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You work hard.
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YouTube vlogging is just so so hard.
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You're not stupid.
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The gap between you and your goal is simply work and it's hustle.
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So why are you still broke?
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In today's video I'm gonna tell you something
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that is either gonna make you a lot of money or seriously piss you off and honestly it's probably gonna do both.
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You see I'm gonna walk you through the five broken beliefs
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that quietly keep people stuck for years even without them realizing it
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and chances are you have at least one of them right now.
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Because most of you watching this aren't broke because you're lazy.
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And you're definitely not broke because you're stupid.
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You are broke because of what you believe about money.
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Look, I don't know how much you know about cars.
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Maybe you're not as much of a car geek as I am.
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But every single high performance car has something called an ECU.
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And that stands for Electronic Control Unit.
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It's pretty much the brain of the car.
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It decides how much power gets released,
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how hard the machine pushes.
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Look, I have cars in my garage that are genuinely dangerous.
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But if someone went in and tweaked that ECU,
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these cars would go into limp mode.
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And in that moment, all of that power,
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all of that engineering locked away,
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not because anything's broken, but because the system thinks it needs to protect itself from something that it doesn't trust yet.
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And your brain works exactly the same way.
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You see, most successful people aren't sitting there with some magical IQ that you don't have.
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Okay.
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I've met a lot of rich people,
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some incredibly smart, but a lot of them surprisingly average
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and a few that honestly genuinely make you question how they even got there in the first place.
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But what they all have in common is they think about money completely differently than regular people.
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And over time, I started to realize that building wealth isn't really an intelligence game.
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It's more of a game of beliefs,
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the beliefs you have around money,
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around risk, around opportunity, and even yourself.
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And your belief system is your ECU.
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The problem is that most of you watching this are running terrible settings.
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You are basically sitting in limp mode without even realizing it.
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And I'm going to fix that for you today while we go on this little night drive.
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So with that being said, let's get into it.
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Now, the first broken belief is probably responsible for killing more potential than anything else in this video.
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And what makes it dangerous is that it actually feels productive in the moment.
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So let's see if you recognize yourself here.
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You want to start a business and immediately your brain starts sprinting 10 steps ahead.
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Well, what if I don't understand taxes?
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What if I need employees?
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What if I can't manage people?
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What if it scales too quickly?
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What if I fail?
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My friend, you haven't even made your first dollar yet.
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Yet you're sitting here trying to solve problems that don't even exist.
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And while you're busy creating all these imaginary scenarios in your head,
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the one thing that would actually move your life forward never gets done.
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And I've noticed something very funny over the years because people assume uncertainty disappears once you start making money.
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They think that there's some magical point along the journey where you wake up and you suddenly think,
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right, I finally understand this whole business thing now.
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That never happens.
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That point never comes.
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Let me tell you from personal experience.
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When I was making nothing,
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I had no clue what I was doing.
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At $10,000 a month, no clue.
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At $100,000 a month, same thing.
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At a million dollars a month,
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honestly, I still felt the same way.
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The uncertainty never really goes away.
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You just become more comfortable operating without having to have every single answer
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and eventually you realize something that most of the things you spend months worrying about never actually ended up happening.
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And the few things that did actually end up happening,
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well, you figured them out.
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OK, not because you were prepared,
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but because reality forced you to become prepared.
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Nobody learns how to manage a team before they have one.
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Nobody learns about taxes before making money.
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No one knows exactly what they're doing before they begin.
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You solve problems when those problems become real.
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So if you can take away one thing from this,
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let it be this.
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Stop trying to solve for level 10 while you are still at level one.
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And that brings me to the second broken belief.
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And this one, actually, now that I think about it,
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might even be more dangerous than the first one because it's got nothing to do with action at all.
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It's got to do about how you fundamentally think about money in of itself.
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You see, this broken belief,
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I wish someone had explained to me earlier in life.
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Most people have a really strange relationship with money.
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And I don't mean they spend too much or they save too little.
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I mean, they attach emotions to it.
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They make every decision around it worse.
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Look, we all grew up hearing things like money changes people.
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Rich people are greedy.
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More money, more problems.
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And after hearing stuff like that for years,
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you don't even realize it.
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But eventually, you start attaching meaning to money itself.
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You start treating it like it's good or bad,
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like it has some sort of personality.
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It doesn't.
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Okay, money is infrastructure.
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It's just a tool.
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That's it.
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Look, let me explain it like this.
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Think about electricity for a second.
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You don't have an emotional relationship with electricity. Do you?
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You don't sit there staring at a light switch and go,
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wow, electricity is amazing.
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Yes, you understand it.
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Yes, you use it.
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Yes, it serves a purpose.
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And that relationship you have with electricity is the same way money should work.
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Okay.
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Look, I've noticed something very interesting over the years.
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The people who build serious wealth usually aren't the people obsessing over money every five minutes.
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I know that sounds funny to hear.
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It's not the people refreshing their bank account 10 times a day.
