Shadowing Practice: underrated things that will make you *extremely* attractive in 2026 - Learn English Speaking with Video
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What I'm about to say is probably going to push a lot of people's buttons.
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But being conventionally hot in 2026 is not cutting it anymore.
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We're entering a new era where physical aesthetics is not the only thing that matters for being an attractive person.
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But it's actually these severely underrated traits that have become the new sexy and social currency.
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We're moving away from designer brands and plastic surgery,
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and we're moving toward invisible luxury.
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Wealth that you cannot see, but can definitely feel.
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So if you want to set yourself apart from the rest and become irresistibly attractive inside and out,
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you're going to want to lock in and take some notes.
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The first trait that every attractive person possesses is being a master storyteller.
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And this is attractive because not a lot of people have this skill.
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So when you do meet someone who does,
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you can tell right away and you become immediately drawn to them.
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It is human nature to love stories.
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We are hardwired to pay attention to them because stories are essential for survival,
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brain development, and empathy.
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Back in the day, our ancestors were telling stories all the time,
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and it makes up a huge portion of our history.
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This is how information gets passed down.
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So if you want to turn heads and have people's attention in a chokehold,
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you need to learn the skill of storytelling.
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Now, this doesn't mean talking more.
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It's about knowing how to communicate that makes people want to listen.
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There are three things you need to know about telling a good story.
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Know how to set the scene,
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know what details matter and which don't,
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and know when to stop.
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If you overshare or ramble on and on,
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people get bored and will stop paying attention.
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It's like watching a movie.
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If there's a random break from the plot or unimportant details,
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you automatically become confused and disinterested.
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But being a good storyteller also doesn't mean you have to be super loud or theatrical.
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Some of the most magnetic people are actually quite calm,
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but when they talk, people listen.
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They become invested.
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And remember this, the most important part of telling a story is not just saying the facts,
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but also the feelings.
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When you share a story,
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you should also share the emotions you were experiencing at the time or the lessons you learned from it.
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This humanizes you and opens you up to other people.
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And when other people can relate,
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they will naturally be drawn to you.
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The bottom line is, if you can master psychology,
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you can become extremely powerful.
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One of the biggest flexes and most attractive traits that has become the new status symbol is actually health.
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We started seeing this last year with the rise of wellness products,
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supplements, high-end fitness centers, wearable tech,
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I could go on and on.
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But in 2026, there has been a larger emphasis on simply understanding your body.
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And to me, this is the most attractive thing because it shows you are so in tune with yourself.
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Now, unfortunately, most of us were never taught to listen to our bodies.
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Western medicine just tells you to take a pill,
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which essentially just suppresses the information your body is trying to tell you.
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But the reality is we need to listen to our own bodies,
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not trends or TikTok advice.
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Having that self-awareness is so magnetic and it will set you apart from everyone else.
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You stop following what other people are doing and you live by your own personal standards because that's what works for you.
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And one of the most important factors to understand your health is genetics,
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like learning how your body responds to stress,
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your sleep patterns, how inflammation shows up in your body,
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and how certain foods affect you.
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I've talked about my own lab work in my videos,
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and a lot of you guys have asked me how I got it done.
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I'm not gonna lie, I was hesitant on sharing that with you
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because it took a long time to do that test and get my results.
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But recently, I discovered this super easy genetic analysis test called Circle DNA.
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The kit arrived in the mail,
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and it comes with all the materials you need to collect your sample.
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And the best part is it's just a simple saliva test.
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No blood or stool collections, thank God.
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And once you're done, you just ship it back with the provided return label
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and you'll get your results within a couple weeks,
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which you can access on their app.
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And what I've learned about my body has been so eye-opening.
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I found out that I'm likely lactose intolerant,
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which checks out because I normally get bloated and gassy after eating dairy.
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But now that I've confirmed that this is actually true,
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I've taken more careful measures to switch to dairy-free options.
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Speaking of diet, my nutrition results also showed that I have higher needs for magnesium and vitamin B12.
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And funnily enough, my sports and fitness results showed that I have a lower recovery efficiency,
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which basically means it takes me longer to recover after hard workouts.
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Since I've been going to Pilates and sweating a lot more than I used to,
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I now make sure I supplement with enough magnesium and B12 so that I can recover better.
