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Hello, everyone, and welcome back to Enjoy English Talks, where every conversation helps you learn.
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I'm Judy.
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Hello, Judy.
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Hello, everyone.
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I'm Jake.
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How are you today, Judy?
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I'm feeling peaceful today.
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Thank you.
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I made some green tea this morning and sat by the window.
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Very quiet, very nice.
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And you, Jake?
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I'm not great today, Judy.
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Oh, no. What happened?
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I had so many things to do this week.
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Work, English practice, cleaning my apartment, calling my sister.
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My head feels full, like a computer with too many programs open.
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Too many programs open.
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I love that picture, Jake.
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Your brain is like a slow computer.
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Yes, and right now my computer needs to restart.
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I think many of our listeners feel the same way sometimes.
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really it's not just me it's not just you
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and that's actually our topic today oh what are we talking about today we're talking about stress s-t-r-e-s-s stress
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and how to manage it manage means to handle something to
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deal with it stress that's a perfect topic for me today i really need this.
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Okay, now let's start.
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So, Jake, tell me, what does stress feel like for you?
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Um, it feels like pressure, like something is pushing on my chest my head hurts i can't think clearly
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and i feel tired
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but i can't sleep that's a very good description stress is the feeling you get
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when there's too much to do or when something is difficult
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or when you're worried about something i feel it almost every week is
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that normal very normal everyone feels stress students teachers parents workers everyone
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but here's something important i want you to remember stress isn't your enemy not my enemy
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but it feels terrible judy i know it does
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but stress is actually a signal s-i-g-n-a-l a signal is a
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message a sign like a red light on your car the
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red light isn't the problem it's telling you something needs attention So, stress is like a red light in my brain?
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Exactly.
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Stress doesn't mean you're weak.
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Stress doesn't mean you're failing.
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It means something in your life needs your attention.
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And today, I want to show you three secrets to listen to that signal.
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Three ways to manage your stress.
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Three secrets?
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I need all of them.
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But first, let me show you something.
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Stress happens in many parts of life.
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Let me give you three examples, and you'll see what I mean.
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Okay, I'm ready.
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Our first example, English learning.
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Oh, I know this one very well.
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Imagine this.
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You study English all week.
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You learn new words, you practice grammar, you listen to podcasts.
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Then, on Friday, someone speaks to you in English and you can't understand them.
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That happens to me all the time.
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I study so hard.
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And then in real life, my brain just stops.
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The words disappear.
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And how does that make you feel?
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Stressed.
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Frustrated.
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I want to throw my notebook in the trash and say, I quit.
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That feeling is real.
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But here's what stress is really telling you.
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It's saying you care about this.
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English is important to you.
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If you didn't care, you wouldn't feel stressed at all.
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I never thought about it that way.
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So stress means I care?
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Yes.
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The problem isn't the stress.
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The problem is when you listen to stress and say, I'm not good enough.
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I should quit.
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That's the wrong answer.
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The right answer is I need to try a different way.
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I need to be patient with myself.
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A different way.
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Not quit. Be patient.
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Never quit.
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Stress isn't your enemy.
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Stress is your teacher.
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Stress is my teacher.
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Like you, Judy.
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Now, let me talk about exercise.
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Exercise makes me stress too?
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Sometimes, yes.
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Imagine you start running.
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Your first week, you run one kilometer.
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It feels great.
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Your second week, you run two.
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Still good.
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Your third week, you try five kilometers.
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Five?
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That's too much too fast.
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Exactly.
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After three kilometers, your legs hurt, your chest burns, you feel terrible, and you think, I'm not a runner, my body isn't strong enough.
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My body says those things all the time.
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Stop, you're too slow.
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But what is your body really saying?
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It's saying, slow down, take care of me, you're going too fast.
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That's the signal.
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Slow down.
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That's the signal.
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Yes.
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Your body isn't telling you to stop forever.
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It's telling you to rest, to recover.
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Recover means to get your strength back.
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R-E-C-O-V-E-R.
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Recover.
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So when my body is stressed from exercise, I should listen, not push harder.
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Right.
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Rest isn't laziness.
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Rest is part of growing stronger.
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Even the best runners in the world take rest days.
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Stress isn't your enemy, even in exercise.
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And our third example, daily life.
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Ah, this is the big one for me.
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Imagine this.
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It's Sunday evening.
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You look around your apartment, dirty dishes in the kitchen, laundry on the floor, emails you haven't answered, and tomorrow is Monday.
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That's my apartment right now.
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I can see it in my mind.
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And what do you feel?
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Overwhelmed.
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There's too much.
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I can't handle it.
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Overwhelmed.
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O-V-E-R-W-H-E-L-M-E-D.
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Overwhelmed.
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It means there's too much and you feel like you can't do it all.
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When you feel overwhelmed, what do you do, Jake?
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Nothing.
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My brain freezes.
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I sit on the sofa and watch my phone for two hours, and then I feel even worse.