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They are not emotionally attached to every number moving up or down because when you are emotionally attached to money,
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you start making emotional decisions and emotional decisions are never a good thing.
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Look, you start to panic when things go down.
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You become overconfident when things go up.
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You spend when you should save.
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You save when you should invest.
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And usually those decisions end up costing you more than whatever number was sitting in your bank account.
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Look, I get it.
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I remember in the earlier stages of my career,
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I remember checking my bank account constantly.
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Every increase felt amazing.
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Every drop felt painful.
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But eventually I started to realize that the problem was never the number itself.
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It was the meaning that I was attaching to the number.
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So here's what I want you to do.
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I want you to open up your banking app right now.
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I want you to look at your balance and just pay attention to what you feel.
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Is it stress?
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Is it relief?
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Is it excitement?
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Is it anxiety?
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Whatever it is, label it, okay?
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Write it down because that reaction you just had tells you more than you think.
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You cannot fix a relationship you have not diagnosed properly.
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And that actually brings me to the third broken belief.
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And this one's quite scary because a lot of what you think is you
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is really just beliefs and patterns that you have picked up over the years.
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Look, let me ask you this.
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If no one on earth could see your life,
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no Instagram, no friends, no strangers,
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no one to impress, would you still buy the same things?
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The same apartment, the same watch,
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the same car, the same clothes?
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Because here's something that I've noticed whilst living in a lot of these large metropolitan cities.
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London, Dubai, New York.
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A lot of financial decisions people make aren't actually financial decisions.
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They're social decisions.
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People tell themselves they're buying something because they deserve it.
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Okay.
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Or because it will motivate them or because they finally want to enjoy life.
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But underneath it, a lot of times it's actually something else.
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Okay.
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They're just performing.
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And it's unfortunate because the audience that they're performing to cares a lot less than they think they do.
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Okay.
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Now, before someone clips this up and says,
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oh, Eman says, don't buy nice things while I'm riding around in a Rolls Royce.
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Look, I'm not saying don't buy nice things.
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I like nice things.
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I like fast cars.
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I like nice watches.
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I like traveling lavishly.
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I don't think there's anything noble and pretending as if money doesn't matter.
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But there is a huge,
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huge difference between buying something because it genuinely improves your life
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or because you genuinely love it compared to buying something
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because you want to signal status or before you prioritize the other things in life that matter.
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Look, let's not even talk about property,
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let alone property for myself.
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I bought my mother a $4 million house cash,
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no loan, no mortgage, nothing cash before I bought my first car.
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So then yeah, later on in my career,
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if I want to buy nice things or buy nice toys, good.
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I deserve it.
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And you deserve it too.
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But just make sure A,
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it's for you and B,
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make sure it's done appropriately.
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And at the right time in your career,
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you need to understand the place it comes from.
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Okay.
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Those are two very different ways to go about your purchases.
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Okay.
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One comes from enjoyment or celebration.
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And the one comes from insecurity
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and insecurity gets expensive very fast i can tell you
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that as i said i made tens of millions of dollars
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before i bought my first car now honestly looking back i
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actually wish i'd bought a car earlier i think like i actually think
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that would have been good for me
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and i probably should have treated myself earlier
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but maybe the reason i didn't was honestly i was just genuinely loving building
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so much okay i enjoyed building i enjoyed seeing the numbers go up okay
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and i think that's simply because when your motivation becomes internal okay you stop needing these external reminders that you're successful.
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And that's what a lot of people miss.
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Okay.
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If you're making your first $100,000,
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your biggest problem shouldn't be whether you should upgrade your car or not.
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Your biggest problems are a lot more boring.
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Okay.
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Renewing that client, hiring that first employee,
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launching a new marketing funnel.
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Trust me, one bad month can still hurt you.
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Okay.
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One client leaving can still hurt you.
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Those are real problems, not trying to impress some people online.
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Okay.
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So here's what I want you to do.
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I want you to open your banking app again and go through your last month's spending.
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Find one purchase and just ask yourself honestly,
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would I have still bought this if no one on earth could have seen it?
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Because that's usually where the truth is hiding.
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Okay, you don't need to cancel everything,
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but name it, call it out,
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write it down, because the moment you can label the pattern,
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you are already in the process of breaking it.
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And that brings me to the fourth broken belief.
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And this one gets interesting because on the surface, it actually looks responsible.
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It's the belief that you tell your grandma over dinner and she immediately nods and says,
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good, better safe than sorry.
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And I promise there's an actual point I'm trying to make.
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So let me ask you this.
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How many decisions in your life right now are being made because you're trying to avoid losing rather than trying to win?
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Think about it.
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Okay.
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People stay in jobs they hate because it feels safe,
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because it comes with health insurance,
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because their parents told them that stability matters.
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Because look, I already spent four years on getting a degree and then they don't start their own thing because,
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well, you know, what if it doesn't work out?
