跟读练习: How to Secretly Make a Woman Fall in Love | Robert Greene - 通过YouTube学习英语口语
C1
SO HOW DO WE LEARN TO OPEN OURSELVES UP AND BE VULNERABLE
63 句
如果句子过短或过长，请点击 Edit 进行调整。
1
SO HOW DO WE LEARN TO OPEN OURSELVES UP AND BE VULNERABLE
2
TO ALLOW FOR SEDUCTION TO HAPPEN
3
IF SO WE'RE REALLY INTERESTED IN SOMEONE WE'RE LIKE AH WE'RE REALLY WE WANNA START DATING THIS PERSON WE'RE REALLY EXCITED ABOUT THE POTENTIAL BUT WE'RE ALSO DON'T WANNA RUIN IT AND MESS UP
4
YEAH WELL UM IT YOU KNOW EACH RELATIONSHIP IS DIFFERENT YEAH YOU KNOW I I I TALK TO A LOT OF PEOPLE ON THIS VULNERABILITY ISSUE
5
THE GREATEST MISTAKE PEOPLE MAKE IS THEY THEY JUDGE SIMPLY ON APPEARANCES YES AND OF COURSE YOU KNOW WE ALL HAVE S**UAL DESIRE WE HAVE PHYSICAL DESIRES AND OFTEN WE'RE ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE FROM AND
6
AND THERE'S A S**UAL COMPONENT BUT THE CHARACTER OF THAT PERSON DOESN'T MESH WITH US RIGHT YES AND SO THE THE PHYSICAL STUFF DOESN'T LAST THAT LONG
7
IT CAN'T GO ON FOREVER ALTHOUGH IT CAN GO ON FAIRLY WELL IF IF IF YOU CONNECT ON THAT LEVEL BUT IT KIND OF DIES DOWN AT SOME POINT AND THEN YOU'RE CONFRONTED WITH THEIR PSYCHOLOGY
8
THEIR PERSONALITY THEIR CHARACTER YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE YOU HAVE TO THINK CAN I TALK TO THIS PERSON IN FIVE YEARS AND CARRY ON AN INTERESTING CONVERSATION CAN I SIT ACROSS FROM THE TABLE
9
IF THAT IS IF YOU WANT A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP AND YOU KNOW FIND A STIMULATING CONVERSATION WITH THEM YOU KNOW BECAUSE THAT'S THAT'S REALLY WHAT IT ENDS UP BOILING DOWN TO
10
AND SO YOU YOU REALLY WANNA BE ABLE TO ALSO JUDGE THEIR CHARACTER AND IF YOU'RE ABLE TO LOOK INSIDE THE OTHER PERSON A LITTLE BIT AND TO SEE A KIND OF DEEPER CONNECTION BETWEEN YOU
11
I BELIEVE THAT THAT THE S**UAL PART WHICH IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP WILL ACTUALLY BE INTENSIFIED AND HEIGHTENED RIGHT AS OPPOSED TO THE IMMEDIATE KIND OF ANIMAL ATTRACTION THAT WE HAVE TO PEOPLE
12
SO IF YOU DEEPEN YOUR CONNECTION TO THAT PERSON AND LOVE IS INVOLVED WHERE YOU'RE ACTUALLY FEEL A VULNERABILITY TO THEM IN THIS KIND OF BACK AND FORTH ELECTRICAL CHARGE I THINK THE PHYSICAL COMPONENT YOU KNOW
13
THE VALUE OF IT INCREASES RIGHT SO THAT'S THE NO. 1 MISTAKE PEOPLE MAKE YOU KNOW UM IS IT IS IT DO PEOPLE HAVE S** TOO EARLY
14
WELL I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON NECESSARILY WITH YOUNG PEOPLE RIGHT NOW I KNOW THE HOOKUP CULTURE IS STILL PRETTY STRONG AND YOU KNOW GUYS ARE WATCHING A LOT OF PORN AND SO YOU KNOW
15
THAT'S PROBABLY A TENDENCY AND IN THE TRADITIONALLY AND THINGS HAVE CHANGED IT WAS THE WOMAN WHO HAD MORE TO LOSE
16
COME BY BECOMING PREGNANT WHO TRIED TO KEEP THE S** AT BAY FOR AT LEAST SEVERAL WEEKS OR MONTHS OR OR LONGER AND THAT'S KIND OF BEEN LOST BUT YEAH I THINK UM
