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Hey there Psych2Goers!
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Do you get butterflies every time you see or even think about your crush,
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and you can't help hoping they like you back?
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When you have feelings for someone,
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it's easy to see everything they do in a positive light.
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However, not every person you crush on is someone you should consider getting into a relationship with.
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So on that note, here are 7 types of crushes you should avoid avoid.
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1. The ghoster.
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Did you and your crush talk frequently once upon a time,
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but now they've just disappeared?
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Does your crush leave you on read or avoid you whenever you have a chance to see each other in person?
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They may have caught feelings or found out you had a crush on them,
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and instead of rejecting or reciprocating the feelings,
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they've decided to ghost you.
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It might be because they feel uncomfortable rejecting people or because they have a fear of commitment,
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but whatever their reason, Then you deserve someone who will consider your feelings instead of taking the easy way out.
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2. The Bragger Is your crush bragging to their friends that you have a crush on them?
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If your crush is stringing you along with false hope,
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it might be more for the benefit of their ego rather than their heart.
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Perhaps they found out about your crush indirectly
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and don't see any harm in pretending they don't know about your crush on them.
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Everyone likes being liked, so they keep you beside them even when they don't reciprocate your feelings.
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They can't let you go because you make them feel good about themselves,
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but it's not about you, it's about them.
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And this isn't very emotionally mature of them because it can lead to a lot of emotional anguish for you.
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Three, the humiliator.
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Does your crush take jokes a little too far?
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To the point where people become visibly upset?
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Do they refuse to apologize or acknowledge and change their behaviors?
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And this is another red flag that you should keep your eye out for.
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If your crush humiliates other people to make themselves look better,
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they may have self-esteem or trust issues.
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And you could become a target for these issues in a relationship with them.
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Four, the bully.
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Is your crush rude to staff and strangers,
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belittles you or others, and isn't nice to your friends?
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While some people are attracted to the bad guy or girl archetype,
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crushing on someone who is mean or abusive to others will only cause you pain.
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Even if your crush is nice to you,
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their poor treatment of others is a major red flag,
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because everyone deserves to be treated with love and respect,
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and there is no guarantee that they won't ever treat you in the same way they treat others.
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Five, the cheater.
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Have multiple people, especially your crush's exes,
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told you your crush has cheated on people before?
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If so, So it might be a good idea to let the crush fizzle out.
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A study published in the academic journal,
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Archives of Sexual Behavior, found
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that a person who had cheated on a former partner sexually
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was three times more likely to cheat again in their next relationship than someone who had never cheated.
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Repeated cheating is a sign of commitment issues
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that your crush needs to work through before they can commit to a successful relationship.
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And you deserve someone who will respect you and remain faithful to your relationship terms.
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6. The user.
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Does your crush ask you or others for favors without giving anything in return?
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If they suspect you like them,
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they may ask you for more favors because they know you'll see it as an opportunity to get closer to them.
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However, while they always make promises in return,
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they never seem to make good on them.
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If you catch yourself falling over and over for people who use you,
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it might be a good idea to take a break from relationships.
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Therapy to help break free from these patterns can also be helpful.
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And seven, the isolator.
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Does your crush often ask you to ditch the plans you've made with other people
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and tries to turn you against your friends or family?
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If so, this is a huge red flag.
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Falling for an isolator could lead to a psychologically abusive relationship.
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So if you see signs that your crush is trying to control who you talk to and what you do,
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you should stop pursuing a relationship with them.
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While it can be hard to get over your feelings for someone, it's sometimes necessary.
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When your crush doesn't reciprocate your feelings,
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acts emotionally immature, or shows red flags that would make a relationship with them difficult or abusive,
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it's better to move on.
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Although crushing on someone can be fun,
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it shouldn't be disruptive to your own physical or mental health.
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Have you noticed these signs in your crush or someone you know?
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Do you think these red flags can be easily visible to someone who has a crush?
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Let us know in the comments below.
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Also remember to like and share this video with those you think might benefit from it.
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Subscribe to Psych2Go for more content.
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Thanks for watching.
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I'll see you in the next one.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “7 Types of Toxic Crushes You Should Avoid” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: crush, relationship, feelings, flag. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 82 cümle ve 885 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 4:38 sürüyor. Konuşmacı hızlı konuşuyor, dakikada yaklaşık 191 kelime; bu yüzden birbirine bağlanan ve zayıflayan sesler duyacaksınız. Kelimelerin %85’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var. 82 cümlenin 13 tanesi soru; soru tonlaması ve kısa cevaplar için iyi bir alıştırma.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodaki en ileri düzey 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| crush fiil | /kɹʌʃ/ | ezmek |
| cheat fiil | /ˈt͡ʃiːt/ | aldatmak, dolandırmak |
| belittle fiil | /bɪˈlɪt.əl/ | küçümsemek |
| disruptive sıfat | /dɪsˈɹʌptɪv/ | rahatsız edici |
| humiliate fiil | /hjuːˈmɪliˌeɪt/ | aşağılamak, utandırmak |
| psychologically zarf | psikolojik olarak, psikolojikman | |
| bully isim | /ˈbʊli/ | zorba |
| ditch isim | /dɪt͡ʃ/ | hendek |
| butterfly isim | /ˈbʌ.tə(ɹ).flaɪ/ | kelebek |
| archive isim | /ˈɑɹˌkaɪv/ | arşiv |
| subscribe fiil | /səbˈskɹaɪb/ | abone olmak |
| disappear fiil | /dɪsəˈpɪɹ/ | gözden kaybolmak, yok olmak |
| faithful sıfat | /ˈfeɪθ.fl̩/ | sadakatli, sadık |
| apologize fiil | /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/ | özür dilemek |
| uncomfortable sıfat | /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/ | rahatsız |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Anlam |
|---|---|
| find out fiil | anlamak, ortaya çıkarmak |
| get over fiil | üstesinden gelmek, yenmek |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- Does your crush take jokes a little too far?
- Have you noticed these signs in your crush or someone you know?
- I'll see you in the next one.
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgi | someone who will · someone who is · person who had |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | they've just disappeared · they've decided · has cheated |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | being liked · are attracted · be treated |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı don't, can't, isn't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 15 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: crush /kɹʌʃ/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, anguish /ˈæŋ.ɡwɪʃ/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: reciprocate /ɹɪˈsɪpɹəˌkeɪt/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, humiliate /hjuːˈmɪliˌeɪt/, indirectly /ˌɪn.dɪˈɹɛk(t).li/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: crush /kɹʌʃ/, humiliate /hjuːˈmɪliˌeɪt/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; crush, cheat, belittle gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.