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Someone's gotta say it, who would want to submerge themselves in essentially red dye, not one, but two gigantic,
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highly scented bath bombs mixed with cherry blossom bubble bath and cherry soap, especially during that time of the month.
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Are you crazy?
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I'm getting a headache and an itchy infection from here.
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They discourage being thankful for what you already have.
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They are teaching us that the only way to be happy and to care for yourself is to buy more, more, more, more, more, more,
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and it's never going to be enough.
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Hello, and welcome back to another episode of Influencer Insanity, where we feature all the ridiculous things
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that influencers will post on social media just to bring ourselves back down to reality a bit, look at things through a critical lens,
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and really give ourselves a reality check as the viewers and consumers of social media content.
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Today's episode is in the same vein as episode one about restock influencers and episode two about the Stanley Cup phenomenon,
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on and how influencers are contributing to a grotesque level of overconsumption and consumerism.
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But today we're focusing on how that pertains to the self -care content
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that we see so much of
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and how apparently now self -care means having 101 skincare products and enough bath bombs to give you a raging UTI.
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It's no longer about actually taking care of yourself.
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It's about how many products can an influencer shove into a 60 second TikTok video to push
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you to buy something that you might not actually need.
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Everything is pink.
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Everything is curated.
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They're typically showing off some massive collection of skincare or beauty products.
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It's all the things you would imagine.
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Lotions, potions, candles, desserts, bubble baths, face masks, that kind of thing.
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And I think that all those things are super girly and fun and enjoyable,
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but they're also not the only way to take care of yourself. In fact, what's being featured in these kinds of self -care social media
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posts is a pretty superficial consumerism -centered depiction of what self -care is.
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And I think the influencerification of self -care is really skewing
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our perception of what it means to show yourself love and care.
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So I've got a lot of over -the -top, unhinged influencer examples that I'm gonna show you and we'll break those down one by one.
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And then later, I'm gonna give you a whole bunch of low -cost
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or no -cost ways that you can practice self -care in a way that is perhaps more beneficial than bath bombs galore.
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And I think it'd be awesome if we can use the comment section below to share even more ideas too.
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But first, I'm partnering once again with the Paired app on today's video
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and I think that's a perfect fit
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because we're talking all about ways you can take care of yourself
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and one way you can do that is to take care of your relationship too.
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Paired is a relationship app designed to help couples strengthen their communication and deepen emotional connection.
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Unlike other apps that focus on dating or conflict resolution, Paired is about nurturing and deepening existing relationships.
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It offers daily activities, interactive games, and conversation starters along with expert -backed advice, providing couples with the tools to stay connected and communicate effectively,
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helping them navigate the challenges that come with long -term relationships.
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The thing about the Paired app
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that really drew me in was the variety of topics available
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and how it's a great supplemental tool to keep the conversations going with your partner.
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My husband and I have been together for eight years
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and at some point you start to think
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that you know everything there is to know about your partner or like what else is there to talk about, you know?
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But there's always more to uncover, even things that you didn't even think to ask your partner about.
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There are so many topics through the paired app that I never would have thought to initiate conversations about otherwise.
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For example, share one way being with AJ has improved your relationship with friends or family.
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How would you feel if AJ became friends with one of your exes?
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How has he helped you reframe a negative thought recently?
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Matching couple tattoos, cute or cringe?
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And there are endless games, questions, quizzes about nearly every topic you could possibly think of.
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Communication, conflict, sex, money, work, family, parenting, the list goes on.
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The paired app is such a great tool to get you talking and encourage you to prioritize each other every single day.
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If you would like to maintain and deepen connection with your partner through the paired app, you can use my link in the description box below
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and that's going to give you a seven -day free trial plus 25 % off paired premium.
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Thanks again to the paired app for sponsoring today's video.
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Okay, let's take a look at some of the more extreme examples of self -care content that I've been seeing lately.
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Here's a creator that has made appearances in my restock influencers video and the lying influencers video.
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And here she is about to take us along her full day of self -care routine.
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I'm
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going to
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put it in the water.
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I'm going to put a little bit of water on the top.
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I'm going to put a little bit of water on the top.
