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The habit nobody told you about.
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You know that one person who just seems fine no matter what the day throws at them?
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Not performing it, not faking it, just steady.
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And you've probably wondered what they know that you don't.
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Here's what they know.
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Happiness was never about what happens to you.
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It's about what your brain has been trained to do with it, one small repeated habit at a time.
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I'm calling this the rewire effect.
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And by the end of this video, you'll have 10 small easy ways to trigger it, starting from the moment you wake up tomorrow.
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Why this actually works.
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Most people think happiness is personality, something you're born with or without.
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Others think it shows up once life improves, the better job, the bigger house, the right relationship.
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Both are wrong.
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If happiness only came from circumstances, every successful person you've ever envied would be happy, and you already know plenty who aren't.
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Here's the real mechanism.
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Your brain doesn't build your mood from your biggest wins, it builds it from your most repeated actions.
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Neurons that fire together wire together, so every small thing you repeat becomes the path your brain reaches for by default.
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Someone who always snaps under pressure didn't come out of the womb that way.
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Their brain just collected enough repeats to settle on the story.
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The first five.
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Habit number one.
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Soften your face before you feel like it.
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It's the moment your alarm goes off, and before your eyes are even fully open, your face is already doing what it did yesterday.
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Jaw tight, brow low, braced for a day that hasn't done anything to you yet.
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Your brain doesn't just create your emotions, it reads your body for clues about how worried it should be.
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So catch yourself in the mirror while you're brushing your teeth and try this.
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Unclench your jaw, let your shoulders drop, let the corners of your mouth lift just slightly.
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Hold it for 15 seconds.
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In the 1980s, psychologist Fritz Strack at the University of Würzburg had people hold a pen in their teeth, forcing a smile -shaped face,
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without ever telling them to feel happy.
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And they rated cartoons funnier than the group holding the pen with their lips, which blocked the smile.
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Your brain read the shape of the face before it read anything else.
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You don't have to feel safe to look safe.
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Sometimes, your brain just needs you to go first.
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Habit number two, turn down the noise.
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You sit down with breakfast, and your thumb is already moving toward your phone before you've chosen to pick it up.
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Notifications, a headline, someone else's good morning, before you've even finished your coffee.
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Your brain was never built to process that much input before 8 a .m.
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UC Irvine researcher Gloria Mark has spent years studying what happens
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when attention gets interrupted mid -task and calls the leftover fog it leaves behind attention residue,
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part of your mind stuck on the last thing even after you've moved to the next one.
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So some of what feels like morning anxiety isn't really about your day.
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It's about everything you let in before your day started.
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Eat breakfast with your phone in another room.
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It feels strange at first, almost boring.
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Stay with it anyway.
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Your brain isn't broken.
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It's just never been given a quiet room to think in
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habit number three face one hard thing before noon by 10
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a .m you've already found four small things to do instead
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of the one thing you're actually avoiding the call the inbox
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the drawer you keep shutting without cleaning your brain is quietly taking notes on what kind of person you are
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and if the first difficult thing of the day is something you dodge
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that gets filed away too Stanford health psychologist Kelly McGonigal's research on self -control found
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that willpower behaves less like a fixed trait and more like a muscle, weaker when you avoid using it, steadier the more you call on it.
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So pick the uncomfortable task and do it first, not because the task itself matters that much, but because of what it teaches your brain.
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I don't run from hard things.
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The task doesn't change your day, doing it first does.
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Habit number four, give every impulse a 60 -second delay.
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Early in the afternoon, a message makes your stomach drop, and your thumbs are already typing the angry reply before your brain has caught up with your hands.
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The urge to fire back, to buy something you don't need, to quit the second something gets hard, none of these urges are permanent.
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They just feel loud for about a minute.
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Stanford psychologist Walter Mischel spent decades studying exactly this gap,
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famously leaving children alone with a marshmallow and the promise of a second one if they could wait.
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The ones who managed it weren't braver by nature, they'd just learn to distract themselves long enough for the urge to lose its grip.