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The other thing I found really interesting about my personal results was
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that it said I'm prone to insomniac sleep tendencies
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which I can confirm is true because I sometimes have a really hard time falling asleep.
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And this also probably contributes to my lower recovery efficiency.
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So that is why I am taking my sleep routine very seriously this year,
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and I'm actually being really strict on myself to go to bed at the same time each night.
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Instead of guessing or taking advice from a random person on the internet,
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with Circle DNA, you're working with information that is truly personalized to you.
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Attractive energy is all about knowing yourself,
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and that all starts with your body.
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If you're interested in getting a full comprehensive DNA test,
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I'll link Circle DNA down below and you can use my code Allison40 for 40% off.
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Okay, while we're on the health train,
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I need to tell you something girl to girl.
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The health and wellness world is out to get you.
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And if you're not careful,
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you will get sucked into buying the wrong stuff and doing the wrong things.
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I get it.
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You want to look so freaking hot,
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snatched, toned, all the good stuff.
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But some of the things you might be doing are actually slowing down your progress and making you feel worse.
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So we're going back to the basics.
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The most underrated health and beauty tip I can give you is to live a low inflammatory lifestyle.
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Inflammation doesn't just make you feel bloated,
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but it affects your face,
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your skin, your energy, and of course your mood.
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And when you don't feel good internally,
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it always shows up externally, period.
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So here are some hidden inflammatory habits that you might be doing unconsciously.
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Drinking ice cold water, eating highly processed foods and eating late at night,
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consuming refined sugar, not managing your stress levels,
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using scented personal care products,
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not sleeping enough, being sedentary.
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I could go on and on all day.
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Now, before you get overwhelmed thinking you need to overhaul your entire life, pause.
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It's not about being extreme.
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It's about paying attention.
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You can reduce chronic inflammation and feel better about yourself with a few small habits like walking daily,
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getting seven to nine hours of sleep,
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staying hydrated, eating simple, clean foods,
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and finding ways to manage your stress.
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Obviously, this is easier said than done,
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especially in a world that wants the opposite for you.
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But the most attractive people actively protect their health and their energy,
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and they almost have an aura around them,
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kind of like a healthy glow.
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So if you want to embody that same thing,
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you have to be intentional with your lifestyle.
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I promise when you lower inflammation,
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you will feel more toned,
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you will feel lighter, and you will have so much more energy.
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When I moved into my new apartment about a month ago,
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I was buying a lot of shit.
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And it definitely wasn't cheap, that's for sure.
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There's just a lot of essential items you need when you move into a new space.
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Dishes, towels, pots and pans, cleaning supplies.
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And for me, I am just the type of person that would spend more on something high quality than low quality.
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All my plates and bowls are ceramic,
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my cups are glass, my cleaning products are non-toxic,
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and my linens are 100% cotton.
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I truly believe that prioritizing quality is the most attractive trait in anybody
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because it shows you care about the things in your life and you want to make sure they're good for you.
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When my boyfriend switched from plastic type of water to glass,
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like that was the sexiest thing he could have done.
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I was actually turned on.
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I'm kidding, but also I'm not.
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There's just something about investing in yourself that is so attractive.
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But quality doesn't just apply to physical items.
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It can also mean prioritizing high quality relationships.
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Everyone in my close circle is there because I genuinely enjoy their presence
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and I think they are a high value individual You need to surround yourself with people
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and things
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that are going to elevate your life not bring it down
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Be selective You don't need to say yes to everything
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and everyone that comes your way when you are picky with your time money
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and energy You have more control over what you let into your life.
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Okay, hear me out for a second We all know having money is attractive
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when something has greater value we value it more.
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And the same is true with yourself.
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When you have more money,
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you feel better, more confident, more powerful.
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And something that younger generations do not grasp is the concept of saving.
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Like why did we stop trying to build wealth?
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Listen, I'm not saying that all attractive people are rich or all rich people are attractive.
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I'm not even saying you have to be rich.
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But you do need to build your wealth.
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And that all starts with saving.
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Again, I feel like this is a dying practice and maybe it's aging me right now,
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but we have forgotten the concept of contributing to a savings account.