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Because stress is sending you a signal.
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It's saying, pick one thing.
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Start small.
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You don't need to do everything.
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But instead, you run away.
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You hide on the sofa.
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The sofa is very good at hiding me.
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It is.
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But it doesn't solve anything.
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The dishes are still there when you stand up.
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They never wash themselves.
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I've waited.
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They don't.
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So stress isn't the problem.
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Ignoring stress is the problem.
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Stress isn't your enemy.
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Running away from it, that's the real enemy.
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Okay, I understand the idea now.
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Stress is a signal.
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I need to listen. But how?
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What do I actually do when I feel stressed?
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Great question.
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Let me share three secrets with you.
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Three secrets.
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Tell me everything, Judy.
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Our first secret, stop and breathe.
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Stop and breathe?
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That sounds too simple.
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It sounds simple, but most people don't do it.
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When you feel stressed, your body goes fast, your heart beats fast, your thoughts go fast, everything speeds up.
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That's true.
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When I'm stressed, my brain feels like a race car with no brakes.
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And what happens when a car goes too fast with no brakes?
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It crashes.
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Right.
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So you need to slow down.
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And the fastest way to slow down is breathing.
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Breathe.
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B-R-E-A-T-H-E.
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Breathe.
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Take a deep breath in through your nose.
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Hold it for three seconds.
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Then breathe out slowly through your mouth.
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In through the nose.
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Hold.
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Out through the mouth.
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Let's try it together.
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Ready?
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Breathe in.
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One, two, three, four.
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Hold.
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One, two, three.
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And breathe out slowly.
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One, two, three, four, five.
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Wow.
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I actually feel a little calmer already.
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My shoulders went down.
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See?
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Your body responded.
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That's because breathing sends a message to your brain.
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It says, you're safe.
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Slow down.
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Everything is okay.
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My brain listens to my breathing?
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Yes.
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When you breathe slowly, your brain thinks, oh, we're safe.
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No danger here.
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And it calms down.
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Calm.
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C-A-L-M.
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Calm.
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It means quiet and peaceful.
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No worry.
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So my body can tell my brain to relax.
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Exactly.
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Your body and your brain are connected.
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Fast breathing tells your brain, danger, run.
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Slow breathing tells your brain, we're safe.
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Everything is fine.
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You control the message.
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I control the message.
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That's powerful.
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It is.
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So next time you feel stressed, before you do anything, just breathe.
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Five deep breaths.
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That's all you need.
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You can do it anywhere.
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At your desk, on the bus, in bed.
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Nobody even needs to know.
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Five breaths before I react.
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I can do that.
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It's free and it takes 30 seconds.
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Here comes our next secret.
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Move your body.
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Move?
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Like go to the gym?
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No, not big exercise.
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Small movement.
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When you're stressed, your body stores that stress inside.
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Your shoulders go up, your neck gets tight, your hands squeeze.
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All that tension sits in your muscles.
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That's why my shoulders hurt when I'm stressed.
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I always thought I slept wrong.
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Sometimes it's stress, so you need to move.
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Stand up from your chair, stretch your arms above your head, roll your neck slowly in a circle, or take a short walk outside.
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Even five minutes can change everything.
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Just five minutes outside?
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Just five.
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Walk around the block.
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Look at the sky.
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Feel the air on your face.
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When you move, your brain makes tiny helpers, little chemicals that make you feel better.
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Tiny helpers in my brain.
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I like that picture.
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You don't need to run a marathon.
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Just move.
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Go to the kitchen, make some tea, water your plants, walk to the window and look outside.
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Any movement is good movement.
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So if I'm stressed at my desk, I should just stand up, walk around?
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Yes.
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Change your place.
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Change your view.
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Your stress will start to go down.
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I promise.
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Movement is medicine.
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Free medicine.
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Beautiful words, Jake.
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And you know what?
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It works for English stress, too.
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If you're stressed about a test or a conversation, stand up, walk around the room, shake your hands, then sit down and try again.
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Your brain works better after movement.
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So movement helps my body and my brain?
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Both.
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Always both.
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Okay.
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Breathe and move.
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Two secrets down.
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What's the last one?
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And our last secret?
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Talk about it talk to who to anyone you trust a
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friend a family member your sister Anna even your dog Max
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Max is a great listener he never interrupts me I'm sure he is
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but here's why talking helps
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when stress lives only inside your head it gets bigger it grows
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and grows like a dark cloud that gets heavier
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and heavier every hour a dark cloud in my head that's exactly how it feels
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but when you open your mouth
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and say i'm stressed something amazing happens the cloud gets smaller
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just by saying the words out loud really just saying i'm stressed helps yes
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because words give feelings a shape
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when stress is only in your head it has no shape it's everywhere it's everything
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but when you say it out loud it becomes one clear thing
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and one clear thing is much easier to handle than a big dark cloud.
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So I don't need to solve the problem, I just need to say it?
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Sometimes, yes.
