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Hey everybody, Ira Glass here.
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So we got this email at our radio show near the end of the school year from a 14 -year -old.
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Hello?
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Here's this Annie.
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Yeah.
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I called her up at her house in California and asked her to read it.
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Mm -hmm.
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It says, Dear This American Life, I just escaped the whitewashed, brick -walled, iron -gated prison that is commonly known as middle school,
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and I'm finally out for good.
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But in all the time I have listened to your show, I have never heard an episode devoted to what goes on inside the walls of a middle school.
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I hope you'll think about it.
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Anonymous?
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Yeah, you signed it anonymous, but then you actually, your email was signed with your name.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I had said anonymous because in middle school, everybody's so judgmental, and I didn't want the kids to judge me or anything if they heard me on the radio.
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Mainly she says that she wrote to us because she
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and her friends were talking right after they left eighth grade about how terrible middle school was.
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And she wondered, was it just as bad for other people as it was for them?
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You always wonder whether other people are going through the same thing as you.
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And it'd be cool to, like, hear other people's stories about it and what they went through.
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And if you had to explain to somebody, like, what are the worst things about middle school, can I ask you to just walk me through it?
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Like, what is so bad about middle school?
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Kids there are all in kind of socially awkward stages
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that the drama every day can be frustrating and girl -boy things or someone like so -and -so.
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And then no matter who you are or what you do, you'll get made fun of for it.
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Anything, anything in the world you can get made fun of for.
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In Annie's case, she had friends who smoked, so she got criticized for smoking.
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But then she also was made fun of for not smoking, for being too much of a sissy to start smoking.
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She was made fun of for coming from a bilingual elementary school where everybody learned to speak Spanish
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and spoke it throughout the day.
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And leaving elementary school, I guess I thought that when I got to middle school, everyone would think it was really cool that I spoke Spanish.
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But when I got there, they mostly just thought it was dumb.
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I don't know if they were jealous or what, but they would make fun of me for it.
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Then they'd say we were all full of ourselves for that we spoke different languages and stuff.
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Did it make you feel bad?
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Yeah.
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I didn't want to stick out in that way.
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If I got a new sweater or something, say, for Christmas that I really liked and I would really want to wear it to school or something, but I'd be nervous because,
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like, what if someone didn't like my sweater or someone made fun of me for wearing it?
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It can be hard to do even the smallest things
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because you're so nervous that people tease you or judge you from it.
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That sweater example, is that a real example?
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Yeah, it actually is.
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I worried about it so much.
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I also had a pair of moccasins that I'd never worn, and they're kind of my signature now.
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Everybody really likes them.
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They're like ankle -high lace -up moccasins.
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And how long did you have the moccasins before you actually wore them?
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A few months, like probably two months.
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I guess I just thought if people didn't like them, they would all make fun of me for wearing them.
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And I didn't want to stand out that much.
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What could be done to make middle school better?
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We talked about this for a little while.
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She said basically everybody comes into middle school as a little kid
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and you're going to have to grow up
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and figure out who's in what group and who you are and who's above who.
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And you'd have to figure that out somewhere at that age, right?
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Might as well be middle school.
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It was terrible, she says, but now she's in high school.
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Whatever middle school was, it worked.
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Everyone's a lot friendlier, and everyone's lives are a lot better now.
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Well, today on our radio program, for Annie, we look at whatever it is that happens in those mysterious years that we call middle school.
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As the new school year begins, we have stories today from all over the country, people lurching their way through these years when you're figuring out so, so much.
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We go to middle school dances and classrooms and down to the Mexican border.
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From WBEZ Chicago, it's This American Life.
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I'm Ira Glass.
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Stay with us.
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This American Life.
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Today's show is a rerun, one that we thought would be a nice one to run for returning to school with.
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Act One, Life in the Middle Ages.
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So we wanted to understand what is going on exactly physically and emotionally with middle school kids.
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And we talked to all kinds of people about that this last few weeks.
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And one of the producers on our staff had a very strong opinion about all this.
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Alex Bloomberg, before he got into radio, he taught in a middle school in Chicago for four years.
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He was a science teacher.
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And he concluded from that experience?
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I don't know if they learned anything.
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Like they are so consumed with learning all these other lessons about where they fit in
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and the social order and how their bodies are now working and who they're attracted to and who they're going to be.
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That facts and figures and geography and all the other stuff that you teach in school, it just doesn't even penetrate.
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Wait, wait.
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Are you saying like we shouldn't even bother to have them in school?
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We should just basically put them to work in the factory for two or three years?
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Yeah.
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I basically came away thinking, like, you're sort of wasting your time trying to teach middle school students anything.
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If that seems just insane, Alex told me that Maria Montessori, who's the creator of the Montessori schools, who looked at what kids could learn at each developmental stage,
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at one point in her career actually tossed out a similar suggestion.
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Perhaps she said young adolescents would be better off at a farm school, what she called an erd kinder, where they would work with the land.
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is he just got a great sense of humor
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or what i am ran alex's thoughts by marion stroke the principal of evergreen academy middle school in chicago
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which was listed as one of the best middle schools in
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the country a school to watch by the national forum to
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accelerate middle grades reform you have to be i have to
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say i well i i obviously don't agree okay i think
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that uh we definitely have a way to stick knowledge in
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their heads it's being creative about how we do it and taking into consideration all of those other things.
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I'm not going to lie.
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It's not easy.
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Can I ask you how much of the stereotype around students this age is true?
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Are you saying that the stereotype is true?
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You just got to deal with what it is?
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It is true.
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And you have to, as the adult in the situation, you have to find a way to work around it.
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Find a way to help them to grow up.
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They won't have to suffer if we do things right.
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They won't have to suffer as much, let's say.
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I mean, you're going to go through emotional changes and your body's changing.
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That can't be helped.
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The raging hormones, that can't be helped.
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All of that can't be helped.
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It's the way that we react to it that will make such a difference in their lives.
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It's our flexibility.
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It's our concern.
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It's our listening to them.
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It's our hearing them out.
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And so what's actually happening developmentally in the bodies and brains of kids when they're in middle school?
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Let me give the overview this way.
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The terrible 12s are a complete analog to the terrible 2s.
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They're just not as cute, right?
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This is Linda Perlstein.
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When she wrote a book called Not Much, Just Chillin', The Hidden Lives of Middle Schoolers, following five middle school students very closely for a full year,
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she also incidentally researched everything she could find out about what is going on developmentally with kids
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that age that makes them so different from other ages, and fascinating.
