Shadowing Practice: Oprah Winfrey's Life Advice Will Change Your Future | One of the Best Motivational Video Ever - Learn English Speaking with YouTube
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The three things that I want to leave with you,
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The three things that I want to leave with you,
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just these three, I could do ten,
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I could do a whole life class,
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but just these three things will carry you if you let them.
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First and foremost, knowing who you are.
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Knowing who you are.
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Being able to answer this question,
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who am I and what do I want?
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You know, many times when I go out of the country,
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I am baffled by that question to explain what is your occupation.
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I've stood there for 10 minutes.
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Well, am I talk show host?
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Well, I'm more than a talk show host.
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Am I a businesswoman?
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I'm a businesswoman, I'm more than a businesswoman.
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Am I an entrepreneur?
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I'm more than an entrepreneur.
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So I just leave it blank or self-employed.
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So I'm not asking for the roles that you play as daughters.
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I'm not asking that question.
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What are the roles that you play as a daughter,
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as a friend, as a sister?
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You're going to be a lawyer,
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you're going to teach, you're going to be a pharmacist.
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I'm asking the bigger question of who am I?
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Who am I really?
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My answer is I am God's child.
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I am, I am that which is born of all that is.
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I am as Pierre de Chardin said,
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a spiritual being having a human experience come trailing the breath of the ancestors yet
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but trailing the breath of the angels and understanding that
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because i am connected to the source of all that is all that is possible is possible for me.
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That's who I am.
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And what do I want?
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I don't want to just be successful in the world.
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I don't want to just make a mark or have a legacy.
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The answer to that question for me is,
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I want to fulfill the highest,
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truest expression of myself as a human being.
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I want to fulfill the promise that the creator dreamed when he dreamed the cells that made up me.
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What do I want?
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You must have some kind of vision for your life.
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Even if you don't know the plan,
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you have to have a direction in which you choose to go.
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I never was the kind of woman who liked to get in a car and just go for a ride.
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I had a boyfriend who would say,
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let's just go for a ride.
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I want to know where are we going?
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Do we have a destination?
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Is there a plan or are we just riding?
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What I've learned is that's a great metaphor for life
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You want to be in the driver's seat of your own life because if you're not life will drive you
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So Knowing who you really are in this space and time that we embody That's number one.
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What do you want?
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Who are you?
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Number two, you must find a way to serve.
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Martin Luther King said that not everybody can be famous,
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but everybody can be great because greatness is determined by service.
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Now we live in a world where everybody wants to be famous,
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and where we admire people for just being famous.
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We think being known brings us value.
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The truth is all of that will fade in time.
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In three years you won't be able to name the housewives of Atlanta.
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The real truth is that service and significance,
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service and the significance that you bring to your service is that which is lasting.
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So to be able to,
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whatever your occupation or job or talent or gift is,
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our honorees today getting doctorate degrees to apparently opposite fields HIV
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and AIDS and the spoken word
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but what they have in common is service using the spoken word in service to community
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and the world using your knowledge and information about HIV
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and AIDS and medicine in service to the world and
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if you look at all the most successful people in the world whether they know it
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or not they have that paradigm of service everybody's talking about Mark Zuckerberg
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and IPO service Jay-Z rapid service through the word to
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people through song for many years I was really just happy to be on TV and people would stop and say,
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oh you on TV?
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Yeah, I'm on TV.
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I like being on TV.
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It's a nice job.
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And it was about the time that I received my honorary doctorate from Spelman around 1993,
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so I don't know if that had something to do with it.
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I thought of myself as Dr. Winfrey.
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Then I went back
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and I took a long look at what it was I was doing on TV and made a decision
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that I was no longer going to just be on TV,
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but I was going to use TV as a platform,
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as a force for good,
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and not be used by TV.
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And I will tell you,
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my decision to make that significant change in the way I operated on television,
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using television as a service, changed my career exponentially.