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I'm going to put a little bit of water on the top.
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I'm going to put a little bit of water on the top.
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Thank you.
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That does look really relaxing.
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I can't even hate on it.
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I can't lie.
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It looks nice.
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I mean, who doesn't love a whole day of pampering and fun drinks and shopping and a bath?
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It's all pretty innocuous and to be fair, I like watching this kind of content.
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However, please remember this is a commercial
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This is a matter of flashing one product after another in rapid succession to communicate the message even Subliminally
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that these are the items you need to have to live a better life or to take care of yourself
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But ask yourself do you really think these people live that life or is it all for show?
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Is it all for the camera? is it all for the
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sake of showcasing these products to make the viewer intrigued so
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that they go to these people's Amazon storefront to buy it so they can make a commission.
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Forget TV commercials and billboards.
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These are the commercials of today's age.
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And they're deceptive because a lot of the time you might not recognize
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that you're being sold to because the sales pitch isn't coming from some highly produced commercial in some studio set.
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It looks like it's coming in the form of snapshots of somebody's real life.
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But what if we start to think about influencers' houses as the modern day studio sets?
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Do you really think that their houses look this immaculate all the time?
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Do you really think that this woman was just going through capturing little snapshots of a normal day so effortlessly?
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No, be real with yourself.
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There are likely tripods and lighting kits and multiple takes and thoughtful planning and execution and editing.
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It really is no different than a TV commercial if you actually think about it,
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but it's harder for us to recognize it for what it actually is because it's coming to us through social media.
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And we have this idea that social media is just for sharing whatever's going on in your life, right?
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So when we see videos like this of a perfectly curated, seemingly luxurious life, our first reaction is to go, oh my God, look at that.
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Everything is so perfect for them.
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Why aren't things that perfect for me?
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When really we should be going, oh, that was a really aesthetically pleasing commercial to watch.
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When's the last time you watched like a Neutrogena
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or a L 'Oreal commercial on TV and like felt bad about yourself
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because you were comparing yourself to it so much and oh my gosh, look at their lashes with that mascara.
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It's so beautiful on the TV.
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Why can't my lashes look like that.
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When you know that it's like CGI'd on or whatever, like super highly edited in a studio production,
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of course there might still be some comparison going on there, but it's easier to separate yourself from it when you're seeing a commercial ad.
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It's not as easy to make that distinction
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when you're just scrolling on social media and this stuff is being fed to you as if it is reality.
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And the more that we can train our brains to read between the lines
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and not take everything on social media at face value, then the healthier relationship we can have with it.
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And I maintain that it is awesome.
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If you enjoy videos like this, personally, I follow this creator.
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I like her videos.
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I like her stuff.
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It's my guilty pleasure to see what she's up to
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and what she's doing and what cutesy little gadgets she's got her hands on now.
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But it's okay to watch it and appreciate it for exactly what it is and just let it end there.
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We don't have to let ourselves fall into this negative comparison game or let these kinds of videos drive our compulsive consumerism.
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I promise you're still able to practice self -care even
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if you don't have a collection of Louis Vuittons in your closet to choose from,
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to then go out shopping on a shopping spree where you spend over $300 on home decor, to then come home
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and sip on fancy sparkling spring water out of a decorative
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champagne flute in the bath with your $450 red light therapy mask on, okay?
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You don't need all of this to practice self -care.
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This next video is titled
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Things That Make Self -Care More Fun.
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I'm standing outside I'm standing outside I'm standing outside I'm standing outside I'm standing outside
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I'm standing outside
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I do appreciate that this one at least is structured pretty explicitly.
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Like I'm going to show you a bunch of products that you don't really need and they aren't really necessary,
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but they might make your self -care routine more fun.
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I respect that because it leaves people know that they're being sold too.
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Some of the products she featured in here were an $80 bath towel warmer
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and then an $80 face towel warmer because apparently using the bath towel warmer for face towers would just be nonsensical.
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But you know what else would heat up your towels that you likely already have access to?
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a dryer.
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If you really, really want a hot towel after your bath or shower, you can hook yourself up with that pretty cheaply and easily.
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She also features a $50 facial light therapy tool.
