Prática de Shadowing: How to ACTUALLY heal your nervous system, NOT just "hacks" - Aprenda a falar inglês com o YouTube
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You know that moment right before you lose it?
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You know that moment right before you lose it?
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When you start to feel tension in your body,
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maybe your thoughts are racing,
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and the next thing you're about to do is either blow up,
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figure out an escape plan, or shut down completely.
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That was me a few days ago.
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But something was different this time.
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I was actually able to shift out of fight or flight in real time.
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Today I'll be breaking down what nervous system regulation actually is,
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and it's not just about being calm and I'm bothered all the time.
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I'll walk you through exactly what I did in that moment,
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why you might be stuck repeating a cycle even with all the tools that you've learned,
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and how to shift from managing the symptoms to healing the root.
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If you're new here, hi my name is Dia
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and I help people navigate the messy middle by taking transformation
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and making it playful instead of painful and approaching it with curiosity instead of control.
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If you want to work together,
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you can check out my website below.
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I'll be using the polyvagal framework today.
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It is a really helpful model to help us understand how our nervous system works
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and why we respond the way that we do.
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Our autonomic nervous system has three main pathways.
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Ventral vagal is when we experience safety, connection, and openness.
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Sympathetic is mobility, fight or flight.
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And dorsal vagal is that freeze, collapse, shutdown, disconnection.
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Our nervous system is constantly scanning for cues of safety,
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danger, and threats before our conscious mind can even register it.
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And we do this by a process called neuroception.
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It is scanning for things that are happening inside of us.
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It's also scanning for things that are happening on the outside or other people we're engaged with.
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The problem is that a lot of us early on did not receive consistent co-regulation.
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And in one form or another,
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we might have experienced abandonment or engulfment,
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learning that we are either too much,
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our needs are too much,
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or that we ourselves are not enough,
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or at least experiencing things that have instilled these stories within us.
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And our nervous system created associations and strategies to help keep us safe.
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And now anything that resembles that threat activates our system.
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Maybe it's a slight change in someone's tone.
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Maybe somebody's asking for a little bit of space.
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Our body is responding to a learned pattern and not necessarily always what's in the present moment.
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Here's something we need to understand.
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These strategies were actually useful back then.
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And even if they feel frustrating now,
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even if it feels like they're out of your control,
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they kept us safe when we needed it to.
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So what does a healthy and regulated nervous system actually looks like?
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We already talked about it's not being calm and collected and detached or unbothered all the time.
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Whoa, the light just changed.
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It's about having the flexibility to shift states.
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Think of it like this.
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When we're dysregulated, we're inside of a washing machine.
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Something happens and you're being tossed around,
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either mobilized, ready to fight or flight, or shut down.
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And we cannot find the ability to return to a state of connection.
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A regulated nervous system is more like having the dial,
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that we are able to shift gears between states.
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Focused energy when we need it,
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rest when it's safe, appropriate anger when the situation calls for it.
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A true healthy nervous system is having access to the full range,
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not trying to silence our responses,
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but also not having them run the show based on old scripts.
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So what might be keeping us stuck?
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There is a good reason why we can armor ourselves with all the tools
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and exercises to help us manage our nervous system,
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yet still feeling like we're in the washing machine.
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It is because there's a deeper pattern,
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not just one thing, but it's a combination of our mind,
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the stories, our relational wound patterns,
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as well as our bodies.
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And one of the core drivers is when we're operating from conditional self-worth.
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If we're constantly proving ourselves people pleasing,
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overdoing, or running away and protecting ourselves by choosing disconnection,
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our nervous system never gets to rest.
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It is constantly scanning our bodies inside as well as external variables for perceived threat.
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Am I doing enough?
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Did I upset someone?
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Did I say too much?
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So here's how I regulated my nervous system in real time.
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So a few days ago when I did feel that surge,
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that heat, the agitation, the fluttering in my stomach,
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I did use the tools.
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I used long breaths, taking in inhales deeply
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and longer exhales to get myself into a more regulated state by activating my parasympathetic nervous system.
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However, that wouldn't have been enough because the story that would have been running in the background would not have stopped.
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But I was able to find a pause and bring awareness and choice in that moment.
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This all comes from an understanding that that part of me that's acting out,
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that's feeling the agitation is not my enemy.
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It's a part that is wanting to be heard,
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wanting to feel seen, wanting to feel cared for.
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And once I was able to ground with the breathing technique into my own body,
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I was able to apply curiosity.
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What does disconnection mean to me?
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And why does this feel so threatening, so big?
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As soon as I was able to apply the pause,
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the awareness, and the curiosity,
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I was able to shift not from a 10 to a 1,
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but at least to a 4.
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I heard this being talked about by someone the other day.
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When you're driving a manual car you don't shift from gear 1 to 5 or do you shift from 5 to 1.
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You're gonna mess up your car.
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And so here we're not looking for a 10 to 0 or a 10 to 1,
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rather we're just looking to be able to downshift that activation even just a little bit.
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It was the act of acknowledging the stories,
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acknowledging the fears that was able to bring me from a 10 to a 4.
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What was happening in my nervous system at the time was a protective response based on old data to keep me safe.
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Our nervous system may not be able to differentiate between the present moment to a pattern in the past.
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All it knows is that this feels familiar like the last time something went wrong so let me protect you.
