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The three things that I want to leave with you,

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The three things that I want to leave with you,

just these three, I could do ten,

I could do a whole life class.

But just these three things will carry you if you let them.

First and foremost, knowing who you are.

Knowing who you are.

Being able to answer this question, who am I?

and what do I want?

You know, many times when I go out of the country,

I am baffled by that question to explain what is your occupation.

I've stood there for 10 minutes.

Well, am I talk show host?

Well, I'm more than a talk show host.

Am I a businesswoman?

I'm a businesswoman.

I'm more than a businesswoman.

Am I entrepreneur?

I'm more than an entrepreneur.

So I just leave it blank or self-employed.

So I'm not asking for the roles that you play as daughters,

I'm not asking that question.

What are the roles that you play as a daughter,

as a friend, as a sister?

You're going to be a lawyer,

you're going to teach, you're going to be a pharmacist.

I'm asking the bigger question of who am I?

Who am I really?

My answer is I am God's child.

I am I am that which is born of all

that is I am as Pierre de Chardin said a spiritual

being having a human experience come trailing the breath of the ancestors yet

but trailing the breath of the angels and understanding that because I am connected to the source of all that is,

all that is possible is possible for me.

That's who I am.

And what do I want?

I don't want to just be successful in the world.

I don't want to just make a mark or have a legacy.

the answer to

that question for me is I want to fulfill the highest

truest expression of myself as a human being I want to fulfill the promise

that the Creator dreamed when he dreamed the cells

that made up me what do I want you You must have some kind of vision for your life.

Even if you don't know the plan,

you have to have a direction in which you choose to go.

I never was the kind of woman who liked to get in a car and just go for a ride.

I had a boyfriend who would say,

let's just go for a ride.

I wanna know where are we going?

Do we have a destination?

Is there a plan?

Are we just riding?

What I've learned is that's a great metaphor for life.

You want to be in the driver's seat of your own life because if you're not,

life will drive you.

So, knowing who you really are in this space and time that we embody,

that's number one what do you want who are you number two you must find a way to serve

Martin Luther King said that not everybody can be famous

but everybody can be great

because greatness is determined by service now we live in a world where everybody wants to be famous

and where we admire people for just being famous we think

being known brings us value the truth is all of

that will fade in time the real truth is that service

and significance service and the significance that you bring to your service is

that which is lasting so to be able to whatever your occupation

or job or talent

or gift is our honorees today getting doctorate degrees to apparently opposite fields HIV

and AIDS and the spoken word

but what they have in common is service using the spoken

word in service to community in the world using your knowledge

and information about HIV and AIDS and medicine in service to the world

and if you look at all the most successful people in the world whether they know it

or not they have that paradigm of service.

For many years I was really just happy to be on TV

and people would stop and say oh you on TV yeah I'm on TV.

I like being on TV it's a nice job.

And it was about the time

that I received my honorary doctorate from Spellman around 1993

so I don't know if that had something to do with it I thought of myself as Dr. Winfrey.

that I went back

and I took a long look at what it was I was doing on on TV

and made a decision that I was no longer going to just be on TV

but I was going to use TV as a platform as a force for good

and not be used by TV and I will tell you

my decision to make

that significant change in the way I operated on television using television as a service changed my career exponentially

service through medicine service through art using whatever it is you

produce your product as a way of giving back to the world

when you shift the paradigm of whatever it is you choose to do to service

and you bring significance to that success will I promise you follow you service

and significance equals success that's number two number three it's so simple but so hard to do always

do the right thing always be excellent people notice

think of how you notice you go to Taco Bell somebody gives you extra napkin

and some sauce you notice you want to go back to that person because even at At Taco Bell,

excellence shows itself.

Be excellent.

Let excellence be your brand.

Everybody talks about building a brand.

I never even knew what that was.

When people say, you're a brand,

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I would say, no, I'm just Oprah.

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What I recognize now is that my choice to in every way,

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in every example, every experience to do the right thing

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and the excellent thing is what has created the brand years

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ago I did an ad for Revlon for for an ad they were doing called unforgettable women

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and what I know is that

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when you are excellent you become unforgettable people remember you you stand out you become an unforgettable woman

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and that is what we all want we want to be unforgettable and not forgettable so doing the right thing

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even when nobody knows you're doing the right thing,

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we'll always bring the right thing to you.