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This is the time of biggest growth for a human being aside from infancy.
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So your bones are growing faster than your muscles, so you can't actually sit still.
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But your brain, your gray matter,
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during the middle school years what happens in your early stages of puberty is this vast overproduction of brain cells and connections, far more than you actually need.
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And only some of them are going to survive puberty.
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This growth in your frontal cortex, it peaks at 11 for girls and 12 for boys.
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And then what happens is the cells just fight it out for survival.
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And the ones that last are the ones you exercise more.
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In other words, during those years, your brain turns you into you, the adult you.
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The stuff you don't exercise just kind of goes away.
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And what stays?
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So if you think about what you learned at the early stages of puberty, I don't know what that was for you.
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For me, it was tap dancing and French.
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You know, it sticks.
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I know French much better than any language I learned after that and not because I had a better teacher.
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I was learning it at the right time.
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I can still do tap dances, though I won't, that I learned when I was 12 or 13.
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Yeah, I can still do magic tricks that I learned at that age.
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Exactly.
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It's like, it's embossed in your existence.
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It's this important time for your brain.
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It's like this use it or lose it time.
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Linda Pearlstein agrees that all the stereotypes about middle schoolers, everything, in fact, that Annie complained about, all of that is true.
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But she says that there's a flip side that people don't usually talk about.
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Middle school is when kids open up to the world.
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It's when they think about bigger things.
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And they haven't formed their opinions on things yet.
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Everything is up for grabs, which is amazing to be around.
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I just think kids that age are fun.
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I like being around them.
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Middle schoolers are in that real nice spot of being interesting,
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but also being able to explain to you what's going on in their minds and why they do the things they do.
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You know, they're self -reflective.
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They're capable of self -reflection in a way that younger kids might not be.
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Older kids, she says.
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High school kids, by then they can be jaded or cynical.
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They're settling into who they are.
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Middle school, everything's new.
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You're probably picking your friends for the very first time.
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For the first time, they aren't just the kids on your block
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or your parents' friends' kids or the kids who are around.
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So you make a best friend one day who then you drop two weeks later.
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You get obsessed with guitar or computers or dance for two weeks, and then two weeks later you drop it.
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For everything that's awful about middle school, she says, That's the great thing about it.
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You experiment.
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Deck two, stutter steps.
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One good place to see the experiment that is life in middle school in action is a middle school dance.
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Last Friday, there were middle school dances all over the country, all at the same time and we sent reporters to a half dozen of them to find out how kids were doing.
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They talked to them before the kids went inside to the field of battle and, no surprise, we found a lot of stress, a lot of uncertainty.
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Who's nervous about tonight?
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I am.
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I don't know.
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Why?
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Well, just, I don't know.
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We don't know what it's going to be like.
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I'm just confused.
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I just don't know.
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I mean, yeah.
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I mean, we've gone to these things before, but they've never exactly had the term dance to it.
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These four girls are sixth graders, and they're in a car on the way to a neon -themed dance at Edgewood Middle School in Highland Park, Illinois, with their mom and reporter Rob Wildebar.
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Who's going to dance with the boy tonight?
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Nobody.
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I can tell you that.
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You don't know if it's going to be slow dancing or regular dancing.
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That's why we are nervous.
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Roughly 800 miles east in New Jersey, sixth grader Ethan DeRose was hoping that there would be at least one slow dance, though did he feel ready for a slow dance?
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Nope.
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Not at all.
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Why not?
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What are you worried about?
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I just don't know how to do it.
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Like, I'm not sure that I'll do it correctly or, yeah.
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He's standing in front of the school with reporter Brian Reed as kids stream into the school.
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Ethan is wearing a button -up shirt with green and black stripes that he is not happy with.
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That was my mom.
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She made me wear it.
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She said that if I don't wear the two shirts that I'm wearing right now, that I can't go to the dance.
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What are you hoping happens at this dance?
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I'm hoping nothing bad happens,
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like no humiliation or not something that'll be a story for the next month or two.
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At least to me.
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Of course, Ethan and the girls in that car in Illinois are sixth graders.
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In New York City, 7th graders Evelyn Benson and Alice Westerman are excited and feeling very grown up on their way to their school's Halloween dance.
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I'm really happy because last year they split the gym in half
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so it's light on one side and pitch black on the other side.
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All the 6th graders are kind of banned from the dark side, but that's where all the cool kids are.
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So now we're in 7th grade and dance on the dark side, so it's like, whoop, we're cool!
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Some of the middle school boys got up the nerve to ask girls to be their dates to the dances.
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But because this is a new experience for the girls, too, being asked out on a date, they don't exactly know how to handle it.
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Here's a girl named Autumn talking with our producer, Lisa Pollack, in Delaware, the afternoon in the dance.
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Did you get asked to the dance?
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Um, yes, I did.
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And what did you say?
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I said, I don't know, but I probably won't say yes.
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Wait, you haven't told him yes or no yet?
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No. Okay, so it's 1 .20 and the dance is at 7.
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Yeah.
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When do you have to let him know?
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I probably won't answer.
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Are you serious?
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Yeah.
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I just kind of want to hang out with the girls.
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So he's the only one who asked you?
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There was other people, too.
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How many?
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Probably five -ish.
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What, five boys asked you to dance?
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Yeah.
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You told all these guys I don't know?
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Yeah.
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What if they took that as a yes?
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Then they got the wrong answer.
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Do you say I don't know because it feels too mean to say no?
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Yeah.
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I'm not mean.
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Of course, some of the boys are no better.
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During the dance in Windom, Maine, our reporter Claire Holman pulled 6th grader Christopher Potter out of the action for a chat.
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Is there anyone you like at the dance?
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There is.
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Does she know?
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Yes, she does.
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We're kind of dating at the time.
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So how's that going?
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Good.
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It just started like 20 minutes into this. So, yeah.
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You asked a girl to go out during this dance?
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No, a girl came to me and asked me out.
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Okay, let's go minute by minute.
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So where were you when this happened?
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I was in the cafeteria, just got a drink of root beer, and she walks up to me and asks me to go out.
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What did she say exactly?
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She said, Chris, will you go out with me?
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And were you surprised?
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Not really.
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We've kind of been like on and off again.
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so it's not the first time yeah not the first time
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but she always ask you
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or do you ever ask her well um it's kind of weird
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because it's always she wants me to ask her
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so it was weird
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that she asked me usually don't they don't last it's a middle school relationship nothing really happens what does
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that mean like a middle school relationship what do you mean
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doesn't last it just is destined to fail pretty much like
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it's a middle school I mean you this This isn't like where you're starting your life with, you don't hear things about middle school sweethearts.
