Pratica di Shadowing: Why people have Good social skills. - Impara a parlare inglese con i video

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um what's going on guys coming at you guys with a
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quick presentation um what develops social skills um i felt
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this would be a good topic to talk about um
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if you ask me what develops social skills i feel um life experiences life experiences develop social skills.
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I truly believe a big reason to why some people have good social skills,
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it is because they've had experiences in life that cultivated a good self-image.
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Because in order to have good social skills, an individual must have confidence and they must have a good self-image
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and these things are cultivated through life experiences
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and it you know like you you gotta have um you
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gotta have good life experiences i feel to be a social
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butterfly um the reason to why some people i believe lack social skills is
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because they don't have good life experiences because
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when you're a person who's had a lot of bad things happen to you in life,
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when you've had a lot of bad circumstances, it's going to be hard for you to have confidence
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and it's going to be hard for you to have
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that positive self-image because it's a reason why some people have good social skills.
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And I do believe looks plays a role in why some people have good social skills, but I believe most important,
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you know, is the looks, you know, because when you look a certain way, you'll have better experiences.
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Because I remember even in middle school and high school, you know, looking back with the mindset that I have now,
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the people who were considered attractive, those are the people who had the good social skills.
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Those are the people that were outgoing.
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So that just go to show you that it'll be easier for you to be,
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for you to have good social skills when you're a person that's attractive
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because the world is just more inviting to people who have superior genetics.
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And this is a brutal truth that a lot of people wouldn't want to admit,
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but the world is way more inviting,
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you know, the world is just way more inviting towards people who have good genetics,
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you know, versus people whose genetics are not so good.
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And for that reason, that is why people who are attractive tend to have better social skills.
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You know, if, you know, a lot of people like to blame certain people for having bad social skills.
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Ever since I was a kid.
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I've always been able to talk to pretty much anyone.
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I never felt that I had bad social skills, but.
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But I do believe that anxiety, social anxiety is something that certain people deal with.
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But I do believe that social anxiety also comes from bad life experiences as well.
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Because if you are a person who's had a lot of bad experiences in your life,
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then naturally a person like that would have social anxiety.
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you know you know it's real and a lot of people they like to condemn certain people who don't have
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good social skills but a lot of people don't understand that good social skills come from,
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you know, good life experiences.
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You know, you got to have a good life in order to have, you know, to be an outgoing person.
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Because I believe people who have the good social skills, they have that good self-image and they have that confidence.
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But if you're a person who's been bullied, you've been ridiculed, you've been treated bad
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it's going to be very hard for you to develop good social skills
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so in my personal opinion when it comes to social skills I truly believe
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having good social skills is based on your life experiences and a lot of people don't want to admit this,
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that your life experiences will determine your social skills because some people have,
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some people have it far more challenging than others.
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I'll just say it that way.
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And this is why I don't think people should try to beat up on people
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who don't have good social skills because you don't know what transpired in those people's lives to make them,
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you know, the way they are, to make them, you know, not have good social skills.
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You just never know what those people went through in their life or what type of challenges that they had,
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you know, that made them the way that they are.
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I truly believe that if everybody was treated the same in this world,
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that everybody would have good social skills.
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Leave your comments and let me know what you think about that.
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If everybody was given the same opportunities in this world,
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I do believe that everyone would have good social skills.
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But unfortunately, you know, there is a certain thing called discrimination and everybody is not given the same opportunities.
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You know, some people are given opportunities that other people are not given.
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And for that reason, this is why everybody cannot have good social skills.
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Because even the people that have bad social skills,
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trust me, they don't want to have bad social skills.
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It's just the cost that they've been dealt and, and, and, and the circumstances that they had to endure, you know, that put them,
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you know, in, in a certain position, you know, um, you know,
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this is why I say social skills,
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you know, good social skills come from good life experiences,
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you know that's what i truly believe um i i believe people who um
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faced a lot of rejection
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and just people who faced a lot of ostracization in life
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um those type of people are are the very people that uh you know,
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those are the very type of people that have problems socially.
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Me personally, I never had trouble really socializing with people.
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You know, I'm cordial.
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I speak to people, you know, I'm not a mean type of person,
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you know, but I do believe when it comes to being a social person,
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you know, you have to be a person that's approved socially, you know, because everybody is not approved socially,
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you know, you know, like, this is the reason to why, like, in middle school and in high school,
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certain people, they didn't want certain people in their cliques.
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You remember middle school and high school, people were very cliquish in that time period.
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And people didn't even want certain people to be a part of their little entourage.
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It's a reason why that was.
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Because discrimination is real, guys.
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It's very, very real. And,
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you know this is why like in order to have good
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social skills to sum this up you gotta have good life experiences I truly believe the people who have good social skills
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those are the people who've had good life experiences you know Those are the people who was treated well in life
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The people that was constantly treated like garbage in life the people who was constantly ridiculed,
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bullied, picked on, mocked, those people, I mean, they couldn't have good social skills if they wanted to.
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You know?
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You know, it's a reason why they have outgoing people and why they have people who are introverted.
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I mean, it's a reason for these things, guys.
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But you guys let me know what you think.
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Do you believe people who have good social skills,
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do you believe these people have those good social skills because they had good experiences in life?
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because I truly believe that the people who have good social skills,
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it's a reason why they got them good social skills.
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It's because they have had good life experiences.
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I believe that's what sums it all up.
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I mean, you know, take a person who's considered attractive.
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You know, they were popular in school.
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You know, they was on the football team.
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I mean, do you really think social skills are going to be hard for a person like that?
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you know, a person like that is going to easily click socially,
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you know, it's not going to be hard for an individual like that to develop good social skills.
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So, you know, it's a reason why some people have good social skills and why some people don't.
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It's because of the experiences that they've had in their lives.
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But you guys leave your comments.
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I felt this was a great, insightful topic to talk about because, you know, I notice people who have bad social skills,
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a lot of these types of people tend to get bashed.
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But it's like, I mean, do you understand why these people have bad social skills?
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Because, you know, like they always say, it's a reason for everything.
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You know, life is full of cause and effect.
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So, you know, it's a reason why some people have bad social skills.
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And it's also a reason why some people have good social skills.
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But I'm going to go ahead and sign out.
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You guys have a good one.
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We'll be coming back with more interesting content soon.
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I want to say thanks for all the support we've come a very long way
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and I wish I could have started making content like this long time ago
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talking about things in a more reasonable way but you guys have a good one

