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What I wanted to do is let you in under the kimono a little bit and share,
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What I wanted to do is let you in under the kimono a little bit and share,
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you know, a number of the lessons
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that have been of service to me as I've walked through the journey of my life so far.
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And, you know, I must confess to you, I am no guru.
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In my book, The Greatness Guide,
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one of the first things I said,
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I think it was the first chapter,
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which is, I'm no guru.
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I'm a work in progress.
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I am not the ideal,
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but I have a lot of ideals.
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I am far from perfect,
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but my dream and my hope is that by the end of my life,
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and I hope I get to live a long life,
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I live so many of the ideals that I aspire to.
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And I think that's the part of being human,
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you know, we have these ideals and every single day when we fall we get back up.
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When we get a little off course,
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we have the opportunity to get back on course.
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I was, remember summers ago,
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I was flying from Zimbabwe to White River, South Africa.
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And we were in a little plane
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and the pilot allowed me to fly the plane and it was really a fascinating experience because,
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you know, behind the controls there was this needle, this dial.
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And he said just make sure the needle stays at the center of the dial and we're gonna be absolutely fine.
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And so literally there was the winds
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and the the forces taking this little plane off
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and all I had to do was sort of turn the I don't know
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if you call it a steering wheel
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but the controls back to bring the needle front and center so he stayed on course.
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And we get off course and on course.
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And isn't life like that?
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Every single day we get taken off course.
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You know, we get busy versus focused.
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We want to do the run or we want to do the workout,
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but there's a seduction by some kind of a distraction.
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We have an ideal of being world class in our work,
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but there's an attraction to sort of taking a little shortcut.
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And so literally every single day is an opportunity to get back on course with that needle of your world class ideals.
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So I wanted to offer you some ideas that have really served me well because I'm just like you.
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I'm trying to aspire to the top of the mountain over the course of the rest of my life.
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And the first idea that life has really taught me is really this, small wins matter.
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I mean, we sometimes think that an epic life occurs one Sunday,
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Sunday, Friday afternoon when the stars line up and something revolutionary occurs.
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What I'm suggesting to you with great love and great respect is a great life is built not by revolution.
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A great life is built by evolution.
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Small and steady wins the race.
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What you do every day is far more important than what you do once every decade.
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I want you to really think about that idea.
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What you do every day is simply your life in miniature.
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And as you live every single day,
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so you're crafting your life.
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What you do over the next hours is really building your future.
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And if you can just get,
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and I can just get every single pocket of 24 hours right as best as we humanly can,
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the rest of our life is going to take care of itself.
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So small wins matter.
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The moment in front of the customer where the pull was to go average
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and you become merchant of wow sets you up for the next day of a way of being of wow.
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The little win with your family when you feel like watching TV sets you up for another win the next day.
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A little win of getting up at 5 o'clock
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and running your morning routine sets you up for a habit of a 5 a.m club morning routine.
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Small daily improvements over time will lead you to stunning results.
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Many wins are the way to greatness.
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And that's one of the things life has taught me.
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When you look at the great companies,
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whether it's an Amazon, whether it's some of the tech startups coming out right now,
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whether it's a Zappos, whether it's a FedEx,
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whether it's a Nike, whether it's a General Electric,
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whether it's some of the little shops in your neighborhood
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that we really admire because people still cook the food with love
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or they serve the food with love or people having attention to detail.
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Great companies are built by those small steady optimizations every single day.
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If you look at any great product,
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it wasn't just one day that built the great product.
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It was a culture and a mindset of daily innovation and optimization when done consistently over time which led to world class.
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Even relationships.
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A great relationship.
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It's all about those small daily wins when done consistently leads to a lifetime of love.
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I was walking in the woods last week and there was an elderly couple walking in front of me.
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And they really stood out because they were moving fast.
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And they were also like,
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they had these ski poles.
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And so, this is the autumn in my hometown and they were walking with these ski poles.
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And so I sort of joked as I walked by them
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because it was pretty much only the three of us in this deep forest.
