쉐도잉 연습: You are a clown - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기

guys i'm disappointed like honestly i don't know what i did to you guys

for me to get asked a question like this

because there must be something that i am doing wrong

because ain't no way that i've been putting out content for almost eight months

and i get asked this question

so basically i am just having a great night wrapping it up

and one of my followers she messaged me she's like hey

liz um i've been seeing this guy for two weeks uh

we went on a couple of dates um after those two weeks he basically ghosted her

so he didn't reply anymore when she sent something

and he doesn't want to like you know reach out whatever she basically said he ghosted me right

so she already sent something he ignored it whatever he doesn't

want to see her anymore she asked me liz do you

think i should ask him why he ghosted me what did

i do to you guys like no honestly like what did

i do to deserve this what is this what is this

behavior i do not get it you are telling me this

man did not even find you worthy of a reply

and you want to ask hey why did you not find

me worthy of a reply is it like is it a

game like i don't know are we playing a game like

how much more can you embarrass yourself like i don't know

was was the was the whole ghosting not good enough for you

no no i'm being serious no you know what actually let's

no come here come what are we gonna send him like

what exactly is the message please please enlighten me what is

the message is it why did you ghost me hey question

mark i don't get it what what are we sending here anyways instead of um

texting him

when you're on your phone anyways uh i want you to

go to um a shoe site yeah like any shoe site whatever w shoe.com

and uh click your pair like your shoe size whatever

and i want you to find a clown shoes yeah uh

when you find the clown shoes i want you to take them

and put them on because that's what you that's literally what you are you're just a clown

and you know what matter of fact

while you're at it wait one second i have this lovely oil it's from uh look at

that basically you can what you can do is you spray on your hands right oh it smells

so nice you rub it inside of your hands

and then actually you send that message of course you take the guy's feet right

and you start massaging it ghosting is one of the most

disrespectful thing a person can do to I'm not like I'm literally being serious here

unless of course there are these scenarios somebody has a mental illness

somebody his mom died or he died

or she died I don't know whatever you guys always like to be like oh yeah

but there's people that are ill blah blah okay yeah there's people

that are ill I'm talking about a normal healthy person right a healthy person

that you were communicating with and

that all of a sudden went blank sees your message doesn't

want to answer doesn't want to give you any explanation how disrespectful is that

and i've been ghosted once in my life uh by this

guy i was talking to he did not even live in my country um

but we were talking and whatever

and all of a sudden he ghosted me he probably went to his other girlfriend

or whatever i don't care listen listen i asked hey like i tried to send him

and i asked like hey why did you ghost me listen

listen i yeah me i do embarrassing things for you

so you guys can learn from my mistakes don't do it

because you know what i didn't get any answers nothing you

know what i did afterwards i i literally changed my phone number

and sometimes when i lay in bed i think about that

and i think wow wow liz

that was an impressive moment in your life it comes off

so desperate like how desperate are you to be like hey

listen i know i'm not even worthy of an explanation

but i still want you wow you know what to be honest like

if if you do behavior like this every time listen

listen you are going to send someone whether it's a girl

that goes to you or a guy whatever if you are gonna send

that person hey why did you ghost me

or double text them please please do not say

that you know me do not say

that you subscribe to me do not say that you watch my channel

because i'm embarrassed i'm literally embarrassed because there's all ain't no way ain't no way

that my subscribers do behaviors like this we do

when somebody goes us um we don't do anything okay listen

to me listen people will ghost you in life this is

normal i got ghosted a lot of people get ghosted whatever this is normal you're maybe not his match

or her match uh they didn't feel the vibe anymore they

have somebody else's interest uh there's someone else in the picture

so many reasons so many things maybe they don't even want a relationship

so you have to go into things thinking

that thinking like hey listen this might not work out

but that's okay because there's so many other people

so many other chances that do want me and

that i am good enough for and you know what

if i don't even want someone that's fine too

because i enjoy my own company as well always have to go into dating knowing

that you know people date other people especially in this day and age

you know what your issue is with you people you guys

like to fantasize you meet someone you're like oh wow i'll

marry this person i'll have seven children with them no no

that is not reality hey keep being real in your head

just think like hey listen this might work out this might not work out

if it does work out fine

if it doesn't fine i don't care who likes desperate people

please please who likes desperate people show me one person that likes someone that's desperate I mean, narcissists like desperate people.

They do because you're easy to manipulate and they like that.

You're like feeding their ego that you're like chasing after them.

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That's what they love.

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So especially if you're if you've been ghosted, you know what?

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The best thing to do is just ignore them.

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Ignore them.

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Act like you didn't even realize you were ghosted.

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Oh, your life, amazing without, there's this guy that I, uh, used to watch on YouTube, his name is, um, R.C.

