Shadowing Practice: Selena Gomez Talks Identity Struggles - Learn English Speaking with Video

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I think I think the biggest problem I had this year, even with him and on his side, is identity.
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I think people, I'm literally, I was 21 this year, I turned 22.
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I was trying to figure out what I'm doing
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and it was the first time that I was constantly being kicked down for doing that.
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When I didn't know, I just wanted to say this, this is what I want.
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I don't, this is where I am.
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In my professional life, things changed.
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In my personal life, things changed.
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My heart, everything.
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And people just thought...
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Alright, well, this is what we think.
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And yeah, I made some decisions that weren't great as well, and so did he.
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And that's why I feel like we went through all that to only make us better.

What You'll Learn from This Clip

This video is a goldmine for practicing real-life English speaking skills. First, you’ll master expressing vulnerability—how to talk about personal struggles using phrases like “I think the biggest problem I had” or “I was trying to figure out what I'm doing.” These are essential for IELTS speaking practice, where showing depth in responses matters. Second, you’ll learn to connect personal and professional experiences smoothly, as the speaker links changes in her career and relationships. Finally, you’ll pick up how to acknowledge mistakes naturally with “I made some decisions that weren't great,” a skill that makes your speech sound authentic. Use shadow speak to mimic her tone—this helps you internalize these patterns quickly.

Listen For These Sounds

Native speakers often link words or reduce sounds, and this clip is full of examples. Notice how “I think I think” becomes a soft, connected “I think I think” with minimal pause between the two “think”s. Listen for the reduction in “I'm literally, I was 21” where “I'm” blends into “literally” as “I'mlit-erally.” Also, “kicked down for doing that” has a smooth link between “down” and “for,” making it sound like “downfor.” These details are key for learning English with YouTube—they’re the difference between sounding “good” and “native.”

Say It Like a Native

To mirror the speaker’s rhythm, focus on stress and pauses. She stresses words like “identity,” “constantly,” and “better” to emphasize her main points—copy that to make your speech more engaging. Notice how she pauses slightly before “and so did he” to build emphasis. For shadow speak practice, repeat the line “this is what I want. I don't, this is where I am” slowly at first, then speed up to match her pace. Pay attention to the rise in her voice on “want” and the fall on “am”—this intonation shows certainty even when she’s unsure. Shadowspeak techniques like this help you sound more natural, whether you’re practicing for IELTS or everyday conversations.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itbeing kicked
Past continuous was/were + -ing — an action in progress at a moment in the pastwas trying
Superlatives the -est / the most … — the top or bottom of a groupthe biggest
Present continuous am/is/are + -ing — something happening right now or around nowI'm doing

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

Shadowing technique: read the full step-by-step guide →