100
I believe that's what sums it all up.
101
I mean, you know, take a person who's considered attractive.
102
You know, they were popular in school.
103
You know, they was on the football team.
104
I mean, do you really think social skills are going to be hard for a person like that?
105
you know, a person like that is going to easily click socially,
106
you know, it's not going to be hard for an individual like that to develop good social skills.
107
So, you know, it's a reason why some people have good social skills and why some people don't.
108
It's because of the experiences that they've had in their lives.
109
But you guys leave your comments.
110
I felt this was a great, insightful topic to talk about because, you know, I notice people who have bad social skills,
111
a lot of these types of people tend to get bashed.
112
But it's like, I mean, do you understand why these people have bad social skills?
113
Because, you know, like they always say, it's a reason for everything.
114
You know, life is full of cause and effect.
115
So, you know, it's a reason why some people have bad social skills.
116
And it's also a reason why some people have good social skills.
117
But I'm going to go ahead and sign out.
118
You guys have a good one.
119
We'll be coming back with more interesting content soon.
120
I want to say thanks for all the support we've come a very long way
121
and I wish I could have started making content like this long time ago
122
talking about things in a more reasonable way but you guys have a good one

앱 다운로드

당신이 말하는 모든 문장을 AI가 채점

TRENDING

인기 동영상

맥락 및 배경

이 비디오에서는 사회적 기술이 어떻게 개발되는지를 탐구합니다. 발표자는 개인의 삶의 경험이 자아 이미지와 자신감을 어떻게 형성하는지를 강조하며, 이는 사회적 기술 향상에 중요한 요소임을 설명합니다. 특히, 삶에서 긍정적인 경험이 부족한 사람들이 사회적 기술을 개발하는 데 어려움을 겪는 사례를 공유하며, 외모가 사회적 기술에 미치는 영향도 논의합니다. 이러한 내용은 영어 회화 연습에도 적용될 수 있습니다.

일상 대화에서 유용한 5개 구문

  • “사회적 기술은 삶의 경험에서 발전한다.” - 사회적 기술이 어떻게 형성되는지를 설명하는 구문입니다.
  • “자신감이 있어야 좋은 사회적 기술을 갖출 수 있다.” - 자신감의 중요성을 강조합니다.
  • “긍정적인 자아 이미지와 경험이 필수적이다.” - 좋은 자아 이미지가 사회적 기술에 미치는 영향입니다.
  • “외모는 사회적 경험에 영향을 미친다.” - 외모와 사회적 기술 간의 상관관계를 언급합니다.
  • “사회적 불안은 나쁜 경험에서 기인한다.” - 사회적 불안의 기초를 다루고 있습니다.

단계별 쉐도잉 가이드

이 비디오의 내용을 효과적으로 이해하고 연습하기 위해 다음 단계를 따라 해보세요:

  1. 비디오 시청: 처음에 비디오를 전체적으로 보며 내용을 파악합니다. 이때 영어 발음 교정과 새로운 표현을 주의 깊게 듣습니다.
  2. 구문 반복: 위에서 언급한 5개 구문을 여러 번 반복하여 발음과 억양을 익힙니다. 자주 사용하는 표현이므로 영어 회화 연습에 유용합니다.
  3. 쉐도잉 연습: 비디오의 특정 부분을 반복하면서 따라 해보세요. 영어 쉐도잉 기법을 사용해 연습함으로써 자연스러운 발음을 개선하세요.
  4. 녹음 및 비교: 자신의 발음을 녹음한 후 비디오와 비교하여 어떤 부분에서 개선이 필요한지 피드백을 받습니다. 이는 IELTS 스피킹 준비에도 도움이 됩니다.
  5. 반복 학습: 정기적으로 비디오를 반복 시청하며 발음을 계속 향상시킵니다. 유튜브 영어 공부를 통해 다양한 주제를 접하면서 어휘를 넓힐 수 있습니다.

이 과정을 통해 사회적 기술 개발과 연관된 표현뿐 아니라 영어 실력도 함께 향상될 것입니다.

쉐도잉이란? 영어 실력을 빠르게 키우는 과학적 방법

쉐도잉(Shadowing)은 원래 전문 통역사 훈련을 위해 개발된 언어 학습 기법으로, 다언어 학자인 Dr. Alexander Arguelles에 의해 대중화된 방법입니다. 핵심 원리는 간단하지만 매우 강력합니다: 원어민의 영어를 들으면서 1~2초의 짧은 지연으로 즉시 소리 내어 따라 말하는 것——마치 '그림자(shadow)'처럼 화자를 따라가는 것입니다. 문법 공부나 수동적인 청취와 달리, 쉐도잉은 뇌와 입 근육이 동시에 실시간으로 영어를 처리하고 재현하도록 훈련합니다. 연구에 따르면 이 방법은 발음 정확도, 억양, 리듬, 연음, 청취력, 말하기 유창성을 크게 향상시킵니다. IELTS 스피킹 준비와 자연스러운 영어 소통을 원하는 분들에게 특히 효과적입니다.

커피 한 잔 사주기