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And I said, you're missing the snow.
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And then I sort of laughed and we actually walked for about half an hour.
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And we started going pretty deep.
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And they said to me,
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you know, we've been married 52 years.
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And I said, 52 years, what's your secret?
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And the woman says, well,
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I've had to put up with a lot, which made me laugh.
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And then it was all about the little,
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small, daily things they did to foster a lifetime of love.
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And that's my metaphor for you on rule number one.
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Rule number two, nothing fails like success.
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You're successful, maybe it's in your health,
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maybe it's in your finances,
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maybe it's in your career,
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maybe it's in your family life,
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maybe it's in the way that you show up in the world.
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Awesome!
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You're in a really vulnerable place right now.
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It is one thing to be successful,
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it is another thing to sustain success over the coming decades.
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Is that not a powerful idea?
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I mean, let's go to the entertainment industry.
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It's very hard to be a one-hit wonder.
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Let's not knock a one-hit wonder.
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But it's even harder to become an iconic rock band or hip-hop band.
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Let's go to the arts.
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It is very hard to come up with your Sistine Chapel.
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Got it.
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It is even harder to become a Michelangelo.
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So are you playing the short game or are you playing the long game?
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This is rule number two,
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or lesson number two that life has taught me.
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Play the long game.
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Aim for legendary.
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Don't just say, I want to be world class in my dominant pursuit for a little window of time.
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Say, I want to have the guts and the grit
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and the acumen and the mindset and the capability and the commitment to create enduring success.
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And that's why I say nothing fails like success.
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look at the restaurant that is hot in your neighborhood right now,
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they're on the path to obsolescence if they're not really careful.
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Sure, they went from a little neighborhood shop that made beautiful pasta,
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that had great service, that had the owner on the floor,
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shaking your hand, getting to know your name.
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Then they got written up in the magazines,
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and then they got interviewed,
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and then word of mouth spread like wildfire, and what happened?
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They became arrogant.
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You see, success can be so toxic.
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And it happens, it is such a pull on every human being.
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It just plays with your mind.
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And you literally shift from humility to arrogance.
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You shift from humility to arrogance and once the arrogance sets in,
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in a mindset, it starts to populate every other person on the team,
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every other person in the culture,
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every other person in the community.
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And it is a very short fall from success to irrelevance.
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So lesson number two is nothing fails like success.
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As you become more successful, become more humble.
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As you become more successful, work even harder.
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As you become more successful,
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care even more about your product.
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As you become more successful, learn even more.
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I invite you, when you are the titan of your industry,
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be sitting in the room with 18 year olds beginning their game.
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When you are the icon of your field,
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be the person who is up,
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not at 5 o'clock anymore,
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let's play at 4 o'clock,
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reading, listening to the podcast,
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writing in your journals, setting your goals, focusing on your intention.
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As you become more successful, be more humble.
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As you become more successful, be even more punctual.
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As you become more successful, become even more passionate.
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As you become older, become even younger.
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Yesterday I was walking on the street and I met this man in his 80s.
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He said, Robin, I finally retired.
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He's probably close to 90.
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And he is a legendary clothier in the country that I live in.
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And he just retired.
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And he started his shop,
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which is now an empire, in 1954.
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So I don't know what that is,
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but that is decades and decades and decades and decades.
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And he did not want to retire.
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He just retired, but he is still on fire to do amazing things.
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Age is just a number.
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Do not let an old person into your body.
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Nothing fails like success.
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Number three, life has taught me no ask, no get.
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There is huge power in asking for what You see,
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a lot of times we can have what we want,
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we just don't ask for it so the world around us doesn't know what we want.
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And if the world doesn't know what you want,
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how can the world deliver what you want?
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In your personal relationships, we're not mind readers.
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If you don't tell your partner what you want,
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then your partner doesn't know what you want so you can't get what you want.
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If you don't set your goals,
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then you cannot get those goals because your brain doesn't know what you want.