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Try the same thing with that text message.
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Say, not yet, instead of no. Take one slow breath.
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Most of what feels urgent isn't.
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It just feels that way for about 60 seconds.
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Habit number five.
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Chase the tiny win, not the big one.
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By mid -afternoon, you're stuck, staring at the same paragraph, waiting to feel motivated enough to start.
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That wait is the mistake.
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Your brain doesn't release its feel -good chemicals when you finish the big project.
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It releases them the moment it detects any progress at all.
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Harvard Business School researcher Teresa Amabile tracked the daily diaries of hundreds of knowledge workers
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and found the single biggest driver of their mood wasn't recognition or pay.
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It was the simple feeling of progress.
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even in small, unglamorous ways.
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So don't wait to feel ready.
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Answer the one message you've been avoiding.
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Move one line on the spreadsheet.
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You don't need motivation to start.
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You need one small win, and motivation shows up after.
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Quick gut check.
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Out of those five, soften your face, turn down the noise, face the hard thing, delay the impulse, chase the tiny win.
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Which one would you actually try tomorrow?
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Not agree with, actually try subscribe and comment
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which one I read every comment now let's keep going the
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ones most people skip habit number six let the good moments linger later
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that afternoon someone says something kind about work you did
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and you clock it for about half a second before moving
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on here's something strange about your brain it photographs the bad stuff instantly and barely glances at the good stuff.
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Psychologist Roy Baumeister at Florida State University reviewed decades of research
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and concluded that bad events simply affect us more than good ones of equal size, an asymmetry researchers now just call the negativity bias.
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It's not a flaw in you.
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It's a brain that evolved to weight threats heavier than treats.
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So the next time something small goes right, don't rush past it.
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Sit with it for a few extra seconds.
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Actually feel it.
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That's That's the only way your brain files it away as proof that good things happen too.
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Habit number seven, let yourself play for no reason.
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The work day ends, and somewhere between your laptop closing and dinner, you have maybe 40 minutes where nothing is required of you.
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Most people fill it with more scrolling, because somewhere between childhood and now, hobbies became side projects, walks became cardio,
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even rest started needing to earn its place.
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Stuart Brown, a psychiatrist who founded the National Institute for Play, spent years studying what happens to people and animals deprived of unstructured play,
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and found the same stuck, joyless state across species.
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Your brain doesn't only want achievement.
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It wants a little time with nothing riding on it.
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Draw something nobody will see.
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Kick a ball around.
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You didn't stop playing because you grew up.
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You stopped because you decided it had to mean something first.
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Habit number eight, move before you feel like moving.
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By the time dinner's done, you're lower on energy than you'd like to admit, and the couch is making a very convincing argument.
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This is usually where the day quietly turns sour.
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Not because anything new went wrong, just because you've been sitting in whatever it left behind.
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Harvard Medical School psychiatrist John Rady has spent his career studying what exercise does to brain chemistry,
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and describes movement as one of the fastest ways to change mental state that we have.
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You don't need a workout.
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A five -minute walk around the block changes the chemical weather inside you.
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Your body moves first.
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Your mind follows.
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It rarely works the other way around.
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Habit number nine, review your evidence every night.
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Brushing your teeth again, this time at night, your mind drifts to what went wrong.
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The email you botched, the thing you said, the thing you didn't finish.
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Most people only ever replay the bad parts.
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Clinical psychologist Christine Padesky developed a technique she calls the positive
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data log after noticing how easily her patients' minds discarded any evidence
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that didn't match the negative story they already believed about themselves.
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Before you fall asleep, ask yourself one question instead.
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What did I do today that the old version of me wouldn't have done?
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Stayed calm when you usually snap.
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Kept a promise you made only to yourself.
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Your brain believes whatever you keep handing it proof of.
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The habit that ties it all together.
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Habit number 10.
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Repeat it until it's automatic.
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Lying there in the dark, replaying the day you just had.