17
THE FACT THAT THE FALLING IN LOVE PROCESS GENERALLY TAKES TIME RIGHT I MEAN THAT WE DO HAVE LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT AND IT IS A REAL PHENOMENON
18
AND I AND I'VE HAD IT MYSELF REALLY YEAH BUT UM
19
THE IDEA SO THERE'S A FAMOUS FRENCH WRITER NAMED STENDHAL WHO WROTE A GREAT BOOK CALLED ON LOVE ONE OF THE GREATEST BOOKS WRITTEN ABOUT LOVE
20
IT WAS IN THE 19 EARLY 19TH CENTURY AND HE COMPARED TO FALLING IN LOVE TO WHAT HE CALLED CRYSTALLIZATION AND IT'S BASED ON THIS THING WHERE YOU WOULD THROW A
21
A PIECE OF WOOD INTO THIS MINE IN IN GERMANY SOMEWHERE AT SALZBURG AND THEN YOU WOULD PULL IT OUT LIKE A WEEK LATER AND IT WOULD BE FILLED WITH ALL OF THESE BRILLIANT CRYSTALS
22
AND HE COMPARED THAT TO THE PROCESS OF FALLING IN LOVE THE PERSON IS JUST WHO THEY ARE THEY'RE LIKE A A A A TRUNK OF A TREE BUT YOUR MIND KIND OF PUTS ALL THESE QUALITIES ON THEM
23
CRYSTALLIZES THEM INTO SOME KIND OF IDEAL FIGURE RIGHT AND SO THAT MENTAL PROCESS TAKES TIME RIGHT IT REQUIRES ALSO SOME DISTANCE AND SOME FANTASIZING
24
YOU KNOW SORT OF BASIC ELEMENTS OF HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY SO IF WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY DISTANCE
25
WELL LIKE DON'T SPEND ALL YOUR TIME WITH THE PERSON IN THE FIRST YEAH AND IF AND IF IF YOU'RE HAVING S** RIGHT AWAY IT'S IT'S TOO CLOSE IT'S TOO INTIMATE IT'S TOO IT'S TOO EARLY TO BE ABLE TO HAVE GO THROUGH THAT PROCESS RIGHT
26
MM HMM AND OFTEN YOU KNOW THERE'S USUALLY A LET DOWN AFTER THE AFTER THAT INITIAL S**UAL ENCOUNTER IF YOU HAVE IT TOO EARLY RIGHT WHERE AS OPPOSED TO LETTING TIME GO BY
27
AND LETTING THE OTHER PERSON BEGIN TO THINK ABOUT YOU AND FANTASIZE ABOUT YOU AND IN THEIR MIND SORT OF IMAGINE SOME INTERESTING QUALITIES ABOUT YOU
28
AND FASCINATE THEM WHICH IS WHAT HE CALLS THIS CRYSTALLIZATION PROCESS I MEAN LITERALLY THINK OF IT THAT WAY THAT YOU'RE YOU'RE HAVING A YOU'RE YOU'RE IN IN THEIR MIND
29
THEY'RE KIND OF FORMING THE SORT OF IDEAL CRYSTALLIZED UM IMAGE OF YOU RIGHT AND IT TAKES TIME AND IT TAKES SOME ABSENCE IT TAKES THE ABILITY TO SAY
30
YOU KNOW YOU'RE NOT IN THEIR FACE ALL THE TIME YOU YOU DISAPPEAR FOR A COUPLE DAYS A COUPLE WEEKS OR WHATEVER NOT A WEEKS BUT A FEW DAYS YOU LET THEM THINK ABOUT YOU AND YOU LET THAT KIND OF SPELL
31
BECAUSE SEDUCTION AND LOVE IS KIND OF A SPELL THAT YOU'RE CASTING RIGHT AND THERE'S AN ART TO IT AND SO THE MISTAKE PEOPLE HAVE IS THAT THEY'RE IN TOO MUCH OF A HURRY RIGHT
32
TOO MUCH OF A HURRY TO WHAT HAVE S** TO FALL IN LOVE TO YEAH OR TO HAVE LIKE A A REALLY YOU KNOW INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP OR OR TO GET MARRIED OR WHATEVER IT IS
33
IN GENERAL IN OUR CULTURE PEOPLE ARE TOO MUCH OF A HURRY THEY'RE TOO MUCH OF A HURRY TO GET MAKE MONEY TOO MUCH IN A HURRY TO GET ATTENTION THAT ALSO INVOLVES IN YOU KNOW IN IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT RIGHT
