Shadowing Practice: How to Use Could, Would & Should in Real English Conversations - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Michael, quick question.
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Hey, Olivia.
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Absolutely.
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What is on your mind today?
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Um, what is the exact difference between could, would, and should?
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Oh, wow.
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That is a big one.
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I know.
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I hear them absolutely everywhere.
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Exactly.
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On TV, at work, on the street.
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Yes, but honestly, I never know which one to use.
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Ha ha ha.
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That is exactly where most English learners get confused.
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Totally.
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I just guess most of the time.
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Well, you are not alone, Olivia, but perfect timing, Olivia.
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Really?
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Why?
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Because today we are going to make it very, very simple.
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Oh, I hope so.
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My brain is tired of rules.
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Listen to me.
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After this short lesson, you will choose them automatically.
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Automatically?
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No thinking?
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Zero thinking.
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You see, Olivia, I have a secret for you.
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Ooh, I love secrets.
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Tell me.
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You do not have a grammar problem.
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I don't?
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No. You have a politeness problem.
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Wait, what?
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A politeness problem?
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Am I rude?
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No, no. Not rude, but in English, we use these words to show respect.
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Ah, I understand.
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So my promise to you today is this.
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You will learn how to sound polite, natural, and confident using just three little words.
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Wow.
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Three words?
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Exactly.
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Now, before we start...
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Yeah?
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I want you to relax.
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Take a deep breath.
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Okay.
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Breathing in and out.
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Awesome.
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Because there are no boring grammar rules today.
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Oh, thank goodness.
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I really hate grammar.
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I know you do.
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This is not grammar, Olivia.
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This is real conversation.
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Perfect.
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I am ready.
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What is the big idea?
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The big idea is that three words change everything.
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Just three?
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Just three.
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Could, would, and should.
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They sound so small.
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They are small, but they completely change your personality in English.
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My personality?
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How?
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Imagine you were wearing a very casual t-shirt.
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Okay, I am imagining it.
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That is normal English.
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But when you put on a nice clean suit… Oh, I look professional.
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Exactly.
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These three words are the business suit of the English language.
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Wow, I love that picture in my head.
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Awesome.
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Let us put on our business suit and look at the first word.
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Let's do it.
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Which one is first?
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The first word is could.
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C-O-U-L-D. Could.
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Correct.
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Now, Olivia, imagine you are in a big office.
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Okay.
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Big office, glass windows, busy people.
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Yes.
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And your hands are full of heavy boxes.
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Oh, no. My arms hurt.
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You walk to a door.
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A man is standing there.
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What do you say?
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I say, can you open the door?
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Good.
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That is normal English.
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Is it bad?
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Not bad, but listen to this.
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Could you open the door?
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Oh, could you opened a door?
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Yes.
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How does that feel?
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It feels softer, more gentle.
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Absolutely.
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That is the magic of could.
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So can is just normal.
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Yes, can is normal.
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It asks about ability.
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Like do your arms work?
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Exactly. But could.
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Could is a polite request.
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I see.
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It sounds much more respectful.
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Definitely.
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Now, let us practice this in a real business situation.
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OK.
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Give me a situation.
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You are in an important meeting with a big client.
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Ooh, a meeting.
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High pressure.
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You need the client to look at a document.
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OK.
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Do you say, can you read this file?
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No, that sounds like a command.
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Exactly.
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It sounds like you were the boss giving orders.
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I should use could.
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Yes.
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Tell me the sentence.
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Could you read this file?
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Excellent.
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Oh, wait.
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Could you read this file, please?
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Wow.
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Even better.
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You sound like a top manager now.
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I feel powerful but polite.
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That is the perfect description.
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Powerful but polite.
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Can we do another one?
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Absolutely.
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You are working on a new project.
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All right.
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A project.
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You don't understand a part of it.
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You need help from your co-worker.
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Okay.
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I go to my co-worker's desk.
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What do you say?
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Could you explain this project to me?
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Perfect.
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How did that feel?
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It felt really natural.
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Like, I respect his time.
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True.
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Very true.
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So, could is for asking people to do things nicely.
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Exactly.
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Could makes you sound respectful.
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I love it.
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Could you help me?
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Could you send the file?
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Could you explain the project?
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You are a natural, Olivia.
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Thanks, Michael.
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What is the next word?
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The next word changes your desires into gold.
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Oh, sounds expensive.
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What is it?
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The word is wood.
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Wood.
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W-O-U-L-D.
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Wood.
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Yes.
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Now let us draw another picture in your mind.
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Okay.
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My eyes are closed.
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Paint the picture.
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You are in a beautiful, quiet café.
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Mmm, I can smell the coffee.
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The waiter comes to your table.
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Okay.