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And my personal favorite, although it's not expensive, is this little gadget that suds up your face wash for you.
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So rather than just emulsifying the cleanser in your hands,
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you're now purchasing a gadget that you're dirtying up every time you want to wash your face.
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So many of these things are just straight up unnecessary and wasteful, like these single use towelettes that she's showing.
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But here's where I give my disclaimer that I don't want to talk down on anyone's good time.
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Okay.
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I fully support you spending your hard earned money on things that you genuinely love and enjoy.
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And if having warm towels is something that makes you feel loved and cared for, and it's something that you enjoy doing,
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then do it, go for it.
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I support you in that.
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That's kind of how I feel about my Nespresso machine.
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A little bit of a side tangent.
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The machine itself was a few hundred bucks.
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It was a gift from my husband for my birthday, but the pods that go in it are this recurring cost, right?
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It's not that cheap.
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And having our old drip coffee machine was way more cost effective.
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But you know what?
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I use that Dagnus Fresno machine every single day.
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I look forward to it.
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I go to sleep thinking about it.
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I wake up thinking about it.
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It adds so much joy and dopamine to my life.
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I will never give it up.
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You can't tell me nothing about my coffee machine, okay?
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I don't care that it's expensive.
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I don't care that it's impractical.
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You cannot put a price on the happiness it brings me.
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So point being to that whole tangent is that products in the realm of self -care, we naturally have this tendency to feel like,
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oh, we can splurge on that because it's going to make me happy.
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And I think there's totally a time and place for that.
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I would be lying to you if I told you that I didn't look into getting a towel warmer at one point.
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I got as far as to like actually go in my bathroom and I'm looking around at the configuration.
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I'm like, where are the outlets?
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Where would I put it?
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And I ultimately decided that the only place it would fit in my bathroom was really inconvenient.
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I would have to like drip across the whole bathroom floor to go get the warm towel.
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You know, I just knew that I would buy it.
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It would be a waste of money.
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I would never actually use it, but it looked really, really nice in these self -care videos.
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So in saying
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that, I would urge you to try to avoid impulse purchases in the name of self -care
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or indulging in something nice for yourself, just because you saw an influencer featuring it, or just because you saw an ad on social media.
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An influencer's job is to showcase products and to demonstrate how they would add value to your life.
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So hopefully you feel convinced by that and you purchase from them.
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But sometimes what's being promoted to you might not be practical or realistic or actually necessary.
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And it's so easy to go, oh my gosh, I need that towel warmer.
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Look at how fancy that is.
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That would improve my life so much.
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And in those instances, my best piece of advice would be to just bookmark the link somewhere.
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Tell yourself if you really want it in a few days or next week, then you'll buy it.
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If it's in the budget, of course, but the odds are you're gonna forget all about it.
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The temptation is gone.
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It's not a thing anymore.
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And guess what?
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You saved all that money.
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Congrats.
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But if the temptation is not gone, if you're still finding yourself thinking about that thing day after day,
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week after week, then maybe it is worth splurging on for you.
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But at least if you put a pause on it, if you wait, if you think about it, if you budget for it,
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then at least when you do purchase it, you know it's something you actually want and would need and would use.
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Point being, there are so many ways to take care of yourself
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that don't require spending money and they don't require these big expensive gadgets.
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If they make you happy and you feel like they add value to your life and you can afford them, then great.
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But generally speaking, we shouldn't tie up our happiness or our worthiness in material possessions.
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In fact, a form of self -care could actually be setting boundaries, preventing this impulse buying.
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Pausing to reconsider purchases is a great way to take care of yourself and your finances.
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Now, this next example is just kind of comical if I'm being honest.
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Part of me feels like we shouldn't be taking it all
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that seriously because it almost has like a rage bait vibe to it.
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Episode five of this influencer series was all about rage baiting.
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If you wanna learn more about that tactic, the caption on this says that time of the month bath time.
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And I guess we can take her a little bit seriously
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because she's making sure to let us know that all the products she's showcasing here can be featured in her Amazon storefront.
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So she's definitely trying to sell us on something, even if it's in a more shocking way.
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Here's what I mean by that.
