Shadowing Practice: Quiz: How Are You Really Doing? (You Might Be Wrong) - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Sometimes the hardest place to be isn't in a crisis.
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It's not knowing whether you're actually okay.
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We've been reading your comments across so many of our videos and something keeps coming up.
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A lot of you say,
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you're functioning, you're showing up,
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you're getting through the day.
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But you're not sure if that means you're actually doing okay or if you're just surviving.
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Mental health rarely completely changes overnight.
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Most of the time it shifts slowly and quietly,
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so gradually that you don't notice it while it's happening.
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You adapt, you normalize stress,
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you push through, and eventually it becomes hard to tell where you really stand.
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Since so many of you appreciated our previous self-test quiz and asked for more tools like that,
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this video is another one.
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A way to pause and see where you are right now.
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But remember, this isn't here to diagnose you,
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it's not here to label you,
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but it's also definitely not something you can fail.
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It's simply a safe space to reflect, honestly and without judgment.
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It's time to ask yourself,
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how am I really doing?
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And if you're not sure, that's okay.
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But we can try to figure it out together.
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There are 15 questions total.
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Answer honestly, there are no wrong answers.
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If a question feels uncomfortable, you can pause.
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Take your time.
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Just by checking in with yourself,
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you are already doing something really healthy.
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Okay, let's do this.
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Question number one.
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When someone asks, how are you?
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What's your honest answer lately?
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One, I'm genuinely okay.
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Two, I'm stressed but managing.
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Three, I say I'm fine but it's not the full truth.
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Four, I avoid answering anything too deep.
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Or five, I don't even know how how I feel anymore.
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Question two, how has your energy been lately?
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One, stable and steady.
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Two, a little drained but functional.
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Three, often tired even after rest.
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Four, exhausted most days.
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Or five, completely burned out.
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Question three, when something small goes wrong, how do you react?
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One, I handle it calmly.
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Two, I feel annoyed, but it passes.
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Three, I overthink it for hours.
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Four, it ruins my mood for the day.
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Or five, it feels like proof that everything is falling apart.
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Question number four.
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How connected do you feel to the people around you?
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One.
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Supported and understood.
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Two.
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Somewhat connected.
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Three.
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Around people but emotionally distant.
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Four.
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Misunderstood. Or five.
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I feel completely alone.
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Question number five.
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Think about the things you've always liked.
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How often do you enjoy them now?
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1. Often.
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2. Sometimes.
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3. Rarely.
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4. Almost never. Or 5.
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Very little feels enjoyable anymore.
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Question 6.
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How do you handle stress?
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1. I use healthy coping tools.
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2. I distract myself temporarily.
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3. I bottle it up.
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Four, I shut down or withdraw.
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Or five, I feel overwhelmed and helpless.
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Question number seven.
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How has your sleep been?
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One, restful.
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Two, slightly off.
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Three, irregular.
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Four, frequently disrupted.
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Or five, extremely poor or non-existent.
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Question number eight.
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How critical is your inner voice lately?
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1. Mostly kind.
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2. Occasionally harsh.
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3. Often self-doubting.
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4. Frequently critical. Or 5.
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Constantly negative.
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Question 9.
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Do you feel hopeful about the future?
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1. Yes.
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2. Cautiously optimistic.
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3. Unsure.
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Four, pessimistic, or 5.
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Hopeless.
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Question 10.
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When you make a mistake, what's your reaction?
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1. I forgive myself.
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2. I reflect and move on.
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3. I replay it repeatedly.
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4. I feel really ashamed. Or 5.
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I feel like I am the mistake.
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Question 11.
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How motivated have you been lately?
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1. Motivated and engaged.
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2. Slightly distracted.
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3. Struggling to focus.
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4. Avoiding responsibilities. Or 5.
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No motivation at all.
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Question 12.
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How emotionally present do you feel?
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1. Fully present.
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2. Mostly present.
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3. Numb, sometimes.
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4. Disconnected, often. Or 5.
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Completely detached.
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Question 13.
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How often do you prioritize your own needs?
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1. Regularly.
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2. Sometimes.
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3. Rarely.
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4. Almost never.
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Or five, I don't even think about my needs.
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Question number 14.
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When was the last time you felt genuinely at peace?
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One, recently.
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Two, a few weeks ago.
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Three, a few months ago.
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Four, I can't remember.
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Or five, I don't know if I ever have. And question 15.
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If you're honest, how are you really doing?
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1. I feel steady.
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2. I feel stretched thin.
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3. I feel like I'm barely keeping up.
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4. I feel emotionally exhausted. Or 5.
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I feel like I'm running on empty.
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Okay, time for scoring.
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Add up your total points,
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1 to 5 per question.
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If you scored 15 to 24 points,
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you are thriving or stable.
