跟读练习: If you suffer for love you are a silly person - 通过YouTube学习英语口语
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we tend to, at least I speak for myself,
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act in an unreasonable way if I love someone.
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That's because you're confusing love with care.
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See, when people say, you are my friend,
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you are my sister, you are my wife,
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my girlfriend, you are supposed to care about me meaning you're supposed to sacrifice for me
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you're supposed to show me attention and
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if you need to do something unreasonable to demonstrate the so-called love that you have for me this attention,
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this care this support
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then so be it that's what I require of you but when they say that They require care, not love.
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Because as you know, as we all know,
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love doesn't make any demands.
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And love doesn't ask for sacrifice.
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And love would never want you to go into vice to prove itself to someone.
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And love never asks you to prove anything to anyone.
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Love never asks you to prove anything to it Or to yourself, to anyone
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So what makes you think That it becomes more difficult When you love someone to act out of reason Because love,
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quite the opposite Tells you,
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do not sacrifice I don't ask it of you
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If you sacrifice anything for anyone
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Not because you wanted to
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But to prove love But because they demand it Because they require it from you
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Then you are in fact out of love You do not have me
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That's what love tells you
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So love makes it easier for you To not make sacrifices In the name of someone else Which goes against reason,
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against justice Against truth Against what is right and proper And real And with everything else I'm just mentioning sacrifice But again,
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all these other things.
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Love does not ask you to prove.
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Love does not ask you to judge anyone.
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Love does not ask you to look down on anyone else or to look down on yourself.
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Love does not ask you to idolize anyone or anything.
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In fact, it says the opposite.
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The more you concentrate me on someone,
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the less you shall have me.
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This is why all those people who adore certain people,
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they're almost like worshiping them, right?
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They're saying, I love this person,
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and I will do everything for that person.
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And that very much includes,
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by the way, cheating, lying, deceiving, stealing, literally anything.
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Anything that this person would require of them.
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And more often than not,
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in fact, I would say every single time,
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those people who are loved the most are then hated the most.
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Because you're idolizing someone or something that cannot be an idol.
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It cannot be perfect.
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It cannot be a god.
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It will make a mistake.
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And as soon as someone that you idolize makes a mistake,
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they fall out of idolatry.
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They become lesser than an idol.
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And then you say, you stabbed me in the back.
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You lied to me.
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You pretended to be one thing.
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And now it turns out you're not perfect.
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You're not like you said you were,
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or like you thought they were.
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Whatever it may be.
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Either way, you will get disappointed.
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That's the point.
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And so, love doesn't require any of those things that care requires.
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And so, whenever we think,
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though, we are in love, we are of care.
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And so in fact, the very last thing we have when we care about someone in this way,
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the very last thing is love that we have.
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And so if you want to discuss how care makes it more difficult to be of reason, no problem.
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That's very clear to you, right?
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And you wouldn't even have that confusion.
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You wouldn't even ask that question.
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But that love makes it harder to be of reason.
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No way.
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It makes it easier.
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In fact, love and reason are tightly related.
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Because reason brings you to peace.
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And love is peace.
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You're not at peace when you're sacrificing.
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You're not at peace when you're trying to prove something to someone.
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You're not at peace when you're suffering to show anyone how important they are to you.
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So love is not peace.
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I mean care is not peace and love is not care
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and love makes it easier to reason to be of reason and reason makes it easier to be of love
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not harder does that make sense?
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but certainly loving someone loving someone implies care how do we make that distinction?
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loving someone does not require care loving someone requires that you don't care
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so to love someone is to wish them well
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okay and to wish someone well is this that they know the difference between right and wrong good and bad
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vice and virtue awareness and unawareness All these highest,
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most beautiful, most proper things for a human being.
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That is love.
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To wish these things onto someone else is love.
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And this is how it is possible to love everyone.
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You see?
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You cannot romantically love everyone.
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Impossible.
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And you wouldn't want to.
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but in this way to wish well to wish the greatest things
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that human being can experience and be in the presence of onto someone else what is more loving than that
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so to wish well is actually a much more loving thing to do
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both in intensity as well as in quantity so now you are able to love
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every single human being on earth and every single thing else.
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Because even someone who you think is a criminal,
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is a bad person is a liar,
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cheater, deceiver, a cruel, violent person.
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Even to them you would wish this, no?
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That they know good from bad,
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right from wrong, and vice from virtue and awareness from unawareness?
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Who would you not wish them on to?
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In fact, the so-called worse a person,
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the more they are in need of this
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and the more they would benefit from this and the more we all would benefit.
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Because there is nothing more beneficial to an aware person than other unaware people becoming aware.
