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Why do you think fewer Asian people are dating, you know, stuck in their room watching Netflix or, you know, not getting married?

Why do you think that?

And majority of them said they haven't saved up money, enough money to get married.

And also there were answers like unstable unemployment.

So there's like all these sorts of social, you know, problems all combined altogether so that they came down to a conclusion.

We've long talked about Asia's demographic problem where people are having fewer and fewer babies.

But Rachel, has South Korea actually managed to reverse the trend?

That's right, Mariko.

So for two consecutive years in 2024 and 2025, more babies were born in South Korea.

But having said that, population is still shrinking because we're seeing more deaths than births.

And from South Korea to Japan to China, all these governments have been scrambling to tackle this issue.

But marriage rates are down.

So now a local government in Japan is offering money to young single people to go on a dating app.

And according to reports, Singapore might be considering a government -run dating service.

So we're asking, is Asia's dating culture to blame?

As always, I'm Mariko in Singapore and this is Asia -Pacific from the BBC World Service.

Twice a week, we bring you Asia -Pacific stories, unpacked by those who know them best.

Rachel Lee from our team is our expert on everything career and now everything about babies.

Welcome back.

Great to be back, Mariko.

I also have Simone Heng, who's an author and a human connection expert.

Now, do you want to introduce yourself to our viewers and listeners?

I don't know how much personal information you want to reveal, but I think we're going to end up talking about our age.

I'm 44, by the way.

I'm married with three kids.

So do you want to?

Yeah, I mean, if Rachel is the expert in all things baby, I guess I'm the single ladies expert.

OK.

The single ladies expert in addition to working in the human connection space.

Yeah.

Well, it's great to have you on the pod.

Thank you so much for coming on.

Thank you for having me.

What is it?

So what is a human connection? what like yeah

so human connection basically is my I guess topic

that I work in I sit on a board in DC called the foundation for social connection

and most of the time I'm just on planes speaking for

14 500s around the world on how connection can improve their performance

but you can't talk about connection without talking about loneliness

which is also a bit linked to what we're going to talk about today um

and I wrote a book on that called let's talk about loneliness

so yeah that's my full -time job is talking speaking writing researching the latest in the human connection field yeah

because I saw a description of you being a loneliness expert as well yes yeah yeah we'll definitely talk about

that but let's start with you Rachel

because we've been talking about this demographic crisis where people are having fewer babies

so many measures like baby bonuses have been announced none of them seems to have worked

but the one recent one

that caught my eye in japan was a local government's plan

to subsidize give money to single people to join a dating app

and according to reports singapore government may also be coming up with its own dating app

so can you just tell us about some of these new measures yeah i know it's so interesting

that the government is trying to chip into you know like

people's personal lives especially love life to boost birth rate right

so when i was reporting back in south korea i actually covered one of these events

so it was actually city government

so they were holding these blind date events for young people

and it was so popular they only had 100 seats available

but 3 000 applicants wow wow applied for that

and for the record you went there as a reporter as a reporter So it was that popular.

And what was interesting is that they give out congratulatory money if the couple goes out on a second date.

Wow, how much?

That I'm not really sure.

But if they do get married, they get another bonus.

Wow.

Congratulatory money.

And I was also looking into China and it was really interesting that the government also held this,

they were sponsoring blind date events in 2017.

So that's earlier than South Korean government.

And also they were giving out cash to married women to encourage them to have babies.

And also it was another interesting point was

that they were encouraging universities to have to introduce this love courses to their students.

What's love courses?

So it's like basically teaching like love relationship and like marriage and all sorts of things that are related to

like love life

and Simone you were the one who were telling me about the Singapore government potentially yeah I'll bless them

that they did a survey first before they just put it on the population

so I think that's really smart they did a survey to see whether Singaporeans would be open to

because effectively Singaporeans were coupled up would be helping to subsidize this for those Singaporeans

that were single and you'd get your date covered um

if you went on these government arranged dates so what's interesting is

that the government scheme says they're vetting for interests as well as values and actually

if you look at a lot of the relationship experts like Esther Perel they actually say common interest is something

that social media has made us hung up about in potential partners

because actually you are not meant to have the exact same hobby

and everything aligned you have friends for certain things

but the values in terms of the human connection research value

alignment is really important i mean i think the how do i phrase it the traditional values familial pressure

that i think especially our generation was under in order to get married have kids

and say one i think that's quite different to today's generation gen z

and uh rachel do you're the youngest um i think it

depends on what type what kind of family you grew up with right i mean

but i think

if you think about the overall phenomenon these days i think things are more different um

so people are now getting married more late

or they're not even getting married at all so parents

so that's where the generational conflict happens

but still parents are trying to accept the fact

that people's thinkings are changing and they value more in career sometimes

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so some of the women who went through all these like traditional values they know

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that women's job and women's career it does affect women's life

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so they want their daughters to pursue career instead of getting married

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so so I think because of

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that even though generational changes can cause kind of like a conflict there are some of the parents who support their children,

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who support their daughters for not getting married and have children.