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Service through medicine, service through art,
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using whatever it is you produce,
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your product, as a way of giving back to the world.
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When you shift the paradigm of whatever it is you choose to do to service and you bring significance to that,
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success will, I promise you, follow you.
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Service and significance equals success.
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That's number two.
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Number three, it's so simple but so hard to do.
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Always do the right thing.
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Always.
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be excellent people notice think of how you notice you go to Taco Bell somebody gives you extra napkin
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and some sauce you notice you want to go back to
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that person because even at Taco Bell excellence shows itself be excellent let excellence be your brand.
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Everybody talks about building a brand.
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I never even knew what that was.
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When people say you're a brand I would say no I'm just Oprah.
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What I recognize now is that my choice to in every way,
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in every example, in every experience to do the right thing and the excellent thing is what has created The brand.
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Years ago, I did an ad for Revlon for an ad they were doing called Unforgettable Women.
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And what I know is that when you are excellent, you become unforgettable.
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People remember you.
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You stand out.
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Regardless of what it is,
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you become an unforgettable woman.
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And that is what we all want.
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We want to be unforgettable and not forgettable.
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So doing the right thing,
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even when nobody knows you're doing the right thing,
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will always bring the right thing to you.
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I promise you that.
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Why?
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Because the third law of motion is always at work.
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For every action there's an equal and opposite reaction.
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That is so true in all of our lives.
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That's what Newton said.
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Celia in the color purple said it,
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everything you even try to do to me, already done to you.
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Everything you even try to do to me, already done to you.
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So you don't have to worry about revenge or getting back at somebody,
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making sure they pay.
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You just have to do the right thing and the right thing will follow you even when people don't support it.
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I remember many times on my show,
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there are many shows y'all never saw,
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and the reason you didn't see them is because I got the last vote.
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And I remember 2010, my team,
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hardest working team in television,
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had done this interview with a woman who turns out she was a Sunday school teacher by day
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and a sex addict at night.
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Ooh.
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And they were like, you won't believe it.
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We got her going out.
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We got her with the men.
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And we get to show her.
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And she was willing to show us everything.
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I sat down with a woman for an interview that was taped
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and during the process of the interview I said why are you doing this
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and she said oh I want to help people I want to tell my story
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and I want to help people I said do you have
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children she says yes I have a 10 year old son
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I knew right then this is never gonna see the light of day
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so we got off the air
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and I said to the lady we are not going to air
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that show
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and she said why my producer said why she knew she
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was being filmed she knew what she was saying she knows what you I said
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because her son will never get over it her son will never get over it.
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And it's not worth a rating point to me,
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not worth a rating point to me to know
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that there's a 10-year-old boy who's destroyed because his mother went on the Oprah Winfrey show and told all her business.
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You do the right thing even when other people think it may not be.
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And oftentimes when you make a decision to do the right thing,
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immediately you're faced with doubt.
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Was that the right thing?
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Was that the right decision?
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I don't know.
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Was that the right thing?
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You always know it's the right thing when in the end there is peace.
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You are rewarded by peace in knowing that you did the right thing.
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The most important thing I have come to know in doing the right thing and making the right choices is
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understanding what we talked about yesterday.
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All of you leaving here have the potential for enormous success.
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There's a price that comes with that.
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People don't always like you and they're not always happy for you
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and if you surround yourself with people who are not accustomed to your success,
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they become fearful they become scared because you are reflecting back something to them
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that they don't recognize now they're not gonna say you know I'm very fearful
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because you're reflecting back to me something I don't recognize they're
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going to say you know what they're gonna say they're gonna say who she thinks she is,
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who she thinks she is,
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that only happens when you are around people who do not mean and want and aspire to the best for you.
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People who want the best for you want you to be your best.
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So my greatest advice to you is to surround yourself with
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people who are going to fill your cup until your cup runneth over.
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So when people say you're so full of yourself, you can say, yeah.
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Yes, I'm full.