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You can say, I'm tired, or I have too much to do, or I'm worried.
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That's enough.
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You don't always need an answer.
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Sometimes you just need to be heard.
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That makes me feel better already.
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Actually, I want to share something.
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Last month, I called my sister, Anna.
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I told her, Anna, I'm so tired.
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I have too much to do.
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I feel like I can't keep up.
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And what did she say?
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She said, me too, Jake.
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And we both started laughing.
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Just knowing she felt the same way made my cloud smaller, much smaller.
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That's a perfect example.
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You didn't solve any problems on that call, but you felt lighter.
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Much lighter.
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The next morning I woke up and cleaned my whole apartment just because the cloud was gone.
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That's the power of talking
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and our listeners are doing something similar right now they're listening to us talk about stress
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and that's a kind of sharing too yes listeners you're not
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alone we all feel stressed sometimes now let me speak to our listeners directly yes this part is for you
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if you're listening right now
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and you feel stressed i want you to know something it's
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okay stress doesn't mean you're failing stress means you're living you're trying you're growing and
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that takes courage a lot of courage every time you press
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play on this podcast you're taking care of yourself you're learning you're growing that's not stressful that's beautiful
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and even when it feels hard you're still here
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that means something it means a lot so don't fight your stress don't run from it Listen to it.
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It's a signal.
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It's trying to help you.
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Stress isn't your enemy.
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Breathe.
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Move.
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Talk.
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Three simple things.
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You don't need to do all three at once.
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Pick one.
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Try it today.
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Just one.
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One is enough to start.
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You're stronger than you think, and you're doing better than you know.
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We believe in you.
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Okay.
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Let's review.
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Yes.
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Let's see what we learned.
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Today we talked about stress and how to manage it.
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Yes, stress is a signal, not our enemy.
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It tells us something needs attention.
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Good.
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And we learned three secrets.
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First, stop and breathe, then move your body, and finally, talk about it.
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Five breaths or a short walk can make a difference.
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Perfect.
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You remembered everything.
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I learned a lot today.
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And I loved sharing this with you.
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Well, that's all the time we have for today.
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Thank you so much for listening to Enjoy English Talks.
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Yes, thank you everyone.
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It was fun.
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Please subscribe to enjoy English talks.
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Give this episode a like.
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And share it with a friend.
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Now, we have a question for you today.
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Yes, please leave a comment below.
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Tell us, what do you do when you feel stressed?
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Do you breathe, take a walk, or talk to someone?
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Share one thing that helps you feel calm.
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We would love to read your answers.
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See you next time.
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Bye everyone.
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Keep practicing your English.
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Cảnh Nhìn Thực Tế
Trong video này, chúng ta thấy một cuộc đối thoại giữa hai nhân vật, Judy và Jake, nói về cảm giác căng thẳng mà nhiều người thường trải qua. Jake chia sẻ rằng anh ấy cảm thấy áp lực và mệt mỏi vì quá nhiều công việc và trách nhiệm. Judy thì nhẹ nhàng hơn, nhưng cô ấy cũng nhận ra rằng căng thẳng là điều bình thường mà ai cũng phải đối mặt. Cuộc trò chuyện này không chỉ giúp người học tiếng Anh nhận thức rõ hơn về cảm xúc của mình mà còn cung cấp những phương pháp hữu ích để quản lý căng thẳng.
Cụm Từ Hữu Ích & Các Cụm Từ Liên Quan
- Feel stressed: cảm thấy căng thẳng
- Handle stress: xử lý căng thẳng
- Too much to do: quá nhiều việc phải làm
- Take a break: nghỉ ngơi một chút
- Calm down: bình tĩnh lại
Việc nắm vững những cụm từ này sẽ giúp bạn giao tiếp tự tin hơn khi nói về cảm xúc của mình. Hãy thử sử dụng chúng trong các tình huống thực tế hoặc trong các cuộc trò chuyện hàng ngày.
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Bây giờ, hãy thực hiện một thử thách nhỏ để luyện nói tiếng Anh. Chọn một đoạn ngắn trong video mà bạn cảm thấy ấn tượng. Nghe kỹ và cố gắng bắt chước cách phát âm, ngữ điệu và nhấn nhá của nhân vật. Bạn có thể sử dụng phương pháp shadowing tiếng Anh, nơi bạn lặp lại từng câu ngay sau khi nghe để cải thiện khả năng phát âm tiếng Anh chuẩn và tự tin hơn khi giao tiếp. Hãy ghi âm lại giọng nói của bạn và so sánh với video để nhận diện sự khác biệt và cải thiện dần dần.
Đừng quên, việc luyện nói tiếng Anh là một quá trình và cần kiên nhẫn. Hãy bắt đầu ngay hôm nay với những gì bạn học được từ cuộc trò chuyện này và nhớ rằng, mọi người đều cảm thấy căng thẳng. Quan trọng là cách bạn quản lý nó và học hỏi từ nó!
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