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I mean, I think it's because of all these things that we've been talking about.

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And as a result, across Asia, in many developed economies, fewer and fewer babies have been born.

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But Rachel, I want you to tell me about South Korea, because, you know, my country, Japan was like a pioneer in declining birth rate and shrinking population.

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And, you know, south korea was actually lower

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but now more babies were born two years in a row yeah

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so how did they do that

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so more babies were born two years in a row as you said um

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so the reason uh fertility rate

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but before i talk about delve into all these like numbers let me just explain the definition of fertility rate

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because it may be confusing it's quite different how you calculate

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it compared to like other like um terminology like birth rate

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so fertility rate i have a definition here

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so it's an average number of children

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that are born to a woman over her lifetime so basically

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that number recorded 0 .8 in 2025 so last year and

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that was the biggest jump in 15 years

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so people are like really like hopeful maybe the society is changing but actually many experts warn that

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it's too early to come down to the conclusion

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that this may be the result of the efforts of government

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and the correct me if i'm wrong

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but the replacement rate in order for the population not to

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shrink it has to be 2 .1 yeah even though it

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has gone up from what was it 0 .75 to 0

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.8 it's the population is still shrinking it's still shrinking and it's still very low right

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um but experts say this um slight uptick might be

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because of echo boomers so echo boomers are people who were born between 1991 to 1996

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and the reason why they're called echo boomers is

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because they're children of the previous boomers generation so basically the during

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that period it echoed like it started to like boom again the population boom during

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that period and people born during that period is now in their late 20s

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and 30s which is why they're getting married and having children

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thus we're seeing an uptick and another reason might be a pandemic

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so as many of our viewers

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and listeners might be familiar during the pandemic people didn't really get married

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and have children but now because it's post -pandemic more of them are getting married

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and having children

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and we're seeing an uptick here it's worth also pointing out at this point before we go further about dating

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and everything else is why it's actually bad for a population to shrink I mean it's basically that the

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economy relies on the number of people you have to work and so on, right?

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Yeah, I mean, to simply put, so decline in population can cause societal structure change because,

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I mean, if you look at South Korea, they say, so that all the projections suggest that if we go with this flow,

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so with this scenario, South Korea's population, 40 percent of the population by mid -century will be 65 and over.

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And even in Japan, now 30 percent of the population in Japan are actually 65 and above.

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So this can cause a lot of societal pressure.

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Number one, fiscal pressure, because people who need like health care system and like pension are increasing, so the demand is increasing.

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But people who can provide that service is decreasing, So there's a financial burden there.

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And secondly, there's a lack of workforce, right?

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So even Japan is seeing like lack of workforce in many sectors like construction and elder care.

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So these can lead to economic slowdown.

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Simone, you and I were talking about the traditional values,

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how that may have affected people, especially of our generation their choice to either get married

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or not or to have children or not can you just explain

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what role those traditional values you think played in this whole demographic crisis

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that we're having now was an age something

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that you were told it wasn't

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so much about age it was quality of partner was talked about

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so there was a lot of

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and it was never directly it was sort of like oh

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so and so oh he was a bad man or

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that relation he so was more like really look for quality of human but honestly

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and I think a lot of women of our generation who

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are watching can empathize with this you know it was very easy to meet people

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when I was younger I was living all over the world

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and then my mother my father died when 19

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and then my mother became paralyzed with a cognitive disease

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when I was 29 thank you and

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so I spent a lot of time caring for both my father's death

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and that in those peak years of dating and

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when i emerged from that process and did all the self -work

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and thought okay now i'm a i'm a good prospect for

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someone i've sorted myself out i didn't realize i was very naive to the fact

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that my age made me undesirable yeah that's kind of my story

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so now i find myself ready to date at 42

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and yeah it's not unfortunately not desirable in the market

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which I don't feel that way about me but the data