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They don't post content because they're scared that the people they went to school with might judge them.
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Oh, well, they don't move countries.
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They don't ask that girl out.
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They don't take risks, not because they can,
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but because they are so busy playing defense all the time.
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And look, some defense is good.
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You should wear a seatbelt.
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You should have savings.
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You shouldn't put your net worth into some random crypto coin that some guy on Twitter told you about.
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Okay, look, I'm not saying be reckless,
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but I did realize something quite early on.
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No one builds an extraordinary life by only trying not to lose.
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Okay, it doesn't work because when you're constantly playing defense,
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your brain starts optimizing for comfort instead of opportunity.
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You stop asking what's the upside and you start asking what's the least painful option?
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Those are very different questions.
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Look, when I moved my base to Dubai six years ago,
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people thought I was insane.
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When I started YouTube 11 years ago,
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people thought I was insane.
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When I dropped out of school at the age of 17,
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people thought I was insane.
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If I had spent my entire life trying to remove all the risks before making a move,
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I would probably still be sat twiddling my thumbs waiting for permission.
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The people you look up to, they're not fearless, okay?
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I have met more than enough successful people to tell you that.
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These people still feel uncertainty.
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They still doubt themselves.
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They still get anxious.
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The difference is they don't allow that fear to make the final decision because at some point,
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you realize something.
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Playing defense only protects what you already have.
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Playing offense is what actually changes your life.
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And the worst part is that people spend their entire lives protecting a life that they don't even like.
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And that brings us onto the fifth and final belief.
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And I wanted to end on this one because out of everything that we've covered today,
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this is the one that's probably cost people the most.
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And look, we all know how the saying goes, time is money.
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Look, I need you to be really honest with yourself for a second.
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How many times in the last year have you convinced yourself
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that But this next thing was going to be the thing to finally change your life.
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The new business model you saw on YouTube,
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that new AI tool that someone on TikTok said was replacing their entire company.
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The new guy on Twitter posting a screenshot saying he made $83,000 in 14 days doing something that you've never heard of before.
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Look every few weeks, it's something different.
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And every time you see it,
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your brain lights up like it's a casino machine.
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This is it.
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This is what I've been missing.
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Everything changes now.
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So you start learning more about it.
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You update your Instagram bio.
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You tell three of your friends that you're starting something new.
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And then a week later you quit.
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And by the way, it's not because you actually gave effort and it didn't work out.
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It's because the excitement wore off and the reality showed up because here's the truth that no one wants to hear.
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Making money honestly is painfully, painfully repetitive.
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It's boring.
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Okay.
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It's answering the same emails,
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fixing the same problems, having the same conversations,
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doing the same thing over and over again,
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long after the dopamine disappears.
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Look, when I first started my agency,
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I was doing outreach sitting in school,
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literally sitting in class with my laptop open while my teacher was talking.
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During lunch, I wasn't hanging out with anyone.
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OK, I would sit there reading business books or doing more outreach.
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Then I'd get home and edit videos for my agency clients.
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It took me hours and hours and hours.
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OK, no flashy TikTok montages,
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no fancy Lamborghini in my car,
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no watch me make 100K in seven days just doing the same boring shit over
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and over again for months before anything meaningful happened.
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And that's what most people miss.
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They think they have a business model problem.
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Most of the time they don't.
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They have an attention problem
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because the person who sticks to one proven thing for five years will absolutely destroy the person who switches every six months,
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every single time.
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And here's the thing.
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It's not because they're smarter,
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not because they found some sort of magical opportunity,
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but because eventually repetition turns into skill and skill eventually starts looking like talent from the outside.
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So look, before you click off this video,
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I want you to promise me one thing.
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Figure out which one of these five beliefs is costing you the most right now.
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Not all five, just one.
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Because most people watch a video like this and think, that was interesting.
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And then they do absolutely nothing differently tomorrow.
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Please do not do that.
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Pick the one that hits you the hardest
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and pay attention to it for the next week because once you become aware of these things,
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you start noticing them everywhere.
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You notice yourself trying to solve problems that don't exist yet.
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You notice yourself chasing the next shiny opportunity.
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You notice yourself making decisions that don't even make sense.
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And eventually you realize something.
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You never really had a capability problem.
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You had a settings problem.
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That ECU example I gave you, that's you.
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Okay, you were just running on terrible software.
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Now, look, I know today's video leaned very heavy into mindset
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and psychology and a lot less into like actual practical money-making advice.
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So I know you're sat there thinking, all right, cool.
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Well, how do I actually start this?
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Well, I strongly suggest you go check the link in the description.
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there's a free YouTube video I created earlier in the year.
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It's probably my most popular video this year
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and it breaks down a bunch of different business models
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and it compares the pros and cons to each
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and it will show you based on your personality type which one makes sense for you to move forward with.
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I strongly recommend you go check out that YouTube video after this.
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It should point you in the right direction and with
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that being said as always I'm watching from afar and I'm rooting for you.
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