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Namobuddhaya.
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Namobuddhaya.
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Welcome to another video.
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From today's video we're going to be discussing about how can we use our speech,
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our words in a wiser way, right?
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Now to do that, in Buddhism we learn five things,
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five rules to follow and ask from ourselves five questions before we speak, right?
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Now this is taught in regarding to reproving to someone,
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like showing a mistake to someone.
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But these five rules can be added to our normal day-to-day speech as well.
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And it will make a greater change and it will make a greater impact on ourselves as well as others.
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So that is why it is important to understand the words that we speak has good power.
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There's a beautiful saying that says words can make people and words can break people.
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So that I understand the words that we speak has God power and it matters.
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So how can we speak in a visor way?
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How can we use our words in a visor way?
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Now in Buddhism we learn five rules to follow this.
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Right?
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Five questions to ask from ourselves before we speak.
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Now the first thing, the first question
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that we need to ask from ourselves before we speak something is that am I speaking in the proper time?
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Right?
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Sometimes even though it is true,
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even though it is truthful what we speak,
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maybe not the proper time to speak.
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Now what is the proper time to speak?
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now the whole idea the whole point of speaking is to
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get the message across to the other person in the correct way
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but sometimes even though we are saying the truth even though we are saying the right thing
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that person who is receiving the message may not be in a condition to get the message, right?
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He may be, he or she may be not in a mindset to receive the message,
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so that if we convey the message,
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they may not get the same idea that we are having.
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Now the whole point of communication is to get the idea,
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to plant the same idea on the other person, right?
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But if we did not do in the proper time it won't work and
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that is why in buddhism we learn wait until the proper
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time ask from yourself am i speaking in the proper time right now for an example
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if you need to show a mistake in someone
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if you need to correct a mistake in someone now you need to communicate
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that is where you need the communication in like it is very important at that time, right?
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The right communication.
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But if you say that mistake,
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if you show that mistake,
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when that person is angry, right?
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When that person's mind is filled with anger, what happens?
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They may not get the idea,
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they may not see the mistake that we are showing.
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Okay?
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So what we do?
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We wait until the anger cools down and open his ears and mind.
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Now when our mind is in anger,
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we are not ready to listen to anyone.
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Right?
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We are not ready to think about what is wrong or what is right.
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That is why the Buddha says, Kuddo Atthangna Jananti.
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When your mind is in anger,
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you don't know what is good and bad.
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right?
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So that we need to understand.
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If we need to get a message across to that person,
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we need to wait for the proper time until their mind is open,
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until their ears are open,
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until they are ready to listen and understand that message.
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So that waiting until the proper time is very important when we communicate.
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That is the first question that we need to ask from ourselves am I speaking in the right time?
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The second thing that we need to follow is,
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we need to ask from ourselves, am I speaking truthfully?
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Right?
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The Buddha says, you need to follow the truthful speech.
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You need to say the truth.
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But even though the truth,
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you need to put it in the right time, in the right place.
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Right?
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The Buddha says, even I,
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right, even the Buddha, even though it is it is the truth,
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he waits until the right time to say it.
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Sometimes it is not the correct time to say the truth,
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so that we need to wait until that.
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Now this doesn't say that we need to tell lies to cover up that.
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This says that you need to be patient and not panicked until you need to use the proper word.
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So the Buddha says that speaking truthfully is very important.
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Why?
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Because when you speak the truth,
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sometimes you may lose certain things,
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but when you speak the truth you gain one very important thing and that is the trust.
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Trust is very important in any kind of relationship,
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and that is why you need to be truthful,
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but also you need to wait until the proper time.
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Okay, so that is the second thing that you need to ask,
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am I speaking truthfully?
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And also we learn in Buddhism that speak gently, not harshly.
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So that you need to ask from yourself, am I speaking harshly?
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Am I speaking gently?
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Sometimes what you say is true, right?
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When you say is the correct time, right?
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You say it in the the correct time,
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what you say is the truth, but the tone matters.
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Right?
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The words that we use to convey the message matters.
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I have seen a lot of people showing others mistakes with rude and harsh words.
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Sometimes putting them down, like putting their mentality down and hurting their mentality and showing the truth,
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showing they're showing a mistake,
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but they don't get that message.
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Why?
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Because they have hurt their mentality.
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Sometimes when you use those such kind of words,
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their emotions get hurt so that they're not ready to listen to it.
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Now why we convey the message,
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why we communicate is we understand that this is the right thing,
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this is the correct thing,
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but we need to, I need to make him right.
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I need to make him correct.
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I don't need to see that mistake again in his life.
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I need the good of that person.
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Now if you truly love that person,
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you have to use your words in a proper way so that he get the fullest message,
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he or she get the fullest message that you are conveying.
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And that is why we learn in Buddhism that gentle words can change people's mindsets.
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But rude and harsh words make nothing but people more stubborn in their own ideas.
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So that understand gentle words are the best way to change other people's mindsets.
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There are a lot of examples even in Buddhism that we learn that the Buddha,
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how Bodhisattva used the gentle words to change people, right?
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So that understand speaking gently is very important.
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Now what makes a gentle man and a gentle woman is not how you wear, right?
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It's the words that you speak.
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It's the way that you behave.
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It's how gentle you treat other people.
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That is what make you a gentle man and a gentle woman.
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So understand that speaking gently is really really important.
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So ask from yourself, am I speaking gently?
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And also we learn in Buddhism that your speech must be beneficial for the other person, not harmful.
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Now to do that you need to have an intention that you truly love that person, right?
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You truly love your idea to see that in that person's mind and making their life much better, right?
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See the good on them.
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Now to do that you need to speak in in a beneficial way,
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so that that person corrects their mistakes, right?
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That person's life becomes better by listening to your words.
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So that the Buddha says that always speak beneficial words,
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not the words that harm other people's life.
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So then you need to ask from yourself that am I speaking beneficially but not harmfully?
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So that understand you need to speak to the people to see the good on them.
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And the final question that we need to ask from ourselves is that,
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am I speaking lovingly, out of love and compassion, not with inner hate?
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Sometimes we use our words,
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even though the good words,
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good things, but we have the inner hate, right?
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When we have the inner hate,
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that is the intention behind our words.
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And that intention can create negative situations in our life and also the other people's lives.
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And that is why in Buddhist way of right speech,
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we refrain from all the negative speeches like rude words, harsh words, right?
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Or some mean words that has the negative intentions behind,
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right so the intention behind your speech is really really important so that understand
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ask from yourself that am i speaking to this person out of love
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and compassion not with inner hate right so the buddha says
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that speak with love and compassion okay sometimes some people complain okay
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if we speak with love and compassion they are not ready to understand it
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And we believe that speaking with kind words and compassionate
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and gentle words will make other people not to understand what we say.
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Sometimes they say, okay, to make someone understand,
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we need to use rude and harsh words.
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But that is not always correct.
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right the reason why believe we believe that the root using those those rude and harsh words
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are the is the only way to get the message
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that person is because when we were children we were treated with russian rude
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and harsh words right we were disciplined in the rude and hard ways
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so that we believe that this is the only way to do that,
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but it is not.
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If you start to use in the correct way your speech,
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it is pretty sure that you get the message correctly to that person,
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and also they understand it and they make their mistakes correct.
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So that you understand.
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These are the five things that we need to follow.
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These are the five questions that we need to ask from ourselves to get the message correctly,
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to communicate in a correct way and also to make our speech wiser.
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So follow these five things in your speech and make your life even more better.
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Namo Buddhaya.
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- 传达信息 (Convey the message)
- 良好的沟通 (Good communication)
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- 反思 (Reflect)
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