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What do you say to him?
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I say, I want coffee.
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Ah, I want coffee.
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Is that rude?
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Well, imagine a little child crying.
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What do they say?
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They say, I want a toy.
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I want candy.
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Exactly.
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I want is a bit aggressive.
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It's just raw emotion.
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Oh, no. I don't want to sound like a crying child in a cafe. Of course not.
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So, let us upgrade your English.
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Yes, please, upgrade me.
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Instead of, I want coffee, say this, I would like a coffee.
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I would like a coffee.
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Yes, listen to the music in that sentence.
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Oh, wow.
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I would like a coffee.
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It sounds so elegant.
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Doesn't it?
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It completely changes the mood.
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It does.
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The waiter will definitely smile at me now.
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Absolutely.
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Would makes your desire polite.
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So, I want is direct, but I would like is polite.
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Exactly.
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Now let's take would to the office.
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Back to the business suit.
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Yes, you need to speak with your manager.
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Okay.
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You don't say, I want a meeting with you.
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No, no, that sounds like I'm firing him.
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Exactly.
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So what do you say?
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I would like a meeting with you.
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Perfect.
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Very professional.
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Okay, let me try another one.
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Go ahead.
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I want to discuss the project.
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No, wait!
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Catch yourself.
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Fix it.
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I would like to discuss the project.
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Excellent.
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You sound like a true professional.
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Wow, this is actually fun.
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See?
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No grammar.
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Just feelings and situations.
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Definitely.
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It feels like acting in a movie.
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It is.
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Now, what if you see a co-worker carrying heavy boxes?
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Oh, the box situation again.
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Yes, but this time you are helping them.
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Okay.
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You don't say, do you want help?
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Why not?
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Is that bad?
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It is okay, but it's casual.
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Let's make it a polite offer.
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Oh, how do I use would for a question?
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Very simple.
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You switch it.
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Would you like?
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Ah, would you like some help?
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Awesome.
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Say it again with a big smile.
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Would you like some help?
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Yes, you just offered help in the most polite way possible.
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This is blowing my mind, Michael.
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I told you.
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Three little words.
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So, let me make sure I understand.
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Take your time.
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Summarize it for me.
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If I want someone to do something for me...
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Yes?
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I use could.
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Like, could you open the door?
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Spot on.
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That is a polite request.
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And if I want something for myself...
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I use would, like, I would like a coffee.
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Perfect.
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That is a polite desire.
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And if I want to offer something to someone...
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Yes, what do you use?
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I use would again, like, would you like a coffee?
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Absolutely brilliant, Olivia.
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Oh my gosh, I feel so smart right now.
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You are smart.
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You just needed to see the feelings behind words.
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Yeah, exactly.
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The grammar books never explain the feeling.
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Now they just give you formulas.
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Subject plus verb.
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Boring. So boring.
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But now I see the pictures.
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The cafe, the office.
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Visualizing it makes it stick in your brain forever.
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Totally.
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Okay, I have could, I have would.
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Which leaves us with one more word.
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The third word.
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Yes.
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Are you ready for a new situation?
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I am so ready.
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Give me a challenge.
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Okay, let's take a deep breath because this one is very important for life and work.
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Breathing in.
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I am ready.
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Awesome.
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The third magic word is should.
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S-H-O-U-L-D. Should.
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Exactly.
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Now close your eyes again.
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Closed.
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What is the picture this time?
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You are sitting at your desk.
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You look very stressed.
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Oh, I hate being stressed.
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You have a massive problem with your project.
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A huge problem.
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My head hurts.
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I am your friend at the office.
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I see you crying.
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Oh, no. Poor me.
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I want to help you.
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I look at you and say, talk to your manager.
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Ouch.
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That sounds really strong.
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Yes.
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How does it feel in your chest?
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It feels like an order, like you are shouting at me.
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Exactly.
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Talk to your manager is a command.
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And I am already stressed.
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I do not need orders.
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True.
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So let us use our third magic word.
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OK.
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How do I fix it?
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Listen to this.
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You should talk to your manager.
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Oh, you should talk to your manager.
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Yes.
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How does that feel now?
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It feels so much better.
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Like you actually care about me.
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Absolutely.
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That is the true power of should.
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It feels like a warm hug for my stressed brain.
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A warm hug.
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I love that picture.
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So, should is not an order?
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No, never.
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Should is advice.
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Advice.
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Like a friendly suggestion.
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Exactly.
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You're giving someone a good idea.
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But they do not have to do it?
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Correct.
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It is totally their choice.
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You're just helping.
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Wow.
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That is very polite and safe.
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Definitely.
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Let us try some real situations.
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Hit me.
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I am ready.
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Your co-worker looks extremely tired today.