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In your business, if you don't speak up and ask your client what you want,
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if you don't, I mean,
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you talk to any great salesperson,
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they say you need to ask for what you want.
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Ask for the order.
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And if you don't, you don't get the order.
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But the fundamental mindset I'm trying to invite you to play with is ask, ask, ask, ask.
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I share it with my children all the time.
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No ask, no get.
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And if you ask and you don't get, at least you learn.
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It's not really a failure.
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The only failure is not trying.
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The fourth thing that life has taught me and it's a big lesson is prosperity is really a reflection.
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I want to get this right.
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Prosperity is really a reflection of value delivery.
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If you want to make millions, serve millions.
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You want to make billions, help billions.
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And so the marketplace really rewards the value you produce.
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And Jim Rohn talked a lot about that,
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the great personal development expert,
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and a lot of other people talked about that.
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And yet it's so easy to forget.
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In my mindset, my attitude is really when I wake up in the morning,
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one of my favorite mantras to meditate on is how may a most be of service to as many people as possible.
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My obsession, I call it the 10x value obsession,
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my obsession in our businesses is to give our customers 10 times the value
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that they have any right to expect so that every product,
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every event, every book is considered free.
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But my point to you is simply this,
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do you have a mindset of someone who is just producing epic amounts of value and just pouring it into the marketplace?
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And if you do, you're going to start developing fanatical followers.
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I mean,
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why under Steve Jobs would people line up two days before at 3 in the morning to get the new product?
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It was because he produced such outrageous amounts of value in the user experience of each product that the people,
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it became a cult.
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The cult of Apple.
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So, the point is simply this,
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you want more money, help more people.
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Bottom line.
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Number, law, whatever law is next is,
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and it's a big one,
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and life has taught me this,
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which is, those who don't make time for exercise must eventually make time for illness.
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Exercise really is a game changer.
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I mean when you get up at 5 o'clock in the morning and spend those first 20 minutes in intense exercise,
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you sweat, you release BDNF which is miracle grow for your brain.
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Your brain just lights up.
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You release dopamine so you start feeling inspired.
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You increase your metabolic rate.
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You start to feel absolutely phenomenal.
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So there's one tradition that once said
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when we are young we would sacrifice all of our health for wealth and when we get old,
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we would sacrifice all of our wealth for one day of good health.
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And health really is the crown on the well person's head that only the ill person can see.
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And my invitation to you,
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and it's a lesson that I've learned from life,
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is few things are as valuable as getting into the finest fitness of your life.
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That is a decision that changes every other element of your life.
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You want to be fit like a pro athlete.
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You want to wake up in the morning,
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you want to do the run,
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do the yoga, do the swim,
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do the burpees, Do the jumping jacks,
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do the skipping, and it will change every other dimension of your life.
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What else has life taught me?
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It's taught me that failure is the price of greatness.
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I love the Teddy Roosevelt quote, man in the arena.
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And to paraphrase it is,
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you know, respect belongs not to the critic,
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not to the person in the bleachers, not to the audience.
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and admiration belongs to the person in the arena who has the dream,
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who has the vision, who rolls up her sleeves and has the guts to get the vision done.
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Anyone can be a critic and here's what I've realized,
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critics generally criticize the work they most wish they did.
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And my invitation to you is simply remember a lesson life has taught me,
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which is failure is the price of greatness.
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Adversity is the price of ambition.
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And I would rather get to the end of my life bloodied
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and marred and scarred and say I didn't spend the best years of my life chit-chatting around the water cooler.
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I didn't spend the best hours of my best days condemning and criticizing and being a naysayer.
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I spent the best years of my life gloriously standing in the fire of ideals,
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my goals, and trying to get what my heart's desires said I should do done.
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though I fell and I was bloodied and I was laughed at and I was criticized,
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sometimes hated and people tried to tear me down,
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that to me is what life is all about.
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And I think I should probably end on that invitation to you.
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Get your dreams done because the world will be a better place because you are in it.
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And that is my prayer for the rest of your life.
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Thank you.
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