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Guys, you need to be putting money away every single month.
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It doesn't need to be hundreds of dollars,
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but just a percentage of your income.
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When you know you're building your wealth,
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it changes how you move in the world.
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You become less desperate.
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You're able to say no more easily and you have control in situations because you're financially stable.
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I'm not saying you need to become a millionaire overnight,
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but you need to develop that self-trust and that self-reliance.
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Put your money away and stop spending it on stupid stuff.
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Yes, of course I love to shop once in a while,
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but more often than not,
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I am saving, I am investing,
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and I am thinking about my future.
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Peace of mind is hot, y'all.
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Okay, I will die on that hill.
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The next attractive trait is going to pertain to relationships.
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So if you're looking for a man or a woman and you want to be the sexiest person in the room,
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you need to have strict boundaries.
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Yes, I said boundaries.
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Most people think that having boundaries scares people away and makes you seem uptight.
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So if that's you, get that silly little thought out of your head.
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I don't know who told you that.
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Because this is one of the clearest markers of adulthood, aka maturity.
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Attractive people don't over-explain themselves.
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They don't tolerate disrespect and they communicate their standards to their partner and live by them.
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And if the other person doesn't follow through, no problem, they're out.
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This doesn't mean ghosting people or being cold.
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It's about speaking up on what you like and what you don't like.
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If your boyfriend is always late picking you up,
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a boundary says, I'm not going on dates with you if you consistently make me wait.
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If the guy you're seeing never answers his phone and takes three business days to respond,
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a boundary says, hey, I hope you value my time as much as I value yours.
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I want somebody who makes me a priority.
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Boundaries make relationships better.
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When you communicate your standards,
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you allow the other person to understand you more.
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And if they're the right person,
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they will honor your boundaries.
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And if they're not, you will find out right away.
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Being firm on your boundaries is probably the most attractive thing when it comes to dating,
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especially early on.
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Men won't admit it, but they secretly love when a woman shows her standards.
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So make sure you have them and communicate them.
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Are you ready for the most attractive trait of this whole video?
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Because if you do this,
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I guarantee you will be the most magnetic person in any room.
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The secret to attractiveness, like I said,
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is not about how you look or sound.
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It's about how you make people feel.
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We are all obsessed with ourselves.
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Most of us just won't admit it.
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But the reason we find people attractive,
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especially people's personalities, is because they make us feel good about ourselves.
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And that is why we can't get enough of some people.
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Like, we always want to be around them.
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And this secret trait is asking questions.
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That's it.
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I know it sounds stupidly simple,
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but it works every time.
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When you ask someone questions about themselves, it communicates interest.
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You're basically saying that you are so curious about this person,
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you need to know more about them.
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And people love talking about themselves.
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They love it when people want to get close to them.
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So ask more questions.
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Genuinely show interest in getting to know someone.
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Don't just ask the surface level stuff.
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Ask about someone's family, their relationships,
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their childhood memories, favorite spots to go to, their passions in life.
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When you ask these deep questions,
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it catches people off guard because most people don't care about that stuff.
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So when you do, it comes across as extremely attractive.
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Attractiveness is really about perception.
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It's how you feel about yourself and how other people notice it.
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This is the year we focus on self-awareness,
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calm energy, boundaries, and living intentionally.
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That is the real glow up.
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If you want to know more on how to optimize your life to achieve your goals faster,
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you would love my personal community at Girl Academy.
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This is where I connect with all my girls and we share our experiences,
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our wins, and our tips with one another.
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I have a few more spots left,
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so if you want to make this the best damn year of your life
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and also meet other women who are winning in their space,
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you can join using the link below.
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As always, thanks so much for watching and I'll catch you next week.
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Bye.
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Woordenschat en spreektips bij deze les
Deze spreekles op niveau B2 is gebaseerd op de video “underrated things that will make you *extremely* attractive in 2026”. Deze video bevat 262 zinnen en 2578 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 12:51. De spreker praat snel, ongeveer 201 woorden per minuut, dus reken op verbonden en ingeslikte klanken. 86% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden; de rest kun je beter vooraf bekijken.