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In Richmond, outside Moody Middle School's dance, reporter Eric Mendel spoke with Elliot German and his step brother Jonathan Lawton,
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they're both eighth graders, who ran through the official rules for the dance.
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So some of them are kind of funny, it says, I mean it's like no hands below the waist, no petting, which I thought was kind of funny.
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No petting?
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Yeah, yeah, no petting.
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What does that mean?
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No one knows.
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Like, it was specifically on, like, the flyer that they hand out.
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Like, they give you the dress code and then they give you, like, the rules.
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No petting, and it's in, like, quotations, and you never know what it means.
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It's like, do people, like, sit there at dances and just, like, pet other people?
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Because that'd be really weird.
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There are rules like this at all the dances, and some are comprehensible than others.
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As for whether or not the kids obey the rules, and what actually happens inside the dance on the actual dance floor.
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One of our producers, Lisa Pollack, went inside to the dance floor at the Fall Costume Dance in Luz, Delaware, and I'm going to hand it off to her.
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So the scene in the gym was pretty much the way you remember it.
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Older kids dancing in the middle, younger kids at the periphery, a few aimlessly wandering around looking like they're not sure what to do.
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Lots of kids were dancing, jumping up and down.
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Occasionally you'd see a fist pump.
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They danced in these tightly packed clusters.
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with very little room between them.
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And outside of the clusters were chaperones, ready to step in if they saw any grinding or suggestive dancing.
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Hovering outside one of the clusters was a teacher named John Gauze, and he looked perplexed.
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This knot has gotten me on edge at this point.
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Why?
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Because they're trying to get away with stuff.
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Like, you can tell by the way they're looking at you.
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They have a guilty look.
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Because you're about to see me.
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He actually did swoop.
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He plunged him to the pack of kids, pulled the boy aside, and talked to him.
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Then he told me why.
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He needed to be taken aside and told to stop being up against those girls like that.
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That's why, you know, I don't want to jump in too much, but I just want to give him, like, the whoa, with the flat hand whoa.
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Just whoa, just calm it down a little.
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I mean, usually, if I see it, then they're going to stop because they see me.
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And then comes the moment of truth.
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The moment that forces every kid in the room to make a decision.
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The moment that separates the timid from the brave.
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The slow song.
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I watch it with teacher Brian Comra.
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So we got our slow song.
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And just as I suspected, a majority of the students left the dance floor.
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All the couples are in the middle of the dance floor in a cluster.
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I suspect so they're not near an adult.
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I love how the kids go up to the couples dancing
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and interrupt them oh absolutely some of the couples didn't have
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much privacy the friends were standing a foot away hanging out
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and talking to them and every
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so often a random kid would just cut across the dance
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floor this girl right here just grabbed onto the back of her friend's neck
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while the friend is dancing with the boy yeah yeah i don't know
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if you didn't want to be left out or they came as friends
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or i think at this stage of the game it's hard
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when boys and girls hair off
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and then one friend is always left behind there's a few of these slow dances
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but most of the songs are fast
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and then suddenly the song hit the road jack starts playing
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and the lights snap on oh my god they just all like Yeah, it ends very abruptly.
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It's nine.
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It's nine o 'clock.
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That's it?
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That's it.
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There's no wind down.
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Nine o 'clock, lights come on, parents are waiting.
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It'll be empty in another minute.
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And he was right.
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The experiment in mini -adulthood that is the middle school dance was over.
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The same kids who minutes earlier were holding each other
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and swaying awkwardly on the dance floor got into cars and said hi to their parents.
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Lisa Pollack.
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Coming up, surviving middle school by pretending that you are from a completely different family.
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That is in a minute from Chicago Public Radio when our program continues.
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This is American Life, a miracle ass.
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Each week on our show, of course, you choose a theme, bringing different kinds of stories on
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that theme today's show a rerun on middle school a 14
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year old from california who just got out of middle school asked for a show on the horror
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that is middle school it'd be cool to like hear other people's stories about it
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and how what they went through we thought you know that's a pretty good idea
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that is a place with a lot of stories we've arrived at act three of our show act three
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mimi's in the middle the place that domingo martinez went to middle school they still called it Junior High, and he says
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that his sisters did something to cope with any feelings of
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inferiority they might have otherwise felt in their new school with all those new kids.
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When they started Junior High, my sisters Mary
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and Margie invented the Mimis as a way to cope with any feelings of inferiority they might have otherwise experienced.
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They were entering the sinister world of teenage girls, which, in the mid -1980s in Brownsville, Texas, was tinged with Bordertown racism.
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Instead of being ashamed of who they were, my sisters decided to create a polite fiction and invited everyone to participate.
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First, they dyed their brown -black hair blonde until it turned the color and brittleness of hay.
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Then they began dressing in Sergio Valenti and Gloria Vanderbilt.
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And finally, to cap it off, they decided to call each other simply Mimi.
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The typical conversation between them went like this.
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Mimi, do you like my new Jordache jeans?
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Yes, Mimi, I do.
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Do I look rich in my new Nikes, Mimi?
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Mimi, you look like a tennis player, Mimi.
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I know, Mimi.
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Maybe I should make mom buy me a racket.
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It was really that simple.
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The Mimis made a conscious decision that they would be rich and white, even if their family wasn't.
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In other words, Marge and Mare had a small break from reality that we all participated in to help them through junior high.
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We all helped in creating the Mimis.
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At the time, the rest of the family had not fully realized that her job, as relatively new Americans, and worse yet, Texans, was to be as white as possible.
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And we honestly didn't see their delusion as anything other than
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another bewildering tactic in our sister's quest for a higher level of superior fashion, just teenage girls doing what teenage girls do.
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There had been a time when our family had been rich by barrio standards because our grandpa, dad's stepfather, fought in the Korean War and used his GI money to start a trucking business when he got back.
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He married grandma, who was widowed from her first marriage at age 16, and gave both her and my dad citizenship.
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My siblings and I, we were all born in Brownsville as Americans, but really didn't understand what that meant.
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Not really, not in that area.
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Then Grandpa died in 1980, and our world began to crumble.
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The trucking business began to disintegrate around Dad, and he was started on a slow road towards desperation and religion.
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Meanwhile, the Mimis had made their decision to be two blue -blooded, trust -funded tennis bunnies from Connecticut, accidentally living in Brownsville, Texas with us.