Informazioni su questa lezione

In questa lezione, esploreremo come le esperienze di vita influenzano le capacità sociali delle persone. Imparerai a riconoscere il legame tra l'immagine di sé e la fiducia in se stessi, e come questi aspetti possano migliorare le tue abilità comunicative. L'accento verrà posto sull'importanza di avere esperienze positive per sviluppare buone capacità sociali e come ciò possa riflettersi nel mondo delle relazioni personali.

Vocabolario e frasi chiave

  • Capacità sociali - Le competenze necessarie per interagire efficacemente con gli altri.
  • Esperienze di vita - Situazioni e avvenimenti che influenzano la nostra personalità e le nostre relazioni.
  • Autostima - Il valore e la fiducia che una persona ha in se stessa.
  • Ansia sociale - Una condizione di disagio che molte persone provano in situazioni sociali.
  • Immagine di sé - Come una persona percepisce se stessa, che può influire sulle sue interazioni sociali.
  • Genetica - I tratti ereditari che possono influenzare le esperienze di vita.
  • Essere estroversi - La capacità di essere socievoli e di divertirsi in compagnia degli altri.
  • Esperienze positive - Situazioni che migliorano la qualità della vita e la fiducia in se stessi.

Consigli per la pratica

Per migliorare le tue capacità di conversazione in inglese, ti consiglio di utilizzare il shadowing site durante l'ascolto di questo video. Prova a ripetere a voce alta ciò che ascolti, prestando attenzione alla velocità e al tono dell'oratore. Shadowing in inglese è particolarmente efficace se segui il ritmo e le emozioni del parlante. Ricorda che l'obiettivo è non solo ripetere le parole, ma anche catturare il modo in cui si esprimono i sentimenti e le intenzioni.

Utilizza il metodo shadowspeak per praticare il tuo inglese. Inizia con frasi brevi e aumenta gradualmente la difficoltà mentre diventi più sicuro. Non dimenticare che imparare l'inglese con YouTube può rendere l'apprendimento più coinvolgente e permetterti di ascoltare vari accenti e stili di comunicazione.

Infine, assicurati di rivedere frequentemente le frasi chiave e di riflettere su come le esperienze personali possono influenzare la tua comunicazione. Questo non solo migliorerà le tue capacità linguistiche, ma ti aiuterà anche a capire meglio gli altri e a costruire relazioni più solide.

Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?

Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.