Shadowing Practice: A Helpful Guide for Decluttering Toys - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Toys.
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Sometimes they feel like they're everywhere.
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When our kids were young, we took intentional steps to minimize the number of toys in our home, but even then, sometimes we felt like we were winning the battle,
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and other times we felt like we were losing.
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But I did want to make a video offering some of
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the practical tips we used to help minimize the number of toys in our home.
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I think you'll find them helpful.
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Hopefully you'll have some helpful tips to add in the comment section below, and we can all encourage one another to be the most intentional parents that we can be.
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Of course, the exact ideal number of toys will vary from family to family, if there even is one,
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but hopefully each of these tips will be helpful to those of you who know
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that the ideal number is certainly less than you have today.
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Number one, be convinced that fewer toys is better than more.
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As with any minimizing or simplifying project, it always begins with a heartfelt belief that less is better and desirable.
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I'm assuming if you're watching this video, you already believe this to be true when it comes to toys.
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But if not, be reminded that studies show fewer toys leads to deeper play,
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more creativity, longer attention spans, and better social skills.
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Number two, analyze your own motivation for purchasing toys.
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Most children don't buy toys for themselves.
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Someone else does.
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So if there are too many toys in your home, start with yourself.
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Why are there so many toys in your home?
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A healthy look at your own motivations may go a long way in solving this problem.
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Number three, choose quality over quantity.
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You and your children will benefit more from toys that are chosen for their quality and purpose than for the sheer quantity.
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And just like everything else in life, too many toys will always distract from the most important and helpful ones.
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Number four, declutter often.
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Most likely you need to make a clean sweep of your children's toys right now.
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Removing the low-hanging fruit, toys that are no longer used or broken or missing pieces, is a great place to start and shouldn't take too long.
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Put the clean, unused toys in boxes and donate them to a medical center, non-profit, local church, homeless shelter, orphanage, school, or goodwill.
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After that, you'll need to stay on top of the clutter by purging on a regular basis
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and going beyond the low-hanging fruit.
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But the first decluttering purge is an important one.
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Number five, set a physical boundary for the toys in your home.
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Whether it's a container, a shelving unit, a closet, set a confined physical space for your children's toys.
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And once the space is full, there's no room to add more toys or some need to be removed.
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Help your children understand that principle by clearly marking out the boundaries.
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6. Don't give in to fads.
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Just like clockwork, toy companies will generate a new toy fad every few months by artificially generating a cultural buzz.
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If done well, this artificial buzz will become mainstream and will no longer feel artificial, but it is, and it will always pass.
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You don't need to give in just because every other parent is buying that toy.
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Number seven, keep a healthy, realistic attitude toward toy companies and toy stores.
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They may tell you that their main goal is to help or educate your child, but oftentimes they're driven most by their bottom line.
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Number eight, avoid duplicate toys.
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Instead, require your children to learn the life lesson of sharing generosity, cooperation, and compromise.
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Number nine, watch less television.
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Consider the fact that marketers are brilliant at shaping the desires of men and women, young and old.
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Now imagine giving them hours each day to shape your child's mind and you'll quickly realize that you don't stand a chance.
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So be sure to limit the screen time for your kids.
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Number 10, don't give in to temper tantrums at the store.
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Every time you give in to a temper tantrum at the store just to avoid a scene, you embolden your child to do it again.
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They quickly learn how to manipulate you into getting what they want.
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So don't worry about the scene that's taking place in public.
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Wise parents in the store will respect you for not giving in.
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Number 11.
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Equip your children to make wise choices.
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Always involve your kids in the decluttering process.
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Help them make decisions about which toys should stay and which should go.
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This will serve them well as a child and into adulthood.
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Number 12.
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Limit your toys too.
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Kids will always learn more from an example than from words.
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If your life is caught up in always needing to own the latest fashion, technology, product on the market, theirs will be too.
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And it would be unreasonable to expect anything less.