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A poor Mexican family they had somehow befriended while undergoing some Dickensian series of misfortunes.
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No one acted like it was peculiar, especially those in the family who didn't speak English or could not understand the Mimis when they showed up at family gatherings.
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Yo no puedo hablaro Españolo, one of the Mimis would say to an uncle or cousin, who more often than not would linger lasciviously around them,
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at first conflicted by the idea of being turned on by so young a relative, and then mentally calculating just how distantly related they were,
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and tabulating his odds at scoring with this new white chick who just happened to show up at this barrio party, but only after two or three beers.
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Mimi, how did you like my Spanish?
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Oh, Mimi, it's getting really good.
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Mimi, do you think they understood me?
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Oh, Mimi, who cares?
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Soon, the Mimis were buzzing at a fever pitch, intoxicating everyone who came near and caught a whiff of the Mimis' Anaïs Anaïs perfume.
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We had all seen the commercials on network television while watching Dallas or Knott's Landing, and it was a forbidden fragrance for rain -depressed English women with secret,
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muscular boyfriends who drove Jaguars dangerously through unpaved, one -lane Scottish roads.
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So the Mimis had to have it, and they found it at the local JCPenney and had Mom pay for it.
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Me and my brother Dan and our oldest sister Sylvia, we just kind of stank from the heat and dealt with it.
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Even Mom developed her own fascination with the Mimi's, like she couldn't believe her luck now that she was related to royalty.
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Feeding into their fantasy gave her one of her own, so she was always ready for an air -conditioned trip to the mall.
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She took the little clothes budget reserved for us boys, my brother and me, and added it into the Mimi's wardrobe
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because to her it was a sign of status for the family that the Mimi's looked their best.
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None of the rest of us would question it even though it felt wrong.
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I was often left with the Mimi's recently stylish hand -me -downs.
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No one else in my grade school was remotely label conscious
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or capable of reading in English really so it passed unnoticed
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that most of my clothes were made for glamorous junior high school girls.
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Almost every child at my school came from recently immigrated families.
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Kids so poor they'd save half their free lunch to share with their younger siblings at home, their heads shaved to rid them of lice.
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My best friend Arthur, he noticed though.
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He was part black and part Mexican.
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Had just moved to Brownsville from some big city slum in
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Michigan where his mother's boyfriend had been employed at a GM factory and he read labels.
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Hey Dom, he said.
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Yo man, you're wearing a girl's shirt.
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Or is the spree making baggy boy shirts now too
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so to change the subject i slugged him high in the chest and ran away
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he chased me down to punch me back and left me crying in my girl's blouse
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if she had any guilt about giving the mimis the lion's
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share of the clothing budget i imagine the justification my mother probably used was
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that my older brother and i would just ruin our clothes, working with Dad under the greasy trucks.
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It made better sense for the Mimis to be in high fashion than for the feral boys to wreck new clothes.
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Mimi, you look just like Jennifer Beals in Flashdance.
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You should join the dance team at school.
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I know, Mimi.
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I think so too.
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Mimi, I think you should dye your hair back to its original color.
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Ash.
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I know, Mimi.
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I'm trying.
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During this time, my brother Dan's eyesight was
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so bad he couldn't read the blackboard in school and constantly ran into corners of short skinny people.
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People thought he was Asian he squinted so much.
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Every photo of him taken in junior high he looks like
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he's trying to see into the photographer's eyes through the camera lens.
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This of course goes entirely unnoticed
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and it is the younger Mimi Mary with a 20 -20
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vision who gets vanity glasses with her name etched in gold script in the corner.
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Dan wouldn't get glasses until he was in the military when he was 17.
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Eventually, Dad's failure at navigating the business and providing for his family intruded on the Mimi's fantasy.
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Dad made a decision that as soon as school ended, Mom would take the Mimis and Syl and drive them to California to participate in the seasonal grape harvest with Dad's cousins,
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people vaguely related to Grandma through marriage, I think.
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They would be treated like adults there, paid the same as everyone else.
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Mom, I remember, was horrified at the implications, at the shame of having to send her virginal and royal daughters out to the fields.
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Plus, Dad's extended family out in California were very different from us.
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Wild and frightening and Californian.
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The Mimis, though, were undaunted.
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Did not understand the complications.
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Mimi, we're going to California?
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Oh my god, Mimi, we're going to be Valley Girls!
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Mimi, gag me with a spoon, Mimi.
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Mimi, your roots are showing.
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We packed up Mom, the Mimis, and Sylvia in the beige 1980 Pontiac Bonneville already in antique on its second engine
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and failing transmission and they drove out of Brownsville A year later,
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I took this ride as well and also ended up picking grapes for the summer mostly out of envy
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That we were migrant workers for that period didn't occur to me, nor to anyone else.
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That label would never stick, could never stick.
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We couldn't descend to that level.
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We just had to do it to help out Dad, that was all.
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Desperate circumstances calling for desperate measures and all that.
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But it was too much for the Mimis, the reality of this first trip.
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Sadly, I think it was childhood's end for the Mimis.
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The vineyards had somehow inverted their secret garden, and the low door and the wall had closed shut behind them.
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When they first reached California, the Mimis did indeed become Valley Girls, the hippest cutest, best -dressed migrant workers of that year, and very likely for many years to come.
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The older Mimi, Marge, continued to dress like Jennifer Beals in Flashdance out in the fields, where the sun sizzled any inch of exposed skin.
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She wore a spaghetti -strapped, red -and -white -striped esprit top, white cotton shorts, and a matching headband with her red -and -white leather Nike tennis shoes,
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and took pictures of the vineyards and the workers with her Canon AE -1.
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Her headband kept a white strip of skin on her forehead from tanning, and as a result, she was forced to wear headbands for a few months afterwards, way after headbands were out of fashion.
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Eventually, though, even she started dressing like the rest of the migrant workers, wearing long -sleeved collared shirts buttoned all the way to the neck, thick, unstylish denim and work boots,
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with a bandana covering her nose and mouth, or else she would have died of heatstroke.
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There were no photos taken of that.
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Mary, the younger Mimi, did not fare any better.
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Her vanity glasses with the fake lenses were scratched well beyond recovery.
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Her roots grew out, and her hair turned a lighter brown as a result of the heat
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and the pesticides of the grape fields of Southern California.
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The hard work went on all summer, and eventually it became bitter enough to breach even the walls of the Mimi's perfectly constructed fantasy.
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And so sadly, eventually even they were humiliated, and the illusion of wealth that had kept the family's idea of itself buoyant was deflated.