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Thank you.
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you Someone's gotta say it,
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who would want to submerge themselves in essentially red dye,
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not one, but two gigantic highly scented bath bombs mixed with cherry blossom bubble bath and cherry soap,
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especially during that time of the month.
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Are you crazy?
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I'm getting a headache and an itchy infection from here.
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The pad and tampon shaped bath bombs are clearly rage bait,
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making it look like you're bathing in blood is a little over the top if you ask me,
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but these are strategic things that creators do to encourage people to become angry so that they leave angry comments.
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It's a tactic to increase the engagement on the video to push it out to more viewers
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so that more people see the products, more people buy the products, the creator earns more money and commissions.
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And I went to her Amazon storefront and I found as many of the items from this TikTok video as I could,
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and I totaled them all up.
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Do you wanna take a quick stab at how much all of this costs?
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I'll give you a second.
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Are you ready?
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A thousand dollars, you guys, a thousand dollars for everything shown in this video.
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And that's not including the cost of all of her snacks, like the ice cream and the crumble cookies.
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That box of crumble is like $25 in itself.
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The $500 portable projector accounted for most of that cost.
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$1 ,000 for a cold bath by the time you finally get in it.
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Congratulations.
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This is the kind of overconsumption that drives me nuts.
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Look, I'm all for a nice bath.
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I am known to have dessert pretty much every night of my life, but this is getting to a gluttonous level.
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It's the multiple bath bombs, the multiple soaps, the Stanley cup ice molds as if regular ice cubes don't work just as well.
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The platter of like six different desserts.
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At what point are we just doing too much, you know?
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And probably the funniest thing about all of this to me is that when everything is said and done,
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I'm just trying to picture her sitting in her cramped lukewarm bath, eating her pint of ice cream,
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like craning her neck to try and watch the Netflix show on the wall next to her.
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Like girl, just have a nice bath, come sit on the couch,
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eat a pint of ice cream and watch a movie like the rest of us.
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That qualifies as self -care just as much as this whole charade.
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And it's a lot less expensive and a lot less effort.
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Truth be told, I would be willing to bet money that she didn't step foot in this bath at all.
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Because like I said earlier, it's a commercial.
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It's a fantasy.
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This is not practical.
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I'm almost positive that it took her at least an hour to set this whole thing up, get the camera, get the angles,
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just to pull the plug on the drain and let everything flow out and clean it all up.
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This is not someone's actual period self -care routine.
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This is just content.
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This is her job that she makes an income off of, and that's fine.
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No shame in doing that.
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That's just the nature of the job of an influencer.
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That's how they make a living.
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Cool, let them go about their lives doing that.
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But as the viewer of it, please just know what you're watching.
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This next one made me laugh so hard when I first saw it because it is a hand care routine.
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This is genuinely, swear on my life, never something I have ever thought of doing in a million years.
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Sure, my hands get dry sometimes.
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I'll put a little lotion on.
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Sometimes it's nice to get your nails done or something, but this was so comically over the top i could not cope
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million people in the crowd but i only see your face in all the line
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i don't really care about love i don't really care about happy ever
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Something about you gives me hope.
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Something about you, yeah.
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When the sun goes down and the night sky is falling, do you believe in a one -time love?
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Cause deep inside of my wildest dreams, you'll be by my side.
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When the sun goes down.
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My first thought is, oh my god, could you imagine how greasy your hands would feel after all of this?
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I can barely stand the like sticky, greasy feeling of hand lotion, but this woman just used 10 layers worth of lotions,
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oils, and treatments on her hands.
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It's just so ridiculously excessive and like a sensory nightmare for me personally, at least.
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And again, I found her hand care page on her Amazon storefront
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and I totaled up everything featured in the video and it comes out to be about $380.
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The big ticket items being this $80 light therapy tool
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and the $65 paraffin wax machine and then a couple hundred dollars worth of lotions and potions for your hands, for your hands, that's it.
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I just have never in a million years thought to give that much attention to my hands.
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Maybe I should, is this a thing?
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Am I missing out on something?
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I've heard that it's a good idea to put sunscreen on your hands to prevent aging,
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but past - that, everything seems completely unnecessary to me personally.