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He has dark circles under his eyes.
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Yes.
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What is your advice?
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You should take a break.
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Perfect.
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Very kind and very professional.
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Oh, I like this.
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Give me another one.
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Your friend has an important presentation tomorrow.
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Okay.
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But he is playing video games instead of repairing.
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Oh, no. Bad idea.
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What do you tell him?
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You should study more.
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Excellent.
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Friendly advice.
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No screaming.
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Yeah, exactly.
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If I just say, study more, I sound angry.
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Totally.
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Now a big business situation.
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Okay, putting my professional business suit back on.
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The team cannot agree on the project direction.
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We are stuck.
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You need the boss to step in and fix it.
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What do you say?
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You should make a decision.
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Spot on.
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You should make a decision.
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It sounds helpful, not pushy.
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Exactly.
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You are guiding them, not pushing them.
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This is so clear now.
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Should means advice.
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Awesome.
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Now, Olivia, we reached the most exciting part of today.
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Oh, more exciting than the magic words?
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This is where we put all the magic together, the smart comparison.
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Okay, my brain is 100% focused.
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We will look at the same situation, but change the feeling.
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Same idea, different feeling.
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I love it.
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Situation 1.
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You need help.
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Okay.
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Normal English.
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Can you help me?
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Polite English.
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Could you help me?
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Boom.
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See the difference?
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Yes.
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One is a basic question.
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One is a respectful request.
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Exactly.
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Situation 2.
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You are thirsty.
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Okay.
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I want a drink.
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Normal English.
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I want coffee.
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Polite English.
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I would like coffee.
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Beautiful.
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What changed there?
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I want is like a baby.
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I would like is a professional choice.
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Yes.
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Situation three.
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Your friend is confused at work.
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Okay.
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Normal English.
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Talk to your boss.
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Polite English.
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You should talk to your boss.
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Fantastic.
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What is the difference?
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Talk to your boss is an order.
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You should is kind advice.
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You nailed it.
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You absolutely nailed it.
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Wow, it really is just a politeness problem.
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See, I told you, no boring grammar rules.
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Just feelings, pictures, and respect.
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Exactly.
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Now it is time to open the error lab.
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The error lab sounds a little dangerous.
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It is safe.
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I will pretend to be a bad English speaker.
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Oh, this will be very funny.
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You have to fix my rude sentences.
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Ready?
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Ready.
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Bring on the bad English.
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Hey, Olivia.
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You must help me right now.
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Oh, wow.
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Yikes.
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That is terrible.
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Fix it for me.
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Could you help me, please?
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Perfect.
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Much better.
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Here is another one.
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Okay.
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Let me hear it.
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Hey, I want a meeting with you today.
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Oh, no. So aggressive.
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Fix it.
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I would like a meeting with you today.
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Awesome.
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My ears feel better already.
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Do you have any more?
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Yes.
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One last mistake.
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Listen to this.
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I am listening.
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Your project is bad.
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Fix it.
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Oh my gosh.
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I would cry if a co-worker said that.
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How do you make it polite advice?
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Hmm, let me think.
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You should check your project again.
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Brilliant.
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You turned an insult into helpful advice.
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This feels like a communication superpower.
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It really is.
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Words have incredible power, Olivia.
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They really do.
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Could, would, should.
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My new best friends.
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Awesome.
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Now prepare for the ultimate test.
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The ultimate test?
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Am I ready for this?
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You are more than ready.
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We are doing a real role play.
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A scene?
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Like in a movie?
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Exactly.
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No explanations.
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Just pure, natural conversation.
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Okay.
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What is the setting?
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We are at the office.
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We are working on a big project together.
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Got it.
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I am in character. And action.
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Hey, Michael.
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Are you busy?
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Hi, Olivia.
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A little bit.
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What is up?
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Could you send me the marketing file?
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Sure.
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I can send that.
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Anything else?
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Yes.
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I would like to discuss the new budget with you later.
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Oh, the budget.
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Yeah, we definitely need to look at that.
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I notice some numbers are low.
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You should check the final results.
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Good catch, Olivia.
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I will do that right now.
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Thanks, Michael.
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Would you like me to book a meeting room?
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Yes, please.
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That would be great.
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Done. And cut.
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Wow, that was so smooth.
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It was absolutely perfect.
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You sounded exactly like a native speaker.
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I felt so confident.
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I used could, would, and should without stopping.
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You did.
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You didn't even think about grammar.
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Not at all.
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I just thought about the feeling and the situation.
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That is the big secret to fluency, my friend.
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I am so happy right now.
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My brain is not tired at all.
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That is the goal.
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Let us do a quick mental summary to lock it in forever.
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Lock it in.
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Let's go.
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Word number one, could.