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that I have had reflected back to me seems to have swung

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that way yeah I mean you've touched on it before

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but why do you think younger women with less burden from the family society

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and so on why do you think fewer Asian people are dating you know stuck in their room watching Netflix

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or you know not getting married why you think

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that as a singapore born person who has singaporean parents

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and uh has lived here um you know for a long

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time you've got a super educated i can just talk singapore specifically right super super educated workforce um for women

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and and men and i think that and they're also cosmopolitan they're really exposed

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and i think when you're like

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that maybe maybe we are pickier maybe we um we're also very risk averse culturally

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so you're actually dating thinking of all the things

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that could go wrong here like like

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and then you're highly intelligent then you know um

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and i think that's part of what is wonderful about the singapore national character it's why we do

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so well in the crisis etc etc but i wonder if

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that um intercepts romance sometimes because they're very pragmatic right um yeah i wonder

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if that could be i'm just speaking for singapore specifically um adding to

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that there is actually a statistics like a survey

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that i'm well you simone just told us about singaporean point

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of view i will talk about northeast asian point of view

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so there was a survey conducted by nippon foundation in japan

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and they asked people who said i will i have no

204

plans of getting married in the near future um asked why

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and the 40 of the respondents said they prefer to be just single.

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They just like being single.

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And 33 % said they can't see any benefits out of marriage.

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And in South Korea, they did a similar, you know, survey in 2022, and majority of them said they haven't saved up money,

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enough money to get married.

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And also, there were answers like unstable unemployment.

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So there's like all these sorts of social, you know, problems all combined all together so that they came down to a conclusion that

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We're just going to make marriage and having birth as an option.

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As we've been talking about it, Asian governments have been trying practically everything to try to get young people to start dating and have children.

214

All of them have practically failed in terms of boosting the birth rate.

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And, you know, the population is shrinking a lot faster, especially in Japan, than even estimated do you think there's something

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that a government could have done

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which may have persuaded younger Simone to get married have children

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or you know change you know change your personal journey

219

so I'm going to talk in terms of the just basic human connection science stuff

220

that I do with my job all the time so

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when you have high pressure and that could come from education high cost of living

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or rigid social norms japan and korea most rigid social norms in the world um

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when we're in fight or flight like that

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and we're full of those stress hormones even from very young we don't connect as well with others for friendship

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or even for romance um oxytocin the social bonding hormone

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that really comes alive when we're relaxed i just think that

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if you have high stress high pressure societies um

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that can make it more difficult to less connect maybe academic

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and other pressure you can say it however you want i

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mean i love living in a city with the most you

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know highly educated people in the world practically i mean i love i love the intellectual sparring

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that comes living in a place like singapore

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but all i can tell you is that's the science of how it works like

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that oxytocin we need that um and

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when we're stressed it decreases Do you think like government trying to chip into people's love life, love life is effective?

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Do you think it's an effective way to?

237

I think it's so complex so one size fits all strategy could serve

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when they survey you know could serve a good chunk

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but there are always going to be other nuanced reasons

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and let's work backwards that means there's no longer a timeline for dating you can be 60

241

and now live to 100 and meet your future partner um

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that changes all the goal posts i think it's very varied yeah

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and i guess from the the government's point of view trying to just do anything everything possible so

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that the birth rate doesn't actually go down even more you

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know it's kind of trying to keep it yes low

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but not falling off the cliff is what they're doing at

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the moment i guess from the Asian mentality of you know

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a kid outside an official marriage is still kind of seen as a taboo in Asia compared to Europe

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so I guess while not all married couples would have children

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but if you're not dating and

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if you don't get married you can't really expect a lot

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of Asians to end up having kids I just had one more question to Simone yeah there are

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so many policies around the world to boost birth rate

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and merits rate and among that what do you think is the most like effective way

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that would actually like change your mind is it like giving out cash

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or is it like work like balance improvement

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or you know okay I absolutely did want to be a mother

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and get married I never thought it wouldn't happen for me

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but it was very specific

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that i had to be the right person in order to

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be the partner of a potential child for me um

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and anything less than that right person

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because of the rigid social norms around marriage uh was not okay so the one thing that would change my mind

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um is absolutely still

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if the right person walked in people do say like young

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people do say the most important thing is to find the right person um

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which is why the government is maybe holding all these like dating events so

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that they could expand the opportunity for young people to to

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connect I can just say also as someone who all of my friends

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and a lot of them happily married also a lot of divorce conversations

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that I get in the left ear

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but in the right ear even the most happily married girlfriends

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their cognitive load is huge compared to my cognitive load I have to worry about my mother

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but besides that it's pretty chill and that tells me

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that even with the most loving marriage

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and the best fit for a husband you could find being a wife

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and mother is challenging and the burden is on the woman cognitively

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and so you you better find

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that right person it for me those conversations make the pressure to find the right person even higher yeah i guess Because,

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as you say, no matter how much the government.. tries to help.