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In fact, probably the most important step you can take to declutter your kids' toys is to declutter your stuff first.
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Keeping fewer toys will never be easy.
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It will always require thought and intentionality, but it will always result in your children learning to value who they are more than what they have.
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And that always makes it worth the effort.
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Hey everybody, Joshua here.
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I want to let you know that my new book, Things That Matter, Overcoming Distraction to Pursue a More Meaningful Life,
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is now available everywhere books are sold.
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Things That Matter is a book about living well.
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It's It's a book about overcoming the distraction of a world focused on all the wrong things
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so we can reach the end of our lives with minimal regrets.
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And I know it will challenge you to live a more meaningful life.
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So pick up a copy today.
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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson
This B1 speaking lesson is built on the video “A Helpful Guide for Decluttering Toys”. The speaker keeps coming back to these words: toy, helpful, store. This video has 75 sentences and 980 words to shadow. The speech runs for 6:32. The speaker talks at a natural 150 words per minute, close to everyday conversation. 83% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English; the rest is worth studying before you start.
Key vocabulary in this video
The 15 most advanced words in the video, with pronunciation and meaning:
| Word | Pronunciation | Meaning |
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| toy noun | /tɔɪ/ | Something to play with, especially as intended for use by a child. |
| declutter verb | /diːˈklʌtə(ɹ)/ | To remove clutter from, to tidy. |
| minimize verb | /ˈmɪn.ɪˌmaɪz/ | To make (something) smaller or as small as possible; shrink; reduce. |
| fewer | /ˈfjuː.ɚ/ | Less; a smaller amount of something non-integral commonly expressed as an integer |
| tantrum noun | /ˈtæn.tɹʌm/ | An often childish display or fit of bad temper. |
| purge verb | /pɜɹd͡ʒ/ | To clean thoroughly; to rid of impurities; to cleanse; to clear of (something unwanted). |
| intentional adjective | /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/ | Intended or planned; done deliberately or voluntarily. |
| distraction noun | /dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/ | Something that distracts. |
| temper noun | /ˈtɛmpɚ/ | A general tendency or orientation towards a certain type of mood, a volatile state; a habitual way of thinking, behaving or reacting. |
| buzz noun | /bʌz/ | A continuous humming noise, as of bees; a confused murmur, as of general conversation in low tones. |
| quantity noun | /ˈkwɑn(t)ɪti/ | A fundamental, generic term used when referring to the measurement (count, amount) of a scalar, vector, number of items or to some other way of denominating… |
| boundary noun | /ˈbaʊndɹi/ | The dividing line or location between two areas. |
| meaningful adjective | /ˈmiː.nɪŋ.fl̩/ | Having meaning, significant. |
| motivation noun | /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/ | Willingness of action especially in behavior. |
| generate verb | /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ə.ɹeɪt/ | To bring into being; give rise to. |
Phrasal verbs you will hear
| Word | Meaning |
|---|---|
| pick up verb | To lift; to grasp and raise. |
Grammar in this video
The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:
| Structure | In the video |
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| Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does it | be reminded · are chosen · be removed |
| Superlatives the -est / the most … — the top or bottom of a group | the most intentional · the most important · the latest |
| Past continuous was/were + -ing — an action in progress at a moment in the past | were winning · were losing |
| Advice with “should” should + verb — saying what is a good idea | shouldn't take · should stay |
Pronunciation to watch
The speaker uses 15 contractions and reduced forms, such as don't, you'll, they're. Say them the short way, as you hear them.
- The “sh” and “zh” sounds: intentional /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/, distraction /dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, artificial /ˌɑː.tɪˈfɪʃ.əl/, shelve /ʃɛlv/
- Long words — get the stress right: intentional /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, artificial /ˌɑː.tɪˈfɪʃ.əl/, generosity /ˌd͡ʒɛn.əˈɹɑ.sə.ti/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/
How to practise with this video
- Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
- Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
- Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like toy, declutter, minimize.
What is the Shadowing Technique?
Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.