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Polite request.
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Like, could you open the door?
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Exactly.
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Word number two, would.
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Polite desire or offer.
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Like, I would like coffee.
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Spot on.
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Word number three, should.
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Friendly advice.
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Like, you should take a break.
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Olivia, you are officially a master of politeness in English.
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Thank you, Professor Michael.
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So, what is our golden sentence for today?
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Ooh, a golden sentence.
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Tell me.
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Speak English, but speak it nicely.
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Speak English, but speak it nicely.
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I really love that.
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It changes how the whole world treats you.
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I believe it.
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If I am polite, people actually want to help me.
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Absolutely true.
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You get what you give in communication.
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This was honestly the best English lesson ever.
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I am so glad you enjoyed it, Olivia.
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So, what about everyone listening to us right now?
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Ah, yes.
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We have a tiny bit of homework for our amazing listeners.
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Oh, homework.
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But fun homework, right?
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Very fun.
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No stressful tests, I promise.
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What do they have to do?
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I want you, the listener, to go to the comments right now.
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Open the comments, grab your keyboards.
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And write three simple sentences.
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One for each magic word?
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Exactly.
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Write one sentence using could.
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Like a polite request.
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Yes.
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Then write one sentence using would.
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Like a polite wish or a nice offer.
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Perfect.
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And finally, write one sentence using should. Should.
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Give us some friendly advice.
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Exactly.
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I am going to read every single comment.
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And I will read them too.
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If you make a small mistake, do not worry at all.
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The error lab is open.
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We will help you fix it gently.
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Absolutely.
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We're here to help you speak with real confidence.
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This learning community is so awesome.
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It really is.
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So do not be shy.
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Drop your sentences below.
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Could you write a comment?
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I would like to read it.
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Look at you, using the lesson already.
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You should see my big smile right now.
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That was incredibly clever, Olivia.
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I try my best.
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I try.
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Well, that is all for today's lesson.
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Thank you so much, Michael.
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I learned a lot.
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And a big thank you to everyone listening.
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Keep practicing.
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You are doing great.
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Remember, you do not have a grammar problem.
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You have a politeness problem.
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But not anymore.
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Not anymore.
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Like the video and subscribe for more lessons.
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Go subscribe.
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You will love it.
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15 woorden uit de video die het leren waard zijn, met uitspraak en betekenis:
| Woord | Uitspraak | Betekenis |
|---|---|---|
| polite bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /pəˈlaɪt/ | beleefd |
| grammar zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈɡɹæm.ə(ɹ)/ | spraakkunst, grammatica |
| lesson zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | les |
| worker zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈwɝ.kɚ/ | arbeider, arbeidster |
| breathe werkwoord | /bɹiːð/ | ademen, ademhalen |
| rude bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ɹuːd/ | grof, onbeschoft |
| bore werkwoord | /boɹ/ | vervelen |
| homework zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈhoʊmˌwɝk/ | huiswerk, huistaak |
| respectful bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ɹɪˈspɛkt.fl̩/ | eerbiedig, respectvol |
| confused bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /kənˈfjuːzd/ | verward, in de war |
| desk zelfstandig naamwoord | /dɛsk/ | bureau, schrijftafel |
| helpful bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/ | behulpzaam |
| aggressive bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/ | agressief |
| nail zelfstandig naamwoord | /neɪl/ | nagel |
| subscribe werkwoord | /səbˈskɹaɪb/ | abonneren |
Phrasal verbs die je zult horen
| Woord | Betekenis |
|---|---|
| check out werkwoord | onderzoeken |
Uitspraak om op te letten
De spreker gebruikt 11 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals don't, you're, didn't. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.
- De “th”-klanken: breathe /bɹiːð/, smooth /smuːð/, thirsty /ˈθɝs.ti/
- De klanken “sh” en “zh”: casual /ˈkæʒ(u)əl/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, presentation /ˌpɹɛzn̩ˈteɪʃn̩/, suggestion /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/
- Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/
Zo oefen je met deze video
- Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
- Spreek zin voor zin na op normale snelheid en herhaal elke zin tot je ritme gelijk is aan dat van de spreker.
- Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als polite, grammar, lesson.
Grammatica in deze video
De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:
| Structuur | In de video |
|---|---|
| Advies met “should” should + werkwoord — zeggen wat een goed idee is | should use · should talk · should is |
| Overtreffende trap the -est / the most … — het hoogste of laagste van een groep | the most polite · the most exciting · the best |
| Present continuous am/is/are + -ing — iets dat nu of in deze periode gebeurt | am imagining · is standing · are working |
| Toekomst met “will” will + werkwoord — een besluit, belofte of voorspelling | will choose · will learn · will definitely smile |
Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?
Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.