跟读练习: 7 Types of Toxic Crushes You Should Avoid - 通过YouTube学习英语口语
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Do you get butterflies every time you see or even think about your crush,
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and you can't help hoping they like you back?
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When you have feelings for someone,
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it's easy to see everything they do in a positive light.
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However, not every person you crush on is someone you should consider getting into a relationship with.
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So on that note, here are 7 types of crushes you should avoid avoid.
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1. The ghoster.
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Did you and your crush talk frequently once upon a time,
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but now they've just disappeared?
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Does your crush leave you on read or avoid you whenever you have a chance to see each other in person?
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They may have caught feelings or found out you had a crush on them,
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and instead of rejecting or reciprocating the feelings,
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they've decided to ghost you.
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It might be because they feel uncomfortable rejecting people or because they have a fear of commitment,
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but whatever their reason, Then you deserve someone who will consider your feelings instead of taking the easy way out.
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2. The Bragger Is your crush bragging to their friends that you have a crush on them?
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If your crush is stringing you along with false hope,
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it might be more for the benefit of their ego rather than their heart.
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Perhaps they found out about your crush indirectly
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and don't see any harm in pretending they don't know about your crush on them.
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Everyone likes being liked, so they keep you beside them even when they don't reciprocate your feelings.
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They can't let you go because you make them feel good about themselves,
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but it's not about you, it's about them.
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And this isn't very emotionally mature of them because it can lead to a lot of emotional anguish for you.
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Three, the humiliator.
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Does your crush take jokes a little too far?
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To the point where people become visibly upset?
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Do they refuse to apologize or acknowledge and change their behaviors?
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And this is another red flag that you should keep your eye out for.
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If your crush humiliates other people to make themselves look better,
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they may have self-esteem or trust issues.
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And you could become a target for these issues in a relationship with them.
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Four, the bully.
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Is your crush rude to staff and strangers,
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belittles you or others, and isn't nice to your friends?
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While some people are attracted to the bad guy or girl archetype,
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crushing on someone who is mean or abusive to others will only cause you pain.
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Even if your crush is nice to you,
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their poor treatment of others is a major red flag,
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because everyone deserves to be treated with love and respect,
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and there is no guarantee that they won't ever treat you in the same way they treat others.
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Five, the cheater.
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Have multiple people, especially your crush's exes,
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told you your crush has cheated on people before?
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If so, So it might be a good idea to let the crush fizzle out.
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A study published in the academic journal,
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Archives of Sexual Behavior, found
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that a person who had cheated on a former partner sexually
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was three times more likely to cheat again in their next relationship than someone who had never cheated.
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Repeated cheating is a sign of commitment issues
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that your crush needs to work through before they can commit to a successful relationship.
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And you deserve someone who will respect you and remain faithful to your relationship terms.
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6. The user.
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Does your crush ask you or others for favors without giving anything in return?
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If they suspect you like them,
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they may ask you for more favors because they know you'll see it as an opportunity to get closer to them.
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However, while they always make promises in return,
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they never seem to make good on them.
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If you catch yourself falling over and over for people who use you,
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it might be a good idea to take a break from relationships.
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Therapy to help break free from these patterns can also be helpful.
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And seven, the isolator.
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Does your crush often ask you to ditch the plans you've made with other people
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and tries to turn you against your friends or family?
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If so, this is a huge red flag.
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Falling for an isolator could lead to a psychologically abusive relationship.
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So if you see signs that your crush is trying to control who you talk to and what you do,
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you should stop pursuing a relationship with them.
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While it can be hard to get over your feelings for someone, it's sometimes necessary.
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When your crush doesn't reciprocate your feelings,
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acts emotionally immature, or shows red flags that would make a relationship with them difficult or abusive,
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it's better to move on.
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Although crushing on someone can be fun,
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it shouldn't be disruptive to your own physical or mental health.
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Have you noticed these signs in your crush or someone you know?
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Do you think these red flags can be easily visible to someone who has a crush?
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Let us know in the comments below.
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Thanks for watching.
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关键词汇与短语
- 暗恋 (Crush) - 对某个特定人的强烈兴趣或吸引。
- 幽灵者 (Ghoster) - 轻易消失以避免面对感情的人。
- 吹牛者 (Bragger) - 以自我为中心，总是谈论自己的成就。
- 羞辱者 (Humiliator) - 通过讽刺或嘲笑他人来显示自己的优越感。
- 霸凌者 (Bully) - 对他人表现出粗鲁或贬低的态度。
- 出轨者 (Cheater) - 在关系中不忠实的人。
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