Shadowing Practice: Selena Gomez Talks Identity Struggles - Learn English Speaking with Video

Les maken...
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I think I think the biggest problem I had this year, even with him and on his side, is identity.
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I think people, I'm literally, I was 21 this year, I turned 22.
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I was trying to figure out what I'm doing
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and it was the first time that I was constantly being kicked down for doing that.
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When I didn't know, I just wanted to say this, this is what I want.
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I don't, this is where I am.
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In my professional life, things changed.
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In my personal life, things changed.
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My heart, everything.
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And people just thought...
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Alright, well, this is what we think.
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And yeah, I made some decisions that weren't great as well, and so did he.
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And that's why I feel like we went through all that to only make us better.

What You'll Learn from This Clip

This video is a goldmine for practicing real-life English speaking skills. First, you’ll master expressing vulnerability—how to talk about personal struggles using phrases like “I think the biggest problem I had” or “I was trying to figure out what I'm doing.” These are essential for IELTS speaking practice, where showing depth in responses matters. Second, you’ll learn to connect personal and professional experiences smoothly, as the speaker links changes in her career and relationships. Finally, you’ll pick up how to acknowledge mistakes naturally with “I made some decisions that weren't great,” a skill that makes your speech sound authentic. Use shadow speak to mimic her tone—this helps you internalize these patterns quickly.

Listen For These Sounds

Native speakers often link words or reduce sounds, and this clip is full of examples. Notice how “I think I think” becomes a soft, connected “I think I think” with minimal pause between the two “think”s. Listen for the reduction in “I'm literally, I was 21” where “I'm” blends into “literally” as “I'mlit-erally.” Also, “kicked down for doing that” has a smooth link between “down” and “for,” making it sound like “downfor.” These details are key for learning English with YouTube—they’re the difference between sounding “good” and “native.”

Say It Like a Native

To mirror the speaker’s rhythm, focus on stress and pauses. She stresses words like “identity,” “constantly,” and “better” to emphasize her main points—copy that to make your speech more engaging. Notice how she pauses slightly before “and so did he” to build emphasis. For shadow speak practice, repeat the line “this is what I want. I don't, this is where I am” slowly at first, then speed up to match her pace. Pay attention to the rise in her voice on “want” and the fall on “am”—this intonation shows certainty even when she’s unsure. Shadowspeak techniques like this help you sound more natural, whether you’re practicing for IELTS or everyday conversations.

Grammatica in deze video

De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:

StructuurIn de video
Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doetbeing kicked
Past continuous was/were + -ing — iets dat op een moment in het verleden bezig waswas trying
Overtreffende trap the -est / the most … — het hoogste of laagste van een groepthe biggest
Present continuous am/is/are + -ing — iets dat nu of in deze periode gebeurtI'm doing

Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?

Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.

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