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And instead in that moment of shaming myself or just blowing up at the other person,
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I was able to hold that part of me
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and those fears as if I was the overall house
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that housed these feelings that exist in these parts that exist within me.
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Kind of like holding a panicked child and letting them know,
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hey it's okay, I hear you,
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I see you, I'm here for you, and I've got you.
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When we were able to shift from needing to control or explode,
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to bringing just even one sacred pause and awareness to the moment,
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then we can start to untangle ourselves from that part that is feeling unsafe.
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We have more access to becoming the witness as I like to say
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or the overall house and we might even start to feel a sense of gratitude for these parts of us,
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for what is happening within us as a mechanism for self-protection.
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And importantly, this happens in repetition.
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And every repetition counts.
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Imagine if you've been holding tension in your shoulders for the last 20 years.
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You go to one yoga session or yoga class.
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It's not going to magically fix your posture.
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Your body has practiced that pattern for thousands of times.
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But every single repetition is rewiring the system.
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And it is actively showing our nervous system
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and the younger parts of us that the strategies that was developed in place is no longer needed.
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They kept us safe then,
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but they can start to rest now.
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I think sometimes what's missing isn't just one thing,
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but the way that we approach.
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If you tend to be a more heady person,
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you're going to go top down.
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You want to think your way through everything,
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intellectualize it, try to shift your mindset and your belief systems.
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And on the other hand,
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if we go from a bottom-up approach,
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we might be just applying the techniques and the practices.
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I like to think of it as a bi-directional practice.
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We have tools to help us handle these activations in real time so that we're able to experience something different.
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Yet at the core, there is stories that requires us to pay attention,
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to understand, to apply curiosity,
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and then to rewrite them.
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And if any of what I'm saying to you today resonated,
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I'm opening up a wait list for a program called Return to Self.
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This is for anyone that's feeling exhausted,
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overdoing, people-pleasing, or on the other end of the spectrum,
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shutting down your desires, and choosing to detach or not care.
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And both strategies make you feel less and less like yourself.
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What I would like to build together is a sense of home anchored in inherent self-worth.
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Not what you do, but who you are.
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We'll dive into the stories that created the patterns in the first place.
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You'll get guided practices to experience new choices in real time
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and integration tools for you to use when these challenging moments pop up in your day-to-day life.
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And because I myself have always been a very heady person trying to solve everything by intellectualizing it,
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this program is not just about collecting more knowledge or insight but applying it in a way that actually creates embodied change.
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If this sounds like something you're interested in,
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head over to diogen.com or check out the link below for more information.
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So for this week, I just want you to notice when something activating happens and you want to go into fight,
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flight, or freeze, see if you can catch just one moment, just one pause.
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It doesn't have to be very long creating a little bit more space between
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that feeling arising in you and your next very reaction.
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Just long enough to take several conscious breaths.
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And if you want to take it to the next step,
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can you name the thing that's showing up in the activated state without becoming one with it?
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And if you want to take it to the next step,
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instead of judging yourself for feeling it or trying to shut it down,
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is there a way you can find,
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even if it's just a tiny bit of self-compassion around the feeling that's coming up for you.
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If any of this was helpful,
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let me know in the comments below or share this video with someone that you know will find it helpful as well.
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Thank you so much as always for watching and I'll see you next time.
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Nesta lição, você irá explorar o conceito de regulação do sistema nervoso, aprendendo a identificar e distinguir entre os diferentes estados do nosso sistema nervoso. Através da prática de conversação em inglês e do método shadow speak, você irá melhorar a sua pronúncia e fluência ao se expressar sobre emoções e reações humanas. Vamos abordar como um entendimento mais profundo sobre o sistema nervoso pode afetar sua comunicação e suas interações, utilizando um vocabulário específico que pode ser aplicado em situações diárias.
Vocabulário e Frases Chave
- Sistema nervoso autônomo: O sistema que regula funções corporais involuntárias.
- Co-regulação: O processo de regular emoções em conjunto com outra pessoa.
- Ameaça: Um estímulo que ativa nossa resposta de luta ou fuga.
- Neurocepção: O processo de detectar segurança ou perigo, mesmo inconscientemente.
- Desconexão: Um estado de afastamento emocional que pode ocorrer em situações de estresse.
- Regulação saudável: Um estado onde podemos sentir emoções de forma equilibrada e adaptativa.
- Ciclos emocionais: Padrões de resposta emocional que se repetem ao longo do tempo.
Dicas de Prática
Para tirar o máximo proveito do vídeo e melhorar sua pronúncia em inglês, siga estas dicas de shadowing:
- Assista ao vídeo em uma velocidade mais lenta primeiro e preste atenção à entonação e ritmo do falante. Tente imitar não apenas as palavras, mas também a emoção por trás delas.
- Repita frases em voz alta logo após ouvi-las. Isso ajudará a fixar padrões de pronúncia e expressão.
- Concentre-se nas pausas e na ênfase das palavras. O entendimento de como o falante destaca certos pontos pode melhorar sua própria maneira de se comunicar.
- Tente gravar sua própria voz enquanto pratica shadowspeak, e compare com o áudio original para identificar áreas onde você pode melhorar.
- Participe de práticas de conversação em inglês com colegas ou em grupos, utilizando o vocabulário e frases aprendidas para compartilhar suas próprias experiências sobre emoções e comportamento.
Incorporando estas estratégias, você estará mais preparado para se expressar de forma clara e confiante em inglês, aprimorando sua jornada de aprendizagem.
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