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Blades Jr., I think, and he basically told the story of, uh, when his wife and he were, like, together when they were younger,

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whatever, he basically, uh, he broke up with her, right, and he said, like, look, this is not something that I want, like, I don't want to marry you, whatever

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when he broke up with her she never reached out to

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him again she did not text him she did not call

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him she didn't do anything he said i was shocked he said i was shocked she did not care

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so that made him want to chase her even more

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because she has this aura of like okay

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if it's not you someone else you know what she didn't said she started dating someone else

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and as well you people settle for like anything like literally

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like oh my god he texts me good morning please please

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that is so embarrassing like literally when you have women over here

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that get like crazy cars

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that get houses whatever it's not even about being materialistic to be honest

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because like somebody cannot might not afford that

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but they give their time they give their love they try to do as much as they can

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and they really put in effort

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and you you are being ghosted you're being ghosted please just

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don't talk to me don't talk to me i know i just know

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that you want to post quotes being like

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if you're not even worthy of a reply then don't think that you're worthy to have me in your life

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who cares like who genuinely cares about your stupid quote

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no tell me who cares then like you start like posting really like provocative things

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or like a lot of stories you having fun going out

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please act normal please just please act normal this person does not want you don't you get it

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If a person wants you, you know, and they're going through something or whatever, at least they have the respect to tell you they either

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like will be in a like a kind of break that will be off social media, whatever they will tell you.

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If a person even remotely respects you and is normal and wise enough, they will say, hey, listen, I don't feel like this is working and they'll communicate it.

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if a person does not respect you at all has zero zero zero respect they'll just ghost you

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if anything aren't you mad why are you trying to text them and be like hey why did you ghost me

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girl that just focus on yourself and

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if you want to date date other people why are you

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only dating one person i don't get it like why is literally one person your only option

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so that one person and then one person goes to you?

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Really?

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That's your only option?

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What is that?

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Desperate, everything runs from you.

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Like imagine a guy that is constantly chasing you.

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Who's ever interested in that guy?

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Nobody is.

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A guy that's, a girl that's constantly chasing a guy.

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Like the men that watch my channel.

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Are you ever interested in that girl?

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No, nobody is.

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Even like if you go somewhere and like these annoying people

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that are constantly wanting wanting you to buy stuff

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and like they don't leave you alone they're the desperation you

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don't want to buy from them it's annoying just realize

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that hey listen sometimes people are not your match sometimes people are not interested

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and that's okay let them be why do you care why

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do you care they're not the last people on earth you

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know how many people there are you haven't even met people at all you're just like what waiting for

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that one person holding on to

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that one person are you the only way you can now save yourself

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and not be a clown is by not replying anything not posting anything just go on like you were before

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and act like you didn't even realize hey let them ghost

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you what like that's it it just a ghost okay whoa whoa

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so special listen to me because i don't think you guys get it

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if they wanted you you would know ain't no way

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that a person when they want someone else or they

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when they want something that they will not make it known you would know you're confused

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because they don't want you listen

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if the ghost comes back right after like three weeks

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when his little fling didn't work out

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and they're basically like hey i'm sorry i was sick

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or oh my grandma died and whatever

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and you know he's lying um make him pay make him seriously pay for something buy you something

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if he wants to see something like again

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if you're like you know what if they come back

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because they always do if they come back

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and um they basically you don't want to talk to anymore

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because you feel

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so disrespected even better leave them alone you know this is your chance to go back

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but i'm telling you if you're gonna reach out

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and you're gonna be like why did you go speak i promise you either they'll show their friends

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and they'll laugh together have a good laugh he'll show his new fling his girlfriend have a good laugh um

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and he's not gonna respond to you or reach out but

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if you just ignore and you just go on with your life watch him reach out

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and if he doesn't who cares who cares

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and then you have like these people that are like no

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but you need to be grown

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and communicate who's communicating with you that's the issue they're not

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talking to you you're talking to yourself that's the issue what

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we don't do is we do not reach out anymore we

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go completely go you know ghost to ghost become a ghost

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um we do not post sad stories pictures we do not

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post happy things we just go on what what we're used to do you know like same thing uh

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and we don't care we go on with our life we

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date other people we become the best version of ourselves

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and that's it we do not reach out and

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if you do please please please uh stop being a clown and uh don't ask me this question again

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do not ask me a question like that ever again

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you got me i will not sleep good tonight

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because of this thank you so much for watching guys i love you guys

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so much and please like i'm not even kidding this is like triggering i love you bye

쉐도잉이란? 영어 실력을 빠르게 키우는 과학적 방법

쉐도잉(Shadowing)은 원래 전문 통역사 훈련을 위해 개발된 언어 학습 기법으로, 다언어 학자인 Dr. Alexander Arguelles에 의해 대중화된 방법입니다. 핵심 원리는 간단하지만 매우 강력합니다: 원어민의 영어를 들으면서 1~2초의 짧은 지연으로 즉시 소리 내어 따라 말하는 것——마치 '그림자(shadow)'처럼 화자를 따라가는 것입니다. 문법 공부나 수동적인 청취와 달리, 쉐도잉은 뇌와 입 근육이 동시에 실시간으로 영어를 처리하고 재현하도록 훈련합니다. 연구에 따르면 이 방법은 발음 정확도, 억양, 리듬, 연음, 청취력, 말하기 유창성을 크게 향상시킵니다. IELTS 스피킹 준비와 자연스러운 영어 소통을 원하는 분들에게 특히 효과적입니다.

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