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When they returned to Brownsville, as happy as we were to see them, no one ever mentioned the Mimis again.
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They were gone, and it was Marge and Mary that returned to their place, Mary rubbing her nose with the palm of her hand from allergies and snapping at anyone who tried to talk to her,
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and Marge, who never went back to California, and took a job at the bank the following summer instead.
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I was sorry to see the Mimis go.
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We all were.
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When they were at their peak, the Mimis had been capable of creating a real sort of magic around them,
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enchanting both people and places so that you could be looking at the same dreary landscape as them, the same terrible and hopeless event.
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And while you might be miserable and bitter, they would be beaming, enthralled, and enthusiastically hopeful.
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And then, if you got near them, or were blessed enough to maybe talk to them, you would walk away feeling the same way as they felt too.
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They were a gift to everyone who was lucky enough to get caught in their Anais, Anais, the Mimis.
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They made all of us Americans.
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Domingo Martinez reading an excerpt from his book, The Boy Kings of Texas, which is a memoir and a finalist for the National Book Award.
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Since we first broadcast today's show, Domingo's published another memoir called My Heart is a drunken compass.
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Act four, anchor babies.
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So this week, as we were putting together the radio show and sending reporters out into middle schools, we discovered that in schools all over the country, there already were reporters on the ground,
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deep inside, covering the issues that middle school kids really care about.
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Good afternoon, Huskies.
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It is Thursday, September 15th, 2011.
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After today, there are only 162 school days until summer vacation.
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I'm Taylor.
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These are student newscasters from Hart Middle School in Pleasanton, California.
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I myself got my start on the mic on the morning announcements.
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And this is what middle school morning announcements in some schools are like today.
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Students make these full -blown video productions.
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Some of them have music themes.
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The kids stand in front of banners with their school logo, or sometimes it's a green screen backdrop so they make it look like they're on a local TV news set.
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Our producer Jonathan Menjivar has been watching these newscasts all week with fascination, and he has noticed a few trends.
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Just like the local news, middle school newscasts tend to follow a formula.
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They almost all start with the Pledge of Allegiance.
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This next segment from DMS News at Dibble Middle School in Dibble, Oklahoma, is a staple of almost every broadcast I watched.
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Okay.
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We have late breaking news.
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You will be the first to know that we have two birthdays today.
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Happy birthday to both Gabriel Romero and Nathan Nydell.
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This has to qualify as breaking news because it's school.
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There's not a lot of exciting stuff for them to report.
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They have to tell their fellow students what the cafeteria is serving that day, when makeup pictures are being taken and do the weather.
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My favorite comes from this girl, McKenna, near Buffalo, who's clearly had enough.
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Good morning, Ambrose Middle School.
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This is McKenna with today's weather.
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It's going to be how it is, like it is now, pretty much all day.
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In the afternoon, colder, windy, and wet, with heavier rain.
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In the evening, winds to the southwest.
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These newscasts are middle school in relief, like what you'd see if there was a middle school exhibit at the Natural History Museum.
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There are tiny kids with big ears, shy, red -faced kids.
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Jocks, computer club kids, completely normal, super sweet, overachieving ones.
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They were fun to watch.
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I'd forgotten that middle school kids can have this overconfident goofiness.
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I spent days watching kids deliver these nudescasts.
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And I was curious what they'd be like if they actually reported on the stories that mattered the most to them.
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Stuff they'd never say on the morning announcements.
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The big headlines in their school that week.
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Amanda, we need to get out of my shot.
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So I found a school that was willing to play along.
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Parkville Middle School is just north of Baltimore, and the students there do their morning announcements as a six -minute show called PTV.
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With the help of their teacher, Ms. Davis, the kids put out a really involved production.
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There's three TV cameras, a control room, and the anchor sit at one of those giant news desks.
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It has a PTV logo on it.
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Behind them, there's a backdrop of downtown Baltimore.
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Girls, don't forget to watch your hair.
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I see Amanda especially.
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I see yours sitting right on your mic.
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With Ms. Davis' help, I enlisted the kids in this experiment
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to write up a newscast with news from their lives and the stories they each cared about.
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And they delivered.
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They said they had fun doing it.
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So I've heard that there is a new Martin Luther King Jr. statue in Washington, D .C.
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That statue doesn't even look like him.
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It looks like he has a unibrow.
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Our school's getting their boiler fixed, and they talked over the announcements like it was an important thing.
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But it didn't really sound important to me.
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But I guess they thought it was important for some students and the teachers.
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Kids were randomly clapping at lunch, and the teachers got fed up.
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So last week, a rule was made that you're not allowed to clap.
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So at lunch, this one kid, Raymond, clapped.
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I think he got suspended.
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The U .S.
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Department of Agriculture is banning potatoes from school lunches.
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I love potatoes.
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They can just make them healthier or something.
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They don't have to ban them.
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The weather has been terribly cold lately.
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I've had to wear my UGG boots like five times in the past three weeks.
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I swear, if I find any dirt on them anywhere, Mother Nature is going to hear from me.
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So over the weekend, my best friend told me he's still going trick -or -treating.
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He says he's going with a friend from school.
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Personally, I think we were all too old to be trick -or -treating.
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Well, that is all I have for today.
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I'm Billy Cochran.
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Have a good day.
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Zakia Bryant decided to go hyper -local with her news.
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She wears glasses, and she had her hair pulled back with a headband.
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In local news, a .k .a here at Parkville Middle, there is a lot of drama going on.
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Me personally, I lost most of my friends.
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I really miss those chicks, but I don't think they feel the same.
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Kaylin and Jay are my besties, and now they're gone.
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I still love them, though.
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They're my sisters.
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Well, I don't really have too much more to say, because my life is kind of boring. So, deuces.
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Zakiya and I talked for a while.
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She told me that deuces is just another way of saying peace out.
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Can I ask you about your friends?
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What happened?
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Well, it was a lot of drama going on and some things got said, and people's feelings got hurt.
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And some of us made up, some of us didn't, but I hope that we can.
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You know, it sucks.
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So you're just, you're not talking to them at all?
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Well, actually, she's not talking to me because I called her a name, and it hurt her feelings,
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so, you know, she's very upset with me.
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I just, I need to apologize.
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I didn't do that yet.
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I feel kind of bad about that, so I'm going to.
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The very last kid I talked to was Jaya Wadi.
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She sandwiched her most surprising news in between a couple other stories.
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My brother goes to Penn State, and he's on the football team.
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And I've been to all the home games, and they're a lot of fun.