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Soft face at the mirror, quiet phone at breakfast, the hard call, the message you didn't send too fast,
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the tiny win, the kind word you actually noticed, the 40 minutes of nothing, the walk, the evidence you just reviewed.
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Here's the one thing underneath all nine of those, the reason none of them worked as a one -time fix.
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University of Southern California psychologist Wendy Wood has spent decades studying how habits form, and her research keeps landing on the same finding.
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A behavior only becomes automatic, something your brain runs without deciding to, after it's been repeated in the same context enough times that the decision disappears.
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That's the 10th habit.
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Less a habit than the rule the other nine run on.
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Repeat it until it's automatic.
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Not for one good day like today.
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For long enough that your brain stops treating it as effort and starts treating it as identity.
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Softening your face once won't change anything.
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Catching one impulse won't either.
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It's the 50th morning that counts, not the first.
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Remember that person from the start of this video?
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The one who just seems fine no matter what the day throws at them?
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They didn't have an easier today than you just had.
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They just had a few thousand todays before this one, landing the same small drops in the same places.
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Bu konuşma dersi “10 Easy Habits That Train Your Brain for Happiness” videosuna dayanıyor. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 157 cümle ve 1832 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 10:51 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 169 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %84’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| habit isim | /ˈhæb.ɪt/ | alışkanlık, adet |
| psychologist isim | /ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/ | psikolog |
| happiness isim | /ˈhæpinɪs/ | mutluluk, saadet |
| automatic sıfat | /ˌɔː.təˈmæt.ɪk/ | otomatik |
| urge fiil | /ɜːd͡ʒ/ | ittirmek |
| researcher isim | /ˈɹiˌsɝ.t͡ʃɚ/ | araştırmacı, araştırıcı |
| impulse isim | /ˈɪmpʌls/ | dürtü |
| mirror isim | /ˈmiɹɚ/ | ayna, gözgü |
| chase fiil | /t͡ʃeɪs/ | kovalamak, peşinden koşmak |
| delay isim | /dɪˈleɪ̯/ | gecikme, rötar |
| steady sıfat | /ˈstɪdi/ | sabit |
| brush isim | /bɹʌʃ/ | fırça |
| motivation isim | /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/ | güdü, motivasyon |
| thumb isim | /ˈθʌm/ | başparmak |
| psychiatrist isim | /ˌsaɪˈkaɪ.ə.tɹɪst/ | psikiyatr, psikiyatrist |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| show up fiil | ortaya çıkmak | |
| go off fiil | patlamak | |
| grow up fiil | büyümek, yetişmek | |
| wake up fiil | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | uyanmak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- I'm calling this the rewire effect.
- You don't have to feel safe to look safe.
- I don't run from hard things.
- Answer the one message you've been avoiding.
- Which one would you actually try tomorrow?
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — önceden başlayıp hâlâ süren bir eylem | you've been avoiding · you've been sitting |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | you've probably wondered · has been trained · you've ever envied |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | has been trained · was never built · isn't broken |
| İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgi | person who just · Someone who always · ones who managed |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı don't, you've, didn't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 46 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: thumb /ˈθʌm/, underneath /ˌʌndɚˈniθ/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: brush /bɹʌʃ/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, rush /ɹʌʃ/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: psychologist /ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/, automatic /ˌɔː.təˈmæt.ɪk/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, psychiatrist /ˌsaɪˈkaɪ.ə.tɹɪst/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- /w/ — dudaklar yuvarlak, /v/ değil: quietly /ˈkwaɪ.ɪt.li/, wire /ˈwaɪɚ/, workout /ˈwɝk.aʊ̯t/, weaker /ˈwikɚ/, womb /wuːm/
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: steady /ˈstɪdi/, brush /bɹʌʃ/, snap /snæp/, quietly /ˈkwaɪ.ɪt.li/, clock /klɑk/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: habit /ˈhæb.ɪt/, happiness /ˈhæpinɪs/, automatic /ˌɔː.təˈmæt.ɪk/, snap /snæp/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; habit, psychologist, happiness gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
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