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It's really difficult to change people's mind when it comes to dating

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or having children but it was really interesting to hear your thoughts on more relaxed societies might be actually the cure.

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Thank you so much for joining me Simone and Rachel.

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Thank you.

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You've been watching Asia Pacific from the BBC World Service with me Marie Gooi in Singapore.

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If you have any questions or thoughts on what we covered in this episode

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or any other stories from the region please leave us a

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comment below you can also get in touch with us on email

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15 lernenswerte Wörter aus dem Video, mit Aussprache und Bedeutung:

Wort	Aussprache	Bedeutung
fewer	/ˈfjuː.ɚ/	weniger
echo Substantiv	/ˈɛk.oʊ/	Echo, Widerhall
boost Verb	/buːst/	schieben, drücken
conclusion Substantiv	/kənˈkluːʒən/	Schluss, Ende
connect Verb	/kəˈnɛkt/	verbinden
burden Substantiv	/ˈbɝdn̩/	Belastung, Last
practically Adverb	/ˈpɹæk.tɪ.k(ə.)li/	praktisch
cognitive Adjektiv	/ˈkɑɡ.nɪ.tɪv/	kognitiv
workforce Substantiv	/ˈwɝk.foɹs/	Belegschaft, Arbeitskräfte
norm Substantiv	/nɔːm/	Regel, Norm
demographic Adjektiv	/ˌdɛm.əˈɡɹæf.ɪk/	demographisch
educate Verb	/ˈɛd͡ʒ.əˌkeɪt/	ausbilden, erziehen
fertility Substantiv	/fɝˈtɪləti/	Fruchtbarkeit
rigid Adjektiv	/ˈɹɪd͡ʒ.ɪd/	steif, starr
loneliness Substantiv	/ˈloʊnlinəs/	Einsamkeit

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Wort	Bedeutung
end up Verb	sich herausstellen, am Ende irgendwo / etwas sein
save up Verb	zusammensparen
come up with Verb	ausdenken
go down Verb	absteigen, hinabsteigen

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Struktur	Im Video
Present Perfect Continuous have/has been + -ing – eine Handlung, die früher begann und noch andauert	have been scrambling · we've been talking · You've been watching
Passiv be + Partizip Perfekt – wichtig ist, was geschieht, nicht wer es tut	were born · have been announced · are related
Present Perfect have/has + Partizip Perfekt – eine vergangene Handlung, die jetzt noch wichtig ist	haven't saved · have been announced · has made
Relativsätze who / which + Satz – eine Zusatzinformation über eine Person oder Sache	those who know · one who were · women who went

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Der Sprecher verwendet 64 Kurzformen und abgeschwächte Formen, zum Beispiel we're, I'm, they're. Sprich sie in der kurzen Form, so wie du sie hörst.

Die „th“-Laute: altogether /ɔl.tuˈɡɛð.ɚ/, northeast /noːˈθɪjst/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/
Die Laute „sh“ und „zh“: conclusion /kənˈkluːʒən/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, relation /ɹɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, pension /ˈpɛnʃən/
Lange Wörter – auf die Betonung achten: practically /ˈpɹæk.tɪ.k(ə.)li/, demographic /ˌdɛm.əˈɡɹæf.ɪk/, fertility /fɝˈtɪləti/, unemployment /ʌn.ɪmˈplɔɪ.mənt/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/

Laute, die Deutschsprachigen schwerfallen:

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Stimmhafter Auslaut — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ am Wortende nicht verhärten: cognitive /ˈkɑɡ.nɪ.tɪv/, rigid /ˈɹɪd͡ʒ.ɪd/, encourage /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/, expand /ɪkˈspænd/, phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/
/æ/ — offener als „ä“: practically /ˈpɹæk.tɪ.k(ə.)li/, demographic /ˌdɛm.əˈɡɹæf.ɪk/, romance /roʊˈmæn(t)s/, relax /ɹɪˈlæks/, happily /ˈhæp.ə.li/

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