34
SO WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SEDUCTION AND LOVE
35
WELL I MAINTAIN THAT THE PROCESS OF SEDUCING IS MAKING THE OTHER PERSON FALL IN LOVE RIGHT THE PROCESS OF SEDUCING IS GETTING THE OTHER PERSON TO FALL IN LOVE
36
HUH COULD YOU COULD YOU COULD SOMEONE YEAH COULD SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITHOUT BEING SEDUCED
37
WITHOUT SEDUCING THEM NO
38
EVEN IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT THERE COULD BE LIKE A MOMENT OF SEDUCTION THAT TURNS INTO THAT OR HOW DOES THAT WORK WELL EVEN IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT WHICH I SAY I'VE KIND OF MAYBE EXPERIENCED
39
IT DOESN'T NECESSARILY LEAD TO SOMETHING RIGHT YOU STILL HAVE TO GO THROUGH A PROCESS WHERE THE OTHER PERSON'S CHARACTER THAT YOU START UM IDEALIZING AND ROMANTICIZING AND THINKING ABOUT THEM
40
YOU KNOW EVEN EVEN THAT IMMEDIATE ATTRACTION THERE IS STILL THE SEDUCTION PROCESS THAT HAS TO GO ON SURE SURE RIGHT AND SO YOU KNOW I TRY IN THE ART OF SEDUCTION I MAKE THE POINT THAT POLITICAL SEDUCTION
41
MARKETING SEDUCTIONS SOCIAL SEDUCTIONS BECAUSE IN YOUR OFFICE YOU'RE CONTINUALLY SEDUCING IT'S THE SAME PROCESS AND IT'S GETTING YOUR GETTING THE OTHER PERSON TO THINK ABOUT YOU
42
AND GETTING THEM TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR PRODUCT WITH YOUR IDEA WITH YOUR POLITICAL PLATFORM OR WHATEVER IT IS AND THAT PROCESS OF INTERNALIZING THAT OTHER PERSON
43
OF HAVING THEIR PRESENCE THEIR THEIR THEIR SPIRIT OR WHATEVER INSIDE YOU INHABIT YOU AND THEN AND YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT THEM A LOT IS A PROCESS OF FALLING IN LOVE RIGHT
44
SO IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THERE AREN'T SEDUCTIONS WHERE YOU'RE SEDUCING THE OTHER PERSON AND THEN IT'S OVER AFTER A MONTH RIGHT IT DOESN'T NECESSARILY MEAN
45
THAT IT'S GOING TO LEAD TO A RELATIONSHIP
46
BUT I DON'T SO I I SEPARATE SEDUCTION FROM JUST HAVING S** YES SO IF YOU GO TO A BAR AND YOU YOU PICK UP A WOMAN IN THE BAR AND THAT NIGHT
47
YOU GO BACK TO YOUR PLACE AND YOU HAVE S** THAT'S NOT SEDUCTION RIGHT BECAUSE WE ARE PSYCHOLOGICAL CREATURES RIGHT WE'RE NOT WE'RE NOT ANIMALS AND THE PROCESS OF ACTUALLY
48
HAVING OUR EMOTIONS ENGAGED BY THE OTHER PERSON IS TAKES A LOT DEEPER PROCESS RIGHT IT CAN'T HAPPEN QUICKLY CAN'T HAPPEN OVERNIGHT SO SEDUCTION ISN'T LIKE YOU KNOW
49
PICKUP ARTISTS DON'T REALLY LIKE THE ART OF SEDUCTION SO MUCH WHY IS THAT BECAUSE IT'S NOT QUICK ENOUGH FOR THEM HMM I'M TELLING YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH THESE STEPS I DON'T WANT TO HAVE TO GO THROUGH ALL THESE STEPS
50
I DON'T WANT TO WAIT THREE WEEKS TO SLEEP WITH HER OR A MONTH I DON'T HAVE TO SURPRISE HER AND GIVE HER GIFTS OR I'M TALKING ABOUT FROM THE MALE POINT OF VIEW SURE DO ALL OF THESE THINGS THAT ROBERT TALKS ABOUT