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The students are crazy, and they get dressed up in blue and white.
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It's really cool.
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So my friend is always depressed, and then she's, like, mad at me all the time.
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So I don't understand that.
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I was watching the news the other day, and they were talking about how President Obama...
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Did you catch that?
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About her depressed friend?
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I asked JF.
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It was hard to write about her.
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Yeah, because I didn't want to, like, hurt her feelings, but she really doesn't care.
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Because she said she wrote about me, too.
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Oh, this is, um...
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Zikia.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Oh, wow, I didn't realize that her friends she was talking about were in this class.
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Yeah, we are.
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But I've known her since, like, fifth grade, so we kind of fight a lot, but we always wind up being friends in the end, so.
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What happened exactly?
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Nothing, really.
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Just people telling other people things, spreading rumors and drama.
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Middle school.
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Ms. Davis, the journalism teacher at Parkville Middle, is always stressing that her students be factual and truthful in their stories.
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The news isn't rumors and opinions.
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But in middle school, sometimes it's hard to remember that.
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It's hard to step back and look at a story from the middle school from different perspectives.
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Jonathan Manjivar, these days he's the executive producer of a new podcast from The Guardian called Stateside with Kai and Carter.
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They're on YouTube and everywhere you get your podcasts.
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Act five, blue kid on the block.
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Last September, a kid that we're going to call Leo, not his real name, started seventh grade at a new school and he was having a more extreme experience.
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He was having a harder time finding his place in middle school than other middle school kids
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because he was new to town.
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His family had just arrived from Rochester, New York.
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He had that on top of everything else.
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Leo still loved Rochester.
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He loved his school there.
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He loved his friends.
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Suddenly, everything about his life was different and according to Leo, much, much worse.
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The signature in his Gmail account read, Rochester is much better in big red letters.
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Sarah Koenig knows Leo and his parents and visited them at home to see how Leo was doing.
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This is how much Leo does not want to be here.
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When I got to his house, he was on the sofa with a laptop investigating Greyhound bus schedules.
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His mother was going to drive him and his sister back to Rochester for the Columbus Day weekend, but not until Saturday morning, and Leo wanted to get there Friday for more time with his friends.
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A multi -stage negotiation followed with his dad.
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For one thing, a bus ticket costs money.
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That's not a problem.
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Not for you.
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No, that wasn't a problem for you.
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No, but...
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There isn't one.
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There isn't one at 9 .6 .15 in the morning.
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And you won't let me miss school on Friday.
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The bus takes eight hours.
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Even if you left at noon, you'd eat it.
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Yeah, you're going to do the math.
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That's excellent.
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Never mind that the bus takes twice as long as driving.
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And never mind that Leo would be alone and have to change buses.
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And that his parents had no intention of letting him go through with this plan.
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But it's the kind of negotiation you indulge when your kid is miserable and Leo is miserable.
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He told me right away he was and that he had been from the moment he got here in August.
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Is this the first time in your life where you felt like you've been sad about something for this long?
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I think so, except for maybe when my other cat died.
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My old cat.
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And does this feel worse than that?
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Yes.
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Oh, really?
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Mm -hmm.
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I've never had long periods of sad until now.
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I don't know.
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I don't know anyone here, really, and I think it's just everything in general that's overwhelming.
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Back in Rochester, Leo had known all his best friends since kindergarten, or before.
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They played together at school, after school, on weekends.
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Everybody knew everybody.
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Everything was comfortable.
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And as a sixth grader in his old school, he and his friends were at the top of the heap.
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They wore green sashes in the morning and got to be door monitors for the younger kids coming into the building.
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So imagine now, Leo takes a school bus for the first time to his new school, a sprawling, one -story building full of 6th, 7th, and 8th graders.
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Leo's small for his age, only a hair taller than his sister, who's only 9 years old.
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On day one, he knows exactly no one.
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It was much louder than my old school.
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Much louder to people talking, people closing and opening lockers, people walking.
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It was just noise.
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Just older kids, more kids, because my old school was tiny.
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Leo is between.
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He's old enough to decipher Greyhound bus schedules, but not old enough to actually travel on one by himself.
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And old enough to know that if he's going to survive in middle school, he has to make friends.
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But that making those friends stands to be significantly more complicated than it was back in Rochester.
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Leo's sister, Auden, is in fourth grade.
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He says she's not having as hard a time of it.
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She hasn't been alive as long.
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She hasn't made as deep connections.
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And she's already met a friend in her school.
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I think it's easier to make friends in elementary school than in middle school.
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Oh, really?
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Why?
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Because people care less about who you are.
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What do you mean by that?
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The older you get, the more you judge people
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on their looks, their backgrounds their how they act like what cool is for kids
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because in kindergarten you could just walk up to someone
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and say do you want to be my friend and they would then that would be it but it's harder
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i just think people are more wary before they open up they like i don't know in first grade
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If I met someone, I wouldn't really care who they were.
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I would just care if they were nice or not.
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The day I interviewed him, Leo had a couple of breakthroughs.
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He emailed his parents during the school day to tell them the first piece of good news they'd had from him.
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Until that day, the emails had mostly been three desperate words.
696
I feel awful.
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Without even a.. period at the end to make the feeling finite.
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It was an endless awful.
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But on this Thursday, he wrote to tell them the mashed potatoes they serve in the cafeteria were great, followed by four exclamation points.
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Second, and this was the big news, he asked another kid if he wanted to come over.
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Leo told me he'd thought about it first for a few days, then finally emailed the boy, whose name is Devin, another seventh grader.
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But now Leo didn't want to call Devin's house to finalize a plan.
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He dreaded the awkwardness of the phone.
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So his dad called Devin's parents introduced himself as Leo's father he goes to school with your son Evan
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and we were Devin I'm
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so sorry Devin I'm getting the evil look for my son I apologize
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but we're hoping Devin can come over on Sunday thanks I panic
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how'd that go not well I thought Leo might be upset about it maybe get sulky.
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But here he was cracking up, joking with his dad.
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It was such a relief to hear him laugh after he'd been so solemn in our interview.
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And I thought, this is all going to be okay.
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He's going to snap out of it.
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He's almost there.
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An afternoon with Devin is going to do the trick.
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Then Sunday came.
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Okay, now I have three health again.
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You can tell your wolf to attack.
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Okay, I'm going to tell my wolf to attack then.
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Leo taught Devin how to play Dungeons and Dragons.
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And the wolf lands on its feet.
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Yay!
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Go, Wolfie!
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Go, Wolfie!