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It's one of those things where it's like, if this makes you feel pampered and cared for, then go for it.
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But you're not going to catch me adopting a $380 hand care routine.
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Uh -uh.
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And kind of in that same vein, I've recently gotten into skincare.
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I've nailed down a four -step skincare routine that I loved.
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I've been using it for the last three months.
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It's great.
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It's working wonders.
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However, four steps even feels like a lot.
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I do be feeling like a little grease ball, which is why I do my skincare right before I go to bed because again,
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it's like a sensory thing.
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So videos like the hand care one or the one I'm about to show you, they truly perplex me in terms of cost,
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time, and the seemingly overkill nature of it all.
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And I'm going to blur her face on this clip because I believe she's a minor.
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I think she's still in high school, which almost makes this more troubling.
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How much does my skincare routine actually cost?
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First is my Cervi cleanser, which retails at $17 .99.
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Next, use my essence toner and this retails at $38.
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And I absolutely love this product.
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For my next step, I like to use the watermelon toner and this smells absolutely amazing guys.
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Next I like to use my dew drops and guys I am all out like I'm literally so sad.
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This is usually my first step but I'm using the Caudalie Face Mist which retails at $12.
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This is the Laneige Water Bank Serum which retails at $45 and I get so many comments about this product.
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Next I use a lip mask and I'm going to be using the Laneige one which retails at $24.
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This is the Ordinary Berry Support System which retails at $17.
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Next I'm using my CeraVe Moisturizer which is $17 .99.
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This is my favorite product if you guys can tell next is the innisfree sunscreen
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which retails at 17 as well
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and guys this leaves no white cast this nyx fat oil retails at nine bucks
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and here's me doing the deck lips guys this is the eyebrow brush slash pencil from morphe
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and i believe this retails at 12 total cost is 276 dollars
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and 98 cents i think i counted 10 skincare products plus two cosmetics after
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that totaling almost 300 this is a genuine question
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because i'm pretty much useless when it comes to skincare i I don't know what I'm talking about in that realm.
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So at what point are there too many layers of things on your skin that it just doesn't even matter anymore?
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I would imagine that after like the fifth or sixth layer of goop
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and oil and moisturizers that anything you put on top of that is like impenetrable.
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It's just going to waste, right?
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It just seems so excessive and like a waste of time and money and energy for pretty much no payoff.
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And here's the thing that's always confused me about skincare.
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If you're having 10 layers of stuff on your face,
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how do you know if none of it is working or if all of it is working, or if you're getting good results,
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how do you know which one is to blame?
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If you're getting bad results, how do you know which one to blame?
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That kind of thing.
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Like it just, it confuses me so much when people are like, I love this product.
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This is the best.
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This works wonders.
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It's so great.
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People ask me about it all the time.
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And I'm like, okay, but that's one of the 10 products you put on.
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How do you know?
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How do you know?
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I don't know.
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I tend to believe that less is more or simpler is better when it comes to skincare routines, because how are you supposed to know
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if all these products are actually doing what they claim to do? if you're mixing them all together.
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And that's what kind of bothers me about these self -care type videos in
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which skincare is so heavily focused on because you'll see these people's massive skincare collections.
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It's like an entire cabinet or a whole vanity covered in them.
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And in this video, she added up the price for all this stuff.
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We know how expensive it is.
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And it's just reinforcing that message that if you want to take care of yourself or if you want to pamper yourself,
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then you've got to splurge on like hundreds of dollars of skincare.
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And I think that's such a superficial, consumerist view of what self -care is.
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And perhaps even the more upsetting aspect of this video in particular is that she is a high schooler, you guys.
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This is kind of beside the point of this video and I'm going on a little bit of a tangent,
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but this kind of thing is so dystopian to watch.
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It's like the Sephora kids trend that we were seeing at the beginning of this year where young,
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young, young, literal children are becoming obsessive over things like skincare and makeup at an age where it's not even necessary,
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at an age where they can't even afford it.
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So they're begging their parents to drop hundreds of dollars on these products for them.
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And then they're sitting at their vanity and and they're obsessively coating their face with a dozen products, and they're making TikTok videos about it.