51
YOU KNOW I WANT IT QUICK YOU KNOW SOME OF THEM AREN'T LIKE THAT BUT SOME OF THEM ARE AND SO
52
THERE ARE PLENTY OF BOOKS WRITTEN OUT THERE ABOUT HOW TO PICK UP WOMEN OR GUYS IN A BAR BUT THE SEDUCTION ISN'T ABOUT THAT IT'S SOMETHING ELSE IT'S SOMETHING MORE ELEMENTAL AND I TALK IN THE ART OF SEDUCTION
53
ABOUT HOW IT GOES BACK TO OUR CHILDHOOD HOW WE ARE INCREDIBLY VULNERABLE TO THE EMOTIONS OF OTHER PEOPLE IT BEGINS WITH OUR PARENTS RIGHT AND THE SENSE OF YOU KNOW
54
WE INTERNALIZE THEIR PRESENCE WE'RE THINKING ABOUT THEM WE HAVE THIS KIND OF VERY DEEP EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT TO THEM WE'RE SEDUCED BY OUR PARENTS IN SOME WAYS IT KIND OF SETS A TONE FROM EARLY CHILDHOOD
55
THIS NEED TO FEEL VULNERABLE TO OTHER PEOPLE RIGHT
56
UM THIS THAT'S THE THING AS WELL IS YEAH UM
57
YOU KNOW IT'S A LOT OF PEOPLE MISTAKE SEDUCTION AND THAT'S THE REAL REASON I WROTE THE BOOK THEY HAVE REALLY BAD IDEAS ABOUT IT WHAT DO THEY THINK IT IS WELL THEY THEY HAVE AN IDEA THAT IT'S THIS KIND OF COLD PROCESS
58
TYPICALLY IT'LL BE A MALE SEDUCER BUT IT CAN BE A WOMAN AND THEY'RE REALLY CONNIVING AND THEY'RE COMING UP WITH ALL KINDS OF TRICKS SCHEMES SCHEMES TO GET THE WOMAN OR MAN TO LIKE FALL FOR THEM
59
AND EITHER THEY'RE AFTER MONEY OR S** OR SOMETHING ELSE RIGHT AND ACTUALLY SEDUCTION IS A MATTER OF VULNERABILITY IT'S MAKING YOURSELF VULNERABLE TO THE OTHER PERSON
60
REALLY YEAH UM AND YOU KNOW WE LIVE IN IN TIMES WHERE PEOPLE HAVE A HARD TIME BEING VULNERABLE
61
YOU KNOW IF YOU'RE INSECURE IF YOU'RE FILLED WITH A LOT OF ANXIETY YOU TEND TO CLOSE UP INSIDE OF YOURSELF
62
AND TO LET ANOTHER PERSON IN AND TO LET THEM HAVE SOME CONTROL OVER YOUR EMOTIONS CAN BE KIND OF A SCARY PROCESS BUT IF YOU CAN'T FEEL THAT VULNERABILITY IF YOU CAN'T OPEN YOURSELF
63
UP TO THE POWER OF THAT OTHER PERSON THERE WON'T BE A SEDUCTION IT'LL BE THIS KIND OF COLD MECHANICAL PROCESS RIGHT
下载应用
AI 为你说出的每个句子打分
TRENDING
热门
背景与语境
在这段对话中，演讲者讨论了爱与吸引力的复杂性，特别是如何在一段关系中保持脆弱性并体验真正的亲密感。他提到在当今文化中，人们常常对爱情抱有不切实际的期待，急于追求短暂的身体吸引，而忽略了更深层次的情感连接。通过探讨脆弱性、心理吸引力以及“结晶化”的概念，演讲者强调了建立深厚关系的重要性。了解这些概念不仅对个人生活有帮助，也能为学习英语提供有价值的视角。
日常沟通中的五个重要短语
- 建立联系： “如果你想要一段长期关系，你需要考虑是否可以在五年后与这个人进行有趣的对话。”
- 判断性格： “你必须能够判断这个人的性格。”
- 理想化过程： “爱情的过程需要时间，也需要一些空间。”
- 情感连接： “当你增强与对方的连接时，身体的吸引力将会被加强。”
- 等待的艺术： “吸引是一个需要时间和技巧的过程。”
逐步影像指导
要有效地从这段对话中学习并提高英语发音，可按照以下步骤来进行：
- 观看视频： 观看该视频，注意演讲者的语气和发音。尽量从中捕捉情感表达。
- 逐句影像： 使用“shadowspeak”技术，即模仿演讲者的讲话方式，尽量准确重现他们的语调和节奏。
- 记录和复述： 录下自己模仿的声音，并与原始视频进行比较，注意发音的不同。
- 反复练习： 重复以上步骤直到能够流畅地复述演讲者的内容，特别是要仔细琢磨短语的用法，例如“建立联系”和“判断性格”。
- 应用学习： 在日常生活中尝试使用这些短语，与朋友或同伴讨论相关话题，促进实际沟通。
通过这种“shadow speech”方法，你不仅能够提高英语发音，还能深入理解爱情与吸引的哲学，进而促进语言学习和个人成长。将这些知识运用到生活中，跟着“看YouTube学英语”，提升自己的语言能力。
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。