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I'm so full, my cup runneth over.
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And to know that once your cup runneth over,
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you cannot spend your life with your gallon
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size offerings offering them to pint-sized
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people you have got to surround yourself with
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gallon size people who can hang in the same company with you
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so that you're not offering your gallons to those little pipes out there who can't hold it anyway.
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Choice to change the world.
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I love that song.
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I love hearing you all sing that song.
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And what I know for sure is that the biggest choices begin and end with you,
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your internal big questions.
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Who do I want to be in the world?
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My relationship to source energy,
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to all that is God.
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I'm not talking about what you believe in God.
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I'm talking about your experience of that which is all life,
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which is divine and universal.
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I'm talking about the big deal,
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being connected and aligned with that.
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When you are tuned in and charged into that,
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whenever you feel empty, you go inside yourself and you connect to the source and you know that all things are possible.
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to know that and to choose to do the right thing in service and significance.
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I promise you, you will create a vessel of service for yourself first because you have to honor yourself first.
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You have to give to yourself first,
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otherwise you have nothing to give away.
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You will create a vessel for yourself,
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for your family, your community, and the world.
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And those three things will not only lead you to a blessed life.
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I stand as a witness.
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My life is so blessed I can't even take it in sometimes.
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It will lead you not just to a gifted life
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and a rewarding life that fills you up
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but a sweet life that's what you want you want the sweetness you want it to be
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so sweet so that even when the storms come and they will you'll know this too shall pass.
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This too shall pass.
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The storm is passing over and you shall not be moved because you know who you are.
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When you can do that, grace will follow you.
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Grace and glory.
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And when they see you coming,
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it ought to make them proud.
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They say it's the click of your heels.
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It's the bend of your hand,
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it's the palm of your hand,
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it's the need for your care because you a woman,
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you a Spelman woman.
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Phenomenally, phenomenal class of 2012.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Fabulous.
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Context & Background
In the motivational video featuring Oprah Winfrey, she shares invaluable life advice that goes beyond mere surface-level success. Oprah emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, service, and integrity, framing these as essential elements for personal fulfillment and achieving a meaningful life. Understanding who you are and what you want is the foundation for making impactful choices. This powerful message not only inspires viewers but also serves as a guide for English learners to practice their language skills while absorbing wisdom. By engaging with Oprah's speech, learners can enhance their English speaking practice, improve their pronunciation, and develop their confidence in using the language.
Top 5 Phrases for Daily Communication
- Who am I? What do I want? - A fundamental question for self-reflection.
- Service and significance equal success. - A reminder that true value comes from helping others.
- Always do the right thing. - A guiding principle for ethical decision-making.
- Surround yourself with gallon-sized people. - The importance of supporting relationships.
- This too shall pass. - A perspective for dealing with life's challenges.
Step-by-step Shadowing Guide
To enhance your English speaking skills using Oprah Winfrey's motivational video, follow this shadow speak approach:
- Choose a Relevant Segment: Start with a 2-3 minute segment from the video that resonates with you. This could be a part where Oprah discusses self-identity or service.
- Listen Active: Play the chosen segment several times. Focus on Oprah's intonation, pacing, and pronunciation. Note any phrases that stand out to you.
- Repeat and Imitate: Use shadowspeak techniques by repeating after Oprah. Try to match her rhythm and tone to improve your English pronunciation. Pause the video frequently to give yourself time to mimic her speech.
- Record Yourself: Use a voice recording app to capture your attempts. This will help you identify areas where you need improvement and build your confidence in speaking.
- Reflect and Revise: After practicing, listen to your recording. Compare your pronunciation and intonation to Oprah’s. Make notes on what you can improve for your next practice.
This method not only empowers you to learn English with YouTube content but also ensures you internalize valuable life lessons while mastering the language. With consistent practice, you will see a marked improvement in your speaking ability and confidence.
What is the Shadowing Technique?
Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.
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