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Like, this cannot possibly be good for the mental health and the self -image of young girls, right?
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Like, what kind of message are we sending as a society
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that we now have literal children becoming obsessed with preening themselves in front of a mirror using products
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that weren't intended for them?
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I'm in my late 20s, and I just nailed down a skincare routine this summer.
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I was using freaking
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Clean & Clear Morning Burst and St. Ives Apricot Scrub when I was her age.
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And you know, mistakes were made.
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You live and you learn, we're moving on.
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But point being, I don't remember an emphasis on skincare being placed on girls my age
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when I was a preteen or in high school.
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And this is clearly a trend that is reserved for children of parents who can afford to buy them this expensive skincare.
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And I'm sure this is contributing to the popularity
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or the coolness disparity that we see among school -aged children as the result of these really expensive trends.
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If you're a young girl and you're watching this, I want you to know that you are perfect and beautiful just the way you are,
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and you are worthy of everything wonderful in life, even if you don't have 10 layers of skincare on your face right now.
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It's easy to see what some girls on TikTok are doing
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and be envious of what they have or what their parents allow them to have, but I'm here to tell you that life is about
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so much more than your material possessions and self -fulfillment and self -love has to come from the inside.
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You're not gonna find it in a bottle of moisturizer.
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In fact, that's a great segue into talking about some no -cost or low -cost ways to practice self -care,
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because I would love if we could pull away from this idea
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that self -care equals bubble baths and face masks and a cabinet full of skincare products.
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The definition of self -care is the practice of taking action to preserve or improve one's own health.
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The practice of taking an active role in protecting one's own wellbeing and happiness, in particular during periods of stress.
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And I love this definition, specifically the part about how self -care is protecting your own wellbeing.
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You may have heard of this in terms of protecting your peace.
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Bubble baths and face masks are fun and they're a temporary way to make yourself feel pampered,
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but what other things can you be incorporating into your life to take care of yourself and to encourage peace, happiness, and health.
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Some of the very first things that come to mind for me are about our digital and social media use.
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A form of self -care could be to practice deleting a
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social media app from your phone for one day a week or one hour a week even.
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Or maybe you consider turning off notifications,
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protecting your peace, removing those annoying notifications that are constantly vying for your attention and pulling you out of the present moment.
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Go on a social media unfollowing spree.
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Unfollow any accounts that you find yourself obsessing over or they make you feel bad in some way.
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Maybe you take a break from looking at the news for a couple of days, not because you don't wanna be informed,
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but because the news is freaking depressing.
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Or you could try
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and go screen -free for an hour before bedtime just to give your brain a chance to wind down.
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Some non -digital ideas for self -care could be to go outside, as cliche as that sounds.
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Go sit in the sun, lay in the grass, go for a walk, just sit, just be, just exist.
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You could call a friend, maybe you journal or you read or you do an adult coloring book or a craft of some kind.
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I was super into those diamond painting things for a while.
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They were so soothing.
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I would just sit there and I would place the little gems right on their little color -coded spots.
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And it was an opportunity to just be and to just shut my brain off and do something completely pointless but soothing.
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And that is a form of self -care.
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I know some people really like to create vision boards or have a gratitude journal where they list everything they're grateful for.
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And as silly as that sounds, that's one of my favorite stress -relieving exercises is because I will literally put on the list,
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I am grateful for the roof over my head, my husband, my daughter, my cats, the bed that I fall into every night,
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air conditioning in the summer, heating in the winter, the hot meal I had for dinner.
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Like there is so much to be grateful for.
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And by intentionally focusing on those things and listing them out on paper, it's really soothing and satisfying.
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That's a form of self -care to ground yourself in reality
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and to acknowledge all the things you do have and not always be yearning for more. And
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that kind of leads me down the path of how romanticizing
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the mundane tasks in your life can also be a form of self -care.
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I got really good at this after becoming a mom because my list of priorities is completely flipped on its head now.
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So taking the time to shower every day and wash my hair a couple times a week, that counts as self -care.
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Cooking a nice dinner, watching an episode of my favorite show, working out consistently, eating dessert,
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washing my sheets and shaving my legs on the same day.
