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Hey there Psych2Goers!
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Do you get butterflies every time you see or even think about your crush,
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and you can't help hoping they like you back?
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When you have feelings for someone,
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it's easy to see everything they do in a positive light.
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However, not every person you crush on is someone you should consider getting into a relationship with.
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So on that note, here are 7 types of crushes you should avoid avoid.
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1. The ghoster.
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Did you and your crush talk frequently once upon a time,
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but now they've just disappeared?
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Does your crush leave you on read or avoid you whenever you have a chance to see each other in person?
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They may have caught feelings or found out you had a crush on them,
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and instead of rejecting or reciprocating the feelings,
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they've decided to ghost you.
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It might be because they feel uncomfortable rejecting people or because they have a fear of commitment,
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but whatever their reason, Then you deserve someone who will consider your feelings instead of taking the easy way out.
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2. The Bragger Is your crush bragging to their friends that you have a crush on them?
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If your crush is stringing you along with false hope,
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it might be more for the benefit of their ego rather than their heart.
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Perhaps they found out about your crush indirectly
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and don't see any harm in pretending they don't know about your crush on them.
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Everyone likes being liked, so they keep you beside them even when they don't reciprocate your feelings.
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They can't let you go because you make them feel good about themselves,
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but it's not about you, it's about them.
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And this isn't very emotionally mature of them because it can lead to a lot of emotional anguish for you.
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Three, the humiliator.
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Does your crush take jokes a little too far?
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To the point where people become visibly upset?
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Do they refuse to apologize or acknowledge and change their behaviors?
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And this is another red flag that you should keep your eye out for.
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If your crush humiliates other people to make themselves look better,
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they may have self-esteem or trust issues.
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And you could become a target for these issues in a relationship with them.
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Four, the bully.
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Is your crush rude to staff and strangers,
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belittles you or others, and isn't nice to your friends?
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While some people are attracted to the bad guy or girl archetype,
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crushing on someone who is mean or abusive to others will only cause you pain.
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Even if your crush is nice to you,
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their poor treatment of others is a major red flag,
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because everyone deserves to be treated with love and respect,
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and there is no guarantee that they won't ever treat you in the same way they treat others.
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Five, the cheater.
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Have multiple people, especially your crush's exes,
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told you your crush has cheated on people before?
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If so, So it might be a good idea to let the crush fizzle out.
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A study published in the academic journal,
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Archives of Sexual Behavior, found
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that a person who had cheated on a former partner sexually
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was three times more likely to cheat again in their next relationship than someone who had never cheated.
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Repeated cheating is a sign of commitment issues
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that your crush needs to work through before they can commit to a successful relationship.
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And you deserve someone who will respect you and remain faithful to your relationship terms.
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6. The user.
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Does your crush ask you or others for favors without giving anything in return?
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If they suspect you like them,
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they may ask you for more favors because they know you'll see it as an opportunity to get closer to them.
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However, while they always make promises in return,
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they never seem to make good on them.
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If you catch yourself falling over and over for people who use you,
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it might be a good idea to take a break from relationships.
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Therapy to help break free from these patterns can also be helpful.
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And seven, the isolator.
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Does your crush often ask you to ditch the plans you've made with other people
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and tries to turn you against your friends or family?
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If so, this is a huge red flag.
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Falling for an isolator could lead to a psychologically abusive relationship.
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So if you see signs that your crush is trying to control who you talk to and what you do,
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you should stop pursuing a relationship with them.
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While it can be hard to get over your feelings for someone, it's sometimes necessary.
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When your crush doesn't reciprocate your feelings,
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acts emotionally immature, or shows red flags that would make a relationship with them difficult or abusive,
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it's better to move on.
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Although crushing on someone can be fun,
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it shouldn't be disruptive to your own physical or mental health.
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Have you noticed these signs in your crush or someone you know?
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Do you think these red flags can be easily visible to someone who has a crush?
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Let us know in the comments below.
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Also remember to like and share this video with those you think might benefit from it.
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Subscribe to Psych2Go for more content.
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Thanks for watching.
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I'll see you in the next one.

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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon

Cette leçon d’expression orale de niveau B2 s’appuie sur la vidéo « 7 Types of Toxic Crushes You Should Avoid ». Les mots qui reviennent le plus souvent : crush, relationship, feelings, flag. Cette vidéo contient 82 phrases et 885 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 4:38. Le locuteur parle vite, environ 191 mots par minute : attendez-vous à des liaisons et à des sons réduits. 85 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais ; le reste mérite d’être vu avant de commencer. 13 de ses 82 phrases sont des questions : un bon entraînement pour l’intonation interrogative et les réponses courtes.

Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo

Les 15 mots les plus avancés de la vidéo, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :

MotPrononciationSens
crush verbe/kɹʌʃ/écraser, écrabouiller
cheat verbe/ˈt͡ʃiːt/tricher
reciprocate verbe/ɹɪˈsɪpɹəˌkeɪt/donner en retour, réciproquer
anguish nom/ˈæŋ.ɡwɪʃ/angoisse de la mort, affres de la mort
archetype nom/ˈɑɹkɪtaɪp/archétype
belittle verbe/bɪˈlɪt.əl/déprécier, rabaisser
cheater nom/ˈt͡ʃiːtɚ/menteur, tricheur
disruptive adjectif/dɪsˈɹʌptɪv/perturbant, dérangeant
humiliate verbe/hjuːˈmɪliˌeɪt/humilier
psychologically adverbepsychologiquement
visibly adverbe/ˈvɪz.ə.bli/visiblement
immature adjectif/ɪməˈtjʊə(ɹ)/immature, vert
bully nom/ˈbʊli/brimeur, brute
esteem verbe/ɪˈstiːm/respecter
ditch nom/dɪt͡ʃ/fossé, tranchée

Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez

MotSens
find out verbedécouvrir, savoir
get over verbesurmonter

Des phrases à répéter

Des phrases courtes et complètes de la vidéo, à réutiliser dans la conversation de tous les jours :

  • Does your crush take jokes a little too far?
  • Have you noticed these signs in your crush or someone you know?
  • I'll see you in the next one.

La grammaire de cette vidéo

Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :

StructureDans la vidéo
Propositions relatives who / which + proposition — une précision sur une personne ou une chosesomeone who will · someone who is · person who had
Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenantthey've just disappeared · they've decided · has cheated
Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le faitbeing liked · are attracted · be treated

Prononciation à surveiller

Le locuteur utilise 15 contractions et formes réduites, comme don't, can't, isn't. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.

  • Les sons « sh » et « zh »: crush /kɹʌʃ/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, anguish /ˈæŋ.ɡwɪʃ/
  • Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: reciprocate /ɹɪˈsɪpɹəˌkeɪt/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, humiliate /hjuːˈmɪliˌeɪt/, indirectly /ˌɪn.dɪˈɹɛk(t).li/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/

Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :

  • /tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: cheat /ˈt͡ʃiːt/, cheater /ˈt͡ʃiːtɚ/, ditch /dɪt͡ʃ/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, acknowledge /əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/
  • /r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: crush /kɹʌʃ/, reciprocate /ɹɪˈsɪpɹəˌkeɪt/, archetype /ˈɑɹkɪtaɪp/, disruptive /dɪsˈɹʌptɪv/, immature /ɪməˈtjʊə(ɹ)/

Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo

  1. Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
  2. Commencez à la vitesse 0,75×, répétez phrase par phrase, puis revenez à la vitesse normale quand cela devient facile.
  3. Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme crush, cheat, reciprocate.

Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?

Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.

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