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Go, Wolfie!
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I am so weird.
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On the drive home, Leo and Devin talk nonstop, a gentle rat -a -tat one -upmanship emanating from deep inside a computer game.
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I am a blood elf warlock.
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Warlocks are fun.
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Can you summon your impiet?
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Yeah, you start with him.
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Oh, right.
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I like, um, I had a goblin shaman.
733
I'm a night elf druid, and I can turn into a cat at level 8, which is nice.
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And at level 12, if you get a bear.
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Yeah.
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By the time they dropped Devin off, they were giggling.
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It's funny.
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Our cat responds to whatever you call.
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We said, his name is Pippin, and we can call him football.
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I can respond.
741
You can call him football.
742
You're football.
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Thanks for coming over.
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Thanks.
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Thank you for inviting me.
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See you tomorrow.
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See you.
748
So a perfect day, right?
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Leo's parents were relieved, hopeful, but no. It's Wednesday.
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You had your friend over on Sunday.
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How'd it go?
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Went okay.
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Yeah, went okay.
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Has it changed anything about being here?
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A little bit.
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I don't think very much, but a little bit, yeah.
757
What's changed?
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What's the little bit?
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Then I know someone at school.
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It helps.
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Not all that much, but sort of, yeah.
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And this is when I realized I'd underestimated the depth of Leo's gloom, that he greets every morning of every school day with dread,
763
and not because he's being bullied or anyone's being mean to him?
764
I feel sick because I know that I have the whole day ahead of me
765
and then I have the next day and the next day
766
and the next day and the next day and the next day ahead of me.
767
Does it pass once you get to school?
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No, not really.
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It usually increases to a climax around lunchtime and then I
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actually have been throwing up recently and then it just stays
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that level sickness until i get home you're kidding me you're
772
throwing up at school yeah that's awful in the bathroom
773
or where yeah in the bathroom usually at lunch i feel really bad
774
and i go to the bathroom and i throw up has
775
that happened this week today it did do you tell your
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parents like i don't want to go i don't want to go
777
or do you just you know you have to
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so you don't say anything uh no i throw a screaming fit every morning yeah pretty much i didn't today
779
What was different about this morning?
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How come you didn't today?
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I felt resigned, and I knew that I would have to go anyways, so I gave up.
782
Here's the curse of being almost 13.
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Old enough to understand his life will supposedly get better with time, but not old enough to really believe he's going to feel any differently than he does right this minute.
784
Since making friends with Devin, Leo is one step toward being the kid he wants to be.
785
Someone with pals.
786
Someone who's comfortable again.
787
But he says right now, he's just worried he's going to be throwing up all year.
788
Sarah Koenig.
789
In the 15th year since we first broadcast this story, Leo has transitioned.
790
She now lives in New York City and is pursuing a career in the arts.
791
She says she's not happy all the time, but things are better than they were.
792
Sarah Koenig is now the host of Serial.
793
She's working on a brand new show that I heard a draft version of.
794
I have to say it's incredible.
795
It is a total pleasure.
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It's going to be out very soon, this fall.
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Deck six, Grande with Sugar.
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So I've been talking to educators, and one who had taught for years in high school
799
and then moved to middle school told me
800
that the key difference between teaching in the two environments was that in middle school, you have to be sympathetic to and patient with all of the emotional drama.
801
You have to deal with that directly if you want the classroom to work.
802
Which brings me to this next story of a student who was doing badly in a middle school in Newark, New Jersey.
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He was a mess.
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He would come in, his uniform would be dirty.
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He hadn't showered.
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He hadn't had breakfast.
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His book bag most likely had a hole in it and all of his pens and pencils had fallen out.
808
His homework wasn't done.
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And so, of course, he'd come in and he'd be angry.
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This is Shannon Grande, who teaches at Rise Academy Middle School, which is a public school, 91 % black and Latino and eligible for free lunches.
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One of the KIPP charter schools, hence the uniforms.
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I heard about this story from Elizabeth Green, who has been reporting on this school for a journalism outfit called Gotham Schools.
813
Anyway, this teacher, Sharon Grande, says that this 7th grader would come in angry all the time.
814
And, um, and usually someone would say something little to him, like, you know, your shirt's not tucked in or the kid would.
815
Yeah.
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Cause they, you know, they do that.
817
They like, you know, just kind of pick at each other and it was set him off.
818
And then he would just be very loud and just be like, Oh, why do you always have to say this to me and slam his stuff down?
819
I hate this place.
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And you just go into like these very general rants.
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And, you know, usually that's an indicator to us, like when they use those very general statements that they're not processing through their emotions, that they're feeling overwhelmed.
822
So this kid was in an unfortunate spiral.
823
He felt isolated from the other kids just inherently because his home situation was so bad.
824
And then he would get angry with the other kids, which then made them mad and made him more isolated.
825
And he got worse and worse through some stuff across a room and it hit a teacher.
826
I mean, there were points where he would come in and And he would refuse to do anything all day long.
827
And he'd just, he would cry.
828
He would break out and cry in the middle class.
829
He didn't even know why.
830
And he couldn't explain why.
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One big problem for him, one reason that he was ostracized, he didn't wash.
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Kids would whisper about it.
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And when he would get mad and then arguments would escalate, that is where it would go.
834
You're dirty.
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You smell.
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The kids would say it right to his face.
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Over time, the staff found all kinds of ways to address this.
838
They got him clean clothes and a place to clean up before school.
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But the bigger problem, and that's the problem of his isolation and his anger, Ms. Grande says it was not clear how to deal with that.
840
They would try things, but nothing was working.
841
And then finally one day in history class during group work, he was trash -talking, and one of the best girls in the class, one of Ms. Grande's best students,
842
ended up in an argument with him saying terrible things.
843
And Ms. Grande felt like, really?
844
You too?
845
When I pulled the girl, and she was like, well, he brings it on.
846
You know, he gets angry, and then what am I supposed to say?
847
I was like, well, you could not say that, you know? That being.
848
That he's dirty and he smells.
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And she's like, well, he does.
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And I said, I was like, I think this is a bigger conversation.
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So Ms. Grandi took this girl and the three other girls who had been doing group work with this boy, and she took those girls into the teacher's room, and all four of these girls were academically strong,
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and all of them had shown good leadership qualities in the school in the past.
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And she talked to them.
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You know, I had explained to them that he struggles just to get here every day.
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That I was like, you know, you wake up in the morning and you've got somebody that's getting you out of the door, giving you breakfast, making sure your clothes are clean, making sure you get here on time.