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If you know, you know, that is self -care, peak self -care right there.
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You know, maybe it's that you spend some time meal planning
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so you don't have to stress about it the rest of the week.
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That's taking care of yourself.
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I've been practicing painting my own nails recently because who has the time or money for a salon these days?
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And when I list all these things out, I wonder like, does that sound pathetic?
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Like really, you showered and you ate dinner and you washed your sheets today and that's your self -care?
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Yeah, yeah, it is.
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It really is.
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And once you start reframing your mind to see these mundane tasks as ways that you are choosing to care for yourself,
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you start to take pride in those little luxuries.
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You start to see them differently.
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The alternative is that you don't eat a good dinner.
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You don't take a shower today.
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You don't clean up after yourself.
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So by choosing to do all of those things, you are practicing self -care.
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You deserve to pat yourself on the back.
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You're taking care of yourself.
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And also reframing it, like how lucky and fortunate am I that I had a hot meal,
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a hot shower, and a bed to fall into tonight.
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I think that self -care and gratitude go hand in hand, which is why I find these self -care videos by influencers on social media is
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so problematic because they are driving a wedge between self -care and gratitude.
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They discourage being thankful for what you already have.
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They are teaching us that the only way to be happy and to care for yourself is to buy more,
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more, more, more, and it's never gonna be enough.
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These videos teach us subliminally that the only way to care for ourselves is through material possessions, and that's just not healthy, and it's not true.
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Maybe splurging and buying something nice for yourself can be a self -care treat, but only if it's done on rare occasions.
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Purchasing new products loses its allure if you've made it an expectation that you're gonna buy yourself something new
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Every time you want to feel good
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and I hope in this video I've given you some things to think about when it comes to self -care
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And I hope we can use the comment section below to share some other ideas of what self -care means to you
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Because while these over -the -top videos on social media are entertaining and they're fun to watch and they're satisfied
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They're not a depiction of reality and they're not something you should be comparing yourself to So tell me down below.
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What's one thing you're going to do for yourself
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that constitutes as self -care today for me
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I give myself a self -care night every single night every night after
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I put my toddler down for bed I do like a 30 to 40 minute workout just for like the mental purposes
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Honestly, it's such a nice way to like clear my brain after the long day and it doesn't have to be hard
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It doesn't have to be strenuous just doing something physical then i'll go
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and take a shower I'll shave my legs if I'm really feeling like it.
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And then I go and I park my butt on the couch
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and I watch trashy reality TV and I eat snacks until bed.
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And that is totally self -care for me.
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And I love it.
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I look forward to it every single day.
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And it doesn't have to be complicated.
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It doesn't have to be expensive.
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So that's everything I have for you for today's video.
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Let me know how you're taking care of yourself in the comments down below.
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And thanks again to Paired for sponsoring today's video.
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You can use the link in the description box below for a seven day free trial plus 25 % off Paired premium.
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Thank you so much for watching.
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I really appreciate you.
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Take care of yourself and I'll see you in my next one real soon.
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Vocabulário e dicas de fala para esta lição
Esta aula de conversação usa o vídeo “INFLUENCERS DISTORTING “SELF CARE” TO PUSH OVERCONSUMPTION & CONSUMERISM”. Este vídeo tem 476 frases e 6203 palavras para praticar shadowing. A fala dura 30:55. O falante fala rápido, cerca de 201 palavras por minuto, então espere sons ligados e reduzidos. 83% das palavras estão entre as 3.000 mais comuns do inglês; vale a pena estudar o restante antes de começar.