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I promise you that.

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Why?

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Because the third law of motion is always at work.

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For every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction.

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That is so true in all of our lives.

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That's what Newton said.

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Celia in The Color Purple said it.

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Everything you even try to do to me.

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already done to you.

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Everything you even try to do to me, already done to you.

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So you don't have to worry about revenge or getting back at somebody,

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making sure they pay.

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You just have to do the right thing and the right thing will follow you,

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even when people don't support it.

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I remember many times on my show,

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there are many shows y'all never saw,

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and the reason you didn't see them is because I got the last vote.

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And I remember 2010, my team,

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hardest working team in television,

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had done this interview with a woman who,

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turns out she was a Sunday school teacher by day and a sex addict at night.

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Ooh.

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They were like, you won't believe it.

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We got her going out.

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We got her with the men.

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We get to show her,

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and she was willing to show us everything.

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I sat down with a woman for an interview that was taped.

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And during the process of the interview,

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I said, why are you doing this?

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And she said, oh, I want to help people.

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I want to tell my story and I want to help people.

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I said, do you have children?

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She says, yes, I have a 10-year-old son.

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I knew right then this is never going to see the light of day.

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So we got off the air and I said to the lady,

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we are not going to air that show.

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And she said, why?

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My producer said, why?

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She knew she was being filmed.

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She knew what she was saying.

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She knows what you...

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I said, because her son will never get over it.

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Her son will never get over it.

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And it's not worth a rating point to me,

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not worth a rating point to me,

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to know that there's a 10-year-old boy

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who's destroyed because his mother went on the Oprah Winfrey show and told all her business.

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You do the right thing,

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even when other people think it may not be.

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And oftentimes when you make a decision to do the right thing,

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immediately you're faced with doubt.

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Was that the right thing?

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Was that the right decision?

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I don't know.

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Was that the right thing?

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You always know it's the right thing when in the end there is peace.

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You are rewarded by peace in knowing that you did the right thing.

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The most important thing I have come to know in doing the right thing

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and making the right choices is understanding what we talked about yesterday.

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All of you leaving here have the potential for enormous success.

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a price that comes with that people don't always like you

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and they're not always happy for you and

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if you surround yourself with people who are not accustomed to your success they become fearful they become scared

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because you are reflecting back something to them that they don't recognize now they're not going to say,

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you know, I'm very fearful because you're reflecting back to me something I don't recognize.

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They're going to say, you know what they're going to say?

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They're going to say, who she thinks she is.

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Who she thinks she is.

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That only happens when you are around people who do not mean and want and aspire to the best for you.

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People who want the best for you want you to be your best.

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So my greatest advice to you

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is to surround yourself with people who are going to fill your cup until your cup runneth over.

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So when people say you're so full of yourself, you can say, yeah.

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Yeah.

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I'm full I'm so full my cup runneth over

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and to know

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that once your cup runneth over you cannot spend your life with your gallon size offerings offering them to pint-sized people

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You have got to surround yourself with gallon sized people who can hang in the same company with you.

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Choice to change the world.

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I love that song.

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I love hearing you all sing that song.

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And what I know for sure is that the biggest choices begin and end with you.

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your internal big questions.

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Who do I want to be in the world?

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To know that and to choose to do the right thing in service and significance.

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I promise you, you will create a vessel of service for yourself first because you have to honor yourself first.

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You have to give to yourself first.

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Otherwise, you have nothing to give away.

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You will create a vessel for yourself,

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for your family, your community and the world.

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And those three things will not only lead you to a blessed life,

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it will lead you not just to a gifted life and a rewarding life that fills you up,

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but a sweet life.

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that's what you want you want the sweetness you want it to be

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so sweet so that even when the storms come and they will you'll know this too shall pass

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this too shall pass the storm is passing over and you shall not be moved because you know who you are.

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When you can do that, grace will follow you.

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Grace and glory.

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And when they see you coming,

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it ought to make them proud.

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They say it's the click of your heels.

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It's the bend of your hair.

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It's the palm of your hand.

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It's the need for your care because you a woman.

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You a Spelman woman.

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Phenomenally, phenomenal class of 2012.

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Thank you.

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