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25 to 39, you're stressed, but you're coping.
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40 to 54, you're in survival mode.
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55 to 75, you're burned out and overwhelmed.
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Category 1, thriving or stable, 15 to 24 points.
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You're relatively balanced right now.
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That doesn't mean life is perfect.
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It means you have support,
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coping tools, or stability helping you through.
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Maintain what's working, protect your routines, and stay connected.
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Category 2.
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Stressed but coping.
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25 to 39 points.
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You are carrying stress, but you're still functioning.
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Be careful not to normalize chronic exhaustion.
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Add small recovery habits before burnout builds.
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And rest before you collapse.
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Category 3.
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Survival mode.
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40 to 54 points.
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You're getting through your days, but at a cost.
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You may feel emotionally drained,
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disconnected, or overwhelmed more often than not.
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It might be time to reduce one pressure point.
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Consider talking to someone you trust or seeking professional support.
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You don't have to carry everything alone.
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Category 4.
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Burned out and overwhelmed.
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55 to 75 points.
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Your nervous system may be overloaded.
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You might feel exhausted, numb, or deeply discouraged.
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This is a sign that you've been pushing yourself for too long without enough recovery.
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Please consider reaching out for support.
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Therapy, counseling, or even one honest conversation can help shift things.
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You deserve more than just surviving.
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If you're experiencing thoughts of harming yourself,
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please reach out to a local crisis resource immediately.
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We'll include some in the description.
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This quiz is about awareness not judgment.
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Mental health shifts.
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Burnout is a slow burn.
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And sometimes we don't realize how much we've been carrying until we pause and reflect.
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If any of this resonated,
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let us know your score or simply share one word that describes how you've been feeling lately.
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And remember, you don't have to wait until you're completely overwhelmed to deserve support.
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You matter.
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Thank you for being here.
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And until next time, take care of yourselves.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu C1 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “Quiz: How Are You Really Doing?” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: overwhelmed, lately, completely, coping, emotionally. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 190 cümle ve 1024 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 8:58 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 114 kelimelik dengeli bir hızla konuşuyor; gölgeleme için rahat bir tempo. Kelimelerin yalnızca %81’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında, bu yüzden kelime dağarcığı zorlayıcı.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodaki en ileri düzey 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| exhaust fiil | /ɪɡˈzɔst/ | salmak, eritmek |
| distress isim | /dɪˈstɹɛs/ | bun, kaygı |
| pause isim | /pɔːz/ | mola, teneffüs |
| numb sıfat | /nʌm/ | uyuşuk |
| distract fiil | /dɪˈstɹækt/ | dikkati dağıtmak |
| thrive fiil | /θɹajv/ | gelişmek, inkişaf etmek |
| quiz isim | /kwɪz/ | bilgi yarışması |
| drain isim | /dɹiːn/ | gider, yağmur gideri |
| misunderstand fiil | /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/ | yanlış anlamak |
| overload fiil | /ˌəʊvəˈləʊd/ | fazla doldurmak |
| pessimistic sıfat | /ˌpɛ.səˈmɪs.tɪk/ | pesimist, karamsar |
| prioritize fiil | /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/ | önceliklendirmek |
| existent sıfat | /ɪɡˈzɪst(ə)nt/ | mevcut |
| discourage fiil | /dɪsˈkɝɪd͡ʒ/ | şevkini kırmak |
| helpless sıfat | /ˈhɛlplɪs/ | âciz |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Anlam |
|---|---|
| burn out fiil | sönmek |
| add up fiil | birikmek |
| fall apart fiil | altüst olmak |
| keep up fiil | ayak uydurmak, yetişmek |
| show up fiil | ortaya çıkmak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- When someone asks, how are you?
- What's your honest answer lately?
- Question two, how has your energy been lately?
- When you make a mistake, what's your reaction?
- If you're honest, how are you really doing?
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, don't, I'm gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 40 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: thrive /θɹajv/, withdraw /wɪðˈdɹɔ/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, cautiously /ˈkɔːʃəsli/, ashamed /əˈʃeɪmd/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/, pessimistic /ˌpɛ.səˈmɪs.tɪk/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, irregular /ɪˈɹɛɡ.jə.lɚ/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- /w/ — dudaklar yuvarlak, /v/ değil: overwhelm /ˌoʊ.vɚˈwɛlm/, quiz /kwɪz/, withdraw /wɪðˈdɹɔ/
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: thrive /θɹajv/, quiz /kwɪz/, drain /dɹiːn/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: distract /dɪˈstɹækt/, detach /dɪˈtæt͡ʃ/, misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/, adapt /əˈdæpt/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- Normal hızda cümle cümle tekrar edin; ritminiz konuşmacıyla aynı olana kadar her cümleyi yineleyin.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; exhaust, distress, pause gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.