Vocabulário principal deste vídeo
15 palavras do vídeo que vale a pena aprender, com pronúncia e significado:
| Palavra | Pronúncia | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| bath substantivo | /bɑːθ/ | banheira |
| towel substantivo | /ˈtaʊ̯əl/ | toalha |
| routine substantivo | /ɹuˈtin/ | rotina |
| layer substantivo | /ˈleɪ̯ɚ/ | camada |
| mask substantivo | /mæsk/ | máscara |
| bubble substantivo | /ˈbʌbəl/ | bolha, borbulha |
| happiness substantivo | /ˈhæpinɪs/ | felicidade, alegria |
| nail substantivo | /neɪl/ | unha |
| cherry substantivo | /ˈt͡ʃɛɹi/ | cereja |
| dessert substantivo | /dɪˈzɝt/ | sobremesa |
| viewer substantivo | /ˈvju.ɚ/ | espectador, espetador |
| topic substantivo | /ˈtɑpɪk/ | tópico, assunto |
| meal substantivo | /ˈmiːl/ | refeição |
| encourage verbo | /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/ | encorajar, incentivar |
| possession substantivo | /pəˈzɛʃn̩/ | possessão |
Phrasal verbs que você vai ouvir
| Palavra | Pronúncia | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| go down verbo | descer | |
| look forward to verbo | ansiar por, estar ansioso para | |
| clean up verbo | dar uma limpeza, limpar | |
| go out verbo | sair | |
| show off verbo | mostrar-se, jactar-se | |
| tie up verbo | atar, amarrar | |
| turn off verbo | desligar, apagar | |
| wake up verbo | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | acordar, despertar |
Frases que vale a pena repetir
Frases curtas e completas do vídeo que você pode usar na conversa do dia a dia:
- Why aren't things that perfect for me?
- I'm like, where are the outlets?
- Where would I put it?
- Maybe I should, is this a thing?
- Am I missing out on something?
Gramática neste vídeo
As estruturas que o falante mais usa, com as palavras exatas do vídeo:
| Estrutura | No vídeo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — uma ação que começou antes e continua | I've been seeing · I've been using · I've been practicing |
| Present perfect have/has + particípio passado — uma ação passada que ainda importa agora | have been · has improved · has he helped |
| Voz passiva be + particípio passado — o foco está no que acontece, não em quem faz | is curated · being featured · being sold |
| Orações relativas who / which + oração — informação extra sobre uma pessoa ou coisa | ball, which is · Moisturizer which is · hand, which is |
Pronúncia para ficar de olho
O falante usa 149 contrações e formas reduzidas, como I'm, you're, don't. Diga-as na forma curta, do jeito que você ouve.
- Os sons de “th”: bath /bɑːθ/, thankful /ˈθæŋkfəl/, sixth /sɪksθ/, worthy /ˈwɝ.ði/, soothe /suːð/
- Os sons de “sh” e “zh”: possession /pəˈzɛʃn̩/, essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, sheet /ʃit/, infection /ɪnˈfɛkʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/
- Palavras longas — acerte a sílaba tônica: essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, communicate /kəˈmjuːnɪkeɪt/, unnecessary /ʌnˈnɛs.əˌsɛɹ.i/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/
Sons difíceis para falantes de português:
- Consoante final — sem acrescentar um “i” depois: mask /mæsk/, dessert /dɪˈzɝt/, topic /ˈtɑpɪk/, gratitude /ˈɡɹæ.tɪ.tud/, sheet /ʃit/
- /l/ final — a língua toca o céu da boca, não vira “u”: towel /ˈtaʊ̯əl/, bubble /ˈbʌbəl/, nail /neɪl/, meal /ˈmiːl/, grateful /ˈɡɹeɪtf(ə)l/
- /h/ — um sopro suave, diferente do “r”: happiness /ˈhæpinɪs/, headache /ˈhɛdeɪk/, hook /hʊk/
Como praticar com este vídeo
- Ouça o vídeo inteiro uma vez sem falar e anote as palavras que você não conhece.
- Comece na velocidade 0,75×, faça shadowing frase por frase e volte à velocidade normal quando ficar fácil.
- Grave a sua voz e compare com o original, prestando atenção a palavras como bath, towel, routine.
O que é a Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing é uma técnica de aprendizado de idiomas com base científica, originalmente desenvolvida para o treinamento de intérpretes profissionais. O método é simples, mas poderoso: você ouve áudio em inglês nativo e repete imediatamente em voz alta — como uma sombra seguindo o falante com 1-2 segundos de atraso. Pesquisas mostram melhora significativa na precisão da pronúncia, entonação, ritmo, sons conectados, compreensão auditiva e fluência na fala.