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He doesn't have that.
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Like, he has nobody doing that for him.
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And at that time, you know, I knew that the power had been off at his house, that the week before the water was shut off,
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that they had had part of their roof cave in.
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um he has an elderly grandmother that he tries to take care of
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and she had been getting up in the middle of the night
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and wandering and he would hear her and get up
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and carry her back upstairs what was the reaction empathy
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and she's like i didn't know that you know
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and the other girls there were you know talking about that
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and i was like you know i'm telling you something
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that i normally wouldn't tell another student this you know this is something very private
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but I'm trusting that you're mature enough to handle this
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and I was like so you know you're kind of breaking him down
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when you're doing these things
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and she's like well can we talk to him I was
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a little nervous you know obviously I was really worried about
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it I was like what am I doing here this could be really dangerous and backfire on me Terribly.
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They started to talk, and they're like, you know, when you get angry, I, you know, we get angry back.
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What do you expect us to say?
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And it really was just a couple minutes before the kids told Ms. Grande, we can take it from here.
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And she left them to talk.
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Afterwards, the boy told Ms. Grande that it felt good.
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It felt good that these girls knew that he was trying to deal with his anger.
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And since this conversation, over time, the entire class has entered this discussion with this kid.
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And when this kid has an outburst, they will all talk openly about his anger.
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Like the students say, well, you've told us you're working on this.
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What are you going to do differently now?
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And then he'd try to explain, well, you know, I'm trying to take deep breaths.
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You know, I'm trying to journal when I'm getting angry.
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I'm trying to do, you know, and he'd come up with whatever solutions he's trying to do.
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But a lot of times even it wasn't about the solution, the peer pressure itself and the feeling like, you know, he had come in and,
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you know, he's making these general statements like everybody's against me.
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And then he's starting to feel like, OK, maybe everybody isn't against me.
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You know, maybe they are just frustrated with this behavior that I'm doing that I could be doing better.
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And so that we started to see that impact of peer pressure.
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It's like you took the entire machinery of middle school dynamics and you're harnessing it to help this kid.
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Exactly.
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To harness the fact that they'll listen to peers.
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Exactly.
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And we know they do.
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This is what the research shows, that in middle school you listen to peers more than you listen to anybody else.
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And that is working with this kid.
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The other day this kid got a detention for missing part of his uniform
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and he started on a rant in class about how they're all against him
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and all the time they're on his back and everybody's against him
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and it was the end of the world and Ms. Grande finally asked him, who's they?
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Who's everybody?
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And he started smiling.
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And she asked him, what's he really upset about?
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And unlike in the past, he could untangle it.
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He could tell her.
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We'll be right back.
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Thanks today to all of our This American Life partners.
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It is about one of the hardest episodes of our show that we have ever produced.
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An episode that kind of tortured the entire staff for months as we made it
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and the topic of that particular episode the theme
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and all the others also to get this newsletter with hot tips that I
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and it's in like quotations i'm ira glass back next week with more stories of this american
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu konuşma dersi “Middle School” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: middle, kid, Mimi. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 933 cümle ve 10584 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 59:17 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 179 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %84’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| reporter isim | /ɹɪˈpoɹ.tɚ/ | muhabir, bildirmen |
| producer isim | /pɹəˈdjuːsə/ | üretici |
| announcement isim | /əˈnaʊns.mənt/ | ilan, beyan |
| awful sıfat | /ˈɔːfʊl/ | berbat |
| pet isim | /pɛt/ | evcil hayvan |
| experiment isim | /ɪkˈspɛɹ.ə.mənt/ | deney (n), tecrübe |
| sixth sıfat | /sɪksθ/ | altıncı |
| peer isim | /pɪɹ/ | akran, emsâl |
| trick isim | /ˈtɹɪk/ | hile, numara |
| bonus isim | /ˈbəʊ.nəs/ | bonus, ekstra |
| anger isim | /ˈæŋɡə/ | öfke, kızgınlık |
| broadcast isim | /ˈbɹɔːd(ˌ)kɑːst/ | yayın |
| tennis isim | /ˈtɛnɪs/ | tenis |
| wolf isim | /wʊlf/ | kurt, börü |
| anonymous sıfat | /əˈnɒn.ə.məs/ | adsız, isimsiz |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Anlam |
|---|---|
| figure out fiil | açığa çıkarmak |
| get up fiil | kalkmak |
| go out fiil | çıkmak |
| grow up fiil | büyümek, yetişmek |
| put out fiil | çıkarmak |
| find out fiil | anlamak, ortaya çıkarmak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- Did it make you feel bad?
- Are you saying that the stereotype is true?
- Wait, you haven't told him yes or no yet?
- You told all these guys I don't know?
- How come you didn't today?
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — önceden başlayıp hâlâ süren bir eylem | has been watching · have been throwing · I've been talking |
| Koşul cümleleri if + cümle, will/would + fiil — bir koşul ve sonucu | if people didn't like them, they would all · if you left at noon, you'd eat · If I met someone, I wouldn't really |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | have listened · haven't formed · we've gone |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | was signed · was made · could be done |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı don't, I'm, they're gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 226 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: sixth /sɪksθ/, seventh /ˈsɛvənθ/, eighth /eɪtθ/, clothing /ˈkloʊðɪŋ/, thick /θɪk/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: conscious /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/, negotiation /nɪˌɡəʊ.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/, quotation /kwoʊˈteɪʃn̩/, fiction /ˈfɪkʃən/, trash /tɹæʃ/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: experiment /ɪkˈspɛɹ.ə.mənt/, elementary /ˌɛləˈmɛntəɹi/, anonymous /əˈnɒn.ə.məs/, miserable /ˈmɪz(ə)ɹəbəl/, participate /pɑːˈtɪs.ɪ.peɪt/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- /w/ — dudaklar yuvarlak, /v/ değil: wolf /wʊlf/, whoa /woʊ/, sweater /ˈswɛtɚ/, afterwards /ˈæf.tɚ.wɚdz/, memoir /ˈmɛmˌwɑː/
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: producer /pɹəˈdjuːsə/, trick /ˈtɹɪk/, broadcast /ˈbɹɔːd(ˌ)kɑːst/, cluster /ˈklʌstɚ/, sweater /ˈswɛtɚ/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: anger /ˈæŋɡə/, afterwards /ˈæf.tɚ.wɚdz/, snap /snæp/, sadly /ˈsædli/, grandma /ˈɡɹænmɑː/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; reporter, producer, announcement gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.