Belangrijke woorden in deze video
De 15 moeilijkste woorden uit de video, met uitspraak en betekenis:
| Woord | Uitspraak | Betekenis |
|---|---|---|
| boundary zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈbaʊndɹi/ | grens |
| trait zelfstandig naamwoord | /tɹeɪt/ | karaktereigenschap trek |
| inflammation zelfstandig naamwoord | /ɪnfləˈmeɪ̯ʃən/ | ontsteking |
| magnetic bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /mæɡˈnɛtɪk/ | magnetisch |
| attractiveness zelfstandig naamwoord | aantrekkelijkheid | |
| bloat werkwoord | /bloʊt/ | zwellen, uitdeinen |
| magnesium zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˌmæɡˈnizi.əm/ | magnesium |
| wellness zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈwɛl.nɪs/ | wellness |
| underrated bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ʌn.dɚˈɹeɪ.təd/ | ondergewaardeerd |
| inflammatory bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ɪnˈflæmət(ə)ɹi/ | opruiend |
| supplement zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈsʌp.lɪ.mənt/ | aanvulling, supplement |
| dairy zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈdɛə.ɹi/ | zuivel |
| ancestor zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈæn.sɛs.tɚ/ | voorouder |
| disinterested bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /dɪsˈɪnt(ə)ɹəstəd/ | belangeloos |
| embody werkwoord | /ɪmˈbɒdi/ | belichamen |
Phrasal verbs die je zult horen
| Woord | Betekenis |
|---|---|
| find out werkwoord | ontdekken, onderzoeken |
| check out werkwoord | onderzoeken |
| come across werkwoord | overkomen |
| pass down werkwoord | doorgeven |
| show up werkwoord | tentoonstellen |
| slow down werkwoord | afremmen |
Zinnen om te herhalen
Korte, volledige zinnen uit de video die je in alledaagse gesprekken kunt gebruiken:
- I'm kidding, but also I'm not.
- I'm not even saying you have to be rich.
- I don't know who told you that.
- Are you ready for the most attractive trait of this whole video?
- It's about how you make people feel.
Grammatica in deze video
De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:
| Structuur | In de video |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + voltooid deelwoord — iets uit het verleden dat nu nog telt | have become · has become · has been |
| Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doet | are hardwired · be drawn · were never taught |
| Betrekkelijke bijzinnen who / which + zin — extra informatie over een persoon of ding | someone who does · somebody who makes · women who are |
Uitspraak om op te letten
De spreker gebruikt 60 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals I'm, you're, don't. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.
- De “th”-klanken: aesthetics /ɛsˈθɛt.ɪks/, theatrical /θiˈætɹɪkəl/, empathy /ˈɛmpəθi/
- De klanken “sh” en “zh”: inflammation /ɪnfləˈmeɪ̯ʃən/, conventionally /kənˈvɛnʃənəli/, unconsciously /ˌʌnˈkɑnʃəsli/, intentional /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/, intentionally /ɪnˈtɛn(t)ʃənəli/
- Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: inflammation /ɪnfləˈmeɪ̯ʃən/, magnesium /ˌmæɡˈnizi.əm/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, underrated /ʌn.dɚˈɹeɪ.təd/, inflammatory /ɪnˈflæmət(ə)ɹi/
Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:
- Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, underrated /ʌn.dɚˈɹeɪ.təd/, chokehold /ˈt͡ʃoʊkˌ(h)oʊld/, disinterested /dɪsˈɪnt(ə)ɹəstəd/, humanize /ˈhjuː.mə.naɪz/
- /æ/ — opener dan de Nederlandse “e”: magnetic /mæɡˈnɛtɪk/, magnesium /ˌmæɡˈnizi.əm/, inflammatory /ɪnˈflæmət(ə)ɹi/, ancestor /ˈæn.sɛs.tɚ/, insomniac /ɪnˈsɒm.ni.æk/
- /g/ — een harde plofklank, geen Nederlandse “g”: magnetic /mæɡˈnɛtɪk/, magnesium /ˌmæɡˈnizi.əm/, glow /ɡloʊ/, grasp /ɡɹæsp/
Zo oefen je met deze video
- Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
- Begin op 0,75× snelheid, spreek zin voor zin na en ga terug naar normale snelheid zodra het makkelijk gaat.
- Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als boundary, trait, inflammation.
Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?
Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.