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And so love in this sense is something that we can do for everyone and will want to do for everyone
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and thereby we will exclude no one.
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We will judge no one because all it is is to wish well.
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It is not to apply a certain standard,
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which is what care is.
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Love does not apply a certain standard.
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Love is simply a wish.
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I wish you well.
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Wherever you are, at whatever stage you are, I wish you well.
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And so in that sense, I love you.
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This is the best, most important,
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most fundamental, highest, and most valuable thing you could say and wish on to, more importantly, anyone.
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Whether this is your romantic partner or a complete stranger.
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It is the best thing you can do for anyone, including yourself.
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This is why so many people who are unable to love themselves
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try to go and love someone else with the expectation that that will fix them too.
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There's so many people out there,
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you hear it all the time,
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they say, I want to learn love.
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Learn to love myself by loving someone else.
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They think that if they pour love onto someone else,
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this person is going to pour love onto them and thereby make them worthy of them loving themselves.
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What a convoluted plan.
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What a mess.
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and then when they pour all this love onto someone with that expectation,
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which is extremely cruel and selfish if you think about it,
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and then this other person,
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either they don't receive enough love from them or this is the problem.
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No matter how much love this other person would give you,
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so-called love, it would never be enough for you because you don't know how to love yourself.
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And so then you're going to think there's something wrong with that person
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because they're not able to give you enough love or the love that you deserve or the love that you're looking for.
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And since a romantic partner is supposed to be your only partner,
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I mean, in case you believe that,
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well, you could never romantically be involved with the entire world at the same time,
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that's for sure.
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Then you say, oh, okay,
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I just picked the wrong partner.
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And then they move on to the next one and the next one and the next one and the next one.
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And they can never do that with every single human being.
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So they will never realize that it's not them and that what they're trying to give and receive,
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it was never love.
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And they will never know.
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And they will never love.
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But this is what love truly is.
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And so the more you concentrate on someone The more you can be sure that it is care,
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not love Because love cannot be concentrated As soon as you take love
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And you try to squish it together So that it becomes concentrated Dense enough to give to one person
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It will slip out of your hands and it will go away And you will be out of love Love will say,
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I'm out You are forcing me into something that I am not And love will not let you do that
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Care will let you do that
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You can break pieces off of care And you can put them together
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And you can do whatever you want You can shape it and give it to someone else
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And then of course you're going to want to Them do the same thing in return for you.
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And if they don't do it, uh-oh.
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And even if they do do it,
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they're going to have to do it again.
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One time isn't enough.
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And the next time better be bigger and better.
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So on and so forth,
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until it becomes impossible to show that much care.
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Which was never right to begin with.
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So when you truly understand what love is and when you truly love everyone,
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that's when you can love someone.
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That's why we always say around here,
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I didn't invent this, but I certainly partake in it,
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the idea that you cannot love anyone until you love everyone.
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and this is what it means to love everyone
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to wish everyone well so once you are able to wish everyone well you are able to love anyone
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yourself or anyone else
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the one and only thing that stands between you and the ability to wish everyone well is your anger is your hatred
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is your resentment, is your bitterness,
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your disappointment, your frustration, your pride.
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All of the passions, all of the extreme emotions,
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those are what stand in the way.
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As soon as you let go of hatred,
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of resentment, of anger, of pride,
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of judgment, All these things which are emotions Passions As well as vices coincidentally Or not so coincidentally
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As soon as you let go of them You are able to wish everyone well You see it so many times
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You say Enemies Enemies Do not wish each other well Is there a more obvious thing to say than that?
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Enemies cannot, do not, wish each other well.
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Why?
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Because they hate each other.
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They resent each other.
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And if they would let go of their anger,
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they think that they would let the other person win.
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And so they would rather suffer,
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they would rather never know what love is,
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including for themselves, and rather keep fighting and struggling and suffering and live a life of agony than to say,
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anger is destroying me.
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Anger is wrong.
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And I wish that person well.
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Because especially, like we said before,
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if they're wrongdoers, if they're criminal,
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so-called evil people, especially then I wish them well.
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Because especially then, Are they in lack of all of those things that would benefit me also,
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at least in a physical way?
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If all the ignorant, dangerous people that you meet out when you're driving your car out in traffic,
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if you wish them well and that wish came true,
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that they finally understand right from wrong,
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awareness from unawareness, it would be safer for you.
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Never mind them.
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But of course that's mixing the physical and the spiritual Again,
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we don't want to get into that But you know what I mean,
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it's just an example
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And so this is what love is
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So now tell